Deceived into Catching HIV: My Story 

Joelle R. In America he would have been in jail for two weeks

Justice would be lenny getting to have his way with him

@@Persvades It depends on what State he's in.

Joelle R. Life in prison over here in the uk is about 8 years with good behaviour

I'd be scared for the inmates closento him there in prison. He shouldn't be near men in general

Thank You

Period

He didn't refuse, though. He ended up saying "fine" then taking it off later. I agree that him being adamant about unprotected sex was a red flag, though.

@@swine13 I was going by what he said..... He said right off the bat that the man was ready to dive in RAW!!!! Then he stated that the man tore a hole in the condom and then sent him a taunting text about what he done. He said that both of his parents died from HIV so I doubt it if he was a willing participant to his shenanigans.

Big red flag

Pack not fudge

making hiv criminal is wrong... hiv is no longer death sentence.... And any person that does have unprotected sex is responsible for his or her actions and life.... shouldn't hold any hiver guilty. This man sentenced in life prison... can and must sue the goverment for this situation he is in right now. He has to be set free... where are his lawyers?

@@sandersonbr18 someone who knows they have HIV, doesn’t disclose it to their partners, etc is a horrible human being and doesn’t deserve to live.

@@stefaniamalatesta8076 they don't have to disclose.... prejudice is all over.... hivers now being undetectable through medicine can have babies and never infect people... people should take care of themselves and never play unsafe... if you play ... that means you are responsible for yourself.... Hivers have the same rights... and what do you think how they got positive?// well, doing unprotected sex... you reap what you saw..... NO more drama queen! he who does play unsafe, will have his or hers.... for others diseases too..

@@sandersonbr18 I’m sure you’d feel differently if someone purposely gave you HIV. Grow up.

Olivia P Yes! Honestly, that was a huge 🚩

Olivia P The riskiest part having blind sex with someone you hardly trust that’s the huge warning people today seem to ignore

I had a guy do this with me once, guy who never met 😂

Absolutely

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🤦‍♂️

@@stalkerdarwinstalkerdarwin4854 Stop. Judging ppl. It is not some disease sent by God to make ppl sick for their behaviour. No one deserves to die from this disease. You religious ppl make me sick. Thank the Goddess that I'm Pagan. We have love for everyone and don't judge ppl. What this man did to ppl was wrong. He purposely infected ppl. Those men didn't deserve this.

@@stalkerdarwinstalkerdarwin4854 First off, HIV doesn't kill you, AIDS do. Next, his mother died from AIDS when she caught it from her STRAIGHT HETEROSEXUAL HUSBAND, who caught from drug use. So there are two people who died from AIDS not HIV who were straight and married. Have you even read the Bible or are you just recycling stuff you heard from other others in your cult?

Lilly Lazer READ CAREFULLY I NEVER JUDGED. ALL I SAID IS SIN IS THE CAUSE AND AGAIN SIN IS THE CAUSE PETER 5 verse 8 BE ALERT AND SOBER OF MIND, YOUR ENEMY THE DEVIL PROWLS AROUND LIKE A ROARING LION LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO DEVOUR. SO THE BIBLE STAND THE TEST OF TIME AGAIN. Beg to differ?

Kevin Dukes AND BLASPHEMY IS THE UNFORGIVABLE SIN. YOUR ONLY CHOOSING PAGAN SO YOU CAN BE HOMOSEXUAL AND FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT BUT LISTEN TO THIS ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE---l0M963b5A.html start at 15:06 That’s all I can do for you

@@gamerincorporated154 AIDS doesnt kill you either. It is the opportunistic diseases that do.

Then he said he trusted him in the next sentence. He just met him

Facts

He should be angry 😡 at himself. The hand ✍️ was on the 🧱

DRETIKOCURE on RU-vid thank you for using your herbs to unravel the complexities of HPV and provide me with the finest medical care possible.🚩

You assured me of getting healed and surprisingly after 21days of taking the medication I was tested for HSV Negative. Thanks Dr Etiko Cure I will keep letting the world know about your RU-vid channel.

TRUTH! In the end, someone is going to pay a price 💯

It's too late he had sex with a man that's a sin men are supposed to be with women and he had sex before marriage so it's nothing he can do

Christian Alexander thanks for sharing your 2 cent , what else? What other sins would you like to play judge, and juror to?

@@whitlock1988 you're gay

@@christianchappell4193 u do know we're all sinners right no bodies sin is greater than anyones. Smh🤔😬

Anonymous Panacea dafuq?

Yeah I thinking the same red flag...

Never trust Anonymous Panacea

Red flags: 1.) forceful 2.) in a rush for sex 3.) don’t want to ask clarifying questions 4.) try to guilt you into their kinks/fetishes

beverly ledbetter he was naive, but not careless. If he was careless, he wouldn’t have used condoms in the beginning. He was just too trusting, of a predator.

juicy mae Thank you

Okurrrtz

Thankfully he wasn't because in prison he will be beaten up regularly and have to live through it.

If he pulled that shit in America straight or gay would have killed he or at the very least whipped that ass

Hiv terrorists are too pussy to tell their real status, I doubt anyone of them has actual balls to harm anyone without their virus.

Kenji policard Policard and his Mom

So sad.it still will continue to wreak havoc to others in the family.its a generational curse.

Sure,it will only be broken if they know Jesus

@@janekimani2269 LoL

I hate when people do this shit. These comments are total bullshit

It's just not normal is it? To have the mindset of giving people a disease! I feel guilty if someone catches a cold/cough from me! He's a complete sociopath.

I'm sorry you caught that

Wow smh

I think herpes is curable

indonesian cat holic herpes is not curable

True dat

I barely trust people I meet on a daily basis meeting someone off the internet I do not trust

Agree Grindr is for hook ups only If u meet someone that leads into a relationship from this app it will not end well for both parties

Speak for yourself. You make bad choices, not all of us.

I met Darryll on Tinder because I'm anti-Grindr. Luckily, after telling him I had to sign off to do something, I came back to finding out he had gone ape shit telling me I was ignoring him and cancelling our plans. He was cute and I would have gone out with him.

Nigel Murillo they keep being victims.hes lying .he could have said no get up was he black

Patricia Guiden what’s race got to do with this ?

This is a generational curse hopefully someone in his family can break this curse

Patricia Guiden stfu with race moron

Right?! My heart hurts for him!!!

At least he knows he’s got it. It’s very treatable these days

Aaliyah 😍😘

girl please these dudes dont care

Yes, that pretty messed up!

@@breannedixon9712 I just read an article about hiv being cured in mice. Scientists are hoping that this treatment will work on humans.

He saved no one

@@M60gunner1971 he saved others by having that guy locked up wtf you mean he saved no one?

He really did!

He couldn't even save himself. The guy told him he only has unprotected s_x. Then the guy tries to force s_x on him without a condom and then the dumb guy still lets the other guy have s_x with him. 🤣🤣🤣Just dumb or dumb horny.

DRETIKOCURE on RU-vid thank you for using your herbs to unravel the complexities of HPV and provide me with the finest medical care possible🚩

He stealthed him and didn’t tell him until 2 weeks later.....

I know right. How can you trust someone who was so aggressively adamant about wanting to not use condoms. Like immediately no.

Cc That right there would’ve scared the sh!t out of me 😂😂😂...But how it is now people are confused and not educated at all bc you can’t see H.I.V at all smh this isn’t the 80’s where folks was walking around looking like skin & bones dying within 6 months bc scientists didn’t invent the proper medication to curb the gestational period for Aids to manifest making it full blown. They look healthy as hell now due to the MEDICATION but in the eye area (The eyes always sink in). So me personally I always look at the major things in H.I.V patients and that’s The eye area, skin discoloration and last but not least their hair!!!! Which are the things I learned from my aunt who passed away from H.I.V some years back...Her eyes were sunk in really bad and she had pigmentation of the skin as well as her hair went from course to smooth like silky smooth from the medication they take which is real crazy & scary at the same time bc your literally watching them deteriorate”

Major red flag

Pack not fudge

@@mehmeh7567 oh my

Myfoot_urneck yes It really made me 😞 what a beautiful mom.

Is died from Aids not HIV

He should have stood up for his own butthole.

Woke exactly and how can you trust someone you've met on tinder 😂😂

Woke exactly!

Woke you know what I was thinking the same thing. Him keep suggesting unprotected sex was a red flag 🚩. That meant RUN 🏃🏾‍♀️

@@yawade8797 He said Grindr, which is even worse.

hindsight is useful..he was too trusting.

Euthanized

It was a huge red flag, if he keeps insisting once you said no, it means he's gonna try to do what he wants anyways, he doesn't respect you.

Amen

@@sahkouyate435 STOP WITH THE MONOTHEISTIC MYTHOLOGY AND PROPAGANDA!

Sexy woman

Kekoa Kaawa Why do you keep focusing on his looks? If he weren’t attractive to you would you still care?

@@Donnie-sg2cj 😂Most probably she / he / it wouldn't!

True story??

@@marcosjuarez1490 yes. I lived in Edinburgh at the time.

You would have been victimized by the sodomite.

@Glen Coco deadass?

That's really gay

R K ok?

Omg I'm glad ur ok though!

That was very inconsiderate and selfish of him. I’m glad you are well and that he didn’t change your life drastically. I can’t believe how judgmental people are as this can happen to anyone. Even married couples have infected their spouses. People need to stop being high and mighty and practice more empathy. Take care of yourself

Looks like your sick ex didn't know that he cannot infect others while is is on meds. If he didn't use meds then would probably get it, if you guys did raw which you probably did.

Bloody hell! Was he on treatment for the HIV?

Well…not everyone wants a relationship. Relationships hurt. We’re still human with needs. People sometimes just want the physical without the emotional part of relationships.

Are are you sure the reason you haven't had sex with anyone has nothing to do with your outer appearance or your personality. I'm not trying to discredit you at all I'm just trying to figure out if in all honesty you being a virgin is in all truthfulness not in your control.

Mam, I never said I was a virgin lmao. I said I am scared to sleep with JUST ANYONE which is different. I've only been intimate with people I am very attracted to and have confidence but even then you will never be safe from an STD.

Yes don’t sleep with anyone if you want your life 👍🏻

C.C. Benjie i am 28 years old and i never had sex with any girl and I won’t have without marriage blood test 👍🏻👍🏻

@@iiabdullahf1699 I've only slept with my ex boyfriends who I trusted completely. On some occasional I've met guys who wanted to sleep with me like a sexual relationship and that's and I've felt like taking because it's tempting but it's not me! I don't think I could sleep with a guy who's slept with dozens of women not even with protection. I do wish I didn't sleep with those other 2 exes so I would of stayed a virgin till marriage ! So in that I am happy for you I hope you remain that way until you meet the right one.

Yes they do!! 💯💙

Narcissists will literally try to kill you then try to make you think it was your fault, it's insane

Sad but true.

My brother is one too. And my ex... that's why hes an ex

making hiv criminal is wrong... hiv is no longer death sentence.... And any person that does have unprotected sex is responsible for his or her actions and life.... shouldn't hold any hiver guilty. This man sentenced in life prison... can and must sue the goverment for this situation he is in right now. He has to be set free... where are his lawyers?

Depends on what country or state you’re in it’s not illegal everywhere

💯

"Published"?

What did he tell the cops? That guy packed my fudge and I said he could!

Underrated comment

What makes you think you’re exempt from this just for having a regular/monogamous partner?

How...gay...

@@moderator-63 wrong, from 2016, 54% of all new HIV cases were men to men sexual intercourse while only 20% new cases were from women to men.

@@ENZOxDV9 not true, majority are straight and subsaharan, it may be over half for gays in Britain, but that isn't the globe

@@danielhooper502 I'm talking about britain since this video was about 2 british people

@@moderator-63 , oh waw stop spreading shit... 67% of tested gays r found to have HIV, they r the highest percentage. Take a look at CDC HIV research. "In 2016, gay and bisexual men accounted for 67% (26,844) of all HIV diagnoses" [in the US]

I’m pretty sure straight men stealth/rape by deception/take off condoms just as much and even MORE than gay men. But nice try...

Reun Reid Why would you have it anyway, and by the way, you can't trust your so called boyfriend

Please keep off till the right place ...marriage or abstain for good.more plagues are coming.my advise.

Cece Giles you’re right. So many ppl also get cheated on by their wives and husbands and contract HIV. I even told my own boyfriend this when he wanted to have unprotected sex w/ me and he tried to play the “You dont trust me?” game. I told him that I do trust him, I just trust me more.

@@princeecho8317 If you cant trust your partner they ain't the right partner for you at all

Reun Reid it’s not about trusting a partner. I can trust my partner but I trust ME more.

Ollie the death penalty is mercy He needs to suffer in jail for the rest of his life

Because he let him.

@Orange Blossom Absolute bullshit. This guy stated Rowe asked him for unsafe sex. He said he didn't do that. At that point he should have walked away, said no, he had the choice. But he didn't. His choice. Rowe then attempted to enter him without a condom - at this point everything should have stopped. Indeed we're at the point of illegality. But he decided, HE DECIDED, to carry on. He stated he GAVE HIM the condom and said 'I'm trusting you' - when Rowe had proven he was not to be trusted. He let him put on the condom, he didn't supervise or check the condom was on and then let him enter him. Moreover, he could have felt that it was an unsheathed penis - there is a difference. He made all the choices, decisions to go through with it, he abnegated responsibility for himself. He let it happen. He is not Rowe's victim. I do believe however, given his history he'd been looking for a surrogate father to finish off the job his father started on his mother. This guy is as mentally ill, in his own way as Rowe.

He has no one to blame but himself! Silly man

How was he "deceived"?!?! A grown ass man who should be considering his health and safety over "NSA fun" with strangers. It's a joke. 😂 A poor guy because he couldn't resist the urge to have more sex with a total stranger? This is what both gay men and the coutnry have an issue with. Passive carelessness...He let it happen and is a fuckin fool. Period.

Cowie Thomas he wanted to use protection but his partner deceived him

They're not designed for dating, they're for hookups at that moment. You want a relationship, go to Christian Mingle.

@@dpcisunbreakable what if you are atheist..?

@@asumpi34 find your dates in nontraditional ways. I mean, I don't subscribe to organized religion myself, so I appreciate your question.

LELE yep! Grindr is a superficial, elitist, ageist, racist app

@@BootyWarrior80892 01

It's Tinders twin brother.

I found my boyfriend of 3 years so far on grindr. But I agree haha

I've been on grindr 10 years, had tons of great sex, made lots of random guys laugh too, made good friends, had mutual counselling, its how you use it.

yes please

Yes!

Is this a full documentary on iplayer then?

@@sianpursglove4346 yes

Guys use vpn I keep commenting this. They only post full documentaries that are under half an hour

He brought it on himself. He knew the risks of packing men's fudge but yet he packed it anyways.

He tried, it didn't work. Sometimes those things are out of your control and it just comes down to having bad luck. (By meeting the wrong person)

@Angel rose He literally said that the guy "forced him down", so he was basically raped. Which, judging by the amount of people this guys has knowingly infected, I find plausible.

@@crusaderofthelowlands3750 He wasn't raped. He pushed the guy away, but allowed him to continue after the man agreed to use a condom. The man ripped the condom after without him knowing.

@@melissarambo7998 Removing/ripping the condom without someone else's knowledge (and most likely against their will) can be classified as either sexual assault or rape, depending on your country.

Amen. wait until marriage

I mean, that’s a good thought but at the same time you need to realize the gay community has a lot of repressed sexual tension. Not using it as an excuse but when some people finally come out, they literally go ham because they have had to hide that part of themselves for so long. The best thing anyone can do is take the right safety precautions. That means wearing a condom and not putting your trust into those who give you multiple red flags.

Agreed! So terrifying and disgusting!!

@@shaktra1563 oh give me a break

Melissa Rambo 🤔 lol you gay? didn’t think so

@@shaktra1563 You are totally using it as an excuse. Take accountability for your behavior.

That was sad about his parents though ugh I h@te evil ppl 🤬

Depending on vibes and feelings are NOT protection. Always insist partner wearing condoms. Better safe the life time of regret...

Paul Masters Johnson but he did use a condom? The guy ripped it off secretly. He should have just not had sex with the guy as he was already giving off red flags

But he decided on gay sex and now everyone feels sorry for this homosexual?

Men don't think rationally when they are horny.

Trey Bandsaw Phramaceutics don’t want a cure! They earn more money by selling médicament

@@beatricedevarenne2621 it's sad. But we have to demand it. Hold these people accountable. We can do it!

I think a vaccine is more likely than a cure.

@@Soul56293 I don't know or I don't care if you're trolling but if you're not and you genuinely don't know this then this is kind of how it goes, cure is an umbrella term for anything that treats you of any sort of ailment. Surgery could be a cure. Penicillin can be a cure, and maybe rx glasses, prescriptions, you name it, well all be you actually did! Vaccine would definitely be a cure! So yes, there might be a vaccine! But, it could also be CRISPR-Cas9 injected with saline very similar to how we are given vaccines but, just a little bit different so technically would be named something after the individual that perfected it more than likely or whatever it gets named. But, that could very much be a cure where it can rewrite our genome to just naturally have a resistance to it all together so we can't catch it at all. But, like a lot of things, there has to be a lot of hardcore study on this so we will see what happens. 💛

There is a cure but the money is in the medicine. It's sad

You look super cute.

@@EarthsGeomancer aww thank u. I think u too.😊

Same

I do believe in marriage so need for hookups👍

@d n hopefully LOL🤞

Agatha Ngenzirabona - Exactly. I was best friends with the clinic when I was dating after separating and eventually divorcing my husband! Where I live (at that time, dont know what it is now) U were allowed free hiv testing every 6 months. If u came in between 6 months it was sliding scale, so still affordable. I dont know if people forget doctors exist or what.....AND I still used condoms. But I wanted to know what I was looking at in case of condom mishaps. And this is why.

Exactly. If I don't see test results in black &wht I don't want anyone touching me inside. You can't go by looks. Those the ones packing the most!!!

@@deenabee6279 condoms are the biggest tricks of all. Only abstinence after a negative testing is for sure. Even is someone shows you their last test dates, it doesn't mean they haven't had unprotected sex between then. What's the point of sex if we have to worry about all these diseases!!!!

Purple Rane well fun fact is most of new contamination are without comdom! So clearly comdoms are not the problem

Oraquick is easy to use and FDA approved

You'd still pack his fudge

@@US_ARMY_25_INF._DIV. Did you get checked out?

@@US_ARMY_25_INF._DIV. So you positive or still negative?

@@US_ARMY_25_INF._DIV. Unless fingering yourself once count as having sex, then no. No, I’m negative and a virgin.

bcfc red army im negative but none of us know what type of person HIV could turn us into.

@@Samuel115s how could someone do this knowing they had HIV what a horrible person.

I think it’s the lack of god in their lives actually that would cause them to be that evil:/?

@@viviannamontenegro4841 your right very sad we all need our Lord Jesus in our life's amen

it's just me Thank you!

A hero? You need therapy.

M60gunner1971 And you need to be quite because talking about a subject like this is complicated.

@@jadiquaify I hate to hear that.

making hiv criminal is wrong... hiv is no longer death sentence.... And any person that does have unprotected sex is responsible for his or her actions and life.... shouldn't hold any hiver guilty. This man sentenced in life prison... can and must sue the goverment for this situation he is in right now. He has to be set free... where are his lawyers?

@Simply me you wrong! modern drugs now .... HIV-positive patients can expect to live long just as a non-positive people and have happy lives. Treatments are different from 20 0r 30 years ago. People have antiretroviral treatment that makes the virus undetectable and untransmittable to others. Hiv+ can have babies... that's why bareback sexual activities came back at full speed around people. Misinformation of yours and stigma persist in part because of poor sex education you may have at this moment. One pill a day can make HIV undetectable... accept this as a vaccine every single day of your life until the cure is ahead. Hiv is not a death sentence anymore!

Is that strange feeling in your stomach you regretting sex with other men?