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People just don’t understand when I say I’m fine not being in a relationship right now. I come across too many older under sexed women out here who appreciate a guy who can be discreet and blow their back out.
I'm 44 and I've been attracted to older women since my twenties. Even today I see women even in their sixties and seventies who still look stunning because they take care of themselves. I'm just very upfront with them about my intentions and they're good for it. Don't get me wrong I still like an occasional 20-something but to me there's sometimes nothing sexier than an older woman who takes care of herself and defies her age.
Rom you already know..I remember when I was in college and I had the privilege to work guarding the doors for the alumni association party during homecoming. I met this woman who was 45 years of age, had curves, class, and didn't play no games. (Picture China-Doll from the movie "The Mack" with a Phylicia Rashad type of aura.) Long story short, I got turned out in more ways than one and learned a few lessons on how to improve my sex game. At that point, I learned the difference between a girl's sex game and a woman's sex game. If someone thought that sex was overrated, I would look them dead in the eye and say "you're not doing it right." Never been the same since.
That's true what you are saying. I don't bring up sex with women because I feel like a lot of them get offended. They act like it's a bad thing especially the young girls. I like older women too.
I remember when I was working for a public transit company, and at my job I was assigned to stand there, and guide people to their requested destination. And there was this one woman who regularly drives the transit bus. She was around her 40s-- late 30s at best. She was also very attractive. One day, my co-worker was telling me how that woman was starring at me the entire time whenever she would come back at the station to drop passengers off. I wasn't aware of this. My co-worker then decided to push me to talk to her-- I was too shy. I did manage to strike a conversation with her but I downgraded myself to a child to the point where she would tell me what to do, and asking me for my schedule. I never felt so little in my life. However, she would buy me gifts and ask to meet her at certain areas-- I didn't show up to any of them because I was relocated. But given the situation, I had the chance to fuck it, but I guess the child in me didn't want too. Smh. This often happens to me. Older women are usually the one to approach me rather than girls my age. And boy, they GET TO THE POINT. It's a bit intimidating. My question to you Mr. Wills.. Is it ever a good idea for a young male to initiate a relationship with an older woman?
Uncle Rom you are absolutely right about older women with their fitness and sex appeal. I've dealt with a lot of older women in my 20's and they were in their early to mid-late 30's, all of them in shape and didn't look their age. I'm now in my early 30's and got one who is 45 tight ass body. One of the things I love about older women is they are upfront about sex and are not looking to have babies. Plus their benevolent and will spoil you. The downside when dealing with older broads is yes they feel they lived more life than you and sometimes they don't respect you enough as an alpha male to tell them anything. But it is a way to check that shit at the door.
I was 24 met a 37 year old woman. No kids. Never been pregnant. I was going thru a divorce (ik too young) & staying with my parents. Eventually I moved in with her. She caked me every week like it was my bday. Bought clothes a ride did for my child paid all the fees & cost for my divorce. But the catch was that she was controlling I didn't know better & she wanted a kid(s) so after 2years & 3 miscarriages & fights about me having some space & freedom to do me because she always wanted me to be where she wanted me to be she threw me out. After that got my own. Never again when dealing with any woman regardless of age will I be undermined as man. Biggest lesson learned with women.
I was 21 when I met my ex. She was 33 she rocked a young man's world that's when I learned what good sex was. Every since then I all my exes were older than me. I was in my twenties they were in their early to mid thirties. Yes older women do like to have their way but you need to get her to invest in you. Check her when she get out of pocket.
another great post. glad u added on the control piece at the end. a lot of woman feel as though they dnt hv to respect our POV since they make their own money
some fire bro im going to subscribe......i been looking for this kind of info for 3 days hahaha...sad but true....as a 25 year old i been messing with them older woman they seem to like us young dudes this is some good info
Wow great game thanks for the share. I have experienced this throughout my 20's. See the thing is you will have younger guys like myself who are considered old souls. Old souls might not be reckless and chaotic like a lot of the younger guys in their peer group, that a lot of the younger women might be into. Now the thing with older women is that, they are aggressive with contacting you all the time and have that controlling/needy kind of energy. Sure, if you want something on the physical side it can work. If she is a cool woman, she can actually teach you about life and can upgrade you. There are women who own their own businesses and or have these great careers that can really upgrade a man in his 20's/30's etc... You can still bond with these women and date them, but the biggest issue is the control and the neediness. A lot of younger women are the opposite and want you to chase after them. More mature aged women are the reverse and will chase you hard, but it can be stressful and can burn you out. Imagine if you are a younger guy with a rotation of 3 or so women who are more mature aged? Your phone will get blown up big time. These women are persistent and want to know what you are doing at all times.
the part about older women is very true. I've seen some bad sistas in the gyms I frequent. I'm in shape myself, so I get the looks pretty often. they also won't hesitate to hold a conversation with me. I've had long talks with them right in the gym.. the opportunity is definitely there.
Yo I'm 38 and I'm still dating older women and I enjoy it to be straight up this started with me at 19 my first older women experience she was 40 and yeah she came on to me HARD this went for 5yrs straight fuckin but it ain't just sex it's the coolness and less drama and yeah most will try to put you in relationship which can backfire cuz some wanna try to be your moms which is a turn off to me but I enjoy your show and your advice is accurate keep it up man👍
Fuck man! 9:35 was me a couple of months ago! Damn! The roller coaster on that shit! She tried controlling me, tried to destroy my business, just so that I can be her minion! Started off as a fling, ended with her wanting me to be her husband! Fuck that shit! She is 10 years older than me!
But Ron, I wonder do you think black women want to go back to the days when black men only option was black women, because I noticed black women want the rights of first refusal... an anti-interracial, "problack" , dreadlock girl just confessed that she is in an interracial relationship, but she hates it when black men do it.
Whats up Unk, Had to return to this. I actually been dealing with a chick that's 41 for some time (I am 25). Just ended it after 10 months. I started off honestly about dealing with multiple women, but she would always get bitchy, but she agreed in the beginning. Towards the end I sort of switched up... but in the back of my mind I knew I wanted younger women (vanity with in me I guess), not necessarily to be a player, I just never truly got the chance to enjoyed younger women, like I did this older one, so I wanted to add a couple more, and was in the process. I brought it up again and gave her an ultimatum, so we broke it off. She didn't want to open the relationship although I purposefully suggested it. That was the main issue in regards to control, I mean some dudes say there is such a thing as that special one, but for me I have been telling any women that are interested I'm into polygamy. Now taking some time to myself just being single for a bit... Unless if she changes up takes her position back, and accept me. 2 things this woman said to me, in the beginning "Most women will not see your value" and in the end " I dont want to settle for mediocre". Any advice?
Good Video. I wrote about something Simular Yesterday. Heres what I think is happening. You got 2 types of people in this world, Dominants and Submissives. That dynamic is beyond Gender, but becomes Tricky when a woman has Dominant demeanor and A man has a Submissive Demeanor. Theres alot of ALPHA Females who are succeeding in life except for having a compatible mate. She has a conundrum because she cannot respect a more submissive man , and a man more Dominant than her does not want to manage her need to challenge him in certain aspects. These ladies are frustrated with having a level of power, but having to handle managing it. Every path in life has its burden.
Alvin Hollinger III , after fighting at wrk all day, who has the time or energy. something has to give and most times, peace of mind at hm wins out everytime
What's up Big Rom, from my experience dealing with older we men is just as worst as dealing with younger wemen because you would think that the older woman knows better it's better to teach than to have a long speach on a decision you've already made.
I immediately connected with the comment that older women are controlling. If they are a homebody due to retirement, disability, etc, they will put out the "monogamy" word forcefully. They want a man to set there and be miserable with them. And usually those type of women are adamant about being in control. It's ridiculous.
I got this 35-37 year old married women always chasing me. At one time when I stopped talking to her she got like really depressed and and saw her crying too a couple of times. What's the psychological thing behind an older woman chasing a younger guy?
***** yea but rom took a really long break and he mainly focus on the black community. And you made a point, if you take that view ratio he is actually doing better than other dating coaches .
Dré O. Flipper You right because I didn't want to mess this relationship thing for a long time. Got tired on sitting on panels where people pretended they wanted solutions. As far as views as I always I want the wolves and not the sheep.
5:40 lmaoo Rom u gotta chill🤣 cause dis new cougar done moved round da corner. She be eyein a nigga walkin by😗. I hope she don’t start walkin and catch me cutting da grass dis summer cause somebody else lawn will need to be cut😉
I never cared much for older ladies because the one I'm with, is 20 years older. Another that tried to get with me back n October 1998, was older, born in 1953, I was born in 1978. My ex girlfriend, Terrylee, was 2 years older. Her birthday is coming up in 2 days, so f**k her! My ex didn't get that many opportunities to come over some more! She was a heartbreaker! Out of all the women in the world! Her ex, a coworker I knew, Jason, they reunited at a camp I went to. This is why I have no business being with older women! Also, this is why some weekends of the year, I went places, and needed to go more places almost every weekend of the year!
Men get soft in the middle with aging . Women can take it even when they 80 Not stiucking with no dog ears . As long as he can’t be my child I’ll ride him until judgement day
I feel like the right young leader combat that if she is submissive and has been picky her whole life waiting for truly Goodbar that she can take care of! While he is still is running the show driving her to work and using the car whenever he wants even putting things in his name to keep him!
Rom, in the past, they would say theirs someone for everyone. In ur opinion, know that woman hv their independence is that statement still valid? lastly it seems as though men around the world unless u fit the 20% of the 80/20 rule, a lot of men are lonely. ur thoughts
I just want to say the way you switch up.your expression.is classic.true player shit .. sometimes I think.its somebody else besides you.....you the fucking men the.
