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Dealing with Loneliness & Relationships [Solo Van Life Female RVer] 

Story Chasing
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@Peak_a_Boomer1963
@Peak_a_Boomer1963 2 года назад
This was absolutely the best vlog ever. ❤. From the way you handled the power crisis, to the powerful setting of Quartzsite, the walks, the meditation, the yoga, the companionship of Lilly 🙂, and the delicious looking food...even the interview with a like-minded nomad. Just perfect. This is exactly what I see when I visualize my future. Ive received so much inspiration and encouragement from this today. Thank you.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Adrianne Thomas 😊 Oh wow !!!! I mean this is such an amazing comment from you Adrianne! I'm so honored that you loved it and got so much inspiration and encouragement from the video. 💕
@ranchgal3006
@ranchgal3006 2 года назад
Bravo adrianne thomas. Well said!
@karenoster8291
@karenoster8291 2 года назад
I also see inspiration from you, esp from this video. You show how you problem solve. Self sufficient. Seeking inner balance, loving thyself, not searching for acceptance thru others is a BIG challenge with an amazing reward! Kudos to You! ❤
@Jinjerbread317
@Jinjerbread317 2 года назад
Me too.
@alifeunfinished5013
@alifeunfinished5013 2 года назад
An inspiring comment. Thank you.
@ChristianSchaffer
@ChristianSchaffer 2 года назад
I can relate to this so much. I’m also an introvert - which is probably why I love van life so much. I usually rely on a few different things to stay balanced - meditation, journaling, hiking and running are definitely top of the list. And LOTS of alone time. If we ever run into each other on the road, maybe we can park nearby and not hang out 😅 till we’ve had our alone time of course
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Christian Schaffer 😊 lmao...I love that idea of parking near and not hanging out until alone time is accomplished. hahah..You're so funny! I'm laughing out loud now because this is so an "introverts" humor. Love all of those things except running. lol. However, glad you found your jam with ways to stay balanced. It's important. I hope we meet up one day. Maybe we can exchange some emails on that. 😀
@nickylaxy
@nickylaxy 2 года назад
If you're ever feeling lonely, just remember you have a ton of friends on here that are right there with you ever step of the way. Your videos bring me a ton of comfort, so though you may not be with someone physically, you have a great community here always rooting for ya!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Wow thank you kindly!!! 💕
@Jules73572
@Jules73572 2 года назад
In the morning I sit on my screen porch and I say my prayers and Thank God for His grace. Knowing he is with me every second of the day gives me comfort and a sense of peace. I pray you find comfort with him too. God Bless ❤️🙏🏻🇺🇸
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Julie Stoulig Thank you very much! 😊🙏 I'm glad you have that comfort too Julie!
@jenniferdeleon8954
@jenniferdeleon8954 2 года назад
Introvert Empaths definitely need their alone time. I get so much anxiety when I’m around crowds for a long time. I love people but prefer my alone time.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Jennifer Deleon 😊 Clearly I resonate with that statement too! I'm hoping more and more extroverts will realize this about us as well. It's a funny thing to sometimes discuss with others so they understand. I feel like the RVing community knows it for sure and are respectful of the differences.
@williamm-lb3ml
@williamm-lb3ml 2 года назад
You are never alone……God is always with you 🙏
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
williamm1561 😊
@ashleyrichards9511
@ashleyrichards9511 2 года назад
I'm an empath and an animal rights activist. I took a heath DNA test and it said I was an extreme empath. I get unsettled walking in a crowd. I can't even kill bugs. Im also an introvert. I'm happiest by myself. I live in the country, which I find peaceful. How do I relax? I meditate. I love your videos!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Ashley Richards 😊 Oh that's interesting. Can you share what test that was? Thank you so much and love that you shared how you keep balance. All great things Ashley!
@HoboJoOnTheGo
@HoboJoOnTheGo 2 года назад
Haha..I also can’t kill bugs. They get so scared when they see us. Can’t imagine it from their perspective. See? Most people would say that’s crazy. But, we understand.
@kimstephenson3876
@kimstephenson3876 2 года назад
I love the way you speak to Lilly - it's so clear how much you love her.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
KIM STEPHENSON 😊
@soniakolesar6703
@soniakolesar6703 2 года назад
Amber, your hair has grown out so soft and beautiful you are blessed, So many of us are not that fortunate. I’m 64 and just realized I too am an empath and going to read up on it. Thanks for sharing your stories.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
sonia kolesar Thank you very much! 😊🙏 You're so welcome too. I've linked the books in the description too if you're curious.
@nrsiegel977
@nrsiegel977 2 года назад
I enjoy your videos a lot. They are candid, honest, calming and artful.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Thank you so much 😊
@OkieJammer2736
@OkieJammer2736 2 года назад
Signed up for your class, the I Want It All Now choice and wanted to say THANK YOU for putting all this together. I've see much from Bob Wells, but wanted more of a 'Here It Is, Here Is How' from a woman's perspective. Well done, kid.
@stormyrivers
@stormyrivers 2 года назад
Hi Amber, even though I'm not a Nomad (yet), I can totally relate to the anxiety. I was excited to see we have the same book by Judy Orloff! I appreciate you sharing your human vulnerabilities, and the realities of Life. I've been planning to sell my house and hit the road as way to help overcome depression & anxiety. You've reminded me that "Wherever We Go, We Take OurSelves With Us". I will be re-watching this video and taking notes! Thanks so much. I think you're awesome! 🌻
@sonya2852
@sonya2852 2 года назад
Completely in tune with the need for both solitude and still nurturing relationships. Thanks for sharing as always Amber. Your videos just keep getting better BTW!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
You are so welcome! Oh wow..thank you Sonya! What's your go to for nurturing yourself and creating that balance?
@jsmith7898
@jsmith7898 2 года назад
Listening to music helps me! It lets me get out my emotions that I have been holding in for awhile!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
J smith 😊 Oh yes that's a great one! I love music too. There's some science behind that as well that music literally can change energy.
@lindapearson8137
@lindapearson8137 2 года назад
I think structure is helpful! As a Christian I, also, find prayer and reading God’Word, especially the Psalms helpful! Your precious pup, Lilly, not liking walking on rocks, reminds me of my daughter and son-in-law building fence ( country living) and how sore their feet got from walking on rocks! I think it is so wonderful how Lilly loves to cuddle! I am an introvert, because That’s how I recharge, but I love talking to people who like to go deep in conversation!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Linda Pearson 😊 yes reading and prayer is so healing too Linda! yeah her poor feet get too sore, plus there's these thorn bushes that are really tiny that she can accidentally step on. I'm with you on the deep conversations. I'm not a small talker. How about you?
@oritelevy1817
@oritelevy1817 2 года назад
Just love how real and normal you are on camera. It’s refreshing. I am an empath too. I currently live in LA and it is not amazing when one is sensitive to energy, so I too go away into the nature to reset and clear all the vibes that are not mine. Stay well and thanks for sharing your life with us. ❤
@DianneRawGirl
@DianneRawGirl 2 года назад
Introvert here too. It’s amazing how many others admit this.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Dianne_M_ Kartes 😊
@kylynnskrypt
@kylynnskrypt 2 года назад
I really adore how REAL you are with the difficulties of van life.. These videos help give so much important insight and perspective, so thank you for that.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
You are so welcome!
@swingdancer49
@swingdancer49 2 года назад
Structure...how I learned how to deal with a massive dose of nerve problems and anxiety over 5 years ago...took me awhile to realize what was actually helping when I'd get those bouts of anxiety. But then, BAM, one day I realized it was when I put structure in my life that I started to "chill out". And for so long, many people have never understood my need to be by myself without feeling lonely (most times), and they just can't imagine. But over the years, they are coming to understand it is just who I am and most are understanding of that, but then also some people just don't understand that we are totally comfortable without a lot of people around us. Thank you so much for all your wonderful videos. From Susan in Florida...P.S. hoping to get on the road in 2022 :)
@maddygvanlifer435
@maddygvanlifer435 2 года назад
My go-to when the world around me is too chaotic or moving too quickly, I retreat by myself, to my porch with my little dog, a homemade latte and my bible and journal, early in the morning. It gives me a sweet peace and a simple joy, not a jumping up and down kinda joy but a blissful peaceful cup of joy and its so peaceful and it caps my heart off. Filling my rim and I'm able to go back out into my world of dailys.
@lisast.pierre9311
@lisast.pierre9311 2 года назад
I think you're incredibly strong and also incredibly honest. You share a lot of your good experiences with us, and also you do share your stresses and worries. Stay strong and tune in to your intuition and you'll know your best next step much of the time. Thank you for your channel!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Thank you so much!
@moongold9025
@moongold9025 2 года назад
How nice you where able to spend some time with your friend Dave and his adorable dog Kirby. I too have a gratitude journal that I enjoy writing in daily as a way for me to relax and unwind. I enjoy writing. Lily is so adorable when she is all cozy on your lap. What a sweetheart she is! I agree with the solitude thing, I enjoy time alone and to be one with Nature. As always, safe travels to you and Lily.
@rodneyblackburn2022
@rodneyblackburn2022 2 года назад
As a Flight Attendant for a major airline (and a part-time Van Lifer) I completely understand this phenomenon. I am constantly surrounded by people and alone at the same time. I have been doing this for some years and you have to be self-motivating. At 60 I am usually flying with younger people and nearly all of my "friends" live in other cities. I love my solitude but it does have its drawbacks. Love your vlog. Glad that I found it. Best of luck.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Rodney Blackburn Thank you very much! 😊🙏 Oh interesting about being around people so much but filling alone too. How do you overcome the "drawback" of too much solitude?
@rodneyblackburn2022
@rodneyblackburn2022 2 года назад
@@storychasing It really comes down to volunteer organizations. I would find an organization to help in places where I was going to be anyway. Not all the time but every now and then. A beach cleanup event, a fun run for charity, a local library book sale, volunteer for a day at an Arts Festival or work on a Habitat for Humanity home for an afternoon. You have something different to occupy your mind, you find people with souls and you make fantastic new friends sometimes. Keeping up with them keeps me young. It also helps if you're like me and live your life as a "not programmed by society" person. I grew up down south in the 60's and 70's. As you can imagine there aren't many old friends that I have much in common with. Besides, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Helping others also heals your soul a bit. Just sign up and be your own boss.
@inquiringmind4976
@inquiringmind4976 2 года назад
You are highly intuitive. Definitely an attribute!
@elliebelli8560
@elliebelli8560 2 года назад
Loneliness is also my friend but like friendship, we can fall out, then after a few days, we make up and our friendship blooms once again.
@christinemurphy4748
@christinemurphy4748 2 года назад
Great video! I can't get over how alike we are. I love my solitude and am very happy living alone (with my doggie, of course). I NEED routine and structure. As you know, I'm a nurse, and I spent many years of my career being on call. I always found that to be such a challenge and those late night calls or super long days really were a challenge for me. When I'm feeling overwhelmed or in need of a recharge, something that really helps is a soak in my hot tub. I find water very healing and the time in nature is very calming and healing. Snuggling with Logan is always helpful, too. Oh, and thank you for talking about being sensitive. I think I did used to think it was such a character flaw of mine and was often told when I was growing up that I "just need to be less sensitive". Well, easy to say, right? I do still wish at times that I was less sensitive and feel like life might be easier if I didn't feel everything so deeply, but I'm trying to see it as a strength.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Christine Murphy 😊 I kinda knew we were without even meeting yet though I feel like we've known each other forever! ohhhhhh...yes...the hot tub! Good one Christine! Actually water is very healing and I was just reading in that book that whenever we empaths can find water to soak in, it's super healing, super relaxing, destresses us! Oh yes...I hear you on the sensitive. I was told the same. I would get in trouble for crying. Like my parents would ground me or slap me for crying! WTH. Okay, so I used to pray to God, "God take this away from me!!! Why did you make me so sensitive and cry!!???" I begged for him to remove it from my life. Of course he didn't and realized that we're perfect the way we are and it's a gift Christine. A huge gift my friend!!!!!!!!! I'd rather be all feeling rather than not. You have to know how to handle it and let it be your friend rather than your enemy. Read that book I mentioned!!!!! I'm telling you, it's amazing and you'll see yourself in the pages and think, "OMG that's me why didn't I realize or see this before?" Let me know how it goes. I miss your big ole hot tub on the balcony too. Seriously we need to meet. This is silly.
@christinemurphy4748
@christinemurphy4748 2 года назад
@@storychasing I feel the same - like we've been friends for years. I'm totally going to check out that book, thanks! I do hope we can actually meet at some point. Hugs my friend!!
@soniakolesar6703
@soniakolesar6703 2 года назад
Oh my! Christine, reading your message felt like I was reading about myself. I can turn on a movie and if someone is crying “and without knowing the story line “ I’m crying with them! I am sooo sensitive and my heart feels everything. I’m not alone on this, thanks for sharing.
@christinemurphy4748
@christinemurphy4748 2 года назад
@@natureloversadventures7335 as a nurse on call, the on call time is on top of your regular work hours. So you work your regular shift and if there are still cases, you stay over until everything is done. When you do go home, you are called back for any emergencies. I always struggled when it was very busy. I think the worst day was a Friday and I worked 21 hours, got home and as soon as I was in bed, I got called back for a C-section. It was a tough time in my life, for sure. I ended up leaving a job I loved because I just couldn't work hours like that. I absolutely need down time to recharge and routine to keep myself sane and functioning properly. I think I did pick a rather difficult path, but have found a way to make it work and it can be very rewarding.
@Dbellerive22605
@Dbellerive22605 2 года назад
This was exactly what I needed to see and hear!! Thank you ☺️ I, too, am an introverted Empath. I also have CPTSD, Anxiety and Panic Disorder. I’ve been following van life for 5 years. I want to do it SOOOO bad!! However, I am the caregiver to my mother, so plans are on hold. This video solidified my needs! You explained exactly how I operate and what I need in life!
@alifeunfinished5013
@alifeunfinished5013 2 года назад
I love your vlogs. I’m a travel RVer and I love your content. Never political and always about being helpful, thank you ma’am for the content you put out.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Thank you very much and I appreciate you noticing especially no politics.
@phyllisavery9091
@phyllisavery9091 2 года назад
I like getting alone after a long day at work and sit in my room crocheting or reading and watching your adventures as well love it.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Phyllis Avery Love it. That's a great one!
@tominftlthomasp3559
@tominftlthomasp3559 2 года назад
You have the patients of a saint. I would have traded the van in by now,. I hate mechanical problems, especially reoccurring mechanical problems. My hat’s off to you. Hope you are finally able to relax for the holidays.
@kimcobb6
@kimcobb6 2 года назад
This vlog was simply needed...thank you.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Glad it was helpful!
@leslielajes5646
@leslielajes5646 2 года назад
My whole life I felt like I was not enough because I am an empath and people would tease me because I am sensitive. It took me until I was 60 to finally just embrace and nurture my sensitive self. Thank you for sharing this important part of who you are.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Leslie Lajes 😊 Unfortunately, being an highly sensitive person and empath wasn't talked about much before. I think it's getting better, but I'm glad you have the mindframe you do now.
@anndowie3560
@anndowie3560 2 года назад
I have a little dog just like Lily. Her name is Ruby. She gives me so much joy and taking her for a walk 4 time a day helps with my routine. I find the older I get the more routine makes my life feel balanced
@geowilliam4622
@geowilliam4622 2 года назад
Hang in there girl. I feel you. Much love. You are an adventurous person. Much respect. Trials define us. I think you are showing much strength.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Geo William Thank you very much! 😊🙏
@CookingWithKaylaD
@CookingWithKaylaD Год назад
K-Love Radio 💯 It’s positive, encouraging and you can get it everywhere in the US anytime day or night. I’m an Empath as well. My anxiety got so bad we actually have been in the same place for almost 3 years. In June we start traveling again. I feel the healing process working. I turned K-Live back on a few weeks ago and I feel the difference of the roll it truly plays in my life. Also am terminal with Lupus SLE. The rest was necessary. But it’s time now to learn a new balance of travel with both Lupus and being an Empath. So yeah, 😂after the long answer; the short is positive, encouraging K-Love. ❤️
@danielm7118
@danielm7118 2 года назад
Another great episode of Story Chasing. You are an amazing videographer!! I would love to know how many hours of filming did you spend to get this 25-minute video? I've never really thought about the time it must take you before today, but in this video, I noticed the dozens of different shots you took and the detail in putting it all together. Just beautiful!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Thank you. At least 10 hours of editing and probably another 4-5 combined videography. ☺️ I enjoy it.
@gardnep
@gardnep 2 года назад
I think the rule of thumb is 1 hour of videography does 1 minute in video post production. It takes a lot longer than most people think. Amber has been doing it for a few years so it’s pretty slick.
@lilac5184
@lilac5184 2 года назад
Beautiful amazing video🎄many joyful journeys to you😀🙋
@pattycarretta9932
@pattycarretta9932 2 года назад
Oh Amber I’m so glad you found sanctuary. Thank you for sharing this video with us today. I have to say… I laughed SO hard when you set up the camera in the same spot and referred to feeling like you were in “Groundhog Day”. I wondered if sweet Lily would have trouble in the gravel. Will she wear little booties? Rest and enjoy your camping this winter. Hugs to Lily. I look forward to your next video.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
lol...totally Groundhog Day Patty! I've tried the booties on her and they don't stay on. Even the smallest ones. Thanks so much and have a great week!
@pattycarretta9932
@pattycarretta9932 2 года назад
@@storychasing I needed that laugh! 🤣It was a rough week for me so I really appreciated it … but I’m sorry it was such a crazy experience for you! Poor Lilygirl. That’s too bad that they don’t fit her. Maybe one day soon I’ll see you on the road. I’m picking up my newly converted RAM Promaster this month. I won’t be out west this year… but I would like to get there one winter 😊 Relax and enjoy your winter Amber!
@level-uplearning5095
@level-uplearning5095 2 года назад
So refreshing to hear your sharing about empaths....finding that balance and that 'filter' in dealing with different energies that empaths can soak up like a sponge making their own souls feel toxic. Thanks for sharing your book - I'll be purchasing as well. Bless you.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Level-Up Learning You're so welcome and glad you enjoyed it. 😊🙏
@gayathrisenarathne6994
@gayathrisenarathne6994 2 года назад
I knew it from the first video I watched that you are an introverted empath. It's fascinating how we can understand each other eventhough we are only connecting through Social Media. Thank You so much for this Video.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Gayathri Senarathne LOL .... It is indeed.
@ruthfore8249
@ruthfore8249 2 года назад
Hi girl 😘 just stopping by to let you know you're so loved!!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
You're the best! Thank you Ruth! 💕🙏
@leonaowen9234
@leonaowen9234 2 года назад
Love the peeks at your cooking your a great cook. Can TOTALLY relate. Have always been told I was weird, well ok. But discovered realized that I am an empathy which was nice to finally have a word to call it. It is an on going journey to deal with and have had to learn to mostly keep it to myself most people don't like it when they realize you can know things they think they have hidden. So as much as I do get lonely I find that when I try to be social such as just going to the store to get groceries just rarely seems to workout and am glad to be back home where me and my dog feel safe. I can't allow my self to journal as I feel it is dangerous to put things down in writing. My funds SS are very limited or I would likely do what your doing but I'm too scared of the world to try and no $. After some life experiences I just can't let myself trust anyone. So I like to be home and watch Utube videos like yours. And believe it or not in watching your videos I have wondered about your moods sometimes and glad you now know and have a name for it. It is a strange beautiful gift to have.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Leona Owen 😊 You have to do what's best for you and feels most comfortable. Thank you for watching my channel as well.
@joannemagee4059
@joannemagee4059 2 года назад
Hi, I really enjoy your vlog. I just realized recently I'm an empath too, however I used to run but now cannot. I've also gained weight and now starting the AIP route. I love the idea being a nomad but right now cant, so I watch you and others. Thank you and enjoy your quiet time😊
@williamthawley9251
@williamthawley9251 2 года назад
arizona is truly a photographers paradise, arizona highways magazine is an excellent representation of this, david and josef muench, as some of my most admired photographers. arizona has so much beauty to show. enjoy it.
@thomaspuma434
@thomaspuma434 2 года назад
Hello from my RV class A in Yuma Arizona remember there is a campfire to share with your friends
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Thomas Puma 😊 Enjoy Yuma! Thank you!
@veeemit9719
@veeemit9719 2 года назад
How precious is that Lucy taking a nap on her mama’s lap 🙂
@sheliaburks2027
@sheliaburks2027 2 года назад
I started crocheting again. It makes me leave my phone alone and be present. I was always made to feel like my emotions were bad. I know now that I was simply an empath and felt so much and didn't know how to convey it so, I cried. As a result I became closed off to ensure I wasn't a "cry baby" now I'm opening myself up to feelings and sitting with them because they're not bad and each one gives me a chance to be a better person and that is a beautiful gift.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Shelia Burks Thank you and very well said! 😊 I commend you for coming to this conclusion and feeling those feelings! btw...love that you crochet. I haven't done it in years, but I really enjoy it.
@ramonbennett8416
@ramonbennett8416 2 года назад
Always a fan, you share the sunshine, with us all watching 🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Wow, thank you
@cllew5919
@cllew5919 2 года назад
i really like your outlook and how you work on taking care of yourself. I thought you were going to be down and out when I read the headline for this video(Loneliness), but you were absolutely not. Thank you for sharing your insights. I am at home a lot dealing with chemo treatment. I am a loner so I have to work hard to keep friendships going and not be too withdrawn. I like a podcast called "Molly's mornings" on spotify. It's usually less that 10 minutes of positive meditation.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Carol Lewis 😊 Thank you. I wish you the very best for your health Carol. Meditations are so great for the mind and sounds like you've found the secret to it and keeping your health on a positive forward path.
@_gypsysoul
@_gypsysoul 2 года назад
Amber this was such a great vlog! Thank you for sharing this with us all. Sometimes you just need to know you're not alone or more weird than usual about needing that alone time. Two things help me with my anxiety, meditation focusing on breathing and playing my guitar.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
You're welcome and thank you for your kind comment! Oh yes, breathing is great and, while I don't play the guitar, I can see how meditative it is. Music is always a good thing.
@Molly-eq1ix
@Molly-eq1ix 2 года назад
I'm a walker...and I do it at least 45 minutes a day. You're right...it does help. After I was widowed walking (and workouts about three times a week) kept me from craziness. I especially like to walk at night and see the moon and the stars. Keep up the good work!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing!!
@boqueronbecky6977
@boqueronbecky6977 2 года назад
I feel like the universe is speaking to me through your voice. Thank you. I definitely need to invest time in my self care. As a nurse, carving out time for yourself is hard but essential! Thanks again. Lily looks at you with such love in her eyes! It’s beautiful.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
You are so welcome and that's how the universe works sometimes. We hear things when we need to hear it and at the right time. Yes definitely as a nurse. You're around so many people with a lot of negative energies going on - like trauma, sadness, and tough times.
@seabliss22
@seabliss22 2 года назад
Amber your face is getting so thin!! Your hard work is paying off. I too crave solitude and structure. My favorite way to break through stress, anxiety, fear etc.. is to put on my favorite worship music and allow the Holy Spirit to move upon me. When I submit myself to it, I am thoroughly blessed and energized. I too love to marvel at Gods creation. I love his sense of humor ☺️ that can only be appreciated when we look closely at the flowers and funny bugs around us.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
seabliss22 😊 oh yes very great ways to keep grounded and keep stress and anxiety down. Um....yeah I always laugh at the humor. Like it's so peaceful and quiet as I'm saying it in the video and then the plane flies over .... lol.
@seabliss22
@seabliss22 2 года назад
@@storychasing 🤣
@prissilou
@prissilou 2 года назад
Having just realized about 15 years ago (I'm 65) that I was an empath, I have enjoyed this and other videos of yours. I love my husband and my adopted grandkids, but sometimes I feel I could just sit and look at the sunset for about a year at a time without anyone bothering me, and be as happy as a clam...raising 2 special needs grandkids is wiping me out.
@maitildamcintyre9344
@maitildamcintyre9344 2 года назад
I’m really in a transitional state at the moment and struggling to not be too depressed. 2021 has been the most challenging of my life for so many reasons but the worst part is I’ve lost several friends and family members. So much death and devastation is a struggle and I’m relocating from my home in So Cal to TN where I don’t know a soul. I know these times will pass but the effort to stay positive is sometimes overwhelming. Thanks for the tips on self care and maintaining balance. I’m working on it. 🚐🐶♥️👍🏼
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
maitilda mcintyre 😊 I know it's been tough the last couple of years and now you're moving to a whole new state. That's a lot of stress at once! Have you meditated? Breathing meditations can relax you almost immediately. Big hugs to you friend.
@maitildamcintyre9344
@maitildamcintyre9344 2 года назад
@@storychasing thanks very much and yes I’ve got an app that reminds me too👍🏼
@timstebbins6295
@timstebbins6295 2 года назад
Very interesting video. I enjoy your stories. They really show what van life is like. I admire you for what you are doing. Being a sensitive person and an introvert I can relate to your video’s content. You were looking for something people do to help center themselves when the anxiety and feeling of chaos ramps up. Mine is kind of strange, but it is organize things. Usually these are simple things like organizing stuff in the pantry, tools on a work bench, even paperwork on a desk but that helps me focus and concentrate and also provides me with a small sense of accomplishment. Thanks for your video work. I really enjoy watching them.
@junealaskanmal837
@junealaskanmal837 2 года назад
Loved this, I enjoy your videos so much. You are living my dream. Thank you for taking me and all of us along with you. 🤗
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Thanks for watching! You're so welcome.
@Justasmalltowngirl65
@Justasmalltowngirl65 2 года назад
Love how real you are!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Lisa Swafford Thank you very much! 😊🙏
@Tom-px4fn
@Tom-px4fn 2 года назад
Sometimes it is better to drive into the city after hours. At least you have much less traffic. I start every morning with Bible study. It sets my day up to live in peace, be kinder, and strong for myself and others.
@kayroosa609
@kayroosa609 2 года назад
Love this video, it is amazing how down your earth you are and I love the area you are staying, very beautiful. Thanks for sharing I also can relate to alone time. In the past I really didn’t have any alone time but now I have a lot of time alone with my dogs. I realize that I love this time to myself. But I do think that I will get more into nature once I finally make the big step and get myself a Class B and start on my van life journey.
@anaidaramirez2683
@anaidaramirez2683 2 года назад
Gracias....eres Bella tanto por dentro como por fuera, Empatia es el mejor ejemplo ;de ser parte de tu blog y me escuchaste y mas la Unica que te escribe espanol y te atreviste a Ser un Humano excepcional...no importa las barreras de Idiomas estamos Juntos en esto ...que lindo Cuidate eres un Ser que Ilumininas Amen...Adelante estamos Contigo ....Amen....
@carolynsparks5208
@carolynsparks5208 2 года назад
I just found your channel..I really enjoyed way and I can so relate to the Introvert life..A lot of people don't understand why we love and must spend time alone..I love my alone time.. I have subscribed to your channel. I'm enjoying watching more of your videos and seeing how you live your van life. It looks so exciting. Take care and God bless and be safe.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Thanks for subbing!
@stanmen
@stanmen 2 года назад
Great video I love the desert Very peaceful & rewarding
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Yes, thank you
@ssharp9890
@ssharp9890 2 года назад
I am just starting my solo van experience. My Chevy Express cargo van is has very minimal home made amenities so your videos are very helpful, especially the one on peeing outside to save cassette space. Thanks for your info.
@jodycoyote3916
@jodycoyote3916 2 года назад
Thanks for being brave. I think everyone at sometime in their life gets lonely, anxiety or depressed and it’s okay to share. We all need to hear other people are going through the same thing.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
JodyCoyote Thank you and very well said! 😊
@annlindsey7480
@annlindsey7480 2 года назад
Another great video Amber...
@TheSassySpoon
@TheSassySpoon 2 года назад
Loved this and glad you got the van fixed at last! It is also wonderful that you have Lily.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Thank you very much.
@rescuehoundemtd
@rescuehoundemtd 2 года назад
I think that watching your videos helps me calm down and relax. Love your videos and keep up the good work. Hope to be able to have a nomad life someday. I am in end stage kidney failure and I am going to have to go on dialysis soon, Hoping I can still do it on the road.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
rescuehoundemtd 😊 Best wishes to you and yes I hope you do as well.
@echang1572
@echang1572 2 года назад
Your dog is so quiet and has manners….🙂🙂🙂
@robinhart1390
@robinhart1390 2 года назад
It’s great that you’re sharing about being empathic. There’s a lot of people that need this information. You’re very good at engaging people in your videos. If you’re wanting a personal relationship with a life partner then I will hold the light for you✨❣️
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Thank you so much!
@ronweaver1591
@ronweaver1591 2 года назад
I understand your issues. More than you understand I have walked in your shoes. You are ok, a talent, a treasure and deserve the best and enjoy the good life. I wish I could have met you before to understand you at a deeper level and share the load. You are a unique woman I wish I could hold and comfort
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Ron Weaver 😊
@scamphound1892
@scamphound1892 2 года назад
It’s been awhile since you shared a video like this. Just shows how much you needed the recharge!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Scamp Hound 😊 boy did I ever! Did you like the video?
@scamphound1892
@scamphound1892 2 года назад
@@storychasing I did! 👍🏻👍🏻
@latada2198
@latada2198 2 года назад
I just appreciate you so very much Amber. You have no idea how much you are truly making a difference in my life. I wish you and miss Lily Lily all life’s very best. 🙏🏻♥️
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Awww. You’re making me tear up. 💕
@jennifergross9008
@jennifergross9008 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing your adventures! I am so interested in taking up a nomad lifestyle
@danamariefinnegan7176
@danamariefinnegan7176 2 года назад
Just watching this gave me such peace. Thx
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
DanaMarie Finnegan Thank you and very well said! 😊
@theoracle5265
@theoracle5265 2 года назад
I to am an empath and I for the first time in the past seven months learned this term, it has been eye opening and has answered so many questions and I'm feeling better about myself and dealing with picking up energy of others and now I've discovered why I've felt a little out of place being sensitive of others emotions as a man.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Steve Garcia Thanks for sharing your story. It means so much to me. 😊 Being an empath knows no gender, but I think men, because of society, can have more difficulties acknowledging being an empath. So, I really appreciate your vulnerability here.
@webbphoto2
@webbphoto2 2 года назад
Daily routine is a must and I find playing music is a nice relaxing thing for me to do. Coffee in the morning fallowed by RU-vid time, then breakfast. Then what ever the day brings. I'm glad to see you are in the sun and heat I hope, although I guess it can be cool in the desert at night. Covid has made my life kind of cut off from people, I'm a bit of a introvert these days. Being a songwriter is kind of good for a introvert. it puts out what's on my mind so I can see it more clearly.
@julianolan2860
@julianolan2860 2 года назад
I very much enjoy the respectful tone and modelling of solitude.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Julia Nolan Thank you very much! 😊🙏
@divadonna5670
@divadonna5670 2 года назад
Amber just watching you finally get to decompress off the road made me want to breathe and expell all the anxiety too-thank you for the journey
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Diva Donna 😊 lol..thanks for breathing deep for both of us!
@williamthawley9251
@williamthawley9251 2 года назад
arizona is truly beautiful, a photographers dream
@Judgementcomingsoon
@Judgementcomingsoon 2 года назад
I’m worn out just watching!,!!! You are amazing and deserve some r and r. You inspire me in every video and in my book, a total success. On the road full time in March and will keep on watching your adventures.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Wow, thank you! Good luck on your impending journey in March!!!! How exciting.
@johannacontent2613
@johannacontent2613 2 года назад
You have a beautiful company who doesn't criticize and love you unconditional for myself this what I need. I find you very lucky to be able to do what you love doing. We all have our ups and down this normal. You are a strong person and knows when and what you need. If you feel down do something you love, either a walk, read, listening to music. I wish you good luck on your journey 💝💝
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Thank you so much.
@jenniferc925
@jenniferc925 2 года назад
great job on sharing this... very helpful.... nice to know what balances out an introvert which I am..... I do need structure and focus... but also time to relax and release....
@bren_artstudio54
@bren_artstudio54 2 года назад
Good to have you back...taking time for you...having the schedule you need. I fully understand. I fully understand!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
You're the best!
@csimon1951
@csimon1951 2 года назад
I go to my Bible. I love to bible journal! I do this everyday and can spend well over a hour but it brings me such peace and joy!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
That’s perfect and a great way to get that beautiful balance and calm.
@kihntagious
@kihntagious 2 года назад
I understand so well. I live in the same size van, a transit but it's not comfortable, it's awkward, I've made some expensive mistakes, lose track of money and I'm lonely . I get you.
@cynthiafreeman4543
@cynthiafreeman4543 2 года назад
You are one of my favorite RU-vidrs. Really can relate to the vibe you show. TY for sharing yourself! #alsoanempath
@maryscunziano5392
@maryscunziano5392 2 года назад
Amber, thanks for the great video. You have the best recipes, have you thought about writing a cookbook? I always enjoy seeing what you are cooking. And your coffee routine….. looks delish!!! Have safe travels enjoy Arizona ( I live in Tucson) yes we have amazing sunrises and sunsets!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
You’re the second person today that asked me about the cookbook. Maybe I should.
@jmd6359
@jmd6359 2 года назад
Feel exactly like you and Dave, personally. Don't have the van life though, but doing my best with what I have going on for now... and am grateful! I need to learn to meditate... any advice / tips on that would be most welcome, indeed :) ...be well
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Responded to one of these comments. I've gotten the same comment from you over 5 times....lol! I hope you see the reply.
@veetropicals
@veetropicals 2 года назад
You are living the life! I wish I could do this but I'm afraid of the dark and cannot do the solo traveling. I admire all the solo females out there. God bless🙏
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Maybe traveling with others?
@apen2152
@apen2152 2 года назад
Omg I guess travel girl slow down and enjoy🥰❤️ There will always be anxiety but try to enjoy the moment and Lily♥️😍
@ashaw6960
@ashaw6960 2 года назад
For me, solo walks & doing nature photography. Music & dancing around my living room just feeling the rhythm & movement. Making homemade bread…the kneading & forming into rolls or braided loaves. Delicious & wholesome to then enjoy.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing! I have a visual now of you making bread...so lovely and the senses that come with that like smelling the bread too. Yum.
@ginas.6656
@ginas.6656 2 года назад
I understand this video i also am the same- HSP, introverted empath. I only found out a few years and feel it has brought my intuitive powers so much stronger just being aware. So just knowing this i can feel whenever i am getting overwhelmed i know what i must do and how long i am able to be around people. I love being around beautiful nature like you and need time alone to recharge my batteries.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
So glad you discovered this about yourself. Happy!
@gussieayaz5494
@gussieayaz5494 2 года назад
Awesome and healthy comments, ❤ and agree :) For anxiety I gently and quietly walk right though it; it might take doing once, twice but it then it's gone. Thank you :)
@rick5653
@rick5653 2 года назад
I admire you and your bravery the travel alone. I’m thinking about doing it
@mykirbs2002
@mykirbs2002 2 года назад
Hi Amber, Great video. I’m so impressed that you came from the Bay Area and went to the desert and back to the Bay Area 😖 I would’ve found someone closer to take care of the van!😂 The talk about being an introvert was very interesting. I believe in todays times most people have it. I can see why! Thanks ❤️
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Thank you so much!!
@annparham3466
@annparham3466 2 года назад
I am definitely on the introvert side no doubt! I spend 98% of my time alone! Have done that probably the last 25 or 30 years! So it really doesn't bother me to be alone, I embrace it! When I need company, I find it...its not hard! I can have a lonely day and all I have to do is call a friend, family! When I do have really high anxiety, I go for a walk, listen to some soft music, do some yoga ! Deep breathing helps so much when the stress gets to be to much, I have done alot of that last year while I was going thru my divorce in the beginning of the pandemic last year! Thats when I was diagnosed with diastolic heart failure! But you know, I didn't let it stop me from doing my dream! I bought a 27 foot class A RV and am currently in Florida! Will be heading back to Oklahoma for a couple dr appointments in January then heading west! Its been my dream to come to Arizona for a long time and its coming true finally! I am excited to finally get to fulfill this dream, it makes me so happy!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Ann Parham 😊 You're amazing for going through those tough times and having such a great attitude and outlook. Keep chasing those dreams Ann! I'm so happy for you that you're doing exactly what you've dreamed and it's really fulfilling you.
@aprilmarshall6245
@aprilmarshall6245 2 года назад
Your silver grow out is amazing! I am also letting my sparkles shine, you should do a video about growing out your natural hair. Blessings💗
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Great idea!!
@jcaspen
@jcaspen 2 года назад
I’m also an introvert empath. I’ve started to really pay attention to how my body feels. When I feel tense or upset, I practice breathing in to the count of 4, hold it for a count of 4, then let it out to the count of 4. It slows my heart rate and helps the anxiety ease.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Lib Reader 😊 That's such a great breathing meditation. I was just telling Joanne D about that. Good on you!
@inquiringmind4976
@inquiringmind4976 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing your journey and wisdom along the way. Glad you found joy on the East Coast; I was rooting for you. We all need down time. Admire your independence and wanderlust. Adore your sidekick Lily too! You do not need to explain yourself to anyone. Filter out the naysayers. You are AMAZING!!
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Thank you so much!
@Wawaspmoqa
@Wawaspmoqa 2 года назад
Hello I just watched my first video with you, I can relate... I'm a solo van dweller with my traveling companion Toffee. I love being alone, always have... When I feel the need for others I go out and mingle. I enjoyed your video and look forward to seeing more. You're blessed, stay safe and enjoy your day.
@storychasing
@storychasing 2 года назад
Wawaspmoqa Thank you very much and welcome! 😊🙏
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