Deciding where we should move... *parents get involved* 

Your dad is correct. One year by them- which is the hardest year for brand new parents- birth, newborn stage and all the hard stuff. Go with what Dad said. He’s right on this! And then move where you KNOW FOR SURE you want to be. Take the year to Pro/Con and really research it.

I think you guys should stay where family is. You don’t realize this now, but when that baby comes, you’re going to want your family around.

If Abby is saying she wants St. Louis, she wants St. Louis. It doesn’t have to be forever, but you guys have already said that you can’t buy a house right away because of proof of income. Stay near family for the hardest parts of welcoming a new baby, and take that time to get everything in order to buy a house that you love, in a city that you’ve researched and understand more and are positive you want to move to.

Matt seems pretty set on not moving to St. Louis, but as a mom who’s parents live half way across the country, it is so hard. The memories, support and help alone is sooo needed in this next adventure. Being around friends is fun but when they’re married and with their own kids realistically it gets pretty lonely still🙈 if Abby wants to live there I really think it’s worth a shot! You’ll be happy you did!!

From an aunt with a sister a few states away, it's tough raising a child without a large support system. Having family close by is a must... I can really feel the anxiety from Abby. She's pregnant and is going to be delivering a baby in a few months and doesn't even know where she's going to be. Make your lives easier and be close to family and move somewhere adventurous in a year or 2.

You could really tell that Abby just wants to be with family, and the only reason why she's not saying no to Utah is because of Matt. It's so tough but you have a baby coming, being close to family and friends who can suporot you will really help for first time parents...

Awww, I can tell that Abby really wants to move to Arizona. Abby is so sweet that she would sacrifice her own happiness for Matt’s just like she did when Matt wanted to move to Hawaii. Matt don’t let that happen again. Your wife and baby are the most important things right now, not the seasonal changes, adventures, or friends. Arizona is a great choice. You can always move anywhere else when the baby is older and things are a lot more stable. I feel like Abby is the voice of reason at the moment.

Poor Abby! All she wants to do is get settled and prepare the the baby to come. All this going back and forth about where to move is stressing her out. Abby is going to need/ want help from family when this baby comes. You can always move once the baby is older if you still feel the urge to move. Much love to you both and hope y'all figure it out soon so Abby can rest and stop stressing. All three stress will accept l affect the baby and Abby.

Honestly you guys... having a child is going to change everything, and right now being away from family may seem bearable and easy breezy, but you might think differently once little dude actually arrives. Being close to family and having that support system near by is very important. You two are the only people that can make this decision though. You have to do whats best for your family. We love you guys!!!

As a fellow St. Louisan, my opinion on your move is to stay here for a couple years to allow friends and family to bond with your baby (FREE child care). You can still travel every month and that allows you to do so with the option of taking the baby or not. You still get the seasons but with an added bonus of community. It’s not like you have to live 10min away. You can be 1hr away from your parents and still be in the STL area. then, re-evaluate in a couple years and maybe move to a fun state but in my opinion family is the most important foundation.

I truly love you guys, and admire your passion for adventure. However, having a child is going to change your dynamic completely. At least for the first year or so. Abby made it clear in Hawaii how homesick she was, and how much she missed her family. Having a baby is just going to make it even harder for her to be away from them. 🥺 I’m with your dad on this one Matt! You’re making this decision for you, Abby, and baby. As much as you love your friends, this isn’t for them. 🤍

Take it from someone who had the same situation. I really wanted to live in a mountain town where I could have the possibility of snowboarding. Had that option in Wisconsin. My whole heart was for that decision. However, my wife loved the idea of being close to family as we haven't lived near family in years. The houses, nature, and activities in Wisconsin seemed so superior in my eyes. I didn't want to let it go. With a baby on the way, having a family support system where you live really is important. They can help you with the very hard task of raising a child. Your parents will allow you to have days off for some much needed rest. That time is coming. So my question is, in Phoenix, will your friends be able to take place of that?

Honestly, I think I agree with your parents. Living close to home with having a baby would be awesome for you guys! They’ll be there to help, babysit, anything you guys need. I know you have friends in Arizona but it’s not the same as family, especially grandparents. I can’t imagine how hard it is for you guys (especially Abby) being pregnant and trying to figure everything out like this!! I hope the best for you guys, I know you’ll make the right decision that’s best for you and your family!

My vote is for St.Louis or Quincy! The baby needs family - so important to have that support system ❤️

When they say it takes a village it really does. Being around family that first year is crucial. Parenting is EXHAUSTING. Love you guys and know you will chose what’s best for your family no matter where that is.

This video actually made me super sad 😞 I thought the reason you came back from Hawaii was to be close with family!!! I agree with Matt's parents and Abby to say close to home! Especially since you guys are first time parents and Abby with be able to have the support she needs! Also like others said in the comments you can move somewhere cool in a few years when your kid is older and can actually know what's happening and enjoy the activities with you guys! It seems like Matt is being selfish and I do not like it 😞

It’s hard choosing where to live. But as a mom myself the closer you are to home the better. Especially for Abby. When the baby comes she’s going to need her a lot more. ❤️

Your dad's advice about being near family when the baby is born is solid advice! Having a supportive family is a blessing!

Matt, you need to start considering your future arrival and the lady who is bearing the burden. Mothers need to “nest” - it’s an important survival mechanism. It’s time to be there for Abby. Years 1 and 2 are so critical for your child and you have no understanding of the demand that is soon to be on your lives. A parental/family/support mechanism is vital to young parents. You will have years to travel and teach your little one. The time is now to think of the baby and momma. St. Louis is an easy central airport to anywhere - literally 2 hours from everywhere in the US (and most National Parks).

I had my first baby at 24 just like you guys. She is 7 now and our son is 4. I had horrible post partum depression with the first. Literally as fantastic as my husband was it was something different to get help from my mom, a person who understood what I was going through. Now that the kids are older I feel ready to travel the World again but especially that first year I couldn't imagine not being close to my family. When you're all alone at 3:00 in the morning with the baby who's screaming and It's being over a month since either parent had got a full night's sleep..... In most situations no one's going to come and rescue you other than a grandparent :p

I think if you move to Utah or Arizona right now Abby will feel similar to how she felt in Hawaii. Becoming a mom can easily be a very lonely season of life so having family and familiarity can really help that first year! After that first year, I think she would feel way less anxious for a move.

I don’t feel there is much of a decision to be made. Matt needs to realize that he is about to have a kid, so traveling and all the things he wants to do is not going to be as easy. I find it crazy enough that they are about to have a kid for the first time and considering moving AWAY from family and the support system. That being said if St Louis isn’t an option then they need to go with what Abby wants and that’s Arizona. You need to get settled and realize everything is not going to be the same and I feel like Matt is not thinking about that but rather about himself and where HE wants to live. Your gonna be a young dad Matt, it’s time to realize it and put your family first. Also realize that Abby is so sweet she will do whatever you want, so read between the lines.

James and I were living in another state when we got pregnant and decided pretty quickly that we wanted to move back and be close to family and we although hate the cold and aren’t big fans of Michigan in a lot of ways, we are SO glad we moved back to be closer to family to raise our little guy. Visiting looks so different when you’re states away from each other and I feel like it’s so much easier having family near by 🧡

The first year of being new parents will probably be the hardest on you both individually and as a couple. It’s nice to be around family for at least that short year! It really takes a village to raise a baby and you’ll be so thankful for them around to help when you need them even if you don’t think you will. Praying for you on whatever you guys decide & excited to see the next journey!

As a mom and fellow “St. Louis-an” I would say stay near your family for that first year! You will really appreciate the help and support as you transition to new parents. Having family close is such a blessing ♥️ especially when you have great relationship with them!

I think Abby’s momma instinct is shining through all of the decision “noise” to put down roots in St. Louis for the time being. You could give it a year or so living near family. It’s important for the parents and baby to have a nearby support system. Plus it gives the grandparents and grand baby time together to bond too. That would also give you some time to figure things out and save some more money for a house. I live in the Phoenix area and the housing market is booming but highly competitive for the buyer because of the influx of people from other states vying for real estate. I’ve had friends who couldn’t afford to buy houses they were putting offers on because the bidding wars were driving up the price by several thousand dollars (sometimes $10k more). The market here really needs to stabilize. My husband and I won’t buy a house here until it calms down. Praying for divine guidance in your decision making.

being by family is EVERYTHING once you have kids. especially in those years when they are little. ❤️

The first year with baby can be hard. If you are currently torn being with family for now would be less stressful. After baby and adjusting to the new life of being a family of three then you can move. You both are young and free spirited you will go where ever, I don't think you'd get stuck somewhere you weren't meant to be! ❤️ Sending love from Idaho to all three of you!

It’s pretty clear Abby should be mainly making the decision here. I say if she wants St. Louis because of the baby coming then she should get that. Rent for a year. They can ALWAYS move if they hate it.

You asked so you got your answers. I agree with everyone else that staying near family is the best option for at least the first year. Don’t think about your RU-vid content in some fabulous place. Think about Abby and the baby. We will be here for you.

Put Abby first. Being a new mom is filled with challenges. You can tell she wants to be near family- move to St. Louis. You have the rest of your life to move to random places on a whim.

I think living in St Louis for a year sounds like a great idea while you adjust to being parents. It’s built in help from family. Sometimes it’s nice to have someone close by so you can nap during difficult times

Matt, I agree with your mom that it’s time for you to go with Abby’s choice. Especially if she came to Hawaii for you. Whether that’s St. Louis or Phoenix

I do have to admit Matt, it does seem like Abby just wants to settle, enjoy her pregnancy, and start focusing more on her, baby, and nesting. But at the end of the day, you guys and your baby are the most important and we all know whatever decision you make will be perfect for YOU.

I had my first baby at 24. My husband and I also love to travel and are very independent, but having a child changes you. I couldn’t imagine my son not having his family around the first few years. Traveling will always be there when you are ready, special moments with the grandparents, uncles, and aunts are priceless.

I love you both. I am a 48 yr old,dad of 2. I hv started watching ur videos, and I love how much you love each other! I rmbr finding out, both times, that I was going to be a daddy. There are no better feelings(up & downs) as being a parent. You both are amazing parents!

As someone who does not live near family, I would do anything for the family support, free babysitting, and my kids to know their family better. Think of games, school events, and holidays and wanting your family there. Your friends shouldn’t be a deciding factor bc their minds may change as well.

To me it sounds like Abby just really wants to settle. And if in Arizona everything is set up for you guys, then I think now it's your turn, Matt, to do what your wife wants to do. After all she moved to Hawaii for you. She would have never done that if it wasn't for you. So now as a father to be it's your job to make your wife feel safe and secure, and give her room to nest. And if she wants to do that in Arizona, then so be it. It's not like you'd have to stay forever, there's always the option of resettling sometime in the future. But damn Bro, it's time to grow up, and fast!

Something to note about living in the Phoenix Valley - AZ does have seasons, you just need to drive a bit to get there. Depending on where you live, Payson or Flagstaff are just a quick hour or two drive and then you’ll get changing leaves and snow. But you just get to decide when you want to go there!! It’s also sunny all the time which is super good for mental health😊❤️

UTAH is amazing, it has great seasons and the mountains are so gorgeous! there is a lot of chillness to it and lots of grocery stores everywhere, there's lots of country and beautiful views, but also enough places that you can have fun! the winter is beautiful, and the summer feels amazing, so my vote is UTAH! but overall it's all where you guys want to move

St. Louis for sure!!!! You will LOOOVE having family to help with your baby. Babies are hard work and it’s so nice to have family close when you are in a tough spot with such a life changing event.

I think it is time for Matt to understand that life is changing. He has a pregnant wife, and she needs family support and to nest.

Having family near by is always helpful. Gives you access to babysitting and time alone. Plus I live an hour outside st louis and you get both snow during winter and hot summer days. All I can say is choose what will make both people happy and good environment that you want for your child. Best wishes ❤️

I’m with your dad, even though I love AZ and recommend living here! I just personally would give yourselves a year near family. When you have a baby, there is so much changing and you will be so tired. Trying to get settled in a new state and doing it all on your own is do-able, but it’s tough with a baby! I would seriously consider your dad’s idea and focus on the baby…and then make plans to move. If not a year, at least 6 months…just consider! ❤️

I'm in AZ and love this state. Wouldn't ever leave it and could list a bunch of reasons why I love it but honestly as I became a mom I realized how important and how much we relied on our family and how amazing it was for grandparents to be apart of our kids lives. You guys can always move as baby gets older and still travel and visit AZ or Utah. Friends are important yes but as I became a first time mom it was sooo nice having the gramdmas support. Whatever is less stress for the mama to be!

The problem is obvious, Matt wants to live in Hawaii, Oregon, Utah, Arizona and all the other cool places a young single guy would want to live. But I feel you will regret not staying close to home for a while. There are millions of places in the world to visit, but you each have only one family and trust me you will need that support with a new baby.. Love watching you guys!!

What’s best for each family is so different but as a mother to two little ones in my 20s, I can definitively say it would have been nearly impossible to navigate this stage of life without being 30 (at most) minutes from family. I’ve always been close to my mother but becoming a mother just adds to the relationship and the necessity to have their wisdom and nurturing care (for baby yes, but more for mama- I needed my mama to take care of me too). I think Abby would find the transition to motherhood (a high anxiety time in the best of circumstances) more peaceful living with family surrounding y’all.

I dont think you realize how much support you will want/need with a new babes in the picture. Your dad is correct. Close to family is going to be important. Good luck guys! 💛

My husband and I moved last year and had this debate so many times. Honestly I can tell when Abby is talking about it that her preference would be close to family, as was mine! The relationship between my daughter and her grandparents is priceless!

Matt you're making a decision for you and Abby not for your friends, they will love you either way!!!

I am from Utah and what Abby was saying about the culture is 💯 it’s super fun if you’re playing in the mountains but the valley life can be hard and the air quality is terrible. I love Utah but just things to consider with a new baby. 💗 love you guys

Just had a baby two weeks ago and wow it honestly feels like I’ve been slapped in the face. The transition from 0 kids to 1 is so much harder than I thought it would be. Being by my family is saving me! So I would choose to be by as much family as possible for at least the first little bit. Then during that time I’d try traveling a few more times to Utah and Arizona to see why you like best. I’m pretty sure you guys have only visited Utah once which might be hard to really figure out if you want to live there! I live in Utah and think it’s GREAT btw lol but it’s definitely a decision you should make on your own and feel comfortable about

I know its a broken record in the comments, but that first year being around family is so special. My vote is St. Louis. You guys will appreciate it in the long run. ❤

As an ARMY wife for 23 years, if you can be near family DO IT! Moving to be close to your friends makes sense…for now. But I’ve learned that when/if your friends move or if you grow apart, you’ll be bummed. Best of luck deciding!!!

IMO it would be so comforting for you two to be near family...especially for Abby who is experiencing something so new and so wonderful, it would be nice to be able to share it with family members around you. You can always move when you really know what you want.

South Utah, St. George and you get warm, warm weather year round and the mountain views of a lifetime. Skiing is so close. Best of both worlds❣️

I agree with Abby and Matt’s parents. Matt made the Hawaii move, Abby is pregnant and should be the one to make the next move. I’m sure being near family and in a place she’s comfortable sounds very nice to a nesting mama 🥰 plus you can always move whenever, after you’re sure about where you want to be.

This kind of makes me sad… it almost sounds like Abby is second-guessing her decision to move far away from family. As a future mom, I also agree that being close to family is SO important. I was so far away from my grandparents growing up and it was so difficult!

AZ native here!!! I’ve lived out of state and moved back because I missed my friends and family too much. I think you guys will want your family and support system near with a baby on the way. You guys could always become snow birds and come here in the cooler months! Summer is brutal unless you’re swimming and inside all the time but winter is beautiful!

Being from Arizona and living in Utah for college I love both states so much. Utah has a great community sense that you won’t always find in Arizona, although I love Arizona for how relaxed and chill the people are. Both are amazing! Skiing/snowboarding in Arizona is not even comparable to Utah hahaha

Honestly I feel like Matt constantly lives with his head in the clouds and it’s making it 10x harder on Abby. And I feel like his mom feels the same way. You’re starting a family, you need stability, not flightiness.

This video showed me a new side to Matt and for the first time, it wasn’t great. He is pretty much the only one that wants to go to Utah and even though he should have a say in where they live, continuing the stress of where they will live (after they already figured out Arizona) at this point seems unnecessary. I can’t imagine how badly Abby wants to just get settled and feel secure and comfortable as she finishes her pregnancy. Heck, if anything, they need to pick the fastest option so she can see a doctor asap! It was also really sad to hear that she was interested in moving to St Louis but Matt didn’t even know that or consider it as a real possibility.

Having a two year old daughter myself, I couldn't imagine not having my family around to watch her grow up and help with anything and everything along the way. I agree that st louis is the best option. First time parenting isn't a walk in the park and you'll love the support and family time

FAMILY IS EVERYTHING. There is nothing like the love of your own family and sharing that with this precious child that your about to bring into this world. Friends are great, but that unconditional love of family can never be replaced.

I think that if the Beestons were actually living in Utah, that would be where you should go. I actually think you should stay in Missouri and rent a house till the baby is born so that you’re with your family. Then decide after that. Having a child is going to change everything!!

I have always had the desire to move around, and - like Matt - I always seem to fall in love with a place once I visit and envision myself living there. However, as a mom now, I am so grateful that we stayed close to family! They get to have a really awesome relationship with my child, they're available and more than happy to babysit whenever we need, they were a support system through pregnancy and in postpartum, and when that baby is born you are so going to want to introduce it to your family and have those special moments together.

I’m going to agree with literally every other comment I’ve seen so far. I REALLY think you guys should rent something in St. Louis for AT LEAST a year because of little dude on the way. Then take it from there. If in a year from now, you still want to move to Utah or Arizona, do that! If you decide you want to stay in St. Louis because family is nearby and can help with little dude, do that!

Honestly staying by family for the first year is probably super helpful! Then you have your biggest support system right there when you're going to need them most.😊 best of luck!

I actually agree with dad and when Abby said it… St. Louis. As a parent of two young kids, being close to family is essential. Those first couple of years are so hard and exhausting that you really need your family support system by you to help raise and give you support.

Being near family is EVERYTHING! I agree with Matt’s dad! Give it a year with them or around where they are.. you will need your mom/family more than you realize. I seriously don’t know what I would do if I wasn’t near my family. I have 3 kids. They are obsessed with their grandparents. They get to see them grow and see their activities. It’s so fun!

When you have a baby there’s nothing better then living close to family because they can help you. My mother in law helped me so much. It would have been so difficult without help. Good luck guys!

CONGRATS ON 1 MIL!!!!

Normally I don’t comment, but this video actually made me really sad. Your life has been nothing short of amazing but it’s about to change in a big (even more amazing) way. You have got to listen to each other and decide what’s best together. It seems really one sided at the moment and that just isn’t fair. I hope you can find a good compromise - you both deserve to be happy ❤️

I agree with Matt’s dad!! Baby does need family and as first time parents you will highly appreciate having family close during hard first time parent times!!❤️

As a new mom since September 2021, I would definitely stay near your family. You will need that support and help from families trust me!! I don’t know what I would do without our families. Yes we have had family struggles but nothing beats family help!

Arizona has seasons. I went there during the spring once and it had snow on the ground. We went to flagstaff, and it had so much snow and mountains/volcanos. As you guys know, it gets hot in the summer too. At the end of the day, you guys need to do what's right for you guys. God bless you and your family.

I agree with a lot of other people. I have a toddler and one on the way, live in the same city as my in laws but wish I was closer to my mom. Change can be hard and lots of change plus postpartum emotions and sleep exhaustion can make life feel unbearable. You don’t need to live in someplace “new and exciting” to make great content. I think your subscribers love/appreciates family vibes.

As a mom of two I feel like being close to family is a must! Especially with a newborn! So I would move back to your hometown

I love how Matt’s parents are so open to being in the vlogs!! ❤️ they’re going to be the best grandparents !!

I currently live in Phoenix and love it the lakes are fun and there is so much to do ALL year round plus the colder weather with snow is not far away! Plus the forest and camping is also not far away! Its a pretty sweet place.

I’m a mom of a toddler and have another one on the way and have had to move during both pregnancies. Its hard, and I didn’t really want to live where my family was but I am SO SO grateful we did. Live by your family! You’ll be so grateful when your baby is here and you have help/support.

Renting in st Louis is an amazing idea. You will need so much help in the early years of having the baby. Not that you can't do it alone, it's just easier and it really takes a village. You can plant real roots as the baby gets older. Plus the relationship between your child and your parents is very important.

I will tell you this much. Utah is such a family oriented state I love all the seasons and live out side of slc and see mountains every direction I drive and love it. Good luck with your decision.

My husband and I made this decision last year and chose to be close to his family in Virginia. We actually did pro/con lists. We are also expecting. Salt Lake City was actually one of our options, and I'm so relieved we didn't end up there. It is so expensive and cold. We thought the same thing about skiing and snowboarding and mountains but it's nice to have those things a drivable distance away instead of being in it all the time. Therefore, I'd choose phoenix if it was me! The hiking there seems epic and there would be SO many fun things to do with baby. You all will make the right decision! I like that Abby said that her heart was pulling her to Phoenix. That's game over! Also, I just want to say that your parents are awesome. They state their opinion while also being respectful of your decision and it's all light-hearted with love behind it. Good luck! Excited to hear where you end up!

Whatever decision you make will have its pros and cons. I agree with your Dad. Just for the first year, it will be a lot easier if you’re near family or with extremely support friends. Family can help you decorate and baby proof, they can come over to watch the baby give you much needed time to rest, they can help you with resources if something goes awry, and they can be there if there is an emergency. When you’re out of the newborn stages then you could pick move, travel, or buy a house wherever you want. Best of luck!

When you weren’t mentioning the other state you may move to I was shocked that it wasn’t St Louis. I really feel like you will regret moving away from family with a newborn. Abby seems almost afraid to disappoint Matt.

I needed my mom with me Monday to Friday for over a month while my boyfriend worked just so i could heal. I still need help while my boyfriend works and my daughter is almost 10 months old. I vote stay close to home for at least the first year!!! Mental support is really nice to. Especially if your struggling with postpartum anxiety such as myself

I’m with Dad! Coming from a new mom… you’re going to want your family close by! But go with your gut and heart! Congratulations!

I know it’s really hard for Matt to consider going back to St. Louis. He seems very free spirited. But I agree that being around family makes a huge difference. Abby will need that support. I’d love to be around family but I don’t have that luxury. Military life doesn’t allow that right now but there’s nothing I’d love more than to go home to have my baby. Matt please consider it. Sacrifices are necessary and this may be one of the most worth it ones

Move close to family! The support is going to be so important when the baby comes.

My husband and I moved to Scotland with our 3 year old last year ready for a new adventure! And then we had a surprise pregnancy - such a huge blessing but it changed everything. Being close to family and a support system is EVERYTHING. We have felt the loss of being close to family so keenly!

Utah is my fav! I really feel like both of your personalities would fit right now, I know Utah has a stigma about snobby people, rich people, and whatever else comes with it. But with the area you guys were looking in you wouldn’t run into that often. We also have all 4 seasons and that’s my favorite part! There’s something for everyone here!

Aww Abby seems to know where she wants to move. And she will want to start nesting soon. Hope you guys decide what's best soon! Az

I dig the idea of moving to St.Louis even if it's for a short time. They would be closer to family to help out with the new baby, & both families would be close enough drive time to be able to be a bigger part of the baby's life. With their grandparents getting up in age, it would give them time to share with the new great grandchild. Being a young couple with the first child, it can get stressful. If they're in a whole other state, they won't have the support system they would if they were closer. They can always move in a year or so. Either way I know they're gonna be great parents & I pray God blesses them each day, & gives them the wisdom on where is best to go. 🤍

Honestly, when my husband and I had our son...I dont know what we would've done if we had been far from family. When Abby said St Louis, it seemed like that was what she genuinely wants. Its really hard to explain how much everything changes when you have a baby. When you have a support system close by, it benefits the child getting to be close to family, whenever you're maxed out and exhausted, you can take an R&R night/day/afternoon (which then helps you give your best to your son or daughter), if theres an emergency, you have people who can be there ASAP. Even though it wasnt the plan - Its definitely worth considering St Louis IMO. Wherever you choose, I hope you guys are super happy!

You guys should definitely live in St. Louis for at least the first year! You’re underestimating how much love and support you’ll need from your family!

To enjoy pregnancy and at least the first year of your child, move close to your family. That support is huge, especially in the beginning. You will not regret it. When Abby said St. Louis that came straight from her heart. Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks ❤

When I had my first baby I lived away from family and friends and it was really hard. When the baby was a few months old we moved back to my hometown and everything changed for the better! When we were getting ready to try for baby number two we were also in the process of relocating. I knew that even though I wasn't excited about moving to the state my inlaws lived in, I knew that the best thing I could do for myself and my little ones was to be near a support system. We still live here but may not always. Its good to remember that even buying a house is not a permanent decision! I think that in the season of having a little one its so important to prioritize your in-person support system. Especially in case there is any postpartum depression. Praying for you guys as you make your decision!!!

I’d move to both Salt Lake City and Phoenix in a heartbeat. However, as a first time mom and dad, having family around is very beneficial for ya’s. Both cities were awesome to visit. Loved it!

I was born and raised in STL. Still currently here! Great city. But I know you are thinking for the baby! LOVE YA!