I'm in a state of I don't care nor am I concerned anymore... forreal but I'm telling all the females to learn to stay connected to God wholeheartedly, He'll never leave you nor forsake you!
Tony, this is a great message. It's truly an eye opener. I thank you for always telling the truth even if our feelings are hurt. It's better if we hear the truth now than be looking foolish later. God bless you and keep you going strong.
Amen….I feel the same way about cussing 🤬 I’m convinced that Some people cuss like pirates and that’s worse than a sailor😂 but I firmly believe that it’s a matter of who you are and what’s in your heart. The Bible speaks way too much about how we ought to speak and what’s in our heart determines what will come out and how we will behave. That being said, Ladies Remember….when a man rejects you and sets you aside, God accepts you and sets you apart! God bless.
This is why it's so liberating to reach the point of being happy and confident knowing that who God has for you will be for you. Who cares who leaves? Bye! He wasn't for you anyway
Like Tony says, relationships are a matter of life and death. Women being killed everyday. At this point in my life, after a failed marriage and way too many dates, I choose peace and a relationship with God. There is so much more to life than romantic relationships. So many women’s identities are defined by a relationship.I pray ladies make informed decisions with men these days, because women have way too much to lose if they make bad decisions..
Yh ppl are losing their life for little things. I'm still caught up withe the gabby Petito case I'm I'm still shocked if to believe she's dead or not. Its so sad. We really gotta watch who we go with and raise our standard,trust God
@@ninafrederick6048 yessss its heartbraking. . That situation is awful and scary. You think you know someone but do we ever really know. We have to be in tiune with our intuition and God! God bless gabby’s sweet soul.
@Blue Girl you are sweet. Thank you. Well i have no desire at this point to get married. Maybe one day this will change. I like my oeace and being able to focus on myself and my grandson. Marriage is alot of work! Im in my resting phase. 🙌🙏🏻
I been left behind and rejected most of my life as well as with relationships too, but when you start seeing yourself the Lord see you then you will know what's best for you. Sometimes the person you want the most is the one you need to be running from.
When you look to find a spouse, look for someone who strives to seek God in all they do. Cultural norms and traditions come and go, but the Word of the Lord endures forever. First, early in the relationship connection, express your desire to avoid premarital sex. When you express your desire to want to honor God with your sexuality before marriage, this won’t be a shock to a real Christian. That is just a basic biblical command all true Christians want to follow. Sexual intimacy is an expression of love that brings happiness and unity into a marriage. It is also the power by which married couples can “multiply, and replenish the earth” (Genesis 1:28). Intimacy is a blessing that can lead to the incomparable joy of children as part of the eternal family unit. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s." But if you say this to someone who is just pretending to obey the Bible, they will leave you quickly because they will not be willing to wait until marriage for sex. Someone can deceive you with words. But when you see their obedience to the Lord that matches their words, then you know they are trustworthy. They need to be visibly producing the fruits of the Spirit because this is a mark of a true Christian. Anyone can claim to be a Christian. And we can’t know someone’s heart. So the Bible says we are to evaluate people by their actions. Christians will not be perfect, but they will be bearing fruit that is evidence of their true salvation. Galatians 5:22-26 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. And those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another." Hebrews 13:4 "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge."
When man leaves a women....ITS A BLESSING IN DISGUISE. THANK GOD THE TRASH took his self out. You may not understand it and the time but once the dust settles its no love lost.
I think MEN need to just stop LYING to women, telling them sweet “nothings” just to sleep with them. If you aren’t “Monogamous” tell these women, and if you are don’t lie about it.
Women also need to do their due dilligence as well. Raw dogging all over the place should not be an option. It's the raw dogging that gets to me like 😡🤬 just don't go there. Atleast if they say they were safe and it failed !!!!
Telling lies to have sex with her is manipulation and coercion. Remember ladies, the man humiliated and lowered himself. You ladies are still worthy and valuable, whatever have men done to you. You have every right to be angry
When you look to find a spouse, look for someone who strives to seek God in all they do. Cultural norms and traditions come and go, but the Word of the Lord endures forever. First, early in the relationship connection, express your desire to avoid premarital sex. When you express your desire to want to honor God with your sexuality before marriage, this won’t be a shock to a real Christian. That is just a basic biblical command all true Christians want to follow. Sexual intimacy is an expression of love that brings happiness and unity into a marriage. It is also the power by which married couples can “multiply, and replenish the earth” (Genesis 1:28). Intimacy is a blessing that can lead to the incomparable joy of children as part of the eternal family unit. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s." But if you say this to someone who is just pretending to obey the Bible, they will leave you quickly because they will not be willing to wait until marriage for sex. Someone can deceive you with words. But when you see their obedience to the Lord that matches their words, then you know they are trustworthy. They need to be visibly producing the fruits of the Spirit because this is a mark of a true Christian. Anyone can claim to be a Christian. And we can’t know someone’s heart. So the Bible says we are to evaluate people by their actions. Christians will not be perfect, but they will be bearing fruit that is evidence of their true salvation. Galatians 5:22-26 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. And those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another." Hebrews 13:4 "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge."
Grown Boys! Cowards, they leave a lot of times also because you may be to strong. Most of these men don’t know what they want. They out here sleeping and sticking with no purpose. They will soon find out . That’s their business. If they leave let them. Elevate yourself! You ain’t lost NOTHING !
My ex use to be “madly in love with me” until he changed his type and now guess what that type didn’t love him nor stayed with him long 😂 only because he was after the flesh. He lost a real one.
Love joy, you and I both know that know one is perfect. Sadly, in the US, there are more women than “available” men, let alone finding men w high morals, values, principles and character. Having worked in telecommunications engineering for 25 years (male dominated) and military ( reserves/one weekend per month/2 weeks per summer plus deployments) another male dominated career field, men were cheating on their wives and women were cheating on their husbands and yes married men tired to sleep w me…my point is that I’m sure there are good men out there, but available healthy men who wanted a committed relationship, is limited compared to the number of available women. Wishing everyone the very best in eventually finding a healthy relationship & a committed long lasting marriage or partnership!
When you look to find a spouse, look for someone who strives to seek God in all they do. Cultural norms and traditions come and go, but the Word of the Lord endures forever. First, early in the relationship connection, express your desire to avoid premarital sex. When you express your desire to want to honor God with your sexuality before marriage, this won’t be a shock to a real Christian. That is just a basic biblical command all true Christians want to follow. Sexual intimacy is an expression of love that brings happiness and unity into a marriage. It is also the power by which married couples can “multiply, and replenish the earth” (Genesis 1:28). Intimacy is a blessing that can lead to the incomparable joy of children as part of the eternal family unit. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s." But if you say this to someone who is just pretending to obey the Bible, they will leave you quickly because they will not be willing to wait until marriage for sex. Someone can deceive you with words. But when you see their obedience to the Lord that matches their words, then you know they are trustworthy. They need to be visibly producing the fruits of the Spirit because this is a mark of a true Christian. Anyone can claim to be a Christian. And we can’t know someone’s heart. So the Bible says we are to evaluate people by their actions. Christians will not be perfect, but they will be bearing fruit that is evidence of their true salvation. Galatians 5:22-26 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. And those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another." Hebrews 13:4 "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge."
Who you date is literally a decision of life or death, prosperity or destruction, peace or stress. Look at the news and see what happened to that beautiful young lady recently. Choose wisely and until God tells you to date a certain man just stay single and stick with Jesus Christ as your Husband and redeemer.
Plus jesus father jehovah told the children of isreal to kidnapp rape kill plunder ogher nation.his exact sords is kill all the women who have children and keep the virgins as wives.fact.
Im from Nairobi, Kenya and its true but I would say not all are like that! I grew up in the village at the slopes of Mount Kenya and I would see my dad wake up early leave my mum in bed and prepare us breakfast. I grew up seeing that.
Same but my breakfast today consists of an orange , a multivitamin juice , 2 plain toasts and cereals .. any children or man can pick this up for themselves but I reckon they may need some hot milk .the children .. my dad also cooks .. but no one cares .. in fact i came to find out it’s only idiotic men who care or have issues with so called gender roles ..
no need to cook anyway nowadays , I do cook frozen beef and fish finger and eggs three times a week , that is my main food I dont eat vegs , only fruits..if a man wants his veggies he ll need to cook them..What matters is indeed the integrity of a man but if he expects you to cook what he likes or clean his clothes ..he lacks character too ..dont expect this from him either .and dont choose these men..
Tony,Tony, TONY!! This video was soooo on point💯🎯💯🎯 This is why it’s so important to choose someone with character & integrity. & also making sure the person is a real man/woman of God! Take heed & choose wisely! Ask God to show you if this is the man or woman that He has for you because the enemy can send people also…..
Its refreshing to read these comments and see that so many other women are not just rushing into relationships just for the sake of saying they have someone. Im seeing more and more men especially black men guilt trip black women who are single.
Yes! I told one such grown boy online, we ALL die alone so that's not a threat to me! Long as I'm right with my heavenly father and my children! More women are thankfully seeing thru the scare tactics and guilt trips are
@@mamat1213 women normally live longer than their male spouses (have to qualify it these days 🙄😒) any way. So women will end up dying alone either way. The issue is that men are afraid to die alone. Especially when they start getting older and everything on their bodies start breaking down. 😒🙃🙄😩😪. It's sad 😥 and funny 😆🤣😄😂 at the same time.
Yes they especially love saying men don’t need women. Men don’t need black women etc. Then they’ll be in the same “monologue” complaining about the numbers and the “shortages” of relationships and marriage. They need to look at the men in the mirror.
Goodevening real good man will sacrifice too make a woman happy n also ask what ‘s you need help with n what ‘s your future goals . A real good man will put god first in his life n also put you properity , send you roses , help with bills , keep gas in your car n car repairs , take you work on your off days . A real good man will work too bones make should everything at home is good !
I actually stayed single for a long time cause I know how much pain guys cause women....now I'm married and its better to be never married and alone than be married and neglected..I don't know how long I can take his unloving cold attitude.
Aaaaaawwww I pray that he will see you and love you like God wants him too, pray for his mental spiritual and physical health, and ask God to guide you in your walk in your marriage. I pray your strength in God as you go through this.... 🙏🙏
Sorry your going through this. I was in the same boat 3 weeks ago. Finally in about 2 to 3 weeks my divorce will be finalized. I’m soo much happier alone than in a loveless marriage.
@@marvinpercival4717 GM to you. Not sure who your comment is for as it doesn’t apply to me personally. And TG has always been transparent about his journey and teaches from his experiences. But just a heads up in the event that you’re new here. This channel is a positive space for his supporters to share comments so in general, I’d suggest that you are sensitive to others as to how you craft your responses to avoid being blocked by him. 🙏🏽
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! VERY INSPIRING AMAZING ENLIGHTENING WORDS OF WISDOM! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GLORY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! SMILE ALWAYS! ( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU !) ALWAYS KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! KEEP YR FAITH AND LOVE! KEEP YR JOY AND HAPPINESS AND PEACE! STAY STRONG! STAY POSITIVE! STAY FOCUS! KEEP MOVIN FORWARD! STAY PATIENCE! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SEPT 2021
When I was in my twenties the whole Eddie Murphy cheating scandal happened where he got caught by police with a Transgender woman in his car for the night and I was shocked. I asked my dad why a huge celebrity and married man would do that and his answer showed me a different side of my dad I had never seen. He said sometimes men just want something “quick and dirty”. My mind was blown 🤯 that men think this way and that my father was plugged into this way of thinking as well
....hmmm I'd have to disagree. I think Eddie goes both ways. So he really didn't care what "body parts" the "woman" had. Heterosexual men aren't *that* desperate
Did you mean cheat or cheat with a man ?! Thing is there is a group of men who will fk with men knowingly !!! They will go to 3rd world countries for kids and lady boys etc etc knowingly.
@@misselle1430 that is sooo true, I see them over here in Africa, only to find out they're married with wives but are dating lady boys over here aka double lives!!
Tony it took me to get a little older before I could understand this. I'm 58 and so is my man. A year ago I wouldn't have dated him because he has a belly. We are 7 months old now & he has treated me with such respect & added so much joy to my life. Now I think he's as handsome as ever because of how he treats me. I'm so glad my eyes were open before missing out on this wonderful man. Thanks for all you do Tony. 💙🙌🙌
@CatherineBrinson I know what you mean. Nothing like when a man treats you with respect and integrity. Just when you are over dealing with dead beats the Lord will have him find you!🥰❤️ I’ve learned that patience is truly a virtue!
Lol .. superficial much ??? 🤣🤣 That's something small that you can confidently get him to see he needs to work on himself and help him get fit!!! Glad you chose right. But get him to get healthy owise you will be his nurse. Ain't nobody got time for that
@@dublingirl1691 Yeah i think thats more to do with outward attraction. The attraction that really matters and lasts the longest is the attraction to someones mind. Like the strongest attractions ive had in the past to a guy were from really intellectual guys and also fitness enthusiastic guys like the ones always doing outdoors stuff. Defos beauty with intellect always wins
@@SaznakiAMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! VERY INSPIRING AMAZING ENLIGHTENING WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SEPT 2021
@@Saznaki I wasn’t really attracted at first to my ex bf but as we interacted I was really attracted to his mind/intelligence, and how he thought about life, but unfortunately I gave away my blue print and was very honest and transparent. He was able to convince me that he thought we would be great together etc. etc. As Tony has said in his videos, I told him way too much. I will listen way more the next time. Live and learn.
Tony you right…I have seen this in my personal life. I have dated broke men and men of means when I was younger. Sisters listen!!!! You have to pick a man with values and everything else will fall in place🙏🏿
At this point, do men have a heart posture of Faithfulness. Loyalty. And being a Kingdom minded man. Women are sick of it!! MEN MUST RISE and seek GOD. Too many have identity crisis and don't know who they are in God or what their Kingdom role is.
Thank you for this eye opening video. It is clear now that a man with morals values, principles, standards and Character, is what to cherish and love in life! God bless you and your family! 🌻
I found his “taste changed” for a weaker woman. He was no longer willing to be with a woman who wouldnt allow him to run his game on her. He developed a taste for weak women who would not hold him accountable or insist he be a better man. She can have him😜
WOW this was incredible word It's nothing but the truth .But if man don't values himself he won't respect you as a woman. A woman need know her worth don't put up with any foolishness just to say she has a man to me you are desperate. Because only God can bring right man in your life because a man that's love God definitely will vaule you the way supposed be . Thanks Tony Gaskins for this powerful message.
I always thought men left because of two things : She figured him out and was holding his feet to the flames or he wasn’t attracted to her physically. Men don’t assume blame easily, but women do. Women need to place blame where it belongs - on the man, and stop internalizing it.
I agree with your facts, this is why they choose whom they choose also...A weak woman versus a balanced woman; a balanced woman will always hold him accountable, some can't handle that because they're grown boy's.
In my opinion many men settle to a safe choice nowadays and because that obvs isnt exciting they will cheat, however they want their cake and eat it too
@@missminti Yes!!!! They reject accountability they call it you giving them an ultimatum or pressure. So they choose a Pick me or weak link someone that let's them get away with everything. I'll change my taste by divesting..
I’m gonna stay single until it’s Ordained by God! Men don’t know what or who they want! Because they can run to other women so easily and then leave them too…
You always speak so much truth Tony. It's so refreshing to here these out loud. Sometimes people know these things to be true. But, we sometimes want to push truth and light to the side. So, we can take in what we perceive to be a happy home. But, in reality not so happy.Thank you so for always keeping it real.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! VERY INSPIRING AMAZING ENLIGHTENING WORDS OF WISDOM! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY ! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SEPT 2021
Why love or falling in love became so complicated..Times have truly change it's so many do's and don't in relationships its very sad because its alot of great descent people out there..
‘Taste has changed’ can often be interpreted as a predatory woman has seduced a married man at work or someplace else and turned his head to want something else all of a sudden.
My ex left me when I was 6 months pregnant ghosted me, came back when baby born and left me for death with my baby when he was 6 month old, came back after 6 months he did unbelievable things to me such as smear campaign, and slept with other people, I find out all that, In my self i knew he was hiding things, said I love you, I let it run for couple of months and from his mouth came out something that it help me to make a final decision, I listen to myself and send him off gracefully and shout that door now I asking god to help me some times I thank ni God is not there for me but it was my own decisions that took me where I am now God bless us all who did our best but was not reciprocated in the same way by the people we loved the most at some point 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@Fay1106 Girl, Honestly I have been thinking about that. But it’s OK cause I get a tummytuck in January and if he acting funny we both could be acting funny. Lol
"Different attractions at the amusement park" this is a perfect analogy for understanding the mental makeup of a man's "type" preference. Thank you Mr.Tony and the Queen!
I can do a slight weight change, but I can't handle 300lbs., we gonna have to work out, together. Cheating is also a NO for me. That's not gonna work for me. I can't deal with that.
Same he left me I guest also his taste change but she had money a house and big and fat we were homeless at the time he left me in a shelter that almost destroyed me I am good today I put GOD first it help me through thanks for reading this thanks
@@louisruss9630 mine came into a significant amount of money and left me for someone "better". I stayed with him during trying times, he loss both his legs and when God blessed him with money he left me the person who was there from the beginning. He's living in a better area while I'm transitioning from the "hood"... BUT God has been my source n my strength to get me through. Stay blessed and prayed up cause it's some dark energy and ppl out here.
Yes, this is true look for a man with a moral, values, principles and standards in life. This will make u secure.. i love it. My ex husband doesn't have all this character. He is a serial cheater and want to live a double life, he is very secretive. Thats why when he is about to leave me, i prefer not to chase and plead him i don't even begging his attention. He is somewhat a narcissistic. After i forgave him he again cheated on me. No principles in life. I am better now living with my children without worrying anything. He choose the new supply because he wants more narcissistic supply. As he thinks that woman can give everything he wants specially material things.
Women shouldn’t have to settle for a ugly guy who’s “nice.” And we care about money Bc that’s the only thing men bring of value to relationships. He needs character AND money AND looks. Men can have it all in us, but we have to settle? No thanks. Women are better off alone than settling with some bucktoothed broke bum who’s “nice.” I’ll pass. Nice isn’t good enough for men when they seek partners, it ain’t good enough for us either.
Men with bread think the same they dont want no women things from them that they cant provide for themselves that what u call a parasite.u want a man to provide u with the lifestyke u can never provide for yourself gtfoh.
If he treats you bad he want some different I been through hell and back trying to prove my love, to a man who hurt me so bad Now he got his life together new job new life When he had no one and I had my job I made sure our daughter was straight and him, And he still haven’t ask me what I ate today or what did I want, he treats me like shit, Hurts my heart so bad I don’t won’t a relationship.
Sis, he just doesn’t care about you like that. You gave too much and now you’re angry. I know because I did the same. We didn’t let them do their part in the relationship. People will take as long as you are willing to give. But that’s not what makes a person like or even love you. You shouldn’t have to PROVE anything to anyone. Let yourself heal by putting yourself and your child first. A man should be able to take care of himself.
Thank you Tony for telling us the harsh truth 😯. Men obviously want a variety of women on a constant conveyor belt 😐. I feel sick at the thought of being with a man who feels this way even if he chooses not to act on it because of his "principals". So utterly depressing.
@@yipeedo372 I’m from Zimbabwe an African country my dad was the same but I resent that behaviour as my mum is always exhausted. Id like a more modern African men as house work etc isn’t in my strength I didn’t grow up doing it as much like my mum so for her it’s second nature. And I’ve dated African men and they’re so entitled without even spoiling me first at least? I’m sure they’re good ones out there!
Some(maybe not all) women want to be in our feminine energy, we need to feel safe enough to surrender so being provided for helps us to do that. It seems it’s not a simple answer. We have different preferences. ❤️🙏
Men are too simple to be so complicated… it’s really too much!! As a whole men give so little and expect so much….Totally different creatures…I’d love to have a variety of anything ( food, socks, underwear, & clothes) tangible things… sadly I’ll be there when the bread is gone ($) but I’m definitely not staying for the shenanigans (cheating, lying, abuse)…men are so weird! After receiving all this knowledge, I’m not sure how I feel about dating the men of today… running into a man with character or principles is like finding a diamond in the dessert…God heal the man of today!!! Unfortunately, he’s broken, angry, lacks morals, character, standards, and principles ….these men need God not a woman🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
In Nairobi Kenya, im sure the women aint working tho lol, so there's the different. My husband wouldn't hv to lift a finger either if i didn't hv to work lol. However, when i was married, i worked and he still never lifted a finger bc im a bit traditional in that sense but i was exhausted bc i had to work on top of keeping my house. It has to be a balance for it to be fair to each party. If he working i dont mind keeping the house. But if im workin and hes workin then we both need to keep the house so no party is more unappreciated than the next. Just my intake and experience on it.
I wonder what sis would do if she'd been in my shoes in past relationships . A million? I've never seen one with 10gs😂😂😂. I've never looked for money because I've always got my own.
I could be wrong but I don't think men change their type. I think they may be couldn't get their type so they settle but when they have the chance to get what and who they really want they leave.
Goes for women 2.but the funny thing is most time their kind dont see them as their kind and settle until thdy find their kind and leave their asses like a lost coin.
I leave women who don’t appreciate a damn thing - takes you for granted and strings you along - God gives us many things except more time - value yourself and move on.
My dad used to have a plaque on his wall when I was younger and used to say "Profanity is the evidence of a feeble mind forcibly trying to express itself."
🤣🤣🤣I love yout metaphors & analogies Yes, my Friend, there are a gazillion UGLY millionaires. Nope, money is NOT attractive. I have been propsed to by rich men. Nope. Character is more important. Sorry, Tony, you are talking to vacuous people.
I would disagree when he says "we like to believe women cheat" I agree there are many many differences in gender. I also disagree with "men cheat because his taste has changed". My experience as a BlackTino who has traveled is that this man and most Christians, come from a biblical place. A Christian will cheat just as much as. A man will help and do around the house. For example, why is it that Americans women believe that Latino men are family oriented yet they are very protective of their wives? Their are many stereotype beliefs of different cultures. All we know is what we hear from different people, BUT does that saying apply to ALL the households within that culture? NO! The saying about black men is they are no good is it true? They say all black men have the largest pipe, is this true? What about this, they say church girls are the freakiest women out here. Is that true? My point is so many stereotypes and sayings that have been circulated throughout generations for a reason. All we can truly rely on are facts. The fact is many pastors have relationships with their congregation. Fact is some men don't curse because it's a manly thing. No one really knows what goes on behind anyone's door. Am not attacking this man's words all am saying is their are circumstances and situations that arise and cause us as humans to react. I do believe that if both partners are living by the word, there is a slim chance that the marriage will break. I do thank you for your words and this would be a great discussion. FYI never finished vid because it's just POV am hearing. Thnx tho
This made sense knowing the Chris Watts case.. Iʻve always wondered what made him want to leave a big house, 2 lovely daughters and an ambitious wife for just another single young girl. I guess his type changed..😑
Tony is so hilarious😂! The "THIRD LEG", I remember when I started watching Tony's videos years ago and I was so naive and had to figure out what the "third leg" 🤔was now I know LOL now I'm wondering what the 'third eye'🙄 is when people talk about that LOL. Thanks Tony for all you do and the comedy you put in your videos God bless.☺
Same reasons women leave men!!! As if women hopelessly sitting around wondering and pinning over them. Wake up and get real!!! Someone watches too much soap operas on TV. Stop watching trash and get some books that renew your mind like reading the Holy Bible.
Great info. How about a follow up video on how/what would prevent your man from wanting a different experience. Or, does it simply boil down to character and lack of appreciation for what you have in hand?
Great question. I would love for him to do a video on this. you know one thing that comes to mind is from just getting out of a 12 year relationship like people grow and change over the years.. I think we still stay who we are at the core but we do change and sometimes it's for the better sometimes for the worst..I feel like we need to make sure we are changing together and both in the same direction you know what I mean? I don't know that was just a random thought
keep your looks up, keep your morals in tact, stay physically fit (not a twig), and be desirable to men in general, keep GOD first. If you put God and yourself on top, you won't have to worry about men the way you do. God will handle the rest.
What avice would you have for a man that's married and his wife have kids but I have no kid but the oldest son is 16 and he's disrespectful lazy but the other ones are 11 10 9 and ain't no problem with them but the so he moved with his dad and now he can't get his way now he wants to come back and I don't think he needs to come back right now what avice you could give me for this situation thanks bra
Mr. Gaskins, Can you point us to some characteristics and morals men should have from the Bible? I know you said you learned from the Bible and your father. Where in the Bible should I be studying this? I would really appreciate the help because God is preparing me for marriage. Thank you in advance! Kindly, Niya
