Do EUROPEANS Date the Same Way? 

Agree

what a shame, as a latino from the America's its sad to see Spain turn too liberal and lose its traditions@@miguelberdia5511

thats such a sad way of life ngl

​@@marvin2678 Yeah honeslty... I moved to Spain a year ago from Poland and between Spanish guys and Latin guys, judging by my experience, I definitely prefer the Latin ones. The stereotypes about "passion" and "fun" Spanish people.. I just don't see that at all. Maybe it's just Madrid tho, but the guys seem super passive.

@@ari_jean oh No i meant sleeping around with so many people frequently that you some how have a Talk about how your exclusive now...interesting Expience tho from your Side

Ha ha true

And how intensely she was looking at the Hungarian guy when he went " man must be a gentleman every time". Like "Okay you can take me out" lol

Yeah, it's called prostitution

🤦‍♂️When you pretend men to pay for you in exchange for sex is called prostitution and for an illusion of sex is called scam.

​​@@Frivals incel cigarette

Haley Anne Your Right En I Appreciate

I think it all originates in the respect: to your own self, to your parents, to your family, to the other person. Of course people are free to get married or not, to start a family or not, but if you go in life respectfully with your moral values , big chances are that you will have the key to have later and forever a loving, and caring family.

I agree! (also from US btw)

Traditional is staying a virgin until marriage. If you already spread your legs, you are not traditional. And if you expect anything material (like a plate of food), for your company during dinner, you are literally an escort. Possibly a prostitute.

It's disrespectful to the woman to split the bill. Unless you don't wanna be equal.

and what about the women ? is she in the kitchen like in the middle ages ?

Aw, love your grandpa’s advice❤. I agree, too.

@@ilhuicatlamatini on a more serious note I would like to ask as a 26 years old grandpa - are there any roles for women ? Since men are the protectors, providers and thousands other roles combined etc .... where is the equality here ?

Portugal has been changing very quickly fortunately 👍

​@@dominicdannies7482they must be alive. That's their only obligation for a relationship 😂

Oke, but in Hungary lets not forget that in Hungary there are differences between the woman and the man salaries!

sounds like a healthy social norm in my opinion

Oh dang, 😮

I had no idea she was Italian in the beginning. Even afterwards, she looks Irish and speaks English with a Swedish accent 😂

​@@geoffoakland she looks italian

Yeah so it’s just as degenerate as the rest of the west….. shame

​@@manchesterunited4619lol they are proud of being degenerate

🤦‍♂️When you pretend men to pay for you in exchange for sex is called prostitution and for an illusion of sex is called scam.

So to avoid women in Spain that have slept with many guys, you should try to find the ones that don't go clubbing, right?

​​@@LCdic09ust avoid spain and do us a favor

Vivaaaa

🤦‍♂️When you pretend men to pay for you in exchange for sex is called prostitution and for an illusion of sex is called scam.

I notested that... and I found it strange In Portugal it's completly the opposite of what she said. *If* you want an open relation you have to say it *imediatly* otherwise people will assume exclusivity. One-night stands I undertsand... but even friends with benefits can mean some exclusivity, it depends you have to talk about it.

in Madrid it isn´t like that and I haven´t heard of anywhere where it is like that, sure if you have gone on 8 dates and really like each other it is expected but you aren´t anything serious until you say it, until that point you are just dating not girlfriend/boyfriend

@@jaorXLUZ entonces estás de acuerdo, ella no dice que en las parejas no haya exclusividad, dice que por tener alguna cita eso no te hace tener exclusividad y no empezáis a ser novios sin hablarlo

@@QwertyUiop-bs2zr Me expresé mal en mi respuesta a tu comentario, así que por eso lo he borrado y voy a expresarme mejor. No, no estoy de acuerdo. Es cierto que el hecho de quedar varias veces con alguien no significa que ya tengas algo serio... simplemente se están conociendo para ver si quieren algo serio o no. Pero eso no significa que mientras que dos personas se están conociendo con vistas a tener algo serio o no, estén a la vez quedando con otras personas. No tiene sentido que Fulano/a X esté quedando con Fulana/o Y para ver si quieren algo serio, y cuando Fulano/a X quiere dar el paso finalmente, Y le responda que no, porque ha estado quedando paralelamente con Fulano/a Z y que mejor se va con él/ella. No tiene sentido, y al menos en mi ambiente se ve pésimo que alguien actué así. Es una muestra de tener la responsabilidad afectiva de un ornitorrinco.

@@QwertyUiop-bs2zr lol thats such a sad little culture

To me, its not about popular or unpopulat. Its about understanding the differences

sad culture

love spain from turkey

Why is it sad? So nice that dating is equally shared by men and women and we don't have social pressure to marry whomever. It's freedom and respect !

sad

Don't they still do?

@@lxportugal9343 especially Italy I'd say

Especially moral values, they should have the same.

​@lxportugal9343 France has a very prominent agnostic and atheist population. Spain has a large number of non-practicing Catholics, who typically don't go to church and disagree with many catholic sentiments.

@@devinmes1868 non-practicing Catholics...are still Catholics

A spanish woman who lives in a big city like Barcelona can be culturally very different from other perhaps more conservative areas. The same thing that can happen with someone from New York compared to another areas of ​​the country. Likewise, in Spain, women like to be independent and do not look for the prince charming to invite them and kneel down to ask them to marry them, this last thing is quite corny and outdated.

yeah, spanish women are very independent and we don‘t like others to invite us or pay for us on the first o second date as a norm. It really depends on the couple, but as the girl said, we don’t like owing people anything. When you‘re friends or longterm partners, this can change a bit (maybe someone wants to invite the other and that‘s usually okay), but overall it is like she said. I treat my friends and boyfriend often and viceversa, and if you‘re at someone‘s house and get home delivery, usually the person of the house is the one to pay. Also, young people have a dire economic situation due to low wages, so I feel like that also makes people pay what they have consumed and not expect the other to pay for them, since it could be burdensome.

​@@jaumemontim Irish. I am told gentlemen often like the traditional proposal

​@@annedonnellan6876No 😂😮

Yeah, I'm from Texas too. My fiancee is too. He will not allow for me to pay for anything. And we like it that way. It shows me the appreciation he has for me. I do like to treat him though and make sure to show my love to him as well.

bare minimum

Yeah, poor guy. He hasn't been confronted with reality of things nowadays.

​@@rafae5902no it's the country. In central and Eastern Europe we are not that woke. So there are still a lot of trafitional men and women. I'm also hungarian and here it's customary for the man to pay and I think it should be this way everywhere but I also think that a well raised woman should offer to pay and when the man declines then accept it and thank to him. This should be the way.

@@danielsz8222I am Hungarian-American and working on my citizenship and I agree with the Hungarian culture. I also liked the italian and irish

@@rafae5902seems you’ve been confronted with women scamming you?

​@@Mark-eu6mc not yet, fortunately, because I've always avoided the crazy ones, however, very much like car insurance, you take actions to avoid future damages and the worst case scenario becoming true

Tiene razón ella, cada vez menos gente se casa y cada vez hay menos tradición religiosa. Tiene toda la razón

@@luisfernandez4057 ya, pero no por ello el matrimonio queda anticuado.

I am confused by your reactions because if you look up the marriage rates for Spain, they are on the lower end for Europe and the world. Not the lowest but near the bottom. Try it out. Google marriage rates by country. That is also what I personally have heard from people living in larger cities. Could it be different in other smaller towns perhaps?

@@free22 I would like to know where you have looked it up because I haven't seen that anywhere. It is true that the marriage rate is low, but far from being the worst.

I never said that Spain had the lowest marriage rates. Only that they are consistently near the lower end of European rankings for fertility rates. The same is true for fertility rates. Just google marriage rates by country in Europe. Spain is near the bottom.

🤦‍♂️When you pretend men to pay for you in exchange for sex is called prostitution and for an illusion of sex is called scam.

If you're not having children, its not really valuable.

@@LisaSoulLevelHealing Well I do have children, 2. Yet never married, if you mean this in the topic of marriage

@@Frivals it's not prostitution if both sides know and agree on it

@@mizulightblue that's called consensual prostitution

Men are providers and women deserve to be cherished and taken care of.

@Arginne men can be providers when women are women like taking care being loyal etc hurt cause u are a woman dont mean u deserve to be cherished if u treat well you get treated well it's 100 percent on both sides

>they were a lot more conservative and traditional than other European countries No shit man,they were under Catholic fascist dictatorship, ofcourse they would be more conservative and traditional back then

Pendulum effect after the dictatorship ended in 1975.

I am disappointed

pretty sad

Im disappointed I can tell spain is not for me from this video and I much more resonate with Hungary italy and ireland

🤦‍♂️When you pretend men to pay for you in exchange for sex is called prostitution and for an illusion of sex is called scam.

@@Frivals projecting much?

Most of youngsters in Galicia think exactly the same things as she said

I'd say it's more of a generation divide, rather than a regional one.

Isnt it s stereotype that Catalonians are notoriously frugal ?

​@@ivanmacgar6447You're right, my friend from Cádiz tells me his grandparents are pretty religious and conservative but he is not at all

As a venezuelan, I agree on this

It is like that too in the South of US as well.

The women paying is not emasculating. Men under 40yo are fed up with foodie calls. Most men just don't speak it out loud.

@@greenytaddict crazy, it hought yall americasn are the one sleeping around

@@LNVACVACyou really think women spend their little free time with you listening to your boring ass stories and dealing with your boring personality for a free meal?

No need :) it will be on the website so you can definitely access

@@DatingBeyondBorders Good to know. Looking forward to it :)

Hi Hungarian guy here. I think you pay the bill in the beginning of going out ofc. But once your together she pays something also, like you get the meal she pays maybe the drinks in the bar you go to after etc. Once your solid, and clearly a couple to be fair. Dating is oldschool courting mostly in Hungary sonyou pay because your gentleman and wanna give a good impression. But also heavily matters where she is from countryside or a big city like Budapest, is she younger or older, and your age and income difference aswell. I think its fine, most girls dont take advantage of it, the ones who do usually you can recognize how they carry themselves

🤦‍♂️When you pretend men to pay for you in exchange for sex is called prostitution and for an illusion of sex is called scam.

Disgusting,you are not a man

one night stands are pretty sad , its the wrong direction

And after one night can cause head acke. I dont beleive u can separate the body from the soul...

Those were in the previous video, without southern representation.

There is only two south european here the italian girl and the spanish girl. Who is the third one?

Agree, I am Italian and I would respond the opposite of what the other girl said on almost every question.

I think what actually we see is the opposite. There is an opposition for globalism recently, which makes sence somewhat: We were sold on the globalist dream where we would all sing kumbaya, and the best of all cultures would flow through and a person in Egypt is drinking peruvian drinks while reading Chinese philosophy. What just happened the class difference and unfairness got global. No longer there is the upclass neighbourhood and slummy working area of the same town, but with countries. Even in Europe, while the burocreats and western European thinkers blame the eastern EU countries for their goverments corruption, which is factually true, on the other hand the greatest sponsor of these goverments are western multinational companies who enjoy low taxes and low wages, not so tough authorities, for their factories. Many say the whole eastern expansion of the EU was just for that, under the guise of european brotherhood. Atleast there is no true push for wage union in the EU. Same for wealthy western European countries, they talk inclusivity but use their ex-colonies, as mines, places for cheap factories etc. We all make deal with China, before the war we all head deals with Russia strengthening them. When some try to push for a favorization of domestic products instead the cheap ones made through slave labor in the 3rd world, the globalist yelled "nationalist". This only benefirs the leaders and shareholders of these international companies and the goverments of these dictarorial goverments, while the people losing their jobs locally and the masses working slaves labour in those 3rd world countries suffer. Globalism without true sharing, true solidarity, where im willing to let go of some of my lifestyle privilidges for the benefit of those who dont even have a 50th of what i already have, is just a bs corporat lie.

Clearly you forgot about the wars in Croatia, Bosnia&Herzegovina, Kosova and Ukraine.

Everyone puts everyone in a box till they get to know each other. And some people do live up to their stereotypes. Stereotypes don't always mean a bad thing. With your last sentence you are basically generalizing Americans.

It’s weird to single out that “Americans love stereotypes”. I’ve been to many continents and specifically Asia (Japan and So Korea) and South American countries believe in stereotypes and verbally use them. Americans keep them quieter than other cultures because they can be racist and that doesn’t fly here anymore.

Ew.

Maybe that is how things work in her neck of the woods. I’m surprised by the reactions from some Spaniards here who say she is way off when the people I have personally met from Spain have been very similar to her. And Spain is not a country with high marriage and birth rates. I wonder if there are many regional differences within Spain that could lead to the disagreement. Someone from a big city in the US, for example like NY, is going to be very different than someone who grew up in a North Carolina church going community in the suburbs.

@free22 indeed, like other countries, Spain has both rural and urban areas. From my own experience, rural Spaniards have a complete other approach to dating than the girl in the video. Of course, there are also elements that allow a certain level of generalization and that are common to most Spaniards. But the latter are certainly not those exposed here. She is most likely from a bigger urban area like Barcelona or similar.

​@@free22 i think age could be a factor here. Shes younger than me. Now in my experience most spanish women insist on paying the bill half at least also shes right about public displays of affection. Very normal. However, on everything else i think shes wrong or at least talking about a younger generation. Im not sure how old she is though

@@dubmait Age could definitely be a factor. City versus rural dwellers would differ too. The people I have met from Spain have been in their 40s and early 50s but they were very much big city dwellers. They behaved just as she described.

@@free22 where were they from ??

Kind of weird emphasis on last syllables. A clear sign of wokeness.😂

More an urban area thing. People in villages or conservative regions are not at all like that

@@miguelberdia5511 pfff depends what you mean by urban.

​@@dubmait I think most youngsters in medium-bigger cities think like that, mainly in the coastal areas than in central Spain where people tend to be more conservative.

​@@miguelberdia5511I am from "central" Spain (a bit further to the North and West of Madrid though) and there's a big generation divide about this. It's true that older people are more conservative and old-fashioned about this, but younger people are for the most part pretty similar to her.

@@ivanmacgar6447 I am from La Coruña and in my city I think most youngsters would agree almost in everything of what the girl from Barcelona said

There is France, Italy, Hungary, Ireland and Spain in this video, no Netherlands.

Not really, since more than half of the population in Hungary is not Catholic. In 2011, the proportion of Roman Catholics was 37.15%. Although it's true that this is the largest religious denomination in the country.

The honourable user is kindly referred to the full works of Hans-Hermann Hoppe.😂

I don't think they would mind, are you referring to anything in particular?

The problem is that when you incorrectly take a country which is in Central Europe located in the Centre of the European Continent, and then place it in Eastern Europe not realising that Eastern Europe consists of only Russia, Belarus and Ukraine, given that the European Continent ends by the Ural Mountains, you can see how rediculous and stupid the claim would be placing certain countries at the wrong place incorrectly.

@@theuralictribes5689 that's a matter of perspective, i am italian and Slovenia feel eastern european to me

What dose that matter

@@bluegirl1118 it’s matters because Brit destroyed their native language

​@@bluegirl1118it's tragic

@@shehzadchowdhury8327 I know that but it’s not relevant to the video

Is this a good thing or a bad? :D

😂😂😂

cool dude

That is such a stupid and ignorant claim. It's Central European so get over it.

I mean, the title says "Do EUROPEANS Date the Same Way?", so it wasn't just focusing on the western half.

@@OverTheVoids True. It does not. It just seems that it would throw everything off when it’s just one person from the East.

After centuries of trying not to be Russian Hungary is now trying to be Russian...

No Hungary is Central Europe. Eastern includes all the former soviet countries.

Nooo! There are lots of gingers with light skin in Italy and Spain! Brunette is the most widespread hair colour but blondes and gingers are also present! I live in Northern Italy and I know a few gingers and blondes, and I'd say the most common hair colour for natives around here is dark blonde or light brown. The southern you go the more the features get darker but it's still possible to find blondes in Sicily. My own mother is a natural ginger and 100% Italian, unfortunately I didn't get the ginger genes, it looks beautiful. Don't believe the stereotype that always portrays ALL Southern Europeans with dark features, it's a huge generalization.

Northern Italians are light because they are actually Germans; they are the descendants of German tribes who settled in Northern Italy from the past. The region of Lombardy in Northern Italy was named after the lombards who were a Germanic tribe. Same with spain, in Northern Spain there were a lot of Celtic tribes that settled in that region so that explains why some Spaniards have red hair and blue eyes-it is from the Celtic tribes. In the past, tribes of Northern Europeans like the Germans and Celts did migrate to and settle in regions of Southern Europe and obviously had a genetic impact.

​@@galleya-tx3jyNorth-Eastern Italian were also heavy influenced by the Celts. And plenty of other people btw.

there are many blond or red haired italians in the entire country, PLEASE STOP DEPICTING ITALIANS WITH STEREOTYPES!

@@lauragoreni3020 celts and germanics (Goths, Longbards, Franks and Normans in the south): foreigners are disappointed when they find the "not so italian" looking people in Italy! They PRETEND WE ARE JUST A STEREOTYPE OF DARK MEDITERRANEAN or "OLIVE" as they pretend we are!

Hungary traditional???

@@SRBOMBONICA86 comparatively, yes

Ireland, italy and Hungary all have balanced healthy views. The french and spain are degenerative

No, no , no they take the girl in the bed at first day many time!

@@neyou6940 so?not everyone had colonies and got rich of slavery lol

Illegitimate woke gov rules, most definitely NOT the real, productive people rules. This happens ALL OVER the 2030 Agenda occupied West. Conclusion: Godspeed, Vlad!!😂😂😂

Why? Splitting the bill is normal here too… most of us women where I am want to be seen as financially independent

Lo único que no me ha parecido tan representativo es lo de "Que las aventuras de una noche sean súper comunes" Creo que eso se reparte por la mitad, no conozco mucho ese tipo de comportamientos.

I guess she speaks for very young people in big cities, or big tourism centers like the Baleares. Usually the Spaniards were traditional, conservative catholic people. Of course I'm talking of Spaniards 35, 40 years ago.

​@@amiquigonzales7917 belive me, she was in fact talking about modern day Spain. Not only big cities but even in the small towns works like that nowadays

Spain is not at all like Latin America. They are a Western European country through and through. The low birth rate reflects that.

Yikes. Incel

She literally looks italian, do you think that if a person has red hair they must be irish?