Thank you again. We have two boys and two girls; a 'one size fits all' approach has not worked. It was nice to hear 'there is hope', and to ground what is required on love and humility.
Your video should include the BEST the ways to correct n discipline your children. WHAT TYPES OF PUNISHMENT SPANKINGS TAKING PRIVILEGES OR TOYS AWAY. WHAT N HOW ? GIVE EXAMPLES you didn't even touch on any of that.
Getting to the point please lady this kid is getting out of hand...I'm only uncle but it seems mother an father are not succeeding. I get on him.but my sister starts protecting him..should I use the eod??he is 13yrs old I already see he's getting very smart mouth, rebellious, ect,ect,....
Hitting children results in distrust, resulting in the children having to receive information from alternate sources with a less wiliness to go to the parents for anything, the parent will have less influence on the child along with others living close to them, A desire to for the parent not to know much about them that can even result in a lack of a desire to socialize around their parents. Can include both even when it's the only father who does the violence and the child may not even know this on a conscious level having instincts and a subconscious mind that is still developing and can even drops grades in schools. What age does a child become fully sentient? Nasty fathers really, really need to do some prison time. The parents sometimes never figure out the child personal beliefs with a decent chance of them never knowing that may be handed down to the next generation. Friends, family, wives, children knowing them better. New clan, new beliefs, new values that may or may not have similarities to the old. The child may even have lower emotional levels having to deal with unstable parents and conflicts. try spending your whole childhood walking around on glass with constant threats. Ignoring more but not all is a more likely result then getting pounded down because of getting mad. The child may want to rebel, some even to kill the parent but will attempt to hide those feeling. Takes much longer for such children to lower their guard enough to make friends. Constance socialization and complimenting others should aid them.
It seems you do not understand the concept of discipline. Do you think someone should spank you when you do the wrong thing?? Do you physically harm your friend who has done the wrong thing?? This is the core of the violence in the world. You have ZERO right to cause pain to another. None. That’s lazy parenting.
