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Dealing With Rejection 

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This week on WellCast, we're going to be looking into social rejection. We're going to examine why being suddenly shunned from a group of peers or friends is damaging to your psyche, and give you our three-step, Taking Back Your Life method for remaining healthy, happy and in control!
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@mayah429
@mayah429 7 лет назад
My crush just rejected me
@marievanderwesthuizen5103
@marievanderwesthuizen5103 7 лет назад
xxx
@conanpotts6497
@conanpotts6497 7 лет назад
yeah same
@Zele6837
@Zele6837 7 лет назад
maya h same here. It was the same guy for me TWICE.
@Random-je6ud
@Random-je6ud 7 лет назад
maya h Same for me. I loved this one girl and she rejected me today.
@pdph-kk4ut
@pdph-kk4ut 7 лет назад
օֆƈǟʀ ɢǟʀƈɨǟ *hugs you* it will be okay
@piakatharina1737
@piakatharina1737 9 лет назад
i literally don't have any accomplishments apart from the fact that i survived 17 years without killing myself. wow.
@hitagisenjougahara3515
@hitagisenjougahara3515 9 лет назад
Same.
@IHateNumbersOnNames
@IHateNumbersOnNames 9 лет назад
And how is that not fucking enough? You've been through your personal hells and you've proven you can actually withstand them. You proved your personal Satan that you are stronger than him. You all did. It isn't a "just", its a whole fucking lot. Sincere congratulations, and know that i'm open for conversation if anyone wants to
@Spartan-sz7km
@Spartan-sz7km 9 лет назад
Pia Katharina That's a good achievement actually. Some people attempted suicide for 9 times over 8 years of depression and failed twice
@Spartan-sz7km
@Spartan-sz7km 9 лет назад
Pia Katharina That's a good achievement actually. Some people attempted suicide for 9 times over 8 years of depression and failed twice
@aadiballs
@aadiballs 9 лет назад
Same
@TheCbrown146
@TheCbrown146 8 лет назад
Don't get mad. Get even. Make your own club and reject everyone.
@meatbox777
@meatbox777 8 лет назад
i wish i chould do that
@parkjimns
@parkjimns 8 лет назад
TheCbrown146 i do that a lot lmao
@soup8572
@soup8572 7 лет назад
TheCbrown146 hehe
@oka7166
@oka7166 7 лет назад
No glo up and become beautiful,happy confident and ignore them
@TheApoke
@TheApoke 7 лет назад
TheCbrown146 With flap Jacks, and hookers.
@SydneySings137
@SydneySings137 8 лет назад
WHO ELSE JUST GOT REJECTED😂
@tweetyrocks7686
@tweetyrocks7686 8 лет назад
rejected in what?
@hotelvictortango
@hotelvictortango 8 лет назад
Me
@audiobooksanaram692
@audiobooksanaram692 8 лет назад
im rejected only once but by the one i loved the most n it hurts so bad 😢
@suwoo7269
@suwoo7269 8 лет назад
me :(
@popsicko6493
@popsicko6493 8 лет назад
+Afsheen “misha” Mahmood I feel you, man :(
@Supermanohman
@Supermanohman 8 лет назад
force yourself to smile even if you're upset. Trust me on this. Just smile for no reason. It will make you feel better.
@fresh6054
@fresh6054 8 лет назад
+Vic Vinegar fake it till you make it!!
@Supermanohman
@Supermanohman 8 лет назад
fr esh basically yeah. Also laugh on purpose a lot. Laugh at stuff you only find a bit funny and soon you will actually feel better.
@mabelevans233
@mabelevans233 8 лет назад
+Vic Vinegar Yeah that doesn't work. By faking it I only mess up my brain more. Yeah while I was faking it I looked happy, but that doesn't help you in a long run.
@Supermanohman
@Supermanohman 8 лет назад
Michael Vincent doing it a bit each day. forcing ourselves to laugh and smile on demand, will help in the long run.
@SquirrelJokes2000
@SquirrelJokes2000 8 лет назад
no
@sydneys.9880
@sydneys.9880 8 лет назад
Rejected by people I don't even know and you know what? They will never know me because I don't want to know someone like that.
@fresh6054
@fresh6054 8 лет назад
+Sydney S. YAAAAAAASSSSS SYDNEY
@joanac4246
@joanac4246 8 лет назад
you go girl
@Dee-zm7rr
@Dee-zm7rr 7 лет назад
Sydney S. deyum
@destinydarling7393
@destinydarling7393 5 лет назад
we might as well be BFF's now... XD friends!
@shadeunofficial
@shadeunofficial 8 лет назад
to be honest, i've been rejected so much i don't even know what it is anymore... 😐
@destinydarling7393
@destinydarling7393 5 лет назад
you keep your head up buddy!
@Human1136
@Human1136 Год назад
It's nothing.
@doothowell7951
@doothowell7951 8 лет назад
2:25 YOU SEEM TO REPLACE YOUR BRAIN WITH YOUR HEART YOU TAKE THINGS SO HARD AND THEN YOU FALL APART
@igames8571
@igames8571 8 лет назад
Yassssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😘😘😘😘
@noah7640
@noah7640 8 лет назад
Someone turnin the handle Melanie👩🏻👼🏼🙇🏻
@lisaleslie9201
@lisaleslie9201 8 лет назад
I'm also a 🍼crybaby🍼
@musicremixspeedups5548
@musicremixspeedups5548 8 лет назад
MELANIE!
@themosquito8132
@themosquito8132 7 лет назад
Melanie !
@kiaraknight7519
@kiaraknight7519 8 лет назад
When your crush said no to taking you to a dance...
@emmagrauf7344
@emmagrauf7344 8 лет назад
Aaahw butt always remember if he said no he's not worth it!! you know I got rejected today.. But with these tips I hope I get out ( but it woud be always akward because he's my best friend..)
@gorangvashishth8657
@gorangvashishth8657 8 лет назад
Emma Grauf lol you are saying butt
@emmagrauf7344
@emmagrauf7344 8 лет назад
Yes i'm Dutch and not very good at English 😂👍
@morrigansmith3744
@morrigansmith3744 7 лет назад
Kikaru Likes To Game I JUST HAD THAT😭😭😭
@adityakadiyala2981
@adityakadiyala2981 7 лет назад
Kikaru Likes To Game a true reply
@MaksProger
@MaksProger 8 лет назад
1:00 She has blood vessels in her hair? WTF?!
@joanac4246
@joanac4246 8 лет назад
😅😅😅
@tiffanymatthews1465
@tiffanymatthews1465 8 лет назад
hahaha😂
@Sophie-pg6lg
@Sophie-pg6lg 8 лет назад
lmao
@ronanstreby9013
@ronanstreby9013 8 лет назад
That's probably why most women have long hair.
@vexxcon8125
@vexxcon8125 7 лет назад
MaxQuantum 😂 XD
@PrincessHalo11
@PrincessHalo11 8 лет назад
I'm so used to it at this point.
@xanny7373
@xanny7373 8 лет назад
Same, I'm so use to it as soon as I'm inurrupted I just give up on my thought but the worst part about it is even if it's a one on one convo I still get ignored. #inturrupted #ignored #leftonread
@yutube858
@yutube858 7 лет назад
Tori Wreckslevaj I'm not, I have not gotten rejected for a long time because people usually like me but 7th grade hates ne
@YourIQDoesntMeanShitToMe
@YourIQDoesntMeanShitToMe 6 лет назад
#leftonread is a great tag. I'll use that one.
@07minsung
@07minsung 8 лет назад
After being rejected for 3 times in a row, I'm used to it with a much lower self-confidence gained. And at this point I know I should stop trying
@popsicko6493
@popsicko6493 8 лет назад
same here. but I can't let it go
@dullpeak2496
@dullpeak2496 8 лет назад
I honestly understand I have been rejected more than 10 times for sure and I got depressed to the point suicidal but I didn't do it because I thought why do it there's more in this world so I never gave up and I still am rejected like a lot
@thatonetwo5009
@thatonetwo5009 8 лет назад
Well hope you find the one!
@07minsung
@07minsung 8 лет назад
Piggycraft123 Thank you! Fortunately I found one recently haha. Sometimes you just gotta be persistent
@ELdASenSei
@ELdASenSei 8 лет назад
How did you do it senpai??? Tell us your story
@jisu6797
@jisu6797 7 лет назад
I've been rejected by 8 crushes, either because they like my best friends or they have a "girlfriend" which they don't . I don't know how to love, it's like I'll never fall in love or any thing. I'm very heartbroken, more like my heart has shattered into million of pieces. 😢
@A_Stoic
@A_Stoic 2 года назад
Hope you fund somebody.
@Gandalf17
@Gandalf17 8 лет назад
god damn it hurts
@emmagrauf7344
@emmagrauf7344 8 лет назад
I feel you man
@mayah429
@mayah429 7 лет назад
give up a lot
@PrettyFly4Wifi
@PrettyFly4Wifi 7 лет назад
damn bro same
@BlackAmerican-u8e
@BlackAmerican-u8e 6 лет назад
give up It does hurt 😔
@dulceloyola354
@dulceloyola354 5 лет назад
give up feel you :(
@naellaloami5470
@naellaloami5470 9 лет назад
If someone EVER rejects YOU: Turn around flip your hair and act like they be trippin' (SORRY Shanaynay moment there *clears throat*) because THEY are. Yeah it hurts alot. Believe me I know.... anyways, they really are. They dont obviously don't know what they is missing out on, and thats their loss, because when you become somewhat beyonce famous (gotta love queen B though) you show that VERY BAD word that what they did made you stronger and by then you'll have a new stronger hotter more loving boy on your arm, and you can flip your hair again with your Gucci like self. You rock gurl... AND TO THE GUYS: almost the same thing, BUT if you got that flowy long hair, WHO is rejecting you!!! Her loss then. LOL. And to the guys with normal length hair, just wait. Cuz after when your like in your twenties, and you got that muscle though.... but dont push yourself now. Your wasting it. To all (if you is still reading- dont worry we are almost done hold your horses shug): It does hurt I know... but they don't deserve you. And if they did they would of said yes to you honey. But since they didn't they are the ones who are the Felicia's of the world and they need to go bye. (Yes, I have seen Friday)
@aletheafleming1142
@aletheafleming1142 9 лет назад
What do you do when someone you have never even been horrible to ever! Calls you fugly :( I can't flip my hair I'm 'fugly.'
@naellaloami5470
@naellaloami5470 9 лет назад
alethea fleming you have to remember two extremely important things: ONE: People are harters, so what, you can't control the whole world!!! and TWO: MOST PEOPLE ARE COMPLETE IDIOTS. Thats just the world we live in. Just forget about all the people who try to put you down, and rise to be better than them. Like going to a highschool reunion and you have like a million dollar paying job and everyone else there who were your old classmates is just there for the free food cuz all that time they was hatin on you they was screwing up they lives. They'll regret it all right? So don't focus on them. Keep your stuff right.
@theshipaddict7865
@theshipaddict7865 4 года назад
I have a pixie cut, I can't flip my hair.
@zoehunter1950
@zoehunter1950 4 года назад
Naella Loami you honestly should be president instead of the ass hole we have now
@noobyboy4329
@noobyboy4329 8 лет назад
My best friend left to another school so I was about to cry but I met this girl that is so hyperactive and fun like me
@mheryllmarie
@mheryllmarie 4 года назад
No, I didn't get rejected. I'm only watching this for my friend. Yes, she got rejected. I wanna help her out and make sure that she's back to her happy self !
@user-ph4mg1mh9c
@user-ph4mg1mh9c 3 года назад
You’re the type of friend everyone needs
@peachypie6825
@peachypie6825 9 лет назад
I got rejected 30 times already and im just 12 😢😢😢😢😢😢
@deniseumenberger
@deniseumenberger 9 лет назад
I know how you feel
@DarthShunkle
@DarthShunkle 9 лет назад
Your twelve I'm the same age and I have only ask 5 girls out and they all regected
@peachypie6825
@peachypie6825 9 лет назад
sucks right ??
@peachypie6825
@peachypie6825 9 лет назад
+Galaxy The alien yes
@that_emo_child_8986
@that_emo_child_8986 9 лет назад
+Pearl De Castro (Elahelp) omg not that big of a deal
@carlosesquilin5506
@carlosesquilin5506 7 лет назад
life rejected me shortly after sanity did.
@ptcrush9861
@ptcrush9861 9 лет назад
I got rejected by every girl I've asked out. :(
@jerry-tg8gl
@jerry-tg8gl 9 лет назад
Me too😔😔😔
@jerry-tg8gl
@jerry-tg8gl 9 лет назад
The face probably
@jerry-tg8gl
@jerry-tg8gl 9 лет назад
😠😠😠😠
@pedroxambrano1761
@pedroxambrano1761 9 лет назад
I just got rejected today, 😢😢😢
@xtKitsune
@xtKitsune 9 лет назад
All of these comments now makes me scared to ask my crush out
@TheOneCTXL
@TheOneCTXL 10 лет назад
This made it worse. I have no accomplishments.
@lyrikmurray6140
@lyrikmurray6140 9 лет назад
you must have something that you have accomplished. It can be anything that you have gotten done
@Jaimelaffoon
@Jaimelaffoon 6 лет назад
If you got outta bed or brushed you teeth that’s an accomplishment. Realize today is temporary look to the future.
@starcatcher3691
@starcatcher3691 5 лет назад
Focus on your good qualities that is more important.
@gamezunited3014
@gamezunited3014 9 лет назад
In grade 2 i always got bullied because i was fat but then i reported it to my father my father told the principal and in grade 3 EVERYONE was my friend but then in grade 4 i had to change school.... IT WAS THE BEST DECISION OF MY LIFE i meant tons of people there and i showed them my personality and they liked me for who i was. So moral of the story theres still some hope for all you guys out there so GOOD LUCK!!!
@periidote9778
@periidote9778 10 лет назад
Can you make a video on how to make friends? Someone tell me if there already is one!!!
@watchwellcast
@watchwellcast 11 лет назад
Everyone gets annoyed by different things others do, and usually they're just little things that the other person can't help. It's good to be as understanding as possible of each others' differences.
@TheCbrown146
@TheCbrown146 8 лет назад
Access denied
@horowitz8680
@horowitz8680 6 лет назад
TheCbrown146 YOU SHALL NOT PASS
@kennethjackson4094
@kennethjackson4094 11 лет назад
no. way. you guys, I swear are the most amazing people ever. not only have you changed my life, but you have also boosted my self esteem by putting me in a video, I love you guys.
@autumnb9092
@autumnb9092 4 года назад
i just got rejected so that's why i'm here. :( i caught feelings HARD
@parkahuskynea4424
@parkahuskynea4424 7 лет назад
I'm just going through something else but I find her voice very comforting
@martinnhantran
@martinnhantran 3 года назад
Rejection doesn't define you. Your thoughts don't define you. Your emotions don't define you. You define yourself. You choose who you want to be not other people. You got 2 choices let your circumstances define you or you define your circumstances.
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 года назад
"You overcome rejection and grief by building resilience. And we plant the seeds of resilience in the ways we process negative events." You can read Option B to deal with grief, loss and adversity.
@talalahmed4066
@talalahmed4066 8 лет назад
my rejection: I like you crush: Don't like me because I don't like you back (middle finger to the face) me: okay... walks away almost crying (but not )
@MaksProger
@MaksProger 8 лет назад
+talal ahmed she has bad personality, I don't see a reason to like such a girl
@Riyguy
@Riyguy 8 лет назад
+MaxQuantum eexxxactly.
@MonsterHigh1957
@MonsterHigh1957 8 лет назад
What a bitch
@meatbox777
@meatbox777 8 лет назад
i whould ( if a follow the rules school kid coward like me whould have the guts ) say go to hell
@MonsterHigh1957
@MonsterHigh1957 8 лет назад
dont worry i will go to hell in two weeks, i mean school
@thaniti
@thaniti 11 лет назад
I can't thank you enough for these tips. I used to be connected to people who talked about people I don't even know because I have a really good friend in that group so today I sat with a group of people who watch dr who like me and I have much more friends than before. Thank you!
@jazmynekenny5769
@jazmynekenny5769 8 лет назад
Who else wants to join that waving club
@RadiantRippleTV
@RadiantRippleTV 10 лет назад
My 13 y/0 daughter was having some issues at school, I showed her this video (it being so simple) after our discussion. She is now doing as it says
@daytonaliving4673
@daytonaliving4673 10 лет назад
Thank you wellcast. This can really help me.
@Kelly14UK
@Kelly14UK 9 лет назад
Kill the ego. Miraculous things happen in time. You'll see.
@eretna2480
@eretna2480 3 года назад
killing your ego is fucking stupid
@Kelly14UK
@Kelly14UK 3 года назад
@@eretna2480 All human beings are just lifeforms not any more important than a dead slug in the grand scheme.
@candlecove7590
@candlecove7590 8 лет назад
my rejection: I've had the hugest crush on a guy for 4 months. my friends know about this, and after swearing on the friendship to tell nobody, she freaking went behind my back and told him. she didn't even tell me. when in confronted her she pretended she hadn't. the guy was find and didn't act like I was weird but the thing is she went behind my back to tell him. and we're going to a party with each other in 2 DAYS.
@under_the_night_sky5380
@under_the_night_sky5380 8 лет назад
I know exactly how you feel. I told my friend who my crush was and she promised not to tell anyone. Days later, my crush stopped talking to me! And y'know what the reason was? My friend told her guy friend named Sal. And Sal told my crush that I liked him. I'm still upset until today.
@Goat-tb5te
@Goat-tb5te 8 лет назад
I know how u feel I had this crush on a girl and my freinds harassed her and embarrassed me in front of her then I appollagized to her for there poor behavior
@maxasante5206
@maxasante5206 8 лет назад
+Captain Pony never apologize. Just smile and laugh. You did nothing wrong.
@floorschooten9130
@floorschooten9130 8 лет назад
+Esther Coleman MSP My friend did that too and a few weeks later I had a relationship with my crush because apparently I was his crush as well and we were both too shy to tell each other.
@candlecove7590
@candlecove7590 8 лет назад
Nice
@accountantako4232
@accountantako4232 9 лет назад
I've been rejected eversince I was elementary, that's the crucial stage for development so I was affected so severely that until now at the age of almost 19 I feel like I'm all alone and will completely shutdown by just some random rudeness in the community. It's so SICK, how I wish I am not what I am and have the normal life.
@CalebCraft10
@CalebCraft10 8 лет назад
Heh. Easy for you to say. I've had to deal with 5 rejections over the course of about two months. -The first one was someone who flirted with me in the seventh grade and turned out to be a lesbian. -The second one was someone I had meet recently who had turned out to be a lesbian. -The third one was a girl I had liked in the eighth grade who said she thought dating was pointless, but I know she just looked down upon me because she's a lot smarter than me. -The fourth girl was the first girl's ex. That was an awkward conversation. -The fifth girl was a girl who gave me her number, smiled at me, was really nice to me, until I discovered she wasn't a virgin, she was a huge locker room talker, and she was already dating. All of these have proven to me that I am the inferior gender, I'm not smart enough, and I'm too innocent to date, and that I should give up and try to keep my sanity alone in life. Oh yeah, and I need to deal with horrible stress and aspurgers, while not having any human being prove to me that I can be something in the eyes of someone other than my parents. How do you fix this mess? 😳
@CalebCraft10
@CalebCraft10 8 лет назад
Bailwecan Nnnope.
@watchwellcast
@watchwellcast 11 лет назад
Going to a new school can be scary. Consider joining up some clubs or forming a study group with classmates in order to make new friends! Is this boy at your new school? Try and get to know him first... then check out our "How to Ask Your Crush Out" video!
@racheljohnson7177
@racheljohnson7177 9 лет назад
These kids in my neighborhood were sooooooooo mean to me and i was rejected by them. i dont know how to handle it. it happened a year ago, butbut i dont know how to cope with it. hope this vid helps!
@T.O.E.C
@T.O.E.C 8 лет назад
they not mature also be safe
@racheljohnson7177
@racheljohnson7177 8 лет назад
true. its 2016 im so over them!
@a1kurd927
@a1kurd927 4 года назад
I was talking with this girl for days and I found the perfect moment to tell her that I’m interested in her, she replies saying as friends I don’t mind. Ever since that’s happened my head has been warm and my chest feels weird, I feel really stressed and depressed. I’m trying to forget about her but I honestly can’t.
@666ozark
@666ozark 7 лет назад
idk if this really is related but someone please help: i've only ever liked one guy in my life and he seemed to like me too and it was going so well but he had this really major exam so I stopped texting him bc I didn't want to bother him and let him study. since then we became distant and we don't talk and when he passes by me he doesn't say hello anymore he just looks forward or at the ground and god damn it hurts
@JediPolock
@JediPolock 6 лет назад
Hm, one year ago and no one ever replied to you? Damb that must’ve hurt to. So how’d it go this past year?
@matt__r_9763
@matt__r_9763 5 лет назад
I don't care about being rejected I keep these useless and meaningless emotions inside me, but as soon as someone comes to talk to me I feel like my USELESS emotions are going to get out.
@kathrynvigil261
@kathrynvigil261 10 лет назад
What should you do if you are rejected by your crush?
@Ellesssssssssss
@Ellesssssssssss 4 года назад
I just got rejected and honestly I am not really that hurt by it. I was not really expecting anything out of my confession. I just sort of did it to get it off my chest. And he did it so nicely. He was really considerate of my feelings. I’m glad it’s over, ‘cause now I can finally move on and not stress myself over him. I’m glad I did it.
@danielle9550
@danielle9550 6 лет назад
"let's just be friends"
@georgeyousif9623
@georgeyousif9623 8 лет назад
what mentioned in the video was totally right look at your achievements, the rejection reasons no matter what happend now focus on your future be optimistic and feel the core of yourself no matter what people SEE remember they have deeper mistakes than you and you can get productive life
@eukaryoticcell3288
@eukaryoticcell3288 10 лет назад
Can somebody tell me what I should do? There are 5 days left of school, and 2 of my friends grew really close. We all had a sleepover, and then another the next weekend. This weekend one of my friends (we'll call her Penny) made a "truth is" video. All of them took place at my other friend's house(we'll call her Jenny). They said I'm like their bestie, but as they progressed over night, I noticed they took place at Jenny's house(a sleep over, of course). For a second, they flashed images of another friend. Jenny said that girl was barely her friend. A few weeks ago, at Jenny's house, her friend and Jenny were total ******* to me for no reason. They ran away from me laughing and said "We don't like you!". Jenny says it's a joke, but it really hurt my feelings. So the three were spending the night together, and didn't care to invite me? Both of them have been mean to me lately. Do they hate me? Or is it in my head? Please, I need to know. Thanks, bye.
@Skarletkombat
@Skarletkombat 10 лет назад
Tell them how you feel about it and if they don't care then fuck them their not your friends
@kmkilby1112
@kmkilby1112 10 лет назад
I suck we have 10!!!
@kmkilby1112
@kmkilby1112 10 лет назад
U*
@eukaryoticcell3288
@eukaryoticcell3288 10 лет назад
XD It's because my school started 5 days early
@DieHardW
@DieHardW 10 лет назад
Jassy Feilds They could have been using you for other purposes before, then when you run out of that "Luxury" that they liked off you is gone they just dont like you anymore... Still happens to me every day of my life..
@user-ur1wg4xq2h
@user-ur1wg4xq2h 6 лет назад
It's sad when we're rejected by our own family members - those who are supposed to be with us for life - my Sister & her family, one of my Brothers & his family, & my Son. Ever since my Mom passed on nine years ago, our family fell apart because She did'nt leave a will, therefore the money issues ensued, & caused estrangement issues. Estrangement is not normal, but in this day & age it has become the norm. It's a sad state of affairs. Thanks for posting these videos, & for trying to help people.
@Wwumzymumzy
@Wwumzymumzy 10 лет назад
What if you haven't accomplished anything?
@stormyferntree
@stormyferntree 9 лет назад
There is no such thing as 'haven't accomplish anything'. Living in this world for ___ years could be an accomplishment.
@lovemecom3832
@lovemecom3832 7 лет назад
Yes it’s really hurt being rejected. But it depends us how to react to that situation if we let rejection ruin our whole being or we will going to control and win for it and find another circle of friends.
@yourmom1775
@yourmom1775 8 лет назад
What do you do when your crush doesn't text you back
@heyboi6998
@heyboi6998 8 лет назад
cry
@LiveLoveSour
@LiveLoveSour 8 лет назад
fuck that bitch
@sallylemon5835
@sallylemon5835 8 лет назад
I delete my text and actually forgot that I have texted
@Thestr8noodle
@Thestr8noodle 3 года назад
I can still feel the pain inside from school of wanting to be with a group and them saying no and then a certain bully with his small group of friends decided to terrorize me at a park when I was looking to enjoy myself at the dock at golden lake park near my house Also being rejected from going to gatherings with the people who I thought were my friends, that part hurt far more because it made me question who my real friends are and developing trust issues with people. I've gotten rejected to the point where I don't feel much besides the sinking feeling. It's like I expect to be rejected harshly and get harsh criticism when I go up to someone. Life can be really harsh sometimes. Just have to keep moving I guess.
@TheFailMachine
@TheFailMachine 10 лет назад
This isn't the kind of rejection I was hoping to get advice on...
@kennethjackson4094
@kennethjackson4094 11 лет назад
I gotta say, if anything can give you hope, it's the wellscast
@kenmasgf7674
@kenmasgf7674 5 лет назад
My crush just rejected me soooo I’m here
@Meowthnoir
@Meowthnoir 5 лет назад
ive felt the same pain as u so i know how u must of felt but eventually that pain will turn to strength and u shall suceed but asking a boy/girlis not always easy so you obvious have guts
@kenmasgf7674
@kenmasgf7674 3 года назад
@@Isabella-uq6tr stay strong bestie😩🤚
@watchwellcast
@watchwellcast 11 лет назад
Thanks for the suggestion, we might do a video like that in the future. Check out our Social Life and Introvert playlists for videos on surviving social situations.
@oliharley
@oliharley 8 лет назад
It's a long story but there was this girl I liked and I got closer to her over the past few months. I was going to make the move but she texted me out of the blue (before making a move) saying: "You know I don't want to be any more than just friends right?" I replied with "Oh I gtg now" After I left, I watched TV for an hour since I was hurt and then later, checked my phone again. I got all these messages but they weren't from this girl. Some of the messages was from a guy in my class who I've always despised but I never told him that. Anyway, this guy started texting me and humiliating me because I got rejected. How did he know? My crush was having a group chat with him and another girl about how she was going to tell me that she's not interested. I get these messages and voice mails from the guy and he's calling me a 'pussy' and a 'faggot.' What should I do to him? Should I forgive the girl- I did stick up for her before but she didn't do it back? What should I do?
@shebrr
@shebrr 8 лет назад
Square up b
@autumnkelley1772
@autumnkelley1772 8 лет назад
well I'm only twelve but I think I know what you should do you should stick up for her. usually when a girl says something like that there is a reason behind it .😃
@oliharley
@oliharley 8 лет назад
+Autumn Kelley did you even read what I wrote? 😐
@flyandshy00
@flyandshy00 8 лет назад
+FIFAFever First of all, change your number and don't give your number for pricks like that.
@isabelll108
@isabelll108 8 лет назад
+FIFAFever I think that dude has a crush on her as well. And he's taking out his strange feelings on u. still , tell the gurl to tell her friend to fuck off .... ok no but u get the point. tell the girl that her friend is being mean and maybe she do something if not , u should not waste ur energi on them.
@watchwellcast
@watchwellcast 11 лет назад
I *think* the video you are looking for is called How to Move on and Find Closure. We also have How to Break Up but I think that's not quite what you are searching for? Comments section doesn't allow links; please visit our channel.
@spinlok3943
@spinlok3943 8 лет назад
I tried getting proactive but I still got rejected...
@Briselance
@Briselance 7 лет назад
Spinlok Then, take a step back and try to see what went wrong and why, and check if you have some control over the "why" it went wrong. Can't do anything? Then, that's sad, but that's the way it goes. Can do something? Then do it. As long as it's legal, moral, etc., but do it.
@ashley.nieland
@ashley.nieland 11 лет назад
3 words... BEST COUNSELLOR EVER
@jdemp232
@jdemp232 3 года назад
see i’m here just before i’m about to ask... just preparing
@jdemp232
@jdemp232 3 года назад
yeah it was rejection...
@aaronkendo1054
@aaronkendo1054 8 лет назад
My best coping mechanism for rejection is learning to spot the flaws in my crush or social group, or even a friend, the things I hate. It backfires sometimes, but it prevents you from asking out someone and getting rejected, as you don't ask somebody out if you hate them.
@thatonetwo5009
@thatonetwo5009 8 лет назад
Lol that's what I do
@nikkiaraujo5326
@nikkiaraujo5326 10 лет назад
how to get unsad if a love one dies
@Sprawl1978
@Sprawl1978 10 лет назад
Sorry to hear that I hope you find solace soon.
@nikkiaraujo5326
@nikkiaraujo5326 10 лет назад
ty
@Ryveigha
@Ryveigha 10 лет назад
Actually, I think Wellcast has a video on how to deal with grief so cjeck it out! I hope it helps and I'm so sorry.
@xDruidxHD
@xDruidxHD 7 лет назад
Its been 3 years, how are you doing now?
@fluffypup9576
@fluffypup9576 11 лет назад
I think WellCast is healing my mental health
@Ryansanders80
@Ryansanders80 8 лет назад
Instructions not clear, got rejected from notebook
@chuckf5540
@chuckf5540 11 лет назад
One of the biggest rejection in my/our life is the rejection of our success in Life. Our passion to travel, sometime using a motorhome, to visit this vast country and learn of other land yachts owners. We all share each others life and come away with knowledge. Family, on the other hand, is full of self-center drama brought about by 3 drama queens. We believe in ourselves and dismiss the idea that we are harmful to our family. They do not value anyone elses experience or advice. We are gone!
@zachclaxton5300
@zachclaxton5300 10 лет назад
I got rejected, and it didnt even hurt! Lol I dont find it bad at all!
@naellaloami5470
@naellaloami5470 9 лет назад
There should be more people like you in the world.
@blakesilvermark1
@blakesilvermark1 9 лет назад
Clari T. you should know something some people who haven't been rejected they don't take it well... and some people don't take it well period... so ya.. everyone takes things differently.
@coltonphillips7348
@coltonphillips7348 7 лет назад
Now I understand why I like Billy Joel's music so much!
@bumblebeefromtransformers6739
@bumblebeefromtransformers6739 8 лет назад
Just got rejected by my dog getting the pills now
@sniperfox5293
@sniperfox5293 8 лет назад
...
@B15muth
@B15muth 8 лет назад
i feel sorry for you
@bumblebeefromtransformers6739
@bumblebeefromtransformers6739 7 лет назад
Guys you were wrong it's been five months he still won't look at me
@kennethjackson4094
@kennethjackson4094 11 лет назад
i love that these guys listen to there people i have suggested this and note-taking and they have done them both, simply awesome.
@piper9373
@piper9373 8 лет назад
Sigh,crush stuff...
@icerulerking7382
@icerulerking7382 8 лет назад
Is this your crush? www.google.com/search?q=crush+drink&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjyorWyztvMAhXFTCYKHa5LAoMQ_AUIBygB&biw=1366&bih=657#imgrc=Z9x0vC48McUNmM%3A
@xeno4204
@xeno4204 8 лет назад
+ice ruler king OMG! I'm dying!! LMAO!!!
@icerulerking7382
@icerulerking7382 8 лет назад
Avi nottellingyoumylastname Do you need this? www.google.com/search?q=med+kit&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwj069790cLOAhXDOSYKHfB9BlcQ_AUICSgC&biw=1536&bih=751
@xeno4204
@xeno4204 8 лет назад
ice ruler king Yes!!!!! Thank you!!!!! LOL!!!!
@icerulerking7382
@icerulerking7382 8 лет назад
Avi nottellingyoumylastname What does League of Legends have to do with this anyway?
@spotty530
@spotty530 3 года назад
A while ago I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, I didn’t feel we connected the way couples are supposed to. All fine, we ended up in good terms and everything went organically. Later, I started getting my attention on a good old friend of mine, noticing how he was everything I asked of my previous relationships, we actually had lots of things in common, matched tastes and most importantly we were both bisexual. Ever since he became so nice to me I started feeling things for him, even flirted with him and got flirted back, but I think I was too suffocating, because after last night where I wasn’t exactly “subtle”, I’ve noticed how he’s more cold. He hasn’t really said “no” or “I don’t like you that way”, but I notice when things aren’t right.
@viviraptor
@viviraptor 10 лет назад
Could you do a video about beliefs and things you like? I like MLP but some people avoid me because of that.
@viviraptor
@viviraptor 10 лет назад
:D
@viviraptor
@viviraptor 10 лет назад
true XD
@roryrawrs3141
@roryrawrs3141 7 лет назад
This is nice to know that some people are good at healing people like this. And I think I can help too I was rejected but not as much as one of my friends so I will show this to help her :D
@farazturk1283
@farazturk1283 8 лет назад
i have crush on a girl but i am afraid to tell
@emmagrauf7344
@emmagrauf7344 8 лет назад
Just tell! the worse that can happen is that she said no. I said it today at my crush/best Friend and he said no but because of my other friends it wasn't hard our something (he said it very sweet so that's a second)
@tokiibun
@tokiibun 8 лет назад
Tell her. Don't let it drag on for months, like I did. It gets worse the longer you leave it. I was rejected, and it hurt like hell for a while, but you'll be okay :)
@emmagrauf7344
@emmagrauf7344 8 лет назад
chocolateflavourdetermination rejected squad 😅✋
@danielc12172
@danielc12172 11 лет назад
No matter how hard I try to forget and accept the rejection I had received 3 years ago, it just keeps coming back to haunt me. I was rejected from a girl that I had a small crush on when I was in middle school. When high school came, I began to develop feelings for her. When the time came for me to reveal my feelings to her, I was rejected. This rejection broke who I was. The reason why it is so hard for me to accept and forget this rejection is because she lives right next door to me.
@justenkey
@justenkey 10 лет назад
Shit happens.
@alissandra_green_offical2047
@alissandra_green_offical2047 10 лет назад
lol true ;)
@jonathanfernandez3301
@jonathanfernandez3301 10 лет назад
Hahaha
@justenkey
@justenkey 10 лет назад
ScriptedFail *****
@watchwellcast
@watchwellcast 11 лет назад
Many of the resources on our suicide episodes are also for those with depression. Check out organizations like the UK-based Samaritains or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. Depression is a treatable disease that won't go away overnight, rather that can be managed over a lifetime!
@Tashitoohot
@Tashitoohot 6 лет назад
From rejection I promised myself to never love again. Every time I'm in love I get rejected. It really hurts.
@fairymairah
@fairymairah 4 года назад
I've been Rejecting by Lots of Family Members and lots of People have been talking about how important Family is 🙄😑 !
@watchwellcast
@watchwellcast 11 лет назад
You're welcome!
@hayeon4153
@hayeon4153 7 лет назад
I worked hard for three months with two hours of sleep a day to make a portfolio for my dream school. My audition went great, but my interview was with a woman with very high expectations. She judged all my paintings and said that she didn't understand what my message was, and that I tried a little too hard and seemed desperate. I got my rejection letter a week later. All my friends got interviewed by another interviewer. They were all accepted. Ever since, I have been acting rather strangely, one second I would be thinking it was the best say of my life, and the second, I would be bawling and burning my paintings. People called me psycho, and my friends stayed away from me. I was rejected by my friends, the people who were accepted. I don't know what to feel. I can't focus doing m homework because I feel like I can't breathe. My hands keep shaking please help
@sweeteststrawberry2698
@sweeteststrawberry2698 7 лет назад
Tyler 'The Fangirl' This is speaking from someone that has had depression. GET SLEEP. The answer to succeeding at life is thinking about yourself first. It might be hard, but caring too much for others makes you become dependent on them.
@hayeon4153
@hayeon4153 7 лет назад
Chocolate Fudge Brownies! Thanks, I really should start getting more sleep
@IbrahimAli-ck3lt
@IbrahimAli-ck3lt 4 года назад
my friend really liked this girl but didn't realise that he was stuck in the friend zone ,so he told her about his feelings and she smiled and the two of us thought there was hope. boy were we wrong ,a few days later he received a DOUBLE SIDED rejection letter from her say how much she hated him for saying that and that obliterated all of his self esteem ,but man will marriage be a problem for him ,tragic.
@user-ur1wg4xq2h
@user-ur1wg4xq2h 6 лет назад
"Keep your friends close, & your enemies closer." Thank God that You Tube has never rejected me. It's my true daily companion. Thank you You Tube,. I don't know what I'd do without you.
@southparkstudios369
@southparkstudios369 7 лет назад
A group at school bent me over at school today, now I am depressed af.
@watchwellcast
@watchwellcast 11 лет назад
Yes, we have videos on how to break up and getting closure.
@sagek7949
@sagek7949 10 лет назад
Yay! That was so helpful! Seriously you are no less than genius. I love how you choose your topic , then pack it with gold and present it in such a short time frame! Your animators are very talented people! It is so much fun to watch these doodles.
@user-qj2kw8fb7f
@user-qj2kw8fb7f 7 лет назад
OMGG Thankyou so much WELLCAST! I LOVE WELLCAST! 🙌💕
@IggyPop251
@IggyPop251 11 лет назад
Yeah, it is terrible to be rejected, been there, done that. And I always remember that saying "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" to cope with it until you adapt to the new stand of things and can move on without any resentment or bad feelings, because grudges are also killers.
@Jay-vz1rv
@Jay-vz1rv 6 лет назад
0:38 wait remaining in control *REMANING* since when have I ever been in control😭😭😭
@NuraZen95
@NuraZen95 9 лет назад
Thanks for tips given. You know I've been rejected by friends (which I consider to be a friend) in school trips when I was 17 years old. On the last day of school trips, we stopped at shopping centre. A friend, A and I promise to walk together. I waited outside the restroom whena group of my friends coming in. They try to convince A to leave and go with them but A refused. At that time I knew that I was in fact rejected by people that I consider as my own friends. There was only me and A after that. And I realize that A was a true friends.... I asked her why she did not want to join them? She say that she feel lazy and tired to walk around. But I know that she tried to keep my heart from hurt by their actions. Thanks A :)
@bellefabella
@bellefabella 11 лет назад
Please do one about having depression, being socially awkward, and dealing with romance
@Isabelle-ws4gs
@Isabelle-ws4gs 6 лет назад
I just got rejected and I’m litterally balling my eyes out
@watchwellcast
@watchwellcast 11 лет назад
We have TWO videos about it already...bullying and cyberbullying. Please visit our channel to locate them!
@nazifatabassum7
@nazifatabassum7 6 лет назад
Its not always easy to make new friends..when you cant, you just need to learn to be strong alone
@xavierloeraflores9093
@xavierloeraflores9093 10 лет назад
Who else thought that they ment the skin product "ProActive"
@alissandra_green_offical2047
@alissandra_green_offical2047 10 лет назад
i did :)
@blopez9416
@blopez9416 9 лет назад
Yes I have like their whole line...
@jimward927
@jimward927 3 года назад
It's better to have a law that the people who reject needs to be put to a solitary confinement to experience loneliness just like their victims did. This is justice. Eye for an eye.
@phoebethefey
@phoebethefey 10 лет назад
I did this, before even watching the video after feeling low and it really does help. My only issue now is stress: I have so many different clubs and goals and motives that I get wrapped up in it all and there's never a moment to sit down!
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