You are right and that's because our grandmothers didn't have a lot of options in men that modern women have today. For example, women's exposure on social media alone easily attract men in their DMs and physically. So they would naturally test and/or go for the best options they can get unlike our grandma's who didn't have social media.
@@wealthamadi6624 in the face of options people generally make terrible choices.. That accounts for the decay in current relationships.. People no longer work on their differences to foster strong bonds.. Jumping around does no one any good no wonder we have a lot misery around...most people walk around with psychological baggages...
Kinda...usually women who lack a kind of awareness that should tell them that just because something feels good and empowering to do doesn't mean it should be done.
The goal of every woman is to be in control and make you do her bidding, but once you assert your authority and place they will over time adjust and fall in line. But if you play along with her to please her then you're gone bro. Women are very manipulative and they can come at you in different ways.
By the time you think of these silly tests, it means there is a big problem already and that you are a problem woman. I advise young women out there to NEVER do this. Just have your core values (not too rigid) and observe casually.. it is very easy to see if your values align without tests. These tests always end up badly and girls regret. The really nice guys always fumble and make a mess when they are before women they like. The crude Bad boys are confident and smooth. Silly girls who do these testing always fall for the bad boys and we all know how it always ends. Nuff sed.
Thing is, women don't know they're testing you. It's just something they do passively. It's not like they consciously decide "oh, let me see if this man is confident or can say no" It's the same way they think they want something but it's the opposite they want. It's not like they're lying. They just don't know
That dominance test is the quickest way to get rid of a good man. My Dad taught me that when you see that type of woman, she's sick in the head, so run! 🏃♂️ What if you try and that guy has absolutely 0 tolerance for controlling women? You lost him b4 u even know it. I thought they said Women were supposedly smarter than us.
There are too many options out there for men, so playing silly tests just shows how insecure and mental that individual is for me. I will just pass and keep moving
There's an entire 'dating industry'...that I guess sometimes can be dubious...if one listens to them they tend to push the idea that most men are terrible with women which is obviously untrue because most people even those at the bottom of society marry.Truth is dating is not so different from making friends.
I feel you bro, but tests are good. Our Father in Heaven will test us to see if we’re ready before He decides to bless you. remember we are created in his image so tests are good and when we test others it reflects our nature as God’s children. I hope you are testing women that come into your life because ultimately, you want to choose the right woman who is best for you and who meets your needs.
@@spearsc49 Women make rules for the betas and break rules for the Alphas .. Or do you think if Chris Brown approached any woman today … she will play all those pranks with him ? She will buzz him Immediately she gets home but let it be you opposite is the case
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Unfortunately some women are irrational in their 'tests'....a person who looks down on nice people is not very wise...the world sometimes can be cruel and its good one utilizes goodness in people while its there.
Men are straight forward...why is it so complicated with women? That's why the old folks were for polygamy. If there is more than one woman in your life then they don't complicate your life.😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
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Thank you my sister ijay for standing strong in honesty without fear or favor. We know a lot of cowards will come after you & no ifs and buts about it, but remain honest & steadfast in God because on obstacles thrown can stand. All the people that took a stand, like you, historically, have been challenged to no avail simply because they are the voice of reason & the voice of God. Don't worry we are behind 100 & God is behind you, and we pray you continue to be blessed. Amen !!!!!!!
I'm definitely failing test 2🤣🤣🤣 I hate when a chick waste my time... If I'm not your type we shouldn't be out in the first place. Why wait till the date before you tell me. If I'm going out with you on a date then we are already establishing something. I'm ignoring some other girl to be on that date and you're just telling me I'm not your type ahhhh.
Hi Fanatic comments. What you say is absolutely true. Sometimes they hide these features and expose them after you marry them. You find yourself stuck. What should a man do in these instances?
One thing you should understand is that most, or some of the time, men do not give honest answers to the questions posed to them by women. They just tell the women what they (men) think the women want to hear from them which may or may not reflect their true thinking. It's make believe! Therefore, women should be a little more cautious in making dating decisions based on answers to probing or test questions posed to men at the outset of dating. It's little deeper and more complicated than superficial answers and/appearances from or by guys.
Am 5 foot 7, but I get women more than most tall and rich guys, it’s simple. I look so good and I have celebrity body, best decision a short guy can make. Money can’t get women loyal, good sex and protection is tied to a man’s body looks, I can ever relate to short man’s struggle because women break their rules for me. All the “nice guy” thing and simping for her would not get her wet, it’s biology 🤷
Somewhat true but we humans have also developed the prefrontal neo-cortex that helps us respond beyond psychological desire and even completely surpress it for desired goals.
@@kwadwotuffour5529 Napoleon Bonaparte, Greatest French man in history, Great military General, Emperor of France, Born 1769--1821, 5ft 6in tall. Dr.Martin Luther King(USA)Born 1929--1968. Youngest Noble Peace Prize Recipient in history at 35 years of age. More than 1000 streets named in his honor in USA alone.More than 1000 schools, day care centers, hospitals, stadiums, etc. named in high honor. 5ft 6in tall. Don't be fooled by HATERS who see the God, god, warrior, beast, small but mighty, the animal, the goodness, the lion, tiger, elephant, the respect & love,etc, in you. Most people are intrinsically fearful, cowards & resort to insult the chosen ones & resort to put downs to make them feel better in other to raise the self-esteem they lack.
to pass all of these test , you have to be non-reactive(no facial expressions and slow smoothed and control movements) , and its all about you having a stronger frame , by reframing what's she says and spin it around (agree and amplify) banter* ,whoever has the stronger frame is in control. the reason why they test i because they want to be assured if you are really that cool guy, Women do not trust words, the trust your body language and if you fidget make any sudden movements your failed the test and the smart ones will give you lots of strong eye contact, because the Eyes do not Lie ,. its all about basking in tension .in general they want to be around a man that is confident with himself and live truly according to him , women wants a man who is total control of himself , they dont want a man they can control . women do this unconsciously to determine who is higher status or lower status. ps: they only test to guys they like to confirm your status for example she notice you being smooth ; she says if this your pickup line with some attitude to try to throw you off, you remain grounded with your body language non-reactive look in her eyes calmly Laid-back and say yes, its my pickup line but it only works on hot girls, i fell like your not that hot so i wont be surprised it wont work on ya , dont wait for her approval just move on the next you have to reframe it challenge and toss it back at her as a test, women wants a challenge because it guarantees a spark (Attraction,Rizz,Charisma-Mode) within you to her, because you are the cause and she is the effected based on how you carry yourself. she takes the cues from you.
Or,you can date a woman who’s actually an adult. There’s too much going on in life to be constantly bothered by shit test. You can go on somewhere with that …
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I really ur presentation about how women test guys and I do appreciate ur vivid explanation to be smart in the kind of response we should Should give them.. Thank u for ur explicit knowledge u have when it come to dating and relationship. I applaud u for ur romantic talks I really do love it, I Jay u re too much.
She only test you if she doesn’t initially finds you physically attractive. She’s testing you to FIND SOMETHING IN YOUR PERSONALITY THAT MIGHT TURN HER ON about you to make up for the fact that she doesn’t find you physically attractive.
Simple thing is make money and then set the rules for those who want to chop your money. These things are for broke lovers. What business does a broke guy has to do with love relationships. Bro save yourself, love yourself unless you are the type that thrives on nonsense.
i will simply say this, if a guy pass the test that a woman gives. She is in love with the results and not for who he is because if she was then tests wouldnt be required to determine what love is
My then Fiancee wanted to test me and I told her that she should just know that she need not test me cos I'll fail it. Deal with me as someone that have failed her tests.
