I fully agree, but even that is to be taken with a "grain of salt"! As we will not compromise THAT much if we simply do NOT find the women physically attractive enough to meet our subjective druthers...
I watch everyday...i stopped for a while after his passing, but im back now. He has so much content across Yt and Instalive and some Patreon. RIp My Guy..
Everyday, without fail. It's the voice a lot of didn't/don't have in life. A male figure. I would like to potentially do something like this myself one day. Thank you Mr. Samuels.
Amazing points. Dr Lucia. Was the best caller ever. She said Ladies, your not competing with the women around you, your competing with the women around him!
Damn Kevin made a huge point. Her man introduced her to Kevin's show and she acted up. Her man is part of the Mix and she has already embarrassed him. Very valuable lesson here.
Sounds like this is who she truly is but she playing role in front that man....if he every gets rich he need to watch himself then. he gonna see the real switch up an she gonna take his ass to the cleaners with no remorse
@@duckmcgee8979 I 100% agree with you bro,that’s my bad I didn’t put the context in there saying if he was trying to change her attitude and stick it out with her bc she’s real pretty ignoring these signs....
She acted up instead of SIMPLY LISTENING. It amazes me how many women stand DIRECTLY in the way of getting what they want. She tried to lower herself into a category she didn't even belong. How can you KNOW that you're a single mother when your kids came out of marriage be EXPLAINED the difference between single mother and baby mama and STILL continue to lower yourself into that category. And the crazy part this is a MILITARY woman. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Some people are severely lacking in comprehension skills. The difference between a baby mama and a single mother has been distinguished MANY times. If you are a single mother, it was obviously the result of a death or divorce. Thus, you aren't a baby mama since your children weren't out of wedlock. This caller was so bent on playing in the Oppression Olympics to the point where she kept equating baby mama with divorcee, not even realizing Kevin gave her the better title of the two. Her high value stock dropped just because she would only listen to respond, not to understand.
That doctor Lucia truly gets it. I mean she really gets IT. She dropped so much game for you women that y’all should send her a check. She told you what it takes. Every bit of it.
Some women just want to argue. Kevin stated, in plain English, if you had kids that came from marriage, you're a single mother. But, the one chick wanted to put herself under the "baby momma" category and be a victim so badly. smh.
Yea that broad wanted drama lol u know she want her man to be like that too. Some women that's the only thing they move by, u could be good to em all day and they will see u as pushover
Things to give up to get a high value man to marry you: 1. Social media 2. Male friends 3. Girl nights out 4. Rubbish attitude 4. Dont be a single mom to Pookie & Ray Ray 5. Dont be overweight 6. Avoid tatoos 7. A big mouth
That's a good start. Changes I would advise 4. don't be a baby mama period 6. NO Tatoos period (Tatoos are a neon sign of women branding themselves "Don't marry me, I am a hoochie mama") 8. Sex, blow jobs, anal whenever we want, as often as we want, for as long as we want. 9. No girl friends or I get full access to their body and they sign an NDA.
Lucia said she’s an MD, makes 3x 6 figures, is not a HVW, & made the right decision marrying a HENRY. Her parents made the investments into her skills that Kevin advises. She has given so many of us a reality check. Thanks Lucia!
I am sooooooo happy she mentioned the skills that make a high value woman…. Networking! Etiquette! Golf! Horse Back Riding! Fencing……. I think most importantly is networking and etiquette ….. if you can’t have a meal with your husband’s network…. If you can’t secure meals and invites to important functions, you don’t provide value.
She mentioned discipline. So true. I was taught to control myself...no scratching in public, no shouting, gentle voice, weekly elocution classes. Attended finishing school, fortunately I took ballet in my formative years and got an A in walking. I learned how to network from my Mum. I never learned to fence or ski as those were not offered in my country. My husband always says I have class compared to him😁 I was just taught to be a wife. I am an average person. It was just understood that I would marry within my social class and did.
@@arlenesmith3854 You were prepared in the upper levels of wife material.👏👏 And will be great as long as you don't have a swordfight w/Pirates!😉😁 Lucia and in my mind you as well, are inspiration to people get on the ball...
The military lady is not listening. KS is giving her more than she's willing to accept. He called her a single mother - not a baby mama. Wow! She's making me feel bad about us right now😔
@@alexanderruffin3363 hopefully she listened/watched the playback and saw what was happening. Sometimes people see themselves better the 2nd time around. 🤷🏾♀️
Am thinking she was probably lying and was never married when she had them kids that’s why she was so triggered about the phrase baby mama even tho it’s allegedly doesn’t apply to her
@@jaywilliam186 bingoooooo. They just changed their relationship status on Facebook to married and he called her his fiancé and that’s about it. She was a baby momma. Or either an idiot fighting for her homegirls and their bad decisions.
Dr. Lucia hit the nail on the head. Making good money and being educated doesn’t equate to being high value. Being a high value woman who is always available for her husband isn’t easy.. and just because you’re not what society deems “high value” doesn’t make you worthless as a woman. I think it’s important to be realistic about what you bring to the table and I think we women have a way of over-inflating ourselves (or is it society that does that?) Either way confidence is good but an overinflated ego causes a lot of us to be in denial about our deep rooted issues which means we can never truly address/fix them to level up.
the doctor spelled it out perfectly, but I know many wont hear it. this doctor is brilliant, she should call in more often. she just showed that the world KS talks about exists and is COMPETITIVE!
It's very weird and frustrating that majority of women can't answer simple direct questions.and it would help certain females if you write out the questions/notes that you want to ask before you get on the line so you are not filibustering not knowing what you are trying to say.
I have been observing this too. The lack of listening skills; the listening to respond; and the failure to articulate and annunciate simple questions. It’s disgraceful and lacking in etiquette. I used to be a high value woman and am proud of it. I passed the values on to my daughter.
This. The main eye opener I take from listening to Kevin is how absolutely painful some women can be when trying to have a simple conversation. I had to ask my husband if I’ve been like this lol 😂 Man my head hurt 😩
Noticed it too.. I’ve also observed this when having dinner etc with some girls, and it seems like they often feel intimidated by men (usually with status or a man who has the reigns on the convo like on this occasion) and therefore feel the need to mirror that masculine energy..then they start tripping up on their sentences not knowing what to say 🤦🏾♀️
I respect the heck out of that woman who admitted that she has been on side chick status. That humility will go a long way. Can’t tell you how annoying it is to see women using their body counts to imply that they can pick husbands off a tree when they’re finished ridding the CC. I’m glad we’re starting to get more women actually trying to improve on here every day. Even if there’s a lot wrong with you, being honest about it will get your way more favorable results than telling yourself you can do no wrong. It’s refreshing. She took her dose of truth like a champ.
RU-vid has thousands of free work out videos. There is jumprope, resistance bands etc. I raised my fitness level even higher during Covid, these women have no excuse.
The lady who flipped out about being a baby mama when Kevin was clearly stating the opposite had the nerve to laugh at the caller before her calling her delusional. It’s clear that she has never looked in the mirror of life because she lived up to her “hood” background. Just a mess 💆🏾♀️
35:28 that's my ex in all her aspects. Disrespectful, foul language most of the time, screaming all the time for small or no reasons, violent, obnoxious around people, lack of communication when needed to solve issues, disagreeing most of the time and didn't want to go work during our whole relationship, using our kids as an excuse not to and wanted to depend on her father and the government social money instead of me and my job so she could talk shit if things didn't go her way. She was so toxic, most of the time, she would try to reverse situations on me trying to blame me as if I was the one with behaviour issues. It took me several years and alot of talking to heal from that and finally realized (and should've realized) that she was a red flag. Bless you Mr. Samuel. Words can really heal.
The last caller was mad because her friend is taking her fitness serious now. Shes hating because shes not putting in that work like her friend and it makes her feel insecure about herself.
Everyone has value. By definition of the term "high value"applies to only a few people. Most people are average or below average. Women want above average when what they have to offer is average. The act of calling yourself high value is very average, esp in America where everyone is super entitled and gets participation trophies. If you are calling into Kevin's show you are probably not high value. But the big egos in America and the West lends itself to thinking you are special.
Why did Ericka even call in. She said he was responsible for her friend's eating disorder. Then, she back peddled. If he didn't question her, she would have attached that label to him for life. You can't go around putting labels on people. Way to go Kevin! You checked dat azz!
37 year old brotha, just finished my second masters in product innovation. I’m the guy KS speaks about becoming a millionaire in my 40’s… the disrespect I’ve suffered drives me to succeed. I’m coming out of nowhere and I will be able to choose the right woman for me.
I see why now alotta women don't like KS cause he CHALLENGES, HOLDS THEM RESPONSIBLE & ACCOUNTABLE - things that they have hardly ever had n their lives but at the same time hold everyone else Accountable, etc in particular MEN!!!! B O O M!!!!!
Exactly, they keep calling him narcissistic when they know, he's also talking about men's wrongs but I think that, they just don't like him because most women can't assume their wrongs and hate that we expose their illogical logic or toxic mind set worst than man nowadays most of the time.
Wow, the brother whose girl showed her a$$ should be banned from the group. Unfortunately you lose opportunities in life by the company you keep. He has been disqualified because of his lady. Embarrassing!!! Great show brother Kevin. Keep up the good work!
Thamfkn Boss Kevin repeatedly states in his shows that White, East Indian & Latina women are taking college classes to better understand how to make themselves more appealing to Black Men. Please stop 🛑 trying to debate off emotion.
Thamfkn Boss the interesting thing if you listened to her was that she said she had a HVM and found out she is good with a average guy which most black men are. So that is actually the most telling thing she said. Any man would give her the world with that type of corporation.
Thamfkn Boss Why do you watch Kevin’s channel? You’ve just admitted you are NOT his target audience, you don’t agree with his talking points, so WHY are you here? For what purpose? 🤔
If switching up was a person, it was definitely the military women! Kevin was so patient with her and gave her more credit than she deserved because she showed her true self. She may have been a single mother but she acts like a baby mamma with that attitude and lack of active listening skills. What Kevin said and what she heard were two different things.
“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” I had an old mentor that died last year who told me that every chance he got. He was a senators fan and didn’t get to see the nationals win the World Series😢. Glad I got to help make his last night on earth his best at my family’s restaurant. Told me they’d make the playoffs, he got to dance with all the fine young women at New Orleans night one more time and have his favorite meal. Sadly he never woke up the next day.😔 I know this is off topic but that saying Kevin used has a deep, special meaning to me.
Damn dat dr is a breath of fresh air, she knowledgeable and you know she ain’t a pain to be around through the way she converses unlike the way others do on his show.
I dropped 30 lbs. during the pandemic (I started the year at 212 lbs., and got as low as 178. I level out in the low 180's). I started out 2020 with the goal of getting in better shape. The pandemic allowed me to take it to another level. Many people built home gyms, and frankly you can lose weight and tighten up with body weight exercises and exercise bands. I got a cheap exercise bike, and do at least 1/2 hour on it to warm up for my routine. I made some very simple dietary changes. You simply have to want to do it, and get moving. The pandemic has taken people in one direction or the other - people either gained weight or made it a goal to lose weight. From the beginning of the pandemic, being outside for exercise was allowed without a mask, then later you could find a mask that you could breathe in. "Moving around" during the pandemic shouldn't have been an issue.
That last caller was low-key hating on Kevin for setting her friend on a positive path and she probably can't get herself together. Misery loves company.
Caller based Timestamps 39:05 first caller 50:00 the average guy statement. Ladies hate hearing that lol I don’t get it 51:27 second caller 51:55 third caller 59:11 the “Beyoncé” point begins here 1:02:48 proof that she is nowhere near Beyoncé. 1:03:42 fourth caller 1:05:25 90/10 and not even 80/20. That’s true 1:24:48 what woman hurt you? How many times we heard this guys? Lol 1:29:07 Kevin answers the above 1:31:12 fifth caller 1:38:44 sixth caller 1:41:57 this is true cooperation is a turn on 1:43:03 seventh caller 1:44:38 true again 1:47:05 previous caller 1:51:14 average black womens height and weight 1:52:19 Kevin hit on hard. Black women are raising the size and weight standards against their men 1:56:13 ouch. That’s exactly right. That’s a good way of saying it 2:03:42 sisters are allowed to do anything. 2:12:41 erica 2:21:11 sisters are used to saying whatever they want about a brother 2:24:08 lmao someone actually said that? Umar? Lmao
The MD lady is the ideal woman that isn’t big in pop culture but is so ideal for men with value. A woman to complement your skills and traits who tends to be an asset when it comes to establishing relationships within business or outside of businesses are so valuable and very rare. I wish women like that they were exactly looking for.
Baby Mama: Had a kid with a man she was NOT married to. Single Mother: Had a kid with a man she WAS married to. Both are single. Both have kids. But one of these things is not like the other.
Very humbling to hear a MD say “im still not high value” My grandmother taught me and my cousin table etiquette and manners real young... I definitely understood what she meant.... amazing call
Dr. Lucia at 1:30:50 was the best caller Kevin's had on. Perfectly matches Kevin's message and can deliver it to women. She completely changed the tone of the show for the callers after her.
Ma'am. You're just a divorcé!! You're not under the term colloquialism of "baby momma" you're children came from MARRIAGE! You're not listening to what he's saying!!
Brother man leave her alone before she brings down your empire at the drop of a hat . She was very quick to drag you name into something that will ruin your rep all while sitting there hoping you would jump in and fight her battle for her . You rep will never be as important as her feelings
Eating disorder, she is lying. Her friend found a high-value man (friend is in shape) she didn't expect her friend to find someone. Now she is coming to Kevin to cuss him out. How dare you allow my friend to find someone before me lol
I would love to invite my 3 Exes to this show cause it’s everything I’ve been telling them over the course of 15 years. But we all know they don’t wanna hear the truth. They hit the wall and continue to lie to themselves cause they’re delusional. They’re an ex for a valid reason.
I will tell you what makes a high value woman. (1) a woman who loves and respects her husband (2) a woman that makes a good mother and nurtures her children. (3) a woman who is faithful. All these things he's talking about is nothing of value
Its crazy how many women, sadly especially Black women, are quick to tell you how you need to & what you need to do your own stuff, instead of just doing it themselves with their own.
At 2:22:00min I just about flipped out my chair slappin' my knee like an old man laughing so hard!🤣🤣🤣 Kevin, the way you terminated the call with a staight face was EPIC!!! It was so unexpected. The slap and taps are forever my favorite combo!🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
The lady who called in and just could NOT get it thru her head that she is a single Mother and NOT a baby mama is either very stupid OR is it possible that she LIED about having been married and her children are as a result of that marriage? 🤔
The chick who was saying she was a baby momma but was supposed to be divorced is a troll. You know she is a troll, by the inability to accept the role that was in her favor and she said "Who hurt you?" and "We are both divorcees". Should have been dropped off the line immediately.
A lotta ppl think KS is harsh with his message to these women that they can't get the man they're looking for. That they should go for what they are. But it's better for them to get the wake up call early before they spend their entire lives waiting on what will never come...
