Shams told me to post this on halloween because "scaryyy she gonna say boo to all the homophobes out there" so here we are I know a lot of people have done this video idea but I still wanted to do one too
This video is for anyone who supports bi dean. It’s for anyone struggling with their identity and finding a character to help them through that. It’s for anyone who feels alone and like no one like them is represented in their shows. It’s for anyone who’s been confused with who they are or made to believe it was wrong when it wasn’t. It’s for anyone who realizes how important something/someone like this is. It’s for anyone who didn’t struggle because they found characters to relate to and feel normal. It’s for anyone who feels it’s too late in their life to come out when it’s not. It’s for anyone just recently finding out who they are. It’s for anyone who wrongly believes being anything other then straight compromises your masculinity. If you don’t agree then that’s okay this isn’t about you I’m not trying to make everything gay or whatever you may think the “homosexual agenda” is it’s about the thousands of people out there who maybe were helped in some way by this, it may seem stupid and absurd to you but their feelings are real and valid and this is for them.
Thank you for this, I don't really have a friend to talk to and I want to come out to my dad but I don't know how and I recently watched the finale and it broke me. I feel so worthless and so alone. I need someone but there is no one bc I live in a homophobic country, too. So, yeah...sorry for ranting.
@@zhulimoon46 I live in a homophobic country too!!! Ahh I wanna come out so badly but am so scared too!! Might I mention that I am Muslim too, so that makes it a 1000x more harder to do that. So I feel your pain and just know that accepting who you are as a person you want to be or who you feel most comfortable with is way more important than coming out, it takes time.
@@mr.midgardville as a gay guy do you think its a big compliment to a girl if you flirt with her? At work one of my colleagues was flirted with by a gay guy
@@mackaylacook148 Depends on the girl. I'd imagine that, for example, for some party girl who's just in for some fun and doesn't take things too seriously, might be into it. But if a girl is looking for something "real", they might be hurt afterwards if it wasn't established that he's actually gay.
dean realising doctor sexy is fake because he was busy bashfully looking at his feet after being yelled at by his celebrity crush is sooo funny. the tumblr post that's like not only are you gay you are a bottom
@@Davidscomix The show itself is called Dr. Sexy featuring a dude as the MC and Dean himself said he like it because Dr. Sexy wears cowboy boots which is 100% his kink that's been proven. C'mon, it's obvious.
@Eliana B. True. I interpreted it that way, and while everyone is allowed to have their own interpretations, I just don't necessarily think that someone commenting "I don't know where you got that from" on a comment about someone else's interpretation is very useful, which is why I replied to it. Your explanation is valid, but I am just sharing mine.
@@muciSAD he was taken off guard since we've literally never seen another man hit on dean until this moment. In no way did it show that dean was interested in the guy 😑😑
I like this other version too for the same reason and for the hilarious editing (although I could do without the "chief" scene being included; that was just obviously uncomfortable): ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-4TfJ-FpZiKs.html
The thing thats's so interesting is that Sam never has these moments. It's literally all Dean. It can't be written off that "oh it's just the show's humor" or "every character has those scenes it's no big deal."
I suppose one could make an argument that it's the show saying Dean is socially awkward and it just comes off like this. But it just feels too constant to be the case. Plus, he only reacts this way with men. Even when he met (and banged) a literal ex-pornstar, he didn't fangirl and get all flustered the way he did with people like Dr. Sexy.
Actually he has he said in season 6 when he becomes a vampire episode I dont play for your team meaning hes straight and doesnt like guys sorry but this video is silly hes not bi
@@annabethcheese5841 no he didnt mean vampires because he didnt know that the guy was a vampire otherwise he would of killed him if you actually hear the guy flirting with dean and then he says I dont play for your team
He has said a few times "I don't swing that way" or "I don't play for your team". Not outright "I don't like guys". But Jensen has said he doesn't play Dean as big, even thought the script tells him to give Cass "Fuck me eyes "(their words, not mine.) Also, I think Jensen just looks like he wants to do everyone, all the time. Lol
@@deanwinchesterinthedarktower when someone says I dont swing that way or play for your team it means that there straight and dean is hes a ladies man he loves women like bond does I have no issue with gays but people are making it out to be that theres something there when there isnt
my favourite part about Aaron flirting with him, is that Dean could've easily just say "sorry I'm not into guys/ I don't swing that way" but he kept on rambling about fEdErAl iNvEsTiGaTiOn
Right. Did you know a couple producers did commentary on this episode saying that Dean was confirmed to be Bi and that they wrote it like that on purpose?
I just realize that Dean is really into cowboys, and it comes to my mind the fact that he made Cas watch cowboy movies, forced him to wear a cowboy hat (and snapped a photo) and the way he swallows when Cas says the movie line. Poor sheltered boy.
@@cai0409 Wasn't it a birthmark? The tattoo was on his arm. So he knew it was him because of the room number, wallet ID, and tattoo but chose to get a fourth confirmation.
The 'why do all these people keep thinking we're gay' line especially always stood out to me because it's exactly the sort of thing a closeted person would say. Sam didn't even care, he immediately dismissed it, but it was still on Dean's mind even that long after it had happened. He was still panicking about being assumed gay after the like 10-30 minutes it took to get settled into their room. We've all been there, we all know how it works. He's trying to deflect by pointing it out, bringing it up again so he can talk about how weird it was because 'wow that was weird huh and definitely not true!! I'm not into men, why the heck would they say that >:('
And also that scene when Henriksen arrested Sam and Dean and said that he "was happy to finally see them in chains" and the first thing Dean's mind came up with was "you pervert, but sorry we don't swing that way" or smth like that. Or that scene in the episode about Croaton in season 2 or 3, when Dean again mentioned that he "doesn't swing that way", even though it was kinda out of place to say and he said it just because reasons I mean, the dude is clearly in denial
Its less of an attractive thing and more of a celebrity thing. Like a completely straight guy getting nervous near Tom Brady because he idolizes him not because he's attractive
@@kevinscott9020 I get that you can be that way over a favourite celebrity of yours but Jensen himself said in an interview or at one of the Supernatural conventions years ago that Dean is canonically a bi male character on the show.
Maybe because there 15 seasons worth of him sleeping with girls meanwhile the only guys he’s ever hugged is his brother, father, and Castiel. Who is his best friend.
@@JOHN-eu2hv Dean stopped sleeping with women after season 8 (The first two episodes of season 10 don't count as he was a demon) if you hadn't noticed he wasn't interested after that lol and was more focused on Cas and his brotherly relationship with his brother. So how do you explain that? Erik Kripke himself stated that he based Dean off a bi character and he was written that way. Also, on screen you don't see Dean sleeping with many women actually and he has winked at and checked guys out on the show later on.
Dean: *gets flirted with by a dude* Guy: Sorry, I didn't mean to freak you out Dean: It's okay, just...federal investigation (never once indicates that he doesn't swing that way as the reason. Just that he's on duty I'm)
Castiel not being in this just proves the point all the more. Like, it not just Cas being the exception (by not really being a man, or being more than a man, yada-yada-yada), somehow "turning" Dean gay for him, or any other homophobic excuse. No, dude's just bi as hell, always has been.
Ok can we talk about how much Dean is into cowboys and doctors? There was dr sexy, when Cas pretended to be a doctor, when Cas wear the cowboy hat, the room full of cowboys in 13x06....
@@rytsyr9878 Oh, yes I know! Even I myself, as a straight female, have had a couple 'girl crushes,' so I understand that no one is completely 100% heterosexual. Sorry if my comment came across the wrong way, it was written quickly, with intended exaggeration, and as with all comments, should be taken with a grain of salt. :) But thanks for the info anyway, and your polite response :) Have a wonderful day!
@@rytsyr9878 I simply meant, regarding Dean, that a lot of people consider the possibility of him being interested in men as absolutely impossible, even disgraceful. And I was saying that it's obvious, through many many scenes and clues, that Dean IS in fact, interested in quite a few men. :)
I missed Cas, but at the same time I love the fact that he's not in any these scenes because it proves that Dean is just as much as a chaotic bi without him in the picture ♥
All I can think of is all those posts on how bi people where oversized flannel, or do awkward finger guns or thumbs up. And I just realize how fitting it is.
Tbh I feel like a lot of modern bi culture has been influenced by bicon and disaster gay Dean Winchester. Like, I grew up watching this and tried to dress with all the ridiculous layers Dean did, then whoop dee doop realised I was bi
I mean I started wearing way more flannel than I used to (didn't start with spn though) a couple years ago and I DID learn the fingerguns from him... and kept doing it cause I like it
I am pansexual and I have always liked flannel xD oh and I do awkward thumbs ups way more than awkward finger gun's but I can relate to a lot of bi stuff xD
Well yeap. He was a major influence in the way I dress and I'm a female bisexual. At that time I thought he was straight and so was I 🤣 and then at 15 yo the realization hit me hard
Out of all the moments in this video, the federal investigation is the most convincing one! Cause Dean otherwise would have been full macho and sarcastic, not bi panic and running into a table kind of panic.
In one hand i am glad they respected Jensen's bonderies and not made him kiss Misha( or any other male) One the other hand, there are so much more ways to show love that just kissing And they didnt do it Cause they are homophobic pricks
@@user-pi3hd2bt3f jensen is gonna play a canonically gay man in the boys called Soldier Boy. If the scene calls for it, he will be kissing a dude. The CW were just cowards.
WLW have the code phrase "do you listen to girl in red." I propose we use "I'm here for a federal investigation thing" into the bi vocabulary/flirting vernacular.
Dean is the most bi male character I've ever seen on tv, no one can change my mind coz I have eyes, it's not about a cute ship, it's about a closeted bi that isn't allowed to come out of the closet, so disappointing.
@Derrell S Uhhh I don’t know how to tell you this bud but....a startling percentage of women are into bi men or slightly feminine men. I dunno why particularly, but hello, black woman here who adores bi men. Mainly it’s the assumption they actually wash their ass but that’s another convo lmfao
And since when has he been good at emotions, and here’s his best friend telling him all this positive stuff about himself when he has a shitty self esteem, like did you actually expect him to be able to react
@@phoebeb7188 I think the reason the actors, Jensen at least, are avoiding it is because people started shipping them too. Just look at how boy bands fall apart because the fans start shipping them. Shipping characters is fine but leave the real people alone.
@@phoebeb7188 but Jensen IS homophobic, he openly hated on Brokeback mountain because the gAyS ruined the cowboy shit for him. Which leads to some questions, because he just can't act straight dudes
@@Karasuno86 imo he might have some internalized issues because he's had his questionable moments... or he could have changed over time (i just don't know any recent moments where he's been problematic but for him to agree on a scene like that w/ castiel and misha confirming that it was a romantic love confession must mean something good)
It’s wild to me that shows like this don’t just pull the trigger. Someone is clearly writing this character to be bi, but the show itself prefers to leave it as subtext. I know some people would probably be upset if a character was canonically Bi, but at the same time who cares of those people’s sensibilities are offended?
I think what it boils down to is that Jensen Ackles wasn't comfortable playing a gay character specifically a gay character that is in a relationship with a character played by a longtime friend whom he worked with most days. I'd totally be terrified to have to play lovers with a longtime friend, especially one who's friends with a lot of your friends and who's significant other is friends with your significant other. Too many risks to friendships that way in fear of catching feelings or just being incredibly uncomfortable and awkward. It'd be totally different if they knew from the beginning that this was what the story was going to build to and this is a key part of who the character is. If they auditioned for a role knowing upfront that the character is gay or bisexual then it'd be much less complicated I'd imagine, especially if the lover is played by someone you are just starting to get to know. I don't think Jensen Ackles should be accused of being homophobic because he was uncomfortable playing this character as bi or gay because it'd involve romantic scenes with a longtime friend. I imagine if Misha and the character of Cas was a woman but all the same circumstances of having the same friends and knowing each other a long time, that it'd feel equally uncomfortable and risky to the friendship. I don't think he should be shamed for wanting to prioritize the friendship outside of the show and arguably keeping the chemistry consistent in the show.
Dean is so far from straight, it’s not even funny. He got a goody two shoes angel to fall in love with him, break the rules repeatedly, and it’s like what more evidence is needed? None I tell you. None.
For all the people saying that Dean’s said “I don’t swing that way/for your team” multiple times, notice how he’s only said that when talking to antagonistic characters, the minute an innocent seeming guy flirts with him he doesn’t once even think to mention it, he uses it more as an insult/humiliation way when talking to the vampire, etc.
Honestly, as a female bisexual, I can say that it happens just like that. I can't flirt my way with guys but when a girl I like is around I am a disaster, the nervous, the expectations, the adrenaline omg 💀 he is indeed bi.
me too I'm like "hello!! you are amazing!... : D ...*cant take eyes away* *doesnt know what to say but feels tingly and adrenaline filled**giggles and gets nervous*"
Ain't that truth😭there was this one girl(she's very pretty)that was telling me that a teacher was calling for me the other day. I lost my breath, forgot how to talk and blushed all at once. Had to take a deep breathe just to say "alright". Bro c'mon💀
@@chocolateiguess1613 best is before I realised I was bi. Staring at women's breasts and butts and faces is totally normal, right? Getting nervous at certain women with butterfly stomachs and wanting to kiss them is normal straight behaviour.... right!!??!?
@@elliesart_ me and you🤝we the same. The mental gymnastic i used to do to justify my attraction to girls😭i used to think i was staring at women's breast bc i was insecure about my breast size and that the fact that holding my girl friend's hands made giddy inside was bc "pLaToNiC fEeLiNgS"🤡. Oh boy let me tell you the day i realized that wasn't the case i cried my eyes out(i had internalized homophibia)
So, I’m not apart of this fandom but I came across this video - How are there people who think this dude’s not bi? It’s clearly heavily implied, no one’s hiding anything
@@Fearienify “everything I do is heterosexual” hope that was just a joke, cause the only heterosexual thing you can do is liking women -(or men if you a woman)- that’s it.
I love how Dean is super chill and smooth with the ladies then the moment a dude hits on him or he meets a guy he thinks is attractive he becomes a complete stuttering and akward mess and doesn't know what to do with himself 😂
Apparently Jensen himself confirmed in a interview years ago that he was written canconcially as a Bi guy. And I've never even watched the show, and it's clear that he's Bi lol. I'm only here bc of Soulja Boy
To this day I do not know HOW they directed the Dean's reaction to the Aaron/"eye magic" thing without expecting us to think he was bi. Like, just imagine if Aaron tried to flirt with Sam instead? If Sam even noticed him making eyes then Sam would just be polite and flattered. Not LOUDLY FLUSTERED AND NERVOUS.
I once heard the DVD commentary for that scene (Kripke and Sera Gamble I think) and that was apparently all Jensen. He chose to play Dean as slightly flustered with a hint of interest so we have Mr Ackles to thank for this now iconic scene 😂
I genuinely think the sole reason his "hetero" attractions were so played out in the first few seasons was because he was trying to overcomepensate or surpress himself. Also that whole siren thing just, Dean Winchester is an elite teir bisexual
PLS 5:47 ALWAYS GETS ME WHEEZING LIKE TWO LADIES LITERALLY PASS HIM BUT HE CHECKS OUT THE SOLDIER tip: play it on .5 speed you won't regret it I promise
This is the best Dean is bi edit I have ever seen, the tweets that you put in are so perfect and the fact that you give context for alot of the scenes is so brilliant, not to mention the editing is hilarious. Honestly, I’m in love with this whole video :)
do you remember how sam told dean that internet is filled with not only naked people (or smth like that)??? like naked PEOPLE??? why didn't he just say "women"??
For those saying "He's not gay he just looks like he wants to do anyone all the time" as a 'defense', you realize is kind of the point, right??? Bi Dean should be canon. I said it.
“We’ve done extraordinary things to triplets, all of which has been massively entertaining - I’ll treasure our Flickr albums forever!” Good god that is one of the most underrated moments, I love how soft Dark!Dean makes Crowley 🥰😆
I HAVENT WATCHED THE SHOW AND ONLY SAW MEMES ON TWITTER AND I DIDNT KNOW HE HAS A DEEP VOICE ITS SO FUNNY CAUSE HE LOOKS SO SOFT AND THEN HES LIKE hey KSNSJDN
I was very....oblivious to these scenes when they happened. So I thought the people that pushed "destiel" were reaching...but now...................holy shit i'm convinced.
Okay I’m commenting again bc y’know, if someone not in the fandom watched this, they probably wouldn’t realize Dean hasn’t been confirmed as bi or dated a boy
I used to be a fan when i was 14. I was in many fandoms back then and shipped almost everyone with everyone, so coming back here i was expecting to see a totally straight guy and laugh at my teenage gay obssesion. BUT ITS NOT THE CASE DEAN IS AS BI AS IT GETS
I got into SPN again recently after being into it in the early 2010s or so and I cannot, to this day, understand how this wasn't 100% intentional from writers, creators, and Jensen Ackles. I got trolled so hard by this show.
0:30 this show really likes to keep an awkward angle so you can just *feel* those gay moments 0:45 I kinda doubt they would do a subtle "haha gay" joke in this situation of all times 0:57 They also really like to just keep questions unanswered, which most of the time means "yes" 1:07 WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS 1:16 IT'S NOT EVEN A JOKE HE WOULDN'T KNOW ANYTHING THAT HAPPENED IN THIS SCENE IF HE WASN'T INTO DUDES 2:23 he acts like a highschool boy talking to their crush. 3:03 One thing I've learned the more they sexualize words and sentences the most chances of them being gay. Personal experience. 3:55 HOW DOES HE KNOW THAT IF HE *SUPPOSEDLY* ISN'T-ugh. 4:01 the whole scene with that guy is just gay panic. Also may I point that out that he rocks a similar style to Castiel? 5:47 WHAT IS THIS HDASUGKDIAKUGIDAWG 6:22 HE WASN'T YOUR GAY THING, *YOU* ARE YOUR GAY THING (and Cas), YOU ARE *BISEXUAL* 7:00 It's actually very common to use the lightning on scenes to foreshadow something on a character. And I've definitely seen plenty of foreshadowing of sexualities via the lightning of a bar/disco (?). The most common one is the bi flag since it's the easiest to recognize and make. 7:33 of course this goes deeper than things about his sexuality, but it plays a part here. It's not subtle if you take all of the many previous scenes into account. I think what I got from this is: Sam's done with Dean's closeted ass bs. EDIT: Also shoutout to Sam for being such a supportive brother. A massive Ally if I've ever seen one.
Everyone saying that there needs to be Gay Cas scenes in this video doesn't understand they did put all the gay cas moments in this video, it would end up being 3 hours long.