I already had a ton of admiration and respect for you. However, this video makes me admire and respect you so much more. My heart and condolences go out to your mother, yourself, and your entire family.
I care for my dad, he has cancer and dementia. I understand everything you have said here. My mom is blind and I do this all alone. Becareful with the phone. We had to take dads, and he was giving out our address and stuff. He does not eat unless I tell him to. God bless you. I have done things I never dreamed of. I will pray for you all.
I think we are going to have to put him in a nursing home. It is getting to be to much for my mom. I feel bad for not thinking about the way it was affecting her. If you need a friend to talk to my email is on my about page.