This was a good share :) I learned that you can't date someone who doesn't want to truly date you as you are. I battled shame for a while, not as much now. It's a condition that can be unlearned. There was a workbook called 30 Days to Overcome Shame by Harper Daniels that I liked a lot, and the Tao Te Ching helped too. It's important to be 100% content with oneself.