Discover Your Personal Style with This Unique 3-Step Method (Fashion Over 40) Game-Changing

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I'll show you how to find your personal style without putting you into a narrow box. I'll show you how to love how you look and feel great in your clothes each and every day. Thank you so much for watching. Your support means the world to me! ~Erin xo
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@dawnkidd1567 Год назад

Erin I love this path you've taken. I grew up with a abusive mother and absent father. When I married my husband wasn't very demonstrative and could seem cold. I had no self esteem and this year I turn 58 and have decided to find Me. I lost 25 lbs last year and have been searching for the colirs,fashion and makeup that makes me happy. I have decided to start a RU-vid channel so that others out there with Lupus,Fibromyalgia and other issues will realize that we're still worthwhile people no matter our age. I am constantly told I look 40 and when I pick out clothing or makeup many times I find myself reassuring myself that it is OK to wear because I look younger,LOL. The problem is I belive everyone should wear what they like and that most styles are wonderful on all ages except my little voice comes out telling me "But not for you." I think a lot of women do that to themselves and it's a shame ,so thank you for this help and sincere caring you are showing all of us with this addition to your channel

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

You are not alone... It's time to re-frame our thinking on what we "can/should" wear. SO glad you are here! xo

@peggywickman8800 Год назад

@@BusbeeStyle loop

@suzanneburleson8843 Год назад

Hi Erin- Love the inside-out method of dressing with intention. I have practiced this for years. If you haven’t read “Style Statement” by Danielle LaPorte, it proposes a method to deeply refine your individual style expression into two words. Mine are Sacred Sensual. So every new purchase or outfit is run through my inner filter to discern its alignment with my statement. It’s funny, I even use this with something as challenging as being true to my style in scrubs! I’m a 46yr old graduate student of Speech Language Pathology and spent an inordinate amount of time to pick scrub silhouettes/materials that still somehow feel sensual and feminine. On days off, I LOVE to wear exotic prints, faux leather and fur, etc. My growth edge is to feel worthy of investing in genuine designer pieces rather than knock-offs b/c my former career was in non-profit with limited compensation so I became a pro bargain hunter. I’m gonna start with purchasing the actual Charlotte Tilbury Pillow Talk set instead of an imitation. I’m sure even this small act will help me manifest a future job that provides greater abundance. Love observing you evolve in your process of self discovery and healing as you share it with us!!!

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

Love to hear about how you approach style, Suzanne! Even in your scrubs. That is great. You should love what you're wearing and you have found a way to do that in every area of life. I also love how you've added feeling worthy of investing in designer items that you love too! That took me many years to feel worthy of. xo

@margat-h2173 Год назад

Wow Erin, this is getting better and better! This approach to personal style makes total sense, it is empowering and full filling. You have manifested an idea that has spoken to me subconsciously forever, and I didn't realize it until now. My intentions are to express my feelings and emotions through my clothes by selecting special things in my closet to reflect them, and by being more curated/special about my purchases. You are speaking to my soul Erin. 💕

@jeanettekays1954 Год назад

My husband prefers me in button up, stiff shirts. I never feel right in them. I feel better in soft, glowing fabrics. Turns out I am a romantic. Now my feelings make sense. Thank you for bring psychology into the elements of style.

@samanthabarron8481 Год назад

For me it is a sensory thing. I don’t mind a button-up shirt if it is in a soft and moving fabric. These tops are moderately feminine but not over the top, which really resonates with me (and doesn’t make me feel like I’m suffocating lol)

@yifatjovani333 Год назад

In the past my husband was commended when I used to come back from shopping because the colors are too bright, but that's what makes me happy and beautiful, and I just realized that I can't dress for him or anyone else just to please others which I did a few times in the past but I felt weird and not myself. I encourage you to wear things that make you feel beautiful as it will make you feel more confident and empowered! We need to realize that we are exactly as we are!

@happygoluckystar8069 Год назад

Please talk openly to your husband. You can tell him: „ babe, I know you love me no matter what I wear. I also know you like me wearing shirts. Therefore, I am happy to dress for you twice a week, Just FOR YOU, because honestly I do feel good in them. So during rest of week I will dress for myslef as I need to feel good in my style. This is important to me”. Similar conversation worked very well for me 😉😉 good luck Jeanette! And enjoy your romantic style! 😘

@joannmannarino8898 Год назад

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@jackiebazylewicz9584 Год назад

Thank you for this!💖 You are so inspiring to me! You've helped me get out of the, "I don't deserve this" and "I don't deserve to feel this good" mentality. Being a mom of three teenagers, my life is opening back up with some time again. I'm excited that your channel is a guide to explore and have fun with style and setting intentions. I was in an incredible rut when I found you and you have been such a positive influence in my life. Just wanted you to know I'm grateful for you.💖

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

I'm honored to be even a small part of your journey, Jackie. I am so excited for YOU that you now have the time and energy you need to prioritize and care for yourself again. Thank you for sharing, and for being a part of this amazing community! xo

@westernnut8407 Год назад

You have skillfully managed to combine fashion with the stunning work of Dr. Emoto. Epic!

@i1pink-Survivor Год назад

Thank you for giving us something to REALLY consider in our daily lives. Prior to the world’s experience with C-19, I got up and dressed for work. However, now my life is in a “work-from-home” situation where I don’t put the effort into dressing because no one sees me. But!!!! I’m now gonna make a conscience effort for ME!! ❤😘

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

Thanks for sharing! You deserve to dress for YOU! xo

@novapill Год назад

Pamela, I agree. Thank you for sharing. My intention is to re-start the ‘camera-on’ readiness for my work-from-home circumstance. No more hiding behind the easy ‘camera-off’.

@lindacgrace2973 Год назад

I was a pretty sharp dresser when I was a young woman. But then, I got fat. What with one thing and another (long boring story), I ended up 340 pounds on my tiny 5'3" frame. I came to my senses, changed my lifestyle completely, and lost 200 pounds. Now that I can fit attractive clothes, I did your exercise all on my own and zeroed in on the clothes that I loved then; the clothes that made me feel glamorous, smart, beautiful. Some outfits didn't make the cut for today (don't think I'm going to try a fabulous red mini-skirt again, I've rather outgrown it). Surprisingly, though, many of those outfits from the 70s are just as fabulous today as they were then (slim grey tweed below-the-knee a-line skirt with leather riding boots, a pink cashmere sweater, and a clutch purse still works). I was both surprised and delighted to discover how durable my style is, and how 'at home' I feel in that style. I discovered some through-lines: I love fabrics that move well with the body. I'm athletic, a former dancer, and stiff, crisp, or fluffy doesn't do it for me. I hate prints and love texture. I have a very narrow color range. I loved everything from black to white and every shade of grey in between. I love every shade of red from pale blush to hot pink to deepest wine and every intense deep jewel tone. I never felt fabulous in anything else. With that resolved, I feel I can move forward rebuilding a wardrobe. Your advice has been invaluable to me! Thanks, Erin.

@sl8605 Год назад

Good for you! I am sure you feel much better also.

@lckendel1079 Год назад

Loved your comment. Thanks for sharing your story.

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

Thank you for sharing your inspiring story, Linda! I love reading all about your approach to style and how much deeper it goes than just your clothes. So glad you are here. xo

@suzanneburleson8843 Год назад

Loved your post, Linda! You really seem to have high style self-awareness. Im so happy you were able to come back to yourself thru the massive weight loss. Incredible!

@lameroux Год назад

I love the direction your channel is heading. I need this in my life ❤

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

Thank you so much for saying that. I really appreciate your support! xo

@theclotheserinsews Год назад

Yes! I’ve been focusing on how I feel when getting dressed for about a year, and I just want everyone around me to know how impactful it has been on my mood and overall well-being. I love to wear black and white with a pop of color, and THAT is my style. I am going to reorganize my closet and put all of my black and white garments together, and all of my favorite colors together. This will help me to see the gaps in my wardrobe so I know what to add. You’re killing it lately with your videos lately, Erin! ❤

@jnantel13 Год назад

Hi Erin ! Thank you for this video, it awakened something in me especially when you asked us to do the visualization exercise. It brought me to tears because I vividly remember it and how I felt. I wrote everything down and I went right to my wardrobe and I'm curating it to what I wrote. Again thank you this is what I needed today. Bisous.

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

You're so welcome! Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I'm humbled by your words and the impact that my video has had on you. Sending light and love your way... xo

@christinecade8206 Год назад

This was EYE OPENING for me!!!! Thank you so much Erin........ I used to dress sexy and I grew out of it because I became a mom and I just felt that it was over for me. At first I still wanted to feel the way sexy clothes made me feel (I always thought it was about seduction) BUT...... with your exercice, I realized that I want to feel EMPOWERED! Straight hair pulled back, subtle smokey eye, black clothes, skirts and dresses with straight lines... Yes I felt sexy and I thought it was just that but noooooooo!!! It's all about power for me! WHAT!!??? Hahahah! Thanks to you, I can now look for that in my clothes. I don't say I cannot look sexy because I'm a mom, let's be clear on that... But on a day to day basis, for me at least, I think it's easier to pull off a powerful vibe than a sexy vibe when you are... at the grocery store! ;) So thank you, I finally understand what I was looking for all those years. (decades!) :)

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

Wow, Christine! I am SO glad this process was to eye opening for you! Thanks for sharing that with me! xo

@nanzilla3000 Год назад

Hey Miss Erin! I watched this twice through while I washed dishes because it is SO GOOD. Now that my hands aren’t busy I’m going to go play it again and do the exercises. This is EXACTLY what I need right now. I am struggling to find my identity again because I’ve been a stay-at-home mom for 7.5 years now. I feel like I should be able to do this and still dress with intention, I’ve just let so much self-care slip away. The bit about our bodies being dressed in clothes we don’t like and the water inside of us reacting poorly, really spoke to me. I remember that experiment and it never occurred to me to apply it to my body and what I put on it. Thank you for all your insight and kindness. We are in the same place I think, I also want to stop saying “have to” to myself when it concerns self-care. My best friend and I have decided this is the year to be gentle with ourselves and to be as kind to ourselves as we are to everyone else. Same with my sister, she and I will go above and beyond for other people but never put that same energy into ourselves and we spoke the other day about making this the time we treat ourselves as well as we treat others. Thank you for your videos, you are SO very helpful!!! I’ll be back with intentions :)

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

Thank you SO much for sharing that with me... I'm honored to hear how much you enjoyed this video! xo

@lisarosewright1602 Год назад

Wow! This was my all time favorite video of yours. Such beautiful and uplifting words and concepts. I am loving your content lately. It was always great but you are stepping into a whole new vibe and I am here for it Erin! My intention, after seeing this, is to go into my newly organized closet and really work on putting new outfits together without buying anything new. I’m going to expand my mind a little more. I really want to meet you one day in person. You are truly an inspiration and you are lighting it up girl! Thank you for being here.

@1960genius Год назад

HI Erin! I have always enjoyed your videos and the information you share on your channel. Your recent videos and information you've shared REALLY speak to me! I'm so grateful for you!! Thank you❣

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

You are SO welcome! I'm honored to have you here in this amazing community. Truly appreciate your support. xo

@kimgurley472 Год назад

Love everything about this concept!!! 💗💗💗

@joh4647 Год назад

LOVE THIS VIDEO ERIN!!! Thank you!! ❤❤❤❤❤

@UNREDACTEDTRUTH Год назад

OH MY GOSH! That Brown Leather Jacket at 13:02!!!! Is that a Balmain?? I NEED that JACKET!!!!!!!

@joannemainella70 Год назад

Thanks for your positivity and empowerment, Erin. You've parlayed your career, which was seemingly external and public (from what you've shared, ) into something more personal and service oriented. We are the beneficiaries. You and your family are lovely. Your demeanor is calm, supportive and courageous. You have the total package, but retain humility along with a much needed honesty and "come on now, step it up" and" find your own strength" vibe, kind of like a benovlent ,yet demanding mentor. I appreciate how you connect fashion and self- esteem. Though your style is stunning and aspirational, it is different from mine here in NH, but you make that seem okay! I'm not a glam girl; I've got more of an East coast traditional-yet hip -aesthetic. Still, I find myself tuning into your You Tube tutorials. Thanks! Best to you from NH! Jo

@kat_thefruitbat Год назад

You are so creative, and I love the way you think 😊 This approach is so intuitive and universally accessible 🤗 I like the idea of putting your favorite pieces in a special section of your closet- I’m going to do this! ❤️

@ancatoma37 Год назад

Congratulations for this video, Erin, and for all your work! And thank you! ❤️

@jericlarke3809 Год назад

I enjoy how authentic you are

@manwellagrero Год назад

OMG this video made my day 😍 These are life changing tips.. Thank you Erin 💕

@susanbrechbiel7033 Год назад

I LOVE THIS SOOOO MUCH ERIN, THANK U! I love to hear about manifestation and raising your vibration and how do I want to feel to today, all things I needed to hear especially for January n the year ahead, I am intending on meditating and putting that into my schedule so I can REALLY FOCUS on what I want n that’s key when the feeling is there so GREAT VIDEO! I have been watching your channel for years so I appreciate all that u do n you n your team n the topics are spot on with everyday life and helping ppl in many areas! I treated myself to a cashmere sweater, medium brown beautiful color n sooooo very soft, luxurious n I treated myself for the love I have for myself, my hard work, for doing a GREAT JOB w/ all of my areas of responsibilities n for accomplishment of certain goals I had for last year, when I wear it, I do feel a certain way n I will try your suggestions, thanks for mentioning to write them down in a notebook to refer to! I think making things a habit, helps me to practice more in new areas to change, big hugs from PA! I will probably have to replay this a few times lol, but that’s ok! 😜❤️🎁💕⭐️

@RoseTheOver70MakeupArtist Год назад

That was one of the most sincerest things I think you could have done for other women , I am 74-year-old widow and I thought back at pictures of myself in my mind ,when I was young and beautiful, and my husband thought I looked sexy, it was black with a slit on the side, but I can't wear things like that now because of my age, I want to be more cheerful, I have depression, and health problems, watching death of my husband and my entire family and losing our home and everything just wore me down, but I want to be like I used to be, and feel more attractive so I do wear makeup for myself, and I found now dressing very womanly makes me feel so much better in my heart and soul, God bless you for bringing this up for me, and all women of all ages, especially mature women! God bless you that was a wonderful help to women to think like we used to! when we were young or if we're young to bring it out! Thank you again xoxo Rose 🌹❤️

@gospelrecordingartiststyli3848 Год назад

Great video, Erin! 💖

@michelleneuman579 Год назад

This is a terrific topic for a New Year!!!

@melaniemcneil407 Год назад

I feel most powerful and joyful when I am active -- hiking, weightlifting, working out. They aren't great fashion moments! But this does help me frame better, how do I want to feel today? And what can I do to feel that way. Useful exercise especially when broadened to more areas of life. Thanks.

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

Definitely works with many areas of life! Thanks for sharing, Melanie! xo

@reneevanveen7280 Год назад

Thank you Erin ❤ thank you!

@lisamcculloh9584 Год назад

I love this video! Finally someone is showing those of us who are fashion-challenged simple fashion techniques to find our own style! I’m going to make the list of feelings I had during my beautiful experience, condense them so I can look at them frequently, go to Pinterest and save outfits I like and pull out the things I love in my closet. I’m going to make daily plans and try to build an outfit that elicits the feeling I had on my special day. I’m looking forward to the process!

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

SO glad this was helpful for you, Lisa! Thanks so much for being a part of this amazing community. xo

@nancygurr4200 Год назад

Thank you Erin! I so appreciate your videos. In my previous life I used to be fashionable and I showed up for life and work everyday. Then I became a Mom. I got super busy juggling kids, pets, a husband, in-laws, a yard, a house and activities for my family. I didn’t even consider me. I got my hair done and I have a uniform of black pants and some top and beautiful coats. That’s it. So this year is for me-not selfishly just intensional and only you and who ever reads this will know. I am going to sign up for your course as I own a lot of clothes but have nothing to wear. I am rekindling my creative side and going to put outfits together so that I am not always last on the list when we head out the door. I am starting with a more colorful lip-no longer trying to be invisible. And then tomorrow is my nails. Thank you so much. Even though I don’t know you, I understand your spirit and I am so grateful.

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

I am so glad you are here, Nancy! It is time to become a priority again! You deserve this time. Thank you so much for sharing! xo

@jessw6617 Год назад

Good for you Nancy... bet your bold lip said confidence today and your nails tomorrow will tie everything together x

@martinedeecee Год назад

THIS, this!! Woman! My favorite of your videos. Thank you so much. I will attempt a pinterest especially for me, and dedicate it to you Erin. xo

@SpartaWarriorCodeRed Год назад

Love your videos. So fun and informative.

@nicolestall5511 Год назад

Amazing!!!! Love this ❤

@GailIvey Год назад

Awesome video, Erin! My intention is to lose weight so that I can get back into all the clothes that made me feel great before the pandemic. I started losing the weight at the first of the year, and I've already lost about 10 pounds, with about 15 to go. Can't wait to get back into my deep aqua lace gown that made me feel so confident and beautiful!

@valeriemcintyre3219 Год назад

You are such an inspiration!

@mojsharhappy Год назад

Hi Erin, I really like it when you explore and extend fashion into happiness. I believe we look good when we feel good and we feel good when we look good.... we go back and forth.....So love the idea of dressing to feel what we want to feel! my commitment: create a vision fashion board

@mikki3961 Год назад

Erin, this made me cry. My special outfit: I had just had my son, so I'm bloated, I'm nursing, I am sore and tired. He was two weeks old and I had an event with my hubs. Black tie. AND I had to leave my baby with my MIL....lol I wore my hair up, done professionally, bold lip and a sapphire blue gown. That dress was so out of my norm, it was so beautiful and I felt like a queen. I wasn't a wife, a daughter or a mom, I was ME. THANK YOU, for allowing me to remember that night in all its glorious detail.

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

Love to hear about your special outfit!! Thanks so much for sharing! xo

@aidahimawan6482 Год назад

Omg erin….that water crystal theory ❄️💦is so true!!! Thank u for the wonderful video🌹😍

@christinenicholls3168 Год назад

Thank you for this inspiring video! I will create a board with outfits that I love! ❤❤❤

@millymay0025 Год назад

This is fascinating and one of the most useful style vlogs I’ve heard! Thank you for giving us so much to think about and inspiration!❤

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

You are so welcome! I'm SO glad this was helpful for you... Thanks for watching! xo

@marymaddy7450 Год назад

Thank you for sharing ❤

@amymickey1487 Год назад

Thank you Erin! I am going to invest in some accessories for the outfits that I have in my rotation to change things up. ❤

@madeleine83 Год назад

Absolutely love this content!

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

SO glad this was helpful for you! xo

@maj-brittfryksmo6288 Год назад

Thank you Erin 🎀

@kristahand Год назад

You are a TREASURE! 💝 Thank you so much for the wisdom, inspiration and common sense❣My intention with regard to my fashion style is to have it reflect my authentic character, expression, inner beauty, mood, and energy✨... and these bring me feelings of comfort and empowerment!

@robinniksa2174 Год назад

Spot on, Erin. Good video

@Atomicpixiedust26 Год назад

Love this! Thank you, I keep seeing the seasons and trying to put myself in a box and still feel lost and uncomfortable! Thanks for explaining it this way ❤

@janetjaken1389 Год назад

My plan is to put my favorite colors front and center in my closet and wear them! I will not allow myself to feel dowdy anymore. Thank you, Erin.🌸💖

@kerriuttaro6153 Год назад

Loved this!!!

@7777ddddssss Год назад

Erin, Simply loving the new types of messages on your channel! Powerful! I'm going to wear less makeup and try to show my skin and not hide behind it. Sending Love, Diane

@sarathatcher3349 Год назад

I love your videos that relate to therapy and emotional wellness. Thanks!

@mikaelamoveson 7 месяцев назад

I love this video. I struggled at first to think of a time I felt really beautiful and then I remembered standing in front of a mirror 21 years ago trying my wedding dress on to show my mum who I lost 7 years later. I had a short pixie haircut and she told me I looked like an elf princess. I never forgot her sweet comment. It was a rare time where I felt beautiful, elegant, regal, a bit ethereal but also just a little bit cheeky and mischievous and sweet…. Like a fairy! 😂 I’m now 50 so I’m closer to fairy godmother age 👀 but I will remember her words and how I felt and now that I’m separated from my husband and starting a new life alone I’m going to embrace making myself feel that way again. Thanks Erin 😊❤

@BusbeeStyle 7 месяцев назад

What a beautiful memory, Mikaela. Thank you so much for sharing that with me here...Wishing you the best on your current journey to feeling this way again! You deserve it. xo

@sombrerosmom Год назад

I’ve enjoyed this video most of all of yours. You’ve got a look that I feel like I want a little piece of and I feel like I figured it out. I’m not overly frilly or a girlie girl per se, but I like being comfortable in my skin. And I see that in you. You totally pull off the blush tulle gown and that just wouldn’t ever be me. But now I feel like I understand a little better what “me” is (when it comes to fashion).

@catherinegloria7266 Год назад

Love this! I love feeling pulled together meaning styling what ever I'm wearing from head to toe. Not just throwing on what ever due to lack of thought and time.

@marianamsn 9 месяцев назад

Spectacular!!!!!!!!

@esther3193 Год назад

Thank you so much. I always enjoy listening to you. I have sent me a lot, so thank you so much.❤

@dananichols5260 Год назад

Why did this bring tears to my eyes?! And compression in my chest from emotions. To think of oneself in such a way can be a challenge and struggle. You, precious Erin, are teaching us to research, dive deep and honor ourselves. I thank you.

@esmeralda42 Год назад

This is so wonderful, Erin!😍❤️💃 Brillant meditation, thank you soooooo much! 🙆‍♀️

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

You're so welcome! I'm so glad you enjoyed this one, Esmeralda. xo

@wilandilaubscher9030 Год назад

Love this Erin and you are always such a good example to other women. We need to understand that women have to look out for one another - but we tend to unfortunately do the opposite. As I get older, I have loads of changes and one of these are "perspectives" I have, are changing. About me, other people, the world etc. So thanks for this, I am going to implement this for sure. Lots of love💌

@lucasbeaglemixwithdcm5798 Год назад

You are absolutely Bella inside and out ! Yes, you are right!! I only use the things that make me happy 💕😃

@jochen6578 Год назад

What an empowering video with a great message ! Love all your videos very informative content .

@marciamachado6557 Год назад

I love that method. So wonderful. Thank you, Erin.

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

You are so welcome! I'm glad this was helpful for you, Marcia! xo

@silvanam8152 Год назад

I LOVED THIS! Thank you so much!

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

So glad you enjoyed this one! Thank you for watching! xo

@caropetitjean Год назад

Thank u Busbee ! U’re amazing. I like u so much. U´re very generous and give us really interesting and inspiring ideas. Thanks à lot ! 🎉 ❤

@glam815 Год назад

Love this advice and exercise. I’ve stopped wearing clothes I don’t like and only those I gravitate for since I started following you and I have felt so happy since.

@phouavaj Год назад

Hi Erin, I was so happy to see a new video up. Recently, I have been focusing on self care. Regardless of how tired I am I will always invest time and effort into doing my skincare routine and hair care routine everyday. It has made such a huge positive difference in how I feel and look on a day-by-day basis. Because of you I have started investing in myself and am doing so much better with my journey of self love and realizing how important and impactful self care is. Thank you

@yifatjovani333 Год назад

Amazing!❤️

@KristaHarrisSB Год назад

Wonderful video, so inspiring and I am taking many ideas from this… one is to put my favorite pieces front and center in my closet. I just realized that not everything has to be carefully sorted by type and color, which ends up burying some of your favorite pieces. I really like your idea of putting the focus on the things that you love and make you feel good. Why not have that visual reminder every time you look at your clothes and decide what to wear? Thanks so much!

@maryanncarmody5646 Год назад

I love this! I am going to make a Pinterest board. What you’ve presented here makes so much sense. Suggesting to pull out our favorites pieces also is genius as I am currently cleaning out my closet, getting rid of things I haven’t worn, don’t like, out of style, etc. so this came at a perfect time for me. Thank you!

@rhondaisler1882 2 месяца назад

no inentions, thanks for the comments about feelings, thats a small game changer ❤

@dobinsonfamily3146 Год назад

Hi Erin, I’ve been watching your videos for years and this one has resonated with me the most by far. Thank you for continuing to share your knowledge, gifts and advice 🫶

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

Wow, thank you so much for saying that! SO glad this resonates with you. xo

@tracygray7574 Год назад

Thank you for this video! It really helped me look at myself and realize I can look and feel fantastic every single day and keep that memory to use in every day life! Pink, blues, and neutrals are some of my favorite colors and I always feel fantastic when I wear each of them!

@jillybean55 Год назад

Many thanks Erin! Just echoing others here - I’m going to coordinate my favorite pieces and add different accessories for variety - I like that it’s ‘okay’ to wear them on a regular basis and not feel like I need to wear something completely different every day - awesome! 🎉❤

@lizsmith3717 Год назад

Another Home Run Erin!!! I am going to share this with my two young adult daughters!! Thank you!

@jenniferbastolla1197 Год назад

I love this! I did a new year's purge of my closet and have decided anything new I bring to it must meet the criteria you have outlined. I think this will have a huge impact on what ends up in my closet and how I feel everyday.

@dawnkidd1567 Год назад

Thank you Erin you make this a wonderful place to be.

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

SO glad you are here! I couldn't do it without this amazing community of women. xo

@terihillgartner5702 Год назад

Awww....love you too! Got to get ready for work. Thinking about this. Thanks Erin!!!

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

I am so glad this resonates with you, Teri! xo

@danalaborde1525 Год назад

Great video. As a 64 year old,its hard to keep this going. I truly believe this,but when retired, there's not much reason for doing all this. However, I have done much of that thru the years. I have a private Pinterest board, I only wear a bold lip, I have made a note section in my phone of what you talked about. I love dressing up ,but,I'm also a jeans girl ! My color is red as well as black, blue and fuschia. I love lace,silk, cashmere ,and velvets. I like a little shimmer as well. I don't like loud prints as well, mostly solids. I have a Mardi Gras Ball coming up with a garnet red velvet dress, can't wait! Plan on taking pics!

@erinorourke1372 Год назад

My intention is too feel free, and put together. Since I work from home and workout twice each day (yoga and walking) I’m going to figure out how I can be zoom ready and look this way in athleisure. My safe and happy color is dark green. I love this video so much. Thank you ♥️

@anaratimchenko2455 Год назад

Thank you so much for this exercise! Through this I discovered things about myself that I didn’t realize I needed. 🙏❤️ I am going to dedicate more of my time to creative thoughtful makeup. 💄

@CCKittyKat931 Год назад

Hi Erin thanks for sharing.I always feel my best when I dress authentically . You look stunning❤

@barbarareeves8754 Год назад

It's actually amazing. I did exactly that in November. Decided to clean my wardrobe and keep only clothes that I'm excited to wear, clothes that makes me happy. I also started to take pictures of myself everyday to catalogue and see what I'm actually wearing and how it that looks on me. I discovered, with shock actually, that the colours that look the best on me are not the colours I thought was "mine". I always thought I'm "autumn" and locked my self in greens, browns... but from the pictures I found out that I'm actually look much better and Happier in pink, blue and cream, and every time I'm wearing those colours I'm feeling great and have lots of compliments, so totally right here! It works! Thank you so much for your videos and hard work, your enthusiasm is contagious 😊 ❤️ Thank you 😊

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

Closet editing is SUCH a powerful tool for your life. Thank you for sharing your own journey! xo

@kbsyoutube3304 Год назад

This is such a great video. I have an area of my closet that has my clothes that I love wearing. So I will be more intentional about dressing to feel a certain way.

@lizsmith3717 Год назад

I recently made my album in Pinterest, I have that picture of me hanging in my kitchen and it’s of me and my mom in Paris! I’m a solid color girl too and Winter White is my favorite! Thanks again❤

@Nettesvideo Год назад

Such a nice and very poignant video, Erin! This is definitely one to watch several times. "Feeling" is really what it is about for me, but I never thought about it that way 🤔 So thank you.

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

I am so glad this spoke to you. Thank you for watching! xo

@kimmiebowlinjg Год назад

Loved this video! I’m going to look through my current Pinterest boards and see if I can find a common thread. I’ve been pinning looks for years. Thanks for the idea!

@madeleine83 Год назад

Going thru my closet gathering my favs

@christinamarquez9199 Год назад

Thank you for the video.

@daniellebanerjee8668 Год назад

Thank you Erin for this video. It was so helpful. The things I added recently were keeping my eyebrows shaped a new way and wearing a fun new ring. I want to begin adding a bold lipcolor going forward now in January onwards a couple of days a week. Thanks for this fun exercise and I look forward to adding more fun things to my style that make me feel good.

@journeyofsimplicitywithmay2978 Год назад

I’m very thankfully for ur video today Because I’m trying to coming out for my comfort zone U super right,, I’m going to try new things and share it with u// Was ready to cry at some point!!

@carrielynn1978 Год назад

Good Morning Erin!!!! I think I found my style and it's kind of a mix of mountain sporty style. I feel comfortable in that style and it makes me feel happy! It took me a while to find it but I found it!

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

Thanks so much for sharing, Carrie! xo

@SunFlower-xp6hw Год назад

I always knew you were highly intelligent and all these videos you have done on finding your true self are totally amazing! You are such a blessing and inspire me with every one of your videos.Bravo for sharing with all of us.❤😊👍

@LizLyonsPhD Год назад

Erin, as usual, you are talking about something it is time for me to hear. My love languages are gifting and affirming words, so I have realized this year that buying myself beautiful things is my way of loving myself. I want to feel magnificent in my clothes and you have helped me to see this and own it. Thank you!

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

I'm so glad this came at just the right time for you, Liz. Love the way you choose to show yourself love...inspiring for us all! xo

@LizLyonsPhD Год назад

@@BusbeeStyle I should add that I am my art project, I do dress for myself (don't take many selfies though, will have to start doing that). I too love sparkle, shine, silk and velvet, sleek profiles, close to the body, in creams and blacks mostly but with red too. YOU are my inspiration, Erin. xoxo

@djtomlinson3797 Год назад

Thank you, Erin! I watched every video in the link you shared. I purchased hangers, motion sensor closet lighting, (already had rolling rack) and followed all your steps to edit / organize. Your advice was extremely helpful and inspiring! You said it would take 2 days to complete. It took 2 WEEKS! HaHa. Not a small task, but so worth it. It's fun now "shopping" from my own personal boutique! I appreciate you and thank you so much for sharing your expertise with us all!

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

I am SO glad to hear it was helpful for you! Yes, it can be a big task...but definitely worth it! Thanks so much for sharing... xo

@natalieglock9575 Год назад

Thank you I’m going to stop worrying about dressing for my age (menopause anxiety) and take your advice an dress for me, I’m also going to get my hair sorted out xxx you always look amazing by the way x

@aliciamarana Год назад

Thank you ❤

@stickman1215 Год назад

I keep rewatching this - sometimes just listening as I’m on my morning walk. The first time, I was not able to think of a single time when I felt amazing. At the age of 61, that is just sad. 😢 I’ve been paying more attention to how clothes make me feel and I’m starting to understand why I’ve been buying things that I end up not wearing - they don’t make me feel good because they are not “me”! Two weeks ago, I bought some tall, stiletto cowboy boots - in red. 😍 Paired them with some distressed skinny jeans and a simple black top with a crazy sleeve and felt amazing. My boyfriend did a double take but I DID NOT CARE (because you prepared me for comments from loved ones!). I want to feel like this every day!

@albam.2607 Год назад

Hi Erin. Thank you for this exercise helping us understand that we don't have to be boxed into a style. I always thought it was very constricting to have a personal style; I feel different in different clothes and that's what makes me happy. Never want to get caught up in a category or a word (classic or grunge). Appreciate you!

@BusbeeStyle Год назад

I appreciate YOU more than you know! xo

@mercedeskerr720 Год назад

Kind, gentle, funny, joyful, special, harmonious and elegant. Confortable, flows, texture, definitely bold lipstick when in the mood. Love the topic today

@HolisticHomebody 11 месяцев назад

Erin, I love your channel and content, but especially this video! I completely relate to trying to put myself into a “perfectionist box” and I’m done with that. I did the exercise and found it super helpful and am now inspired to also find images that make me feel the way I want to feel and save them to an album on my phone, so I can be inspired daily. Thank you for your inspiration!

@BusbeeStyle 11 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for sharing that with me. I'm SO glad this exercise was helpful for you! xo