Destroy The Fantasy Breaking Free From Trauma Bonds with Aishia Grevenberg 

Gen X Narc Survivor here, this conversation is so on point!!!

Yes! “You belong to you”. So hard to learn and understand this concept.

Complex explanations that are so accurately defined.

Powerful interview. Great insights, it is so confusing when you are with a narcissist partner, and difficult to break free

Oh my gosh i appreciate this video so much! So many mind blowing moments for me. You have no idea how thankful I am for you and your content and the amazing experts you share with us. I absolutely needed this video today, and i am actually feeling stronger than before even stronger than yesterday. So much has been happening the last few days and i think im ready to find my way to myself and actually love myself out of this relationship. I have many narcs in my life...

Wow, so on point ☝️☝️😮😅

Yes, a shattering of every aspect of my life. And having siblings take the spouses side really hurt.😮😢😮

I LOVE Aishia and her content on tiktok. Soo happy to see you two together speaking on this!

I felt like I had to learn how to live again because everything I thought was real was all a lie and gone. I lost myself in the relationship with the narcissist.

Thank you for this conversation! So validating and encouraging.

I enjoyed this so much. New sub here! I stumbled upon this video and wow! So much hit home for me. I was born in 1976 and had a stay at home mom. I think now looking back she had some narcissistic tendencies. I was SA, by my older brother 10 years my senior and had to live in fear with my abuser. I have repeated this feeling in my adult relationships. I am now planning my final escape from A covert type narcissist. I have left before, four times, and always go back bc he makes it so difficult. This time im going on a trip and im going to extend it indefinitely and not break up with him but just kinda stop communicating and fall off the face of the earth. I know its a strange idea but to me it seems the only way. If im out of state with family and friends and slowly stop being the supply he may actually break it off himself. Thats my hope. Also im afraid if i tell Him he will stop me and make it super dramatic. I watched a youtube video “5 things to check if you are being abused” and he hit ALL five. Im planning a safe escape the best way i know how. I know it will be worth it. I cant wait to not walk on eggshells and not be living in fear. I hate living with my abuser!! Im am kinda disgusted i havent fixed this by now. I have had therapy and life coaches and heard every video about narcissism on line and I still am not fixed. I know deep down i deserve happiness and I cant wait to feel what that is like. ❤❤❤❤thank you for reading , apologies for the long post. Again really enjoyed the video.

I am in this type of relationship. I am struggling so much and really need guidance I am afraid to leave because of all the changes that come with leaving. My world has been flipped upside down.

It’s so incredibly sad to agree with thinking I was the happiest I’d ever been in a relationship. The soul crushing thing after is seeing the whole thing was fake and a manipulation and abuse by a predator 😢 No one’s dusty a$$ undiagnosed and untreated son is welcome ever again.