Expecting me to be quiet when my X is dragging my mom as if his mom is perfect should be illegal. I refuse to be the bigger person in expense of my mental health akebeee
The fact that l don't see anything wrong with this video means that l am a little toxic as well.🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am here for the drama.People will continue to drag you because in the black community a women is also shamed for speaking up for herself, we are meant to take it and keep quiet, because if our aunts and grandmother's survived it ,then we are expected to stick it out.Imagine 🚮.
You have every right to defend your Mom vele .I would too. But did Big lie on that voice note that's what people want to know?we still waiting for you to say he lied my mom didn't sleep with her Sister's husband! My stepmother is not my aunt . People want to know is your Mom(may she rest in peace ) part of Mihlali's gang or the side chick gang that sleeps with married?also if she is the second wife it does mean she dated a married just like bo Mihlali and them. So Mihlali might marry Leeroy also you never know .I mean your Mom did graduate as well. I mean they can't get married out of nowhere right. You have dragged Big Guy's parents even way before be revealed this. Your mouth is as dirty as your white tongue!you revealed sensitive information about Big Guy's family even before he revealed this. You can spit it out but can't swallow it,shame on you ! Both of you drag each other we enjoy the entertainment,make fools of yourselves😂
Keep on responding but at what cost? I wish I could delete messages, comments before you see them…you felt somehow when Jecky came for you while you guys had a history, but you did the same for Promise n to ur ex husband as always…we even know thier house plan coz of you, we know how useless n a domkop he is….Owamie I just want the entertainment commentary channel back…I don’t mind opening ur dm’s, comments before you do so I delete all the nonsense (kidding kidding, I’m a health care work working 7-7-that profession you left😫)….but can’t you ask ur cc to filter n delete some things when she’s not busy or during school holidays 🫠
Maybe we don't get it because we were not emotionally involved with BG but from where I'm standing in the broader scheme of things this guy doesn't matter. Don't respond to their videos, we also now know your experience dating him so keep moving. You reacting makes people now want to go watch what they said about you. Your channel moves from being a celebrity blogger to now your kwaal with the Hlongwane's, it's not a good look.
You and big guy same Whatsapp group Ninja, it’s time to move on and officially close this chapter it’s really not worth it. You look so drained please go for therapy and take good care of your health. Unpacking and airing your dirty laundry on Socials won’t help any of you. You are both behaving like teenagers and dragging your parents in all this mess is very childish and disrespectful. You must also learn to take responsibility and accountability for your actions, remember you were not married traditionally Owamie, you paid your own Lobola meaning you were so desperate for this marriage at the time and that is okey, that was the biggest mistake you have ever made Owamie your problems with this man started there, you were never his wife, you literally wifed yourself, if there is such an English. Please do yourself a huge favour, forgive yourself for making the most stupid decision in your life, there is no undo button unfortunately and it’s ok we are here now. Seek professional help, heal and move on. This back and forth won’t change anything you’re just delaying your healing process. May this be the very last video of you talking about your Ex husband and anything or anyone revolving around him. CLOSE THIS CHAPTER AND MOVE ON!!
I agree but I I blame both partner y do they keep on fighting while divorce is over they should move on both of them . Exposing themselves nou I don't see a point of that.
This video has just confirmed that you should have never brought Big Guy and his family on the internet, the first time we tried telling you. You are not the 1st woman on the planet to go through a divorce. Even Lovelyti went thru one and we dont know the details yet she is a blogger. The slow learner that you are shting on is the one that helped you start your channel from a cellphone and bought you data and got a faster hardrive and boosted your laptop so you can edit and upload. The computer science graduate. The slow learner that would let you record them even though we could all see that he does like cameras in his face. If you dont see anything wrong with this I completely give up. As much as you made compromises he did as well that is what is called a marriage. Heal Mtakabawo and leave Promise alone. Ps: that recording is from a over a year ago and you did not address anything in that recording.
Now uyasabisa, There is nothing you haven't told us about BigGuy's family. The one that took you in when you had nowhere to go. Now claiming that you will embarass them. If you had anything on them you would have definitely said it, that's just the person you are. We have been telling you forever stop being judgemental and speaking ill of others as if you are perfect. Funny how your channel was all about dragging others and making money out of it and now you the one being dragged worse on the same channel. Karma seriously works in mysterious ways. I am not laughing just suprised that we find ourselves here. Remember when Lerato was crying because of you!!! Remember when you were rushing to be the first one to report about Mbali's divorce!!! Not even your Venda eye saw this one coming
They are not claiming your mom was a cleaner and your step mom couldn’t clean. The burning issue here is that YOUR MOTHER MARRIED HER SISTER’s HUSBAND. YOUR MOM AND STEP MOM ARE SISTERS.That’s the burning issue here and you neither denied nor confirmed those allegations which I find to be a 🚩🚩🚩 considering how judgemental you are toward the likes of Mihlali and Sithelo.
My grandma once said don't spill your dirt to your husband no matter how much your family stresses you because one day when you fall out you'll hear him say "yingakho uAunt wakho athakatha" lol 😂.
But guys y’all are so funny so Big guy is not allowed to talk about Owamie but yena she’s allowed to talk about him and his family? I personally think his also going lower since Owamie is the one who started talking about his family.. They’re both wrong period and y’all will be praising Owamie saying she doesn’t lie no guys she does lie to us🤞🏻 i love her but she has to know some people take it until it’s enough as she said!!
Guys that audio is an old audio. Owamie you don't respect yourself and others . You have been dragging his mum for years. You need to stop, it's so childish. No one came on the internet to speak about big guy on the internet. You did that. You brought it upon yourself and your husband decided to stand up for himself. The fact that you want to bring up secrets means he is telling the truth.
This phuma silwe way of life will cost you more than you are willing to pay, but ke go on bring the drama and entertainment at any cost. Consumers will click in and out qha and leave you entangled in this never-ending drama. Remember this there many who love your work and care about you but to others you are an entertainment option
This is sooo sad. Unfortunately this is your real life, your siblings’s life and your father’s life…and entertainment for the followers. Please put yourself, your family and your mental health first. The people that are hyping you are sitting behind the keyboard enjoying tea with their families.
Yep, she doesn't get it. She is like the unpopular kid who is finally popular, always doing too much to please the wrong crowd. I think she is struggling to understand that what she has with her Ninjas is just a parasocial relationship, I think most RU-vidrs know this, she seems to be struggling with the concept.
Your husband is always wrong/incorrect and you are always correct . It means you are always correct ? All the the beef you had you are the innocent one . Okay .
Watseba Owamie is toxic hle😂 The same way you were trashing his family and he can do the same thing hey..You love dishing nonsense but get emotional and shtt when its done to you..I love your videos mara wa bora aowa
You can't cry wolf when they talk about your mom being a side chick and having been married by her sister's husband when you've been talking about his family & parents chile. Hypocrisy lala You can't now come here & say "we're not our parents mistakes".
When Owami was coming for her ex's family, the witchcraft, their poorness the hiv was ok and he has to keep quiet. You can still lobe her but differantiate between right and the wrong from her.
@@neosjournal_ you guys are enabling her instead if advising her. She is now calling her ex nasty names, domkop, slow etc. Forgetting that she kipited with him for a long time and even paid her own lobola but now because things did not go according to her she is coming for him. All the years she stayed with him was he not domkop, was he not slow. He started to be all this nasty things after divorce. If you really love her like you claim, she must go seek professional help. How is it that everyone is rubbing her the wrong way. Fellow youtubers, her family.(dad). Not so long ago she was fighting with Lulu also calling her domkop, then Kedi, Jackie, Promise etc the last is endless. At some point you need to check yourself and ask yourself Why? All these people are after her, she us the victim in all this or she is telling her experiences. Few months ago itcwas car guards and securiity guards who shelad her becausevshe was not wearing a make up and weave. That on its own sats a lot about her. If you listened to her attentively she contradicts herself a lot. When she started talking about her dad, she painted a bad picture about him. Today she says her father tried his best to treat them equally. The question is why is he taking him to court for maintenance if the old man did his best for all of them according to her today. It's back and forth. You need to love her enough to see when she is not right.
Then talk abt things u can be accountable for too.. she was there, she witnessed it, it's part of the story.. not I heard that this and that.. tell me how u going to talk abt ur past life and not be able to explain why u couldn't go to "ur room" without passing passing by ur inlaws bed room and not try to explain how the rooms were structured... The HIV was part of her story ... She was the one taking HIV test.. yooh mara how is this the same?? Ur explaining something that happened to u, and the other person, instate of explaining what happened to them where u were involved, they talk abt how ur mother got to become pregnant with u😅😅 like really, where were u there??? See how completely different are the 2 things??
So vele vele you guys are going to share each other's dirty laundry on the internet? It's true what my mom used to say gore never ever share your family shenanigans with your man because once it ends, he'll use them against you. Yoh go boima hleng.
You know what's sad? When her genuine followers told her to stop dishing out her family staff with the understanding of every families have their own things, she didnt listen. She continued airing the Hlongwane's things out of anger and in the name of sharing her journey . Now that her family staff are being talked about it's only now she realizes that weeeh all families have issues. But ke we move..... Edit: we are all broken in our own different ways and there is nothing interesting and amazing about coming for each other's flaws.
@@maloasevilakazi3853True. There is no perfect family and whatever they're sharing here can never be of shock to anyone, except it shows that they both lack integrity
@@maloasevilakazi3853 but the hlongwane's have been airing things about Owamie..the only difference to me is that those one's were airing via one on one gossip in the community but owamie is using RU-vid to retaliate or vent v...
I've come to the conclusion that Owamie is extremely narcissistic. She also comes accross as being bitter. Perhaps having such a big platform on RU-vid has caused moghel to become self involved and self indulgent because phew.....she loves to throw punches but whenever they are thrown her way it turns into a hour video with justifications and explanations for HER behaviour. I have never heard her claim her parts in anything. It's always what the other person or persons have done. She can talk about whatever but when the shoe is on the other foot she runs to the courts. My sister you must be able to eat what you dish out to others. And I mean that sincerely. It's enough now hayi ke. Furthermore....you did not debunk or refute or PROVE...what he said to be incorrect...the other thing that's making me wonder now is the way you've been explaining to us, how your father treats YOUR MOTHER'S children.....hmmmmm. One can only wonder. Also, the fact that you actually took the other girl to court....for saying LESS damning things about you that your ex has done....and you only issue a WARNING to him.....I would've done the same as it pertains to what big guy has said about you. As for "I don't have to explain myself to anyone...."....BUT YET.....You're STEADY on here explaining yourself. And the one time it's something you might not be able to refute...now you choose peace???? And now you're saying your father treated you fairly with all your other siblings....but PREVIOUSLY you stated your dad did not care about you and your mother's children......even in her death. So which is it because now I'm confused hle. But I digress.....
So would be quiet when your parents were dragged? Dont lie. She did the right thing. She said that her father treated them the same. Which ear were you listening with? He treated them all badly. Your point is your point no matter how worped it is.
@@charlottehanyane3443u r so funny, the hypocrisy is real. It's the fact that u enjoyed story times of a man and his family for the longest time. The man speaks for 1 minute there is an hour of the most useless video that doesn't even deny anything because the truth is the truth. Insulting a man for filth does not mean he lied. She brought the parents here, not him.
Aker I called her out when she made that soweto video than deleted the video. Her ninjas made her think she's some sort of Celebrity. Now she was talking about big guy D n sex toys were suggested. If big guy replied with pushy smells. Then she's gonna cry wolf😅😅😅ai this girl wenu tires me
But the allegation wasnt that you werent close to your siblings. Nor was the allegation wasnt that you didnt grow up in a polygamous marriage. The allegation was HOW the polygamous marriage arose - ie through infidelity. And Owamie has not denied this in the video. Saying that she didnt tell big guy this story is not her denying that the story is true. Her saying big guy is a liar is not an affirmative statement of whether in THIS INSTANCE did he lie or not. All she did was DEFLECT big time. Owamie deflects & talks in circles which is a classic narcissistic trait. Now is it our business? No. Does she have to explain it? No. However, the Hlongwane's personal affairs werent our business either but Owamie chose to air their dirty laundry. We didnt need to know the Hlongwane's homes etc. And THIS is what irks me about Owamie. Her hypocrisy. Im a ninja but im not blind to this. Big guy was DIRTY LOW for what he revealed. But Owamie has also gone very low before about his family. Vent about big guy but to come after his family was a line Owamie crossed long time ago. From my observation i think ALL PARTIES ARE WRONG HERE. Owamie was wrong to speak about his family for over a year. Big guy was wrong for speaking about Owamie's mother. Vault was wrong for being a messenger of this nasty information. Nonke niyafana. Akekho ongcone. As a ninja, I hope Owamie learns from this and stops airing the Hlongwane's laundry AND starts being careful about sharing too much about her own family because people that hate her are saving her videos (Vault admitted to doing this openly) and will do everything to use her past against her. Its not good for Owamie's mental health so i hope for her sake she closes the big guy chapter for her own peace. Some ninjas are just here for the tea so they stir the pot. But if you care about Owamie as your favourite blogger you would see that this back and forth is not good for her wellbeing, mental health included. Walk away Owamie. You have a good platform that doesnt need this drama.
Haibo I understand you saying that Owamie has been venting and big guy and his family but who started venting? Cause it’s big guy when he went to the vault …
@@TheeMsutut didn't big guy say he went to Vault to air his side of the story as response to Owamie speaking about him and his family? Personally, I never listened to vaults videos when she interviewed big guy because I thought what Vault was doing back then was low. And I didn't want to cosign it by giving her views. My understanding of what big guy said in those videos stems from Owamie's own videos when she was addressing what was said in those interviews. So unless I misheard something from her own videos in the past, I understood that big guy was responding to Owamie speaking about him first. And Owamie defended herself by saying that this was her personal story because she was married to the Hlongwane family. So if that is true then she opened up the can of worms first. I understand it was part of her healing process but she did open the can of worms. That's why I say the best thing is for her to close this chapter for her peace of mind. Big guy and Vault are out for blood now - metaphorically speaking - and I don't see them backing down. Owamie needs to starve the beast and no longer give them the attention. She has a great channel with good content that doesn't need this drama.
@@zb182 Haibo bethuna RU-vidrs always talk about their experiences and there’s no point where Owamie lied about Big guy or spoke Ill of him cause she only spoke about the fact that she’s divorced and she’s divorced due to cheating from BG’s side then big guy went ahead and spoke lies ku the volt as his side of the story when this was not about his side but rather his bruised ego that Owamie walked away and it was also a way to tarnish Owamie’s name.
@@zb182 but I get your point when you say that they are out for blood and she must keep it moving-I totally get it and to a certain extent I agree but at the same time BG will keep walking on Owamie’s head until when?
But that doesn't mean you do no knw that you married you sister owam loved that guy but cheated on her bcz he's being love, he didn't see divorce coming
You shouldn't have responded to this and just kept it moving.They now know your weakest point.They will keep on attacking and it's not good for your mental health.Eventually this will take it's toll on you
My sentiments exactly, Owamie I wish you wouldn't entertain such issues ever again....nalo Big Guy wakhona is probably rejoicing where he is, especially when you say this has somehow affected you emotionally & mentally....going forward try not to respond to such things - I know it's easier said than done , but I promise you it'll never end. The worst part is that this is all on the internet 😒 Wish you guys would not do this to each other considering you were once married but eish its really getting out of hand now....
But Owamie u have been making story time about Big guy and his family for long time he finally decided to air your family as well u get angry if u troll ppl long enough they will respond finally🤷♀️ gossiping about ppl and not expecting them to respond is wild to me.. but anyway do you shibubu u stil havent agreed or denied the allegations 😏😏... we love u but we should also be able to tell you the truth
Ever heard the saying "sometimes silence is the best answer". As much as you both say you've moved on, it's pretty clear there's still a lot of unresolved issues. You've clarified a lot that was said about you which is fair & justifiable but I think you dont have to retaliate everytime something is being said about you. My 2 cents is "Never wrestle with pigs, you' ll get muddy & the pigs will love it". I pray you find healing & close this chapter because this is just toxic nje.
@@zamanguninxumalo6014 Couldn't agree with you more hence my comment above. I hope oneday she wakes up and realizes that something's are just not worth her time and energy. Love and light to her 💗
But honestly Owamie, konje how did we know that his Gogo is a witch and he has an HIV positive cousin that wanted to infect you all of which now the people of Vrede now know who they are? Like there is a Gogo whose life maybe compromised since now they can add 2 and 2 together? The cousin who now Vrede people now know exactly who is. Did he also spoke about your Gogo or your cousin at the time? My suggestion to you is that maybe it is time to visit a psychologist and speak to a professional. They are qualified, not related, not your friends and not Ninjas, their opinion advices will be best and not biased. If they suggest some calming meds for a while, it may help just for a while and please remove the stigma from people that drink meds for mental health, sometimes we need those even more than them. Maybe you will block me after this comment, that will also be fine. Please please please focus on ways to make money, spend less time on things that may impact negatively on your image. Fighting people all the time takes a lot from you. You are only 33. Happy 33rd birthday doll. You have a very long life, you cant spend holding fists. You fought is enough, open the fists let go of the anger they hold. You do not have to fight every battle. Some man must come and find a peaceful woman that is ready to love and be loved. Yes you are spoken about unfortunately it is not good news but it is things that actually happened. This is your real life, you don't want to get into a family that already know you from the internet and then they dislike for all these things. They will be building protection walls against you in fear of what is happening now. Sorry if this is offensive but as a person that has also shared something about my ex on the internet as well to other, I felt this is necessary.
I wish you told us if your step mom is also your aunt (mom’s sister) but it okay. You can’t be held accountable for your mom’s actions nor can we expect you to not speak against it just because your mom did the same (allegedly). Anyway I honestly believe you need to stop giving this guy so much airtime…Him and the youtuber, it’s not worth it. I mean here you are telling us about his parents having kids out of wedlock as if that’s not normal in most black households. Anyway I still love you and understand why you’re reacting like this….
This is sad, bt still you the one who started this over sharing abt his life n his family , now that he is doing the same you wanna dictate what, how n when he should share.
With all due respect Owamie. How is it okay that you can do story times about your ex husband's family members countless times, but it's not okay when the tables are turned?
The stories were about the things they did to her not intimate details about their lives that have absolutely nothing to do with her. She only talked about incidents that involved her or her own experiences with the family.
@@pelomk9022 6 le 9 kuyafana..oksalayo le yena she said horrible things about guy le family ya gaye..yall can justify as much as you want, but Owamie started all of this..
Aaaybo cc you've been pressing the buttons all along and he has been quiet. He is now probably owning his crap. Please stop Owami, I beg you, breathe in and out.
Get life Owamie and move on. You say lots of contradictory stuff about your ex. We only hear you talk about him. Keep quiet and move on,unless you’re doing it for views.
You both need to move on,we shouldn’t know any of this,but we will listen and watch because we like Sgaxas🤣🤣.But shem,this is low,from the both of you.I wish you would take a page out of Beyonce’s book and not waste your time addressing every single thing said about you,people will always talk but you know your truth and that’s all that should matter.
Who gave you this good home training that you kept telling us so much about? The very mother that definitely became a side chick to another woman's husband. So the only difference between your mother and Mihlali is that the Mary Jane in your father's life allowed your mother to be taken in as a second wife darling. You see throwing stones while living in a glass house is dangerous? Judgement is always bad for humans.
The moral of the story: when you are fighting with your ex, never drag their parents because you won't like it when they do the same to your parents 🤣🤣🤣
Here is my opinion as someone who has watched Owamie for a while and have kept up with most of the drama she is involved and dragged in: 1. Owamie loved Big guy, Owamie protected Big and she has also provided for him, this has created some sort of resentment from him, evident by him trying to bring her down since he partnered with Lynn, who has grown her channel by using Owamie’s name, in the name of: I bring the truth about her (Owamie), Owamie has a her flaws, but what is out there about her? ridiculous 2. Regardless of Lynn’s views on bringing the truth about Owamie, she has always been malicious, obsessed and annoying, there’s a way to point out inconsistencies about someone’s story/actions, which i must point out, she hasn’t done, all she did was partner up with the ex and go on a smear campaign 3. As much as we want to avoid it, Lynn and Big guy are tarnishing Owamie’s name, everytime Owamie is involved in a fight or is being dragged into a fight, those videos are brought up, one way or another, Owamie has clarified her side to those but a story that paints someone bad is always preferred than the one that paints her good or corrects the lies that have been spoken. 4. Whenever Owamie makes a video about big guy or his family, most of the time it’s her clearing up the mess the mother created or a video was made and she had to respond (whether we agree or not, Owamie is a brand). 5. Big guys stories always have contradictions, A LOT, his stories never make sense, but that is the point of him speaking, he is not here to make sense, he is here destroy Owamie 6. With this video, it shows Owamie knows ALOT about that family, all their dark secrets? she knows them, what we know is the tip of the iceberg, why is she now speaking or hinting about those? THEY SPOKE OF HER DECEASED MOM AND SHAMED HER FOR THINGS SHE DOES NOT KNOW, as for Lynn? pure evil. There’s a lot I can continue to type but ey, I enjoy and love who Owamie is on the internet, her content is top tier and she has done great for herself, I am one of those who agrees with Owamie most the time but also call her out when she does something wrong, Lynn wants to paint Owamie as an evil person, to a certain extent, she has achieved that, but with that, I hope her newly found “success”, will be stable and long lasting, especially seeing how she wants to destroy another woman.
Hence they were married, i believe they were made for each other, even shhhhhhmoney doesnt make a difference in Queen Ninja, this is who she is, same level with BG
The Ninja's are not to be trusted. You were all fans of BigGuy now you all are saying you want to fast forward him he speaks so slow. When you were all saying you want to see more of him ngesikhathi kusemnandi, didnt you all see he speaks slow. You guys ngiyanisola yini laba enihlomekisa u Shboooobooo 🤣🤣
I’ve been on this channel since 2019 and not evn once did I click on a video of them together when they were still together… only knew about him during their divorce. All in all I can safely say his voice really annoys me😂1.7 speed is very important🤣🤣🤣
Also, stop telling married people how to live their lives AWUNGENI NDAWO! Promise did not make those babies, her husband did! It is her choice to accept those kids or not. Stop projecting your childhood trauma's on other people's lives!!!!
Owamie you didn’t clear anything. I don’t see how Big guy lied. All big guy exposed was how your mother came into the marriage. You never disputed this on the video so where is the lie? 🤔
We Ninjas will be the end of our Queen Ninja's dignity because we enjoy the drama soo much and we even blinded or fail to tell her the truth. even real friends i mean physical friends would not tell you the truth when you wrong how much more cyber friends? people here online feed on your misery your tantrums and you hanging your dirty linen. this would not have been here if Owami has discernment knowing what to address and what to ignore. Owami calls people with deregatory names, we applaud her, she says the nastiest things about people but when she is served the same bs she goes ballistic. kungi nje and it gets kuningier........
You said a mouthful.I'm scared for her yazi.This is getting out of hand.I wish she could see that this is only entertaiment to the ninjas and nothing else
@@julietkaunda9600 i wish she could understand that they do not love her the way she think they do. She is one of the manj bloggers they follow. they follow everyone she beefs with for a scoop, no one’s interest at heart but for their pure entertainment and gratification. Yena she busy making a fool of herself 🥹💔
@@dineomoeketsi408 this is sad and people who enjoy watching another person committing such to themselves there should surely be something wrong with them. This is sad.
People need to stop telling people how to deal with her history with her ex, we all deal differently. Some heal better by keeping quiet and moving on and others heal by sharing her their story.
It was disrespectful for him to narrate your parents marriage as if he was there when they conceived you and make it seem like you being your mothers first born and her being a second wife was a sin. Because in venda tradition polygamy has always been allowed.
Kodwa girl you started everything you went so far by talking about this family the sad thing you including everyone but when he do the same kubuhlungu girl I'm not gonna lie to you just focuse in your life yazi ingathi nge ufunde samething all of this is not necessary I thought you better than this but yhooooo shym uyabhanxa ngoku nje dont think people in your comment section love you they have inxaki zabo while wena uhlekisa nge family yabantu I dont care if they gonna come for me owami its enough now girl haybo
I am at the end of the video I see why she look said owams mothers used to like big guy that can hit the nerve of taking that info to the public. Like this cz Owam told she is from a polygamy and her mom is the youngest definitely there is a drama o Involved but the shocking one is the first mom is an aunt so basically big guy betrayed owams mother... Betrayal hit very hard shem
At this point i wonder where are your real friends or your siblings because sometimes in life we need people who will call us out when we act out of character...you are acting like a bitter ex stop talking about him trust me he will do the same
Her mother passed away, so it hurts her to hear things being said about her mom. Imagine her younger siblings who were young when their mom passed having all questions about her. Shes not here to answer for herself
I don’t think anyone is expecting you to answer for your parents mistakes, of course you can’t. You are an individual that can make their own decisions. HOWEVER, the same measure you use to judge others must be used to judge your own mother. Its just odd that you’ve never disclosed that your mom was/might have been a side chick at some point considering how much you speak out against it. Even if you don’t know whether she was or not, you could’ve spoken about it “allegedly” just as you do with other peoples personal issues. And the fact that you say you are always open with your ninjas but not addressing the burning issues🔥. It’s the double standards that are a problem.
Her mother passed away 10 years ago! of what value would it hold to perpetuate those allegations about her since she can't come forward to defend herself? is that the legacy Owamie should put out on the internet about her mother? especially given that she grew up in a blended family and everyone was/is cool with each other?? Girl, be for real! 😒 Our parent's sins are not our reality. Whether the rumours are true or not, it doesn't negate how Owamie feels about side chicks and cheating. There's no double standards here, your reasoning capacity is just flawed.
@@dmwilaa I disagree. She could’ve cleared the air on whether her mother was a side chick at some point or not. She literally addressed everything big guy said except for that one issue, which makes it look like she is trying to maintain a clear image of her mother (nobody’s perfect anyway), She was beating around the bush with it. But then she’s quick to call other people out. There’s nothing wrong with admitting if our parents were wrong at some point even if they have passed on. Vele we are not our parents’ mistakes
@@vonderer2957 babes did you even listen to what she said in the video or were you just quick to respond? She said she doesn’t know if the allegations are true or not. She was young when her mother passed on, growing up whenever she’d bring up certain topics the adults would always brush it off as “yizinto zabadala”. She clearly said that at her current age if her mother was alive she would have addressed it with her. Why should she be talking about this when her mother is long gone? And say the rumours are actually false and she’s dishing out such information about someone that can’t even defend herself.. Hhayi continue disagreeing then. Maybe you grew up in a household where talking bad about the dead was a norm, but a lot of people weren’t raised that way.
Owamie are you sure this man never gave you Hoza HOZA?!!.. haii this can’t be the man you swore was your forever!. The same one you took your OWN hard earned money to marry yourself off to. With a SOBER mind! Haii never!!. 😮😮😮
Braaaaaaaa 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Bamdlisa Witchcraft 🧙♀️ because no😭😭😭 Even when I used to watch their videos before tjo 💀🧟♂️ hai khona 🤣 It was Witchcraft 😭😭😭 it had to be
@@Yassmiinn. I feel like sis shouldnt have went on with this video I know ninjas will come for me because Owami is defending herself but here is the thing in the process of wanting to get big guy you ended up looking down on people with mental illness. I thought you are one of the people who went through depression and I'm sure you have followers who are battling too so just becarful. You end up going to no go areas sad
💯 it seems like Lynn knows which buttons to press and all the time it seems to work. I know it’s difficult walking away but at some point it has to get to a point where its IDGAF believe what u wanna believe ✌🏾
@@silungilemncwabe What about when she told us they were not having sex because BigGuy had to circumcise. Owami undressed that family, now she is here lying saying Hlongwane is not BigGuy's surname and that his young brother was also not a Hlongwane. Like we care, Just like majority of us wouldn't care who her mother slept with just that it's news now because of how she has always shamed other women.
Ohh so you are a product of cheating, no wonder you hate it so much. Sorry girl just heal and move and treat ppl better. The same way you giving your mom grace pls gv others grace.
Heeee haaay gal stop, are you for real??? Please stop!! Are you okay??? Haaa aaa, you've only told us about your mothers' kids ONLY that you are taking care of . He is saying that, your step mom is your aunt and your mom is the helper who slept with his Boss/her sister's husband and that's how she became a 2nd wife. Remember your story about your mother's funeral and how you guys were treated?
Newly found fame knocked me the F*** out🤣🤣🤣. I'm glad you're here defending yourself. When they go low, we go to hellllll honey. We can't be going to therapy over bullies.
I do not promote fight but I can't attend therapist bcz of someone... You bully me I bully you, you are a big mang mang I became a bigger... Tell people who say Owam must attend therapist, therapist for what, or what she is going to say to the therapist... They must suggest that cz ngivele ngibelost.
u ARE a thief Owamie !!!u stole my heart shem 😊 never have I ever loved someone on these RU-vid streets like this. I relate to you so much. Keep being true to you Sisi, you will attract your true tribe in this space❤. Stay bless Queen 🥷🏽
You and Your Ex husband are wrong shem both of you🤣🤣🤣 And I'm judging you for bringing your affairs on the internet because What is this???Yin lento eniyenzayo nibadala kangaka😭😭😭
I think the point was you hating on women who are or have been side chicks and yet your mother was a side chick that may have taken her sister's man. I think you should have the same energy as you shaming other women with your mother's truth .
Talk about people who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones. I was wondering why she’s so invested or passionate in Sithelo and Mihlale being home wreckers….. kanti 🫣 tjoo
