A lot of young girls develop their character once they taste freedom. Coming from a strict environment can sometimes cause young girls to rebel once they move to certain spaces #highschool #teenagers #relationships
Your point is well taken and while I may agree to some extent of the argument you put forth; I must say that there are older men in this world who was raised by single mother, who have sisters ....whose also have the privilege of growing up around girls. Who understand the role women play throughout human history. Not all older men behave in the manner you describe. There are those of us who date younger women because we genuinely want to bestow our love upon someone that is receptive. As I older men I find that younger women like to be treated with respect and care; they want a man who is mature , who can stimulate intellectually.
The problem here in my opinion is the hypergamous nature of women and the glorification of the blesser culture. Boys in high school and varsity have no chance at the top litter of women they want because they have to compete with working class men with vrrr pah's. Society forces them to focus on themselves because their value in society is measured by their wallet and always has been hence you even have old sayings like "botle ba monna ke likgomo". This is the way of the world my sister, it always has been and I don't see it changing anytime soon.
