Divorce Attorney Reveals Why Women initiate 70% of divorces 

Cheating and treating someone with respect doesn’t even go in the same sentence.

A lot of adults have a problem with co-parenting cause they haven't matured and still stuck on THEIR gratification instead of the child's (who didn't ask to be here)

7:40 3rd boyfriend and still not divorce is crazy. Says a lot about a Women able to find another Man to take place.

After listening to the attorney I still don’t know why women file 70% other than they had an unrealistic ideal that did not happen. If there is not commitment to the vows and God, it won’t last.

I'm with rico when we separate we're done no hanging out done im not that mature lol❤❤

Soo she always gotta a excuse for women but when it come to men she very direct and cut throat

I think they should've had a male attorney's perspective

This female attorney got on here and played dumb. If men think she was gonna get in front of this camera and tell real reasons why they divorce and the tactics lawyers like her use to get the most money out of the men..you're crazy

We also forgot about being in tribes, now it's the "me and mine" mentality ... The irony of this is why they say black folks can't come together

RIP to Kevin Samuels

Rules to a satisfactory marriage. FTK! They gone leave y'all at some point and start their own lives. Don't pour all your lifeforce into a child and not your spouse. Have a healthy hobby that is separate from your spouse. Have clear boundaries for opposite sex acquaintances(I didn't say friend for a reason).

30:30 I think it really depends on how the marriage ended. When people speak of bitter exes sometimes they are bitter because they got cheated on. It's like cheetahs don't want to take accountability for the hurt that they did to the other person. Imagine your kids being around the guy who was banging your wife while you were married to her.

It’s not that you don’t know your partner until they have kids, a lot of people don’t know who they are going to be when they have kids. Everything before that is speculation. No matter how much you try to get to know someone ahead of time, the truth is you never fully know someone bc you don’t know who that person is going to be when they lose their job, house catch on fire, car get stolen, car accident, sickness/injury, death. All of those things change a person.

Every woman have an exit plan before that big day of marriage

Honestly, this was a wonderful and informative conversation to listen.

The Lawyers and the Court wins

There is serious static on this episode fyi.

I have been married 25 yrs. Been with my wife since we both 19 so I have experience. We have allowed women to feel like they have to be happy 100% of the marriage. Also no sense of duty to the marriage and the family. Anyway, marriage today is dead. Men today are not looking to get married anymore. Good luck .

She said she believes women file for divorce more often than men because women are better at paperwork. WTF?!!. Amazing how she dodged the fact of women's selfish nature and prominent advantage in family court while simultaneously complimenting them too.

Have any of these people actually Been married? And who made these people relationship experts? Dude with the Locs probably never cut grass a day in his life. What type of woman you think he attracts?

Actually crazy bro mad expensive too

The part about the grandma @ 25:00 is the dumbest thing Ive heard, if dude is retire from working and taking care of “grandma” why she asking telling “he can’t stay for too long” like lady u live a house that man paid for …people are staight up delusional

...yep..Rite around 30 -40, she wants to get rite back out to the streets 😂😂

There is lots of static in the background

Soooo don’t get married then or stay w that person forever chile…

Husband got cheated on is perfect example why you don't tell your wife about your business especially if it's not legit

This is why marriage as an institution by today's societal image does not work. If your goal is to be married than stick to the curriculum from day 1.

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RICO said bringing a new man around with your child is a problem and they said it’s not.. WE ARE ADVOCATING FOR MEN TO BE WITH THIER FAMILIES AND WOMAN NOT TO BE WICKED AND IT GOES OVER THESE WICKED WOMAN HEAD

What she doesn't seem to understand is that if you push a man until he's almost out of control, he might grab you by the neck because he's still trying not to hurt you seriously. If he didn't care or thought he could get away with it and wanted to really hurt you, he'd start hitting you like you were a man. It sounds bad but many women don't recognize mercy when they see it. You can push anybody too far.

Thats why you don't bring ppl youre dating around family unless we bout to get married aint no meeting nobody.

Naw only issue I would have with my child's mother having a new dude is her just springing it on me. Introduce me to him b4 he meets my kids and if hes cool cool.

Shes right stepparents get called Aunt/Uncle in Haitian culture as sign of respect.

Lawyer lost credibility not giving the real real

Women actually divorce other women more in same sex relationships.

Rip the license move on

I suspect, women are statistically more likely to be married to troubled men, then men are to be married to troubled women. So it's not shocking to me that more women need to get out than men do on average. -20% of men are addicts vs 7% women -25% of men cheat vs 13% women -10-30% of all men commit domestic violence at some point in their lifetime vs 10-20% women -Nearly 1 in 5 women (18.3%) and 1 in 71 men (1.4%) have been raped in their lifetime. -93.3% of inmates are male, while 6.7% are female I'd also like to add the core motivations for the feminist movement was to grant women equal rights in the workforce, in large part because countless women suffered in horrible marriages and couldn't leave and support themselves. Unfortunately bad men have always existed. My great grandmother has huge lumps on her outer wrists. I learned later in life it was because her husband threw her out of a 3rd story window and she broke her arms when she hit the pavement. My other grandmother had memories of her mother taking the kids and standing outside a hotel in the morning with her children waiting for her husband to come outside after having been with his mistress. Another great grandmother took on the cause of abolishing alcohol and was as a teetotaler because her husband spent all the money on alcohol and they literally couldn't feed their children. My great aunt suffered from domestic violence and became catatonic and put in a mental ward. Her 7 children all ended up in an orphanage. I think what we're seeing today, largely is what would've happened all along had women had the option to leave troubled men. There's also the domestic labor part of the equation. The average working full-time married woman with children puts in 3 hours a day in domestic labor while her husband averages less than an hour. I think some women are exhausted and feel taken for granted and decide they're better off doing it alone and file for divorce. If you're an upstanding man who prioritizes finding an upstanding woman with character you really don't need to be paranoid about divorce. If you have struggle to stay out of trouble and make good choices you should worry about your mate reaching a breaking point. Go get help and find community at church or in support groups that'll help you be a better person. If you didn't have great role models when you were young take a course on healthy relationships or find a counselor to acquire these skills, and look for a partner who's got these skills to build a life with if you're seeking a long term mate. Having a healthy supportive relationship is one of the best things life can offer. I'm rooting for you!

Marriage has nothing to do with love. Because if love was already there, when yall were on a relationship than theres no reason to go into a legal agreement to stay together. If you wouldnt start a business with her, you shouldnt get married with her

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After the attorney said she got a divorce because of a dog, which she said she wanted gone had me like WTF!! She is one of the 70% Problem. Maybe need a Male attorney to tell the real. Women lie to dam much! 😂

1 main ingredient why it's so high.....no god in the relationship

The guy in the brown with shades is a whole clown. Very immature!

They over talked the expert all the time. Wish y'all can stf up for a minute.

Maybe replace Mr. Profanity/Mr. Sunglasses has no respect for your guest at all. He actually sounds like he doesn't respect women OR himself. If he must be there, maybe he can just sit there and look pretty. Sounds like the other guy in the blue needs some relationship therapy from past or current hurt.

Marriage is between two people. You do your vows in front of God and these witnesses. It ain't say nothing about no courthouse say we are here in front of God and these witnesses. Put your marriage license between a Bible. Have faith in each other and if not you all want to end the marriage. Just tell the marriage license. Don't take it down to the courthouse soon as you do you get that third party rights

we know why women file for divorce 80% of the time. They can now leave due women being able to take care of themselves now, they can now leave if being cheated on or abused, men dont believe that household chores are their responsibility too, also men are refusing to open up and express their feelings, thats a miscommunication in the relationship and thats not fair to the woman either. Notice how men will stay with a woman he doesnt trust to express his feelings too but most women will leave if they didnt feel safe

That gotta be 1 helluva women to pay her divorce fees I don’t think no one that special 🫡