My Ex broke up with me. Came back after a year asking for forgiveness. But as soon as I mentioned Jesus Christ and how I changed my life. Chile he went ghost and haven’t heard from him ever since. That was about 2 years ago. Thank you Lord because IK I dodged a bullet🙌🏾❤️
Yes! Most ppl not improving their relationship with God. It’s unheard of. I had a relationship with someone who didn’t really believe in God too much and it impacted me. Happy that I’m not with him anymore.
I don’t know why people are contesting this. If he loved you, you’d be together. Free yourself from your ego, face the truth so that you can move forward and actually find a man who truly loves you.
Unfortunately there are people who are together and it’s toxic, so that’s not an indicator either. Pure love is not toxic. So not only will he be with you but he would treat you well and respect you consistently. But the sad part is soooo many people have no idea what love really is or feels like. Relationships today are built off lust, benefit, self- serving etc. None of that is love forreal. I know of multiple marriages recently that haven’t made it past 2 years. I’m like what’s going on?!…. It’s crazy.
Some people don't understand what love is because we have never experienced it. At an age of 34 I can honestly say that I never experienced TRUE love. I recently had to block someone that came back into my life professing his love for me but reverted to his same behavior. I learned too much from this channel to be played with. I had to let him go. I pray that true, pure love finds me because I am open to it but sadly I don't think it's possible in this present climate of relationships
I just felt the urge to share that I learned true real love when I got in a relationship with God…and that’s who taught me how to truly love myself and others
I was listening to Bishop Blakes awhile ago, I’m not sure if you heard of him … but he said a broken man will pass over a wife and go to a woman that speaks solely to his flesh and mistake that for love. If you are with someone who is always looking for drama, mess, confusion etc to keep it spicy that is not love , that’s just all they know love to be . It’s not real. It’s a dangerous distraction.
Love is not a what, it's a who. God is love, when you truly love a person; it means that you have God's heart for them. We keep associating love with a feeling, it's not.
If you have a genuine connection with someone, then loving them won’t hurt you. If loving someone is hurting you, sometimes you gotta break your own heart to have peace.
“If you lost it, then it wasn’t real love” ! Been saying this since High school and my friends always say that it’s my coping mechanism, but nah if they were really the love of my life then we would still be together .👏🏾! Every message you post is like an affirmation of the way I live my life and I am grateful for this because society can make you seem crazy about your values!
💯 you know when someone TRULY loves you because of the way they TREAT YOU ❤️ they care about your well-being emotionally, physically, spiritually, mentally and you know because of the way they treat you. If you are sad it upsets them. If you are happy they are happy for your happiness, infact they are doing their best to do things to make your heart smile.
This is the absolute truth! When women don’t know this or are in denial about this fact, it will cause her to go back to or be the side chick to a man who left her to marry someone else. Thank you Tony for these words of wisdom even if it’s a hard pill to swallow.
God does not fail, we fail him. God is love. I was married and with my husband 27 years and he told me 4 to 5 times a day that he loved me. He always complimented me, so why would he stay with me 27 years if he never, ever loved me, that doesn't make any sense. Why would any man stay with a woman 25 to 30 to 40 years if he never loved her, why would he waste his life on somebody he never loved??. My husband at the time went through a lot of traumas. He lost friends, and our company was going through some very difficult times and he snapped and he lost it, and some men cannot take a lot of emotional traumas, and thus, it caused him to just give up, so he walked away from me and started a whole new life, and now he's back to alcohol and all his addictions, and I'd have to say, he's not happy!. You can't go against God and be happy. What you sow is what you reap!. I believe men do love their wives, but life takes a toll on them and it's hard for them to recover, and it make sense of why they went through so many horrible and traumatic things. Some people have a hard time processing what's happened to them and it's easy for them to walk away, because, I've heard many men say, I will always love my wife, she was the love of my life, I was just not strong enough to work through my problems and stick it out. I told my husband once, never live by what you feel because feelings are so deceptive and feelings come and go everyday, all day long. You live by the word of God, you live by what God tells you and you can make your life successful.
Exactly, 15 years gone down the drain b/c of making decisions while drinking and increasingly drinking. One failed swoop and it’s over. I walked away. Love or no love, when you are in a relationship you have to realize and be aware that when you make decisions you are not only making them for yourself. I’m living a life right now b/c of a decision someone else made. And that’s ok. I’m have done the inner work and so grateful to be in this place now with myself. I hate it happened the way it did, but sometimes really good ppl make mistakes. But it couldn’t be fixed. Sometimes you have to let go of the things you love no matter how it hurts us. He texts till this day asking if we can meet. We had a good run but, I could never stand by and allow myself to be mistreated. You don’t stand by reckless behavior love or not. Trust is lost, I loved him enough to know there would be nothing but heaviness and turmoil why put us both through that
@@yourstruly1984 that is usually what happens. We all try to do whatever is easiest. Following God for me is not easy, and often times I want to give up and just live according to what I want to do. It just seems like it would feel better, I wouldn’t have to try so hard, I wouldn’t have to put in so much work… etc. if where you are requires you to preform, and it’s easier to NOT preform, or as much. Most ppl would take the easier route. The same can be said with this situwtion
Ephesians 5:28-33 “So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.”
We have to remember as he says all the time … there is a difference between a grown-boy and a man. Grown boys do things that mature men won’t ever do. Some men do not know true pure love. There are grown-boys who dog out women they marry. Love is pure, honest, and clear.
I ain’t gone lie this hurt my MF feelings! Because I now have to be honest that my ex-husband ain’t love me and we didn’t have love at all. Wow. But even me having to check myself to see if I have love and what that means and what that looks like! My God!!!!!!
I don’t know you at all but I really want to talk to you about this … I know it’s odd so I won’t ask you to call me lol… I will just write it here. I think as women (especially if we have been through some painful stuff) when we hear “he didn’t love you” we receive it as “Well I guess I wasn’t enough for him to really love” because it’s a form of rejection. But in actuality his ability to love or lack thereof has 0 to do with you or any other woman. There are many people who don’t know love so they are not able to apply it to relationships or marriage. It could simply have been “What he saw as love was not actual love, and that had absolutely nothing to do with my worth as a woman.” You deserve to know real love. Not sure if I overstepped with this comment, but I want you to know I understand. Ok this is my 3rd and last reply on this video🤣
@K FontenetteIAM ...TRUTHFULLY SPOKEN sis...though at times seeing something for what it really is painful, gaining NEW KNOWLEDGE and self love...is what helps you get through...❤😊🤗
Love is pure, whole , healthy, love is going to fight for the good, if someone dogs you out and makes you leave him he (WOULD NOT DOG YOU OUT ) he NEVER really loved you. Preach Tony Gaskins!!
We cannot tell if it s true love based on someone s actions or sacrifices towards us. They can do a lot of things for you because of a strong attachement ( similar to addiction) Just look at addicts how much they sacrifice to keep their relationship with their drinking bottle or drug going on. They can sacrifice their job, their health, their family etc to fight for that drug and not loose it! On the polar opposite someone can decide it s best to love you from afar. Love can mean wishing someone to be happy with or without them. So a good way to tell if someone actually loves you is to see if they have an open heart in general and a connection to God. We are simply vessels directing the love of God towards other people, animals, children, plants. Once such person has their focus on you, prepare to feel a level of love like nothing before. Someday they may decide to focus that love on something else or someone else. And that s ok. Just be grateful you got to experience it, and make your own direct connection to God when you feel lack of love. This way you won t need people all the time to feel true love.
Hello, when I tell you THANK YOU for consistently posting content and giving insights that most women will not have access to. I appreciate you and may God continue to bless you & multiply everything attached to you🙌🏽
This is my new fav Tony message about love and relationships..what we women don't understand or grasp is that we know how to love, being we are the "carriers" of love but we confuse the natural love we know/feel when caring and nurturing, others. We don't realize we lack self love knowledge..loving others comes so natural to us that we confuse the feelings in relationships and wind up loving a man like we love our children. To truly love a man u must know thyself first, which means know and understand God's love, who directs us to look within...Tony is such a God send🙏🏽❣️
You know what I can agree with you bcuz I was just thinking how me truly loving my bf at the time caused me to grow and change and be a better me to him…and I believe that is healing to know that my ex-husband didn’t know how to love (me) bcuz he didn’t change for the better in order to keep me in his life…I say it’s healing bcuz why would I want to be loving a man that’s doesn’t love me…why should I be with someone that is not willing to give me what I’m giving them
I’m waking my husband up past midnight to ask him if he knows what love is lol 😂. Tony, you’re amazing. Im so happy to have access to your information. Life is so much better.
So grateful that your videos helped me align with love! I was able to attract the love of my life from your teachings & lessons. Now your videos reinforce that I’ve attracted a man worthy of my love. 🥰❤️
Thank you for this beautiful reminder Uncle Tony, yes real love is rare and thanks to you I have been dodging the grown boys . I pray one day I experience real love with a sense of peace 🙏🏾
What a great word! This was on time and cleared up a lot! Thank you for your love for people and honesty! Even though it hurts to go through hard time in relationships and have to come to some harsh realizations, still very necessary to hear it so we can learn and grow!
Tony, you are TRULY a poet. Everything that you say is so poetic and genuine and I know God is speaking through you because that was too real lol. Thank you for these videos because sometimes I can be delusional and hold on to my past and ruminate on what could be when God already showed me WHAT IS. So from now on IT IS WHAT IT IS and that is enough for me to accept and open the door for something better.
I just wanna thank you Tony for this msg just at the moment you recording this msg because it was needed an received on time , 🙏🏾 keep doing what your doing because it’s definitely helping, this msg was from god for me thank you god bless you an your family
Hey Tony. Thank you for this video. I wasn’t ready to receive the messages you or Bishop R.C. Blake’s was willing to give yet. But I saved them in my watch later, for when I knew i would be strong enough, healed enough and ready to fully embrace the next chapter of my life. And slowly but surely 4 years after a horrible and embarrassing breakup where my ex moved on fast, got someone pregnant and married someone else-I’m finally ready to receive this message. Had no idea you were gonna talk about my exact situation but thank you for being honest and real. My father has been telling me this since I left that relationship but it’s helpful to hear it from what I believe is another well intentioned man. So thank you.
Wow I just found your page as it has popped up in my feed at 4am 😊 I'm just leaving the gym and listening as I ride home. Ty for your beautiful rendition and perspective. It truly reflects unconditional love truth and the real example of the love of God. I needed this because I do consciously make room for my hearts desires, the desire I pray is the same as our creator. It is work but so fruitful to check and monitor our thoughts and emotions in this confusing world today. Love is indeed love crazy what we sometimes gamble at the hand of fake love.
Wow! I don’t think I’ve ever experienced true love. That’s incredible, thank you for shedding light on this. I can say that now that I have my walk right with God I believe I will because I’m finally in a place where I actually love myself. Everything else was toxic before, from all parties, both sides. Smh I still have work to do but I’m so hopeful. Thank you for doing what you do!
Wow that's was incredible message it's really makes lot of sense you broke this word about whatthe real meaning of love so many people are confused about what love is one thing love definitely don't hurt the person who you are with and another thing love is not unsure if not God ordained for me don't want no part of it Thanks Tony Gaskins for this encouraging message
So True, Tony! Love Never fails! God is Love. Ladies, it starts with Loving Yourself First! And do not be Afraid to stand Alone and stand in your Power. Take your time to know a man. Thank you, Tony for always telling it how it is!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤
I love ❤️ this 💯!!! Love ❤️ comes from the heart lust comes from the flesh and it’s sole aim is to satisfy the flesh . I enjoyed listening ..May God Bless you and your family .🙂
In my humble opinion, The Living God is speaking through Tony. God has PURE love for his daughters, and God has the best intentions for his daughters. He (God) has spoke to and anointed Tony to d,xeliver this POWERFUL word to those who have eyes to see, and ears to hear. So that we will be EMPOWERED and guided by God's wisdom and truth. God sits high a looks low, and He has seen the heartbreak, grief and anguish of his daughter's caused by relationships that has damaged and wounded us (His daughters). Tony LITERALLY is wrestling with the daughters of the one true lving God, so that we (God's precious daughters) may all get UNDERSTANDING. Blessings, Peace and healing to all.
God just keeps using you in my life. You just put a period at the end of my love story. Ladies and Gentlemen, God Will give you your own Love story if you let him. You just have to understand it must come from him. Tony, the way you just broke this down….for me was nothing short of Beautiful! 🌸 Thank you, and may God continue to bless you and your family.❤ Be encouraged this day, God uses you so much more than you know. Blessings 🌸❤️🌸
