Intro: 0:00 Show Starts 🎥: 17:24/ Audio On at 26:11 The Godfather's monologue/Speaks on "octanes"/modern women wanting traditional men: 28:31 Money World 💃🏾🌎💵: 1:11:54 First Caller: 1:21:54 28 y/o woman says she was raised traditional but came to America and became a feminist. The Godfather asks why some black women fall for feminism easily? Second Caller: 1:26:36 33 y/o woman says she was engaged 3 times but never got married? Possibly a Troll whispers in the background @1:29:56?? 🧐🧐 Third Caller: 1:35:14 52 y/o woman says she's looking for a relationship with a man who has a "pretty good job". The Godfather investigates🧐 Fourth Caller: 1:48:02 27 y/o married woman says she is a traditional woman, but refused to work for her husbands🤔 Going through a divorce right now?💔 Fifth Caller: 2:01:11 41y/o woman says she's been married/Divorced THREE TIMES?!😳😳😳 Says she's scared to date again but STILL wants to have a children?!😲 Sixth Caller: 2:27:16 23 y/o woman asks The Godfather for some dating advice. Seventh Caller: 2:33:15 36 y/o woman says her ex broke up with her because she didn't have a degree? But had a baby with him? The Godfather investigates🧐 Eight Caller: 2:43:56 says her Mum and Dad approves The Godfather's message. Says she appreciates her mother for teaching her. 2:45:30 The Godfather continues conversation with the third caller. Ninth Caller: 2:51:15 ex-single mother, now married calls in to give advice to younger women. Says she had to stop being independent and relying on her husband and it's improved her marriage. End of the show/The Godfather previews future shows: 2:55:37
My brother gonna have to Step it up lol. Sheeba trying to take your gig with her new avatar lol. But she don’t put in the interpretations like our Good brother here does lol
Its crazy that after all the years of hearing women wanting to be the independent woman. To now see them drifting away from that. Now wanting to return to a more traditional role. Guess its true that fads eventually always come back in style.
@@kevinlee9929 Modern women want to move back to "traditional roles" only for selfish reasons, aka I don't want to do the work but I want all the benefits.
7 stolen engagement rings. She didn't have the right to keep that shid. Only on the aspect of her actually getting married with promise and following thru entitles her to keep the ring other wise the man gets it back.
@@dustinpeel6666a lot of men don't even want it back. My husband said that if I'd not accepted him, he'd have let me keep it. My mom also has multiple engagement rings stashed smh. So, you never know man. You just never know
I agree with Kevin on a lot of things but the more women call into the show is the more I realize why not to get married. This Woman got 3 proposals shoot down these men and kept their rings and now she looking for a good man🤷🏾♂️.I’ll build my wealth and travel the world thanks 🙏🏾
Pretty privileged, watch out for thebpretty feminist. She knows many men only look at the outside, she probably never cooked probably a baddy.. real bad. Real talk pretty anverage chick woith no makeup, from a good family is important. See where they come from their parent's that says ALOT
When he said High Valued Men look at "The Software" not the "Hardware." Even as a man, I can not express how true this is... He is laying it out ALL out as a 101 basics for women that are smart enough to listen, not just "hear." He's right...damn.
Kevin is absolutely 100% correct on this one. I learned how to cook and clean from my mother and both grandmothers. My daughter is 9 and everytime I cook and bake FROM SCRATCH, she's with me. THAT'S how you learn!
Damn most of all of them didn’t have fathers. They met him later in life. I can’t imagine growing up without my mom and not knowing her if I lived with my dad.
Cooking is an essential adult skill so I’m not sure why someone would even mention they know how to do it? You should also know how to shower, clean your house, and pay your bills.
Started working 18hrs a day,stopped talking unnecessarily,dressing sharp,Always smelling good in my Bvlgari Man. Just pilling my money and building myself all from watch this channel...
Women’s feelings and emotions have lead many of them down a path well past the “dangers zone” into “no man’s land” and still with no direction. A Man’s logic and guidance...priceless.
You mean Kevin "The DOWN LOW" SAMUELS bro? As a REAL ALPHA MAN I ain't impressed by this clown who thinks he's a man by "so-called" putting gullible weak-minded women in their place! In fact, the day this coward confronts a REAL MAN on his channel instead of going back and forth trying to overexert his dominance over women is the day he'll have my respect!💯💯💯
Real alpha men don't ever describe themselves as real alpha men, nor they belittle other men by calling them downlow to discredit them. You're a whole ass red flag sir. No thanks.
2nd caller need to have her........... I'm not even going to finish my statement as much as I want. She is a Gold digger. That is still not what I wanted to say.
Kevin, you are old school when it comes to some of these women wanting to be housewives. I agree that if you want to be home there are requirements like cooking, cleaning, and most importantly, knowing how to be a wife. I salute you Sir.
I like KS cuz he sound like he really tryna help.. he like a young joe Clark from lean on me... he hard on everybody but he wants the best for you.. I needed him back in the day.. I d be a rich man...
You deserve any and everything that you WORK FOR !!! If you don't work for anything, then you don't deserve anything. No entitlements. Point blank period!!!!
I'm so grateful I was raised by married parents so that I had the basic understandings on how things are supposed to be done shout out to my pop's@mom's
KS it was a good move to go back and talk to the women in the queue to get their perspective after the calls. It was cool to see how the ladies react after sitting on your advice and hearing other ladies. This can really accelerate the healing.
Kevin is killing it with this show. I'm currently in grad school in a big city. All of the women I've dated have had zero kitchen skills. The ones where we've talked about marriage think it's a cake walk. The only women I know who actually learned how to be a wife come from the South. And to the caller who spoke about coming out of feminism, I agree with her based on what I've seen. Most of the women around me are between 22-30. The ones who are the angry feminist type have had a combination of daddy issues, rejection, getting cheated on, or abused in some manner. Some have been legitimately graped or taken advantage of, so I fully understand how falling into feminism after being wounded sounds appealing. But it's destroying people's ability to form relationships.
Kevin was spot on. My ex-wife only wanted to do work that benefited her. Never helped me to get my business to a sustainable level. Now she has 4 degrees and over $150k in debt.
Crazy. How did it get to that point? Dealing with a similar situation with my wife as she came into the marriage with over $130k in debt and added more to it for reasons that solely attempted to benefit her. Now by herself shes $200k in debt and I’m going to be debt free by the new year smh 🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️✊🏾
If she would have helped you get your business to a sustainable level would you give her a share of the business or something? I can understand why a woman may not be willing to do that, because what’s the saying? When he get on he leave her ass on a white girl or whatever it is. Women feel the need to get their own these days and I get it. We as men like to protect what we have, even when a women has helped us obtain it. She just should have not gone into debt, with probably worthless degrees. But you didn’t say what the degrees are in or how much she makes. So it could be worth it, idk. 🤷🏾♂️
What I’ve Noticed that a lot of Black women with fathers or a good male father figures. They will post these men Father’s Day, saying “ best man I’ve ever known”. But they won’t date the equivalent of their father.
The 41 years old lady who got married 3 times How come you can’t remember the second time you got married? Obviously marriage is like a joke to her... she doesn’t need any more husband.
Hey, Steve! It’s me. NiKesha. I take marriage seriously. It’s not a joke. Neither is abuse. That part of my life is a blur to me. I’m just glad I survived it still in my right mind. You are absolutely right. I don’t need any more husband(s). I desire and deserve a committed, loving, loyal partner that I can respect, support, and love. I will receive it. We will both be pleased. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and allowing me to share mine.
Women want a traditional man, however we can't get a traditional woman and should accept a modern one. 2:17:28, First we had "I'm a PHD'!! Now we have "I'm a entrepreneur" at 23??
2:33:20 "not having a degree I wasn't qualified for a HVM"... Not true!!! Men don't care about degrees. I say all the time, they get with the girl at Arby's if checks all the boxes..
Lamii Kromah I agreed. Read this article "At midlife, between a third and a half of all successful career women in the United States do not have children. In fact, 33% of such women (business executives, doctors, lawyers, academics, and the like) in the 41-to-55 age bracket are childless-and that figure rises to 42% in corporate America. These women have not chosen to remain childless. The vast majority, in fact, yearn for children. Indeed, some have gone to extraordinary lengths to bring a baby into their lives. They subject themselves to complex medical procedures, shell out tens of thousands of dollars, and derail their careers-mostly to no avail, because these efforts come too late. In the words of one senior manager, the typical high-achieving woman childless at midlife has not made a choice but a “creeping nonchoice.”
That’s true but I have found it very taxing to hold a conversation with a women with college degree. I would say at least a undergraduate degree if you dating a white collar man. But nothing past that.
@@Ruckerpark98 they have to many masculine vibes very argumentative and a strong need to be right. It’s a total turn off to men with purpose. If women like this turn you off there is nothing wrong with you
@@clmk28 now I would look at the type of degrees. When I was in college I would hear white from women and other women degree paths which was event planning, general studies and so on. I would avoid taking stem chicks, psych chicks, and so on.
You saved my marriage Kevin. Listening to your show has opened my eyes to what’s out there. I wasn’t high value when I got married but built myself up. Now I do what I want. I thought my wife had issues, but these woman are brain washed. I’m 39 now and my patience is thin for woman even talking. LOL! Bad I know My wife knows me and is loyal. I faulted her for being so green. Now I’m glad she is. These woman are terrible out there. I doubt I’d ever find a woman with my inability to care about what they think or say. Leading with my wallet gets cooperation but I’d know why they are there. I guess ignorance as a youth was great. I thought they would loved me for me. 😂😂😂 keep on teaching. I’m listening.
Nobody likes you for who you are. Thats the fantasy that is sold to us. You dont take someone who has depression and multi personality disorder serious in a relationship if they dont get it treated and want to better themself, do you? If you do, you probably have a problem with yourself and your own disciplin. You see, its about choices and trade offs, because in order to get what you and to get there where you wanna be in life you have to choose what you gotta do or want to do. Women are sold to disney and netflix and the music industry, its nothing new. People just cant differentiate between fact and fiction, because its sooo merged in one another that its hard to distinguish that. Also the feminist bullshit is affecting families all around the globe, some more, some less but the father role is also important. We have bad fatherfigures, because women choose poorly and want the symathy for being naive and dumb, because society gives them that but most men are waking up slowly and start to choose against the narrative. Its like, you know you never met a jew in a public school but you know they are out there. But they arent going to public schools, because their parents know its a bad influence, so they go to private schools or are hometaught. Its a choice, because they know how to get there where you want to but its a harder way, because you need the approvale from the goverment or stuff like that but people are too tired and too lazy to get through that process to make a change. They instead sit back and do what they are told to do by the media and mainstream and then wonder why nobody takes them seriously. Guess why Bill Gates doesnt allow TV's and mobilephones in his house when the kids are around? He knows how bad on an impact that has on a childs mind. Just to make a few points here to show you that there are also other levels to it in contrast to what you see in your day to day life. Kind regards from Germany
The American culture is so weird to me..It wasn't until 6th grade when I started hanging out with friends that I realized girls my age didn't know how to cook. One example. I was working on a project with a friend and we were both starving...she had chicken nuggets rice and fries that I wanted to make.. she stopped me and said wait I don't know how to work the stove, I'll burn the house down. I was like o.o girl I do. After her mom came home she saw the cooked food and asked "who ordered food?"
Damn most of all of them didn’t have fathers. They met him later in life. I can’t imagine growing up without my mom and not knowing her if I lived with my dad.
About the story about Mac n'cheese soup: my mother in law did the exact same thing with tortellini (it's a filled pasta), 6 years ago (63-64 y/o). I opened so big my eyes that I almost needed reconstructive surgery :D The worst part was when she served the food and nobody said a word so I had to eat that crap. I had that event in my mind for over two years until one day asked my boyfriend (now husband) "How on earth your mother doesn't know she needs to strain pasta??!!" and his response was "I imagine isn't written in the package"... so I looked in a package and he was right :D And yes, she's very accomplished in her career (phd and all that) but his son always says he grew up with survival food. In Spanish we have a saying: you conquer a man through his stomach. You can be average on looks department but if you know how to cook I can tell you, you became more appealing for a long term relationship. Cooking isn't just about to transform ingredients to eat, it's about pleasure, love, to stimulate senses, nurturing, care, comfort, fun, creativity, communication, etc.
My marriage is very sui generis, while I am not good at cooking, I have the other traditional wife virtues. My house is literally like a palace. My husband is well kept in his clothing, hobbies, literature.
Dang, that is the ABSOLUTE TRUTH!! And examine the age of women who say "looks don't matter". Hilariously it's always the demographic of women who are looking for a man of whom father time has given what was due.
Ever since I started watching Mr. Samuel’s on RU-vid , I am learning more about what I need to improve about myself . You have to be willing to accept that you are not perfect and humble yourself to understand what he is saying . In almost all of the conversation I have listened to from his other videos , I noticed how defensive these women got when he is only giving them constructive criticism. How can you keep a man of that caliber when all you have to offer is sex ? Even I had to give myself a reality check and change how I view men . His delivery only seems harsh because some of y’all don’t want to admit that he is right . Like I always say , only a hit dog will holler .
My father is a self made successful HVM. My mom ruined it because she was too young and ignorant to see what her role should have been in our household growing up. She did very well I see now it really all come down to how you grow up. You have to be trained how to be a wife to see the work and necessity required to manage your family
I would expect my wife as a business partner not a housemaker. A housemaker is a maid and a babysitter in one. A business partner works harder than anyone there and inspires everyone else to do the same. She elevates everyone by her example and how she challenges everyone to be their best self. I expect myself to be that example and I expect that from everyone around me as well.
@Ruben Jr I'm being anecdotal, but my wife as a business partner didn't work. She just needed to be my Exec Asst. She wanted to control a lot of things that she had no knowledge of, nor even researched to better understand. Train wreck. Lost 15k+
Yes Julie... It is THAT bad. It looks like a war zone out here, and the landscape is filled with casualties. Good men can only hope to find a woman that emotionally isn't to disfigured, and bleeding from self inflicted wounds to bad. So we keep our heads down, and be extremely discerning. Mr. Samuel is giving our basics of the field and Litmus tests to see if she is even "Alive." Thank you for helping out Julie. We appreciate you being a medic out in the field... 😉😊
@@krypton1982 Hey friend. Sorry for a year later response! Thank you for the kind words. Keep you head up though. There ARE balanced ,healed women who have done the hard work. ☺
“It’s not your fault... but we still have to do something about it.” This quote right here epitomizes what this show is all about. You don’t lose til you stop trying. Watching this show helped me young and scared ass to take some real chances this year and finally take ownership of myself. I was scared to quit my job and trade stocks full time because of “security”. Then the beer bug took my job away and I had to trade for my life and found myself and just who in the hell I am. Best believe when I get to that seventh figure in a few years that this channel is getting one big FAT tribute payment. Kevin making men and ladies take their medicine is giving so many grounded ravens their wings to fly with.
Mike Tyson weighs 220 pounds. I don't want a woman who weighs as much as a heavy weight boxer. I don't want a woman who weighs 210 pounds cooking my meals. The only meals she is going to prepare for me will be meals that will make me and my children fat and unhealthy like her. She says that she is a good cook but what is she cooking? At 210 pounds she's eating a lot of junk food. She can go to the gym 5 times a week. But she needs to realize that she can't out work a bad diet. I'm 47 years old. My BMI is perfect. I've been eating healthy all of my adult life. I have 6 pack abs and broad shoulders. I can run an under 5 minute mile.
@@ChineseFentanyl it's true. Due to the environmental/societal factors men after 30 in the USA typically have low testosterone. It's the who want a softer man and a harder woman. But men ate more foods like raw eggs or cooked eggs, real cacao, and raw red onions this can help out lots. We need food that creates nitric oxide for testosterone. We also need to keep away from stress as well, herbal remedies/practices should be added to diet.
@@vtecnegro85 and stay away from soy in all forms, it contains too much estrogen for men and women. Eat your cruciferous veggies for testosterone, get plenty of sun, and do your swats- all great for testosterone
Women wonder why men don't have much patience to listen too long after we ask a question. Then when we show the patience, they ramble on & on without even coming close to answering the question. Women......stop complaining about men interrupting you and start practicing giving concise, accurate responses to questions. And practicing the skill of hearing what is said so that you can quote the person and have them agree with you, but not interpreting what is said so that it is misunderstood
Hey, I know a lot of people in the world are waking up, but please don't depend on the internet and social media on how to be a better feminine/masculine or person in general. You want to become a better Masculine and Feminine? Get off of social media and get to know yourself better. Write down the pro's and the con's. Learn to embrace your shadow self. Observe natural, animals, and everything around you. Observe the innocence of children. Women especially, it's super beneficial for women to connect with Momma Earth. She is THE definition of the Divine Feminine. Pay attention, observe and listen to her. Start a garden if you have to, dance, befriend genuine girl friends. And most importantly, as hard it may or may not be, heal your inner feminine by forgiving your Mother for the times she let her own pain manifest into yours (Men as well). Sometimes we forget that our parents are growing and learning just like we are. Do that and I guarantee you won't ever have to constantly look to the internet for such information again. Also, male and female have both masculine and feminine energies. Of course, women have more feminine and men have more masculine, but to learn how to balance them is key, and I never hear any RU-vid "Influencer" talking about balance. Real Master Teachers and Healers will not have you dependent on them. They will give you what you are ready for and send you on your way to help yourself. They also won't go around posting on social media left and right. Be weary of wolves in sheep's clothing. They are legit everywhere and in every community. Another thing I want to add. From my perspective and experiences, the majority of relationships fail is because we listen to other people, there's barely any real thoughts/communication coming from directly us and us alone. Listening to people all the time can and will destroy your life. Find out what your real thoughts and feelings are without outside noises first and sit down and have a heart to heart with your partner. I guarantee a lot of issues will get cleared up. 90% of the time we are all saying the same things, we just have a different way in expressing it. Listen.
At the end of the day, it’s a simple equation. High value essentially means being a traditional man at his finest. And western women want men to play their traditional roles thoroughly and without complaint, but don’t want to be traditional women themselves. They were told that being a traditional woman means being weak, powerless, and defenseless, against men. By becoming an ‘empowered’ modern woman, that will allow you to deal with traditional men as their equals and force their respect. And that’s not how men operate.
@It’sMicha Milennia The essence of being a traditional woman is being a man’s number 1 employee/asset in life, not a coworker or roommate that cleans every now and then. Any person that lives alone can say they’re both a traditional man and woman, if making money and cleaning your own living space were the only requirements. Traditional women take primary responsibility in raising the kids, including homeschooling if need be. When it comes to paying bills, the husband brought the money home, but its usually the wife that handles the money. If a man has a business they’re running, it’s just naturally assumed that his wife is the manager, accountant, secretary, or doing something that’s essential and she has legitimately valuable skills in doing. And the women didn’t just naturally have those skills. They were raised and trained to operate with the thought process “how can I help my future husband?” Then a man who his handling all his traditional roles will link up with that woman, and they’ll grow exponentially.
Brilliant Show! The segment regarding Octanes was exceptional! I am definitely an 89 octane, I graduated college but I still have to workout kinks. I have little parts of the 92s I’m a sorority girl that’s socially aware and cultured. Now I’m not sure about working in the corporate world yet but I do have ambition. Can’t wait until you do a show on that topic definitely going to participate!
@@jamesedwards5070 Well not with THAT attitude...nevermind that we outlasted slavery and remain in everty facet of American society...but *JAAAMES* doesn't think we'll make it 🤣🤣🤣🤣 (I love You Bro it's jokes)
@@angelyeldellbey So I should say it's going to do it by itself? "but *JAAAMES* doesn't think we'll make it"? Correction: You think that I think that we are not going to make it.
@@GallivantA I respect ur view and opinion. But what I will say is that everyone doesn’t age the same. Take Lenny Kravitz. He’s beautiful inside and out. There are also women who look just as fine as he does. There’s nothing wrong with having standards and a classy lady regardless of age will not have a problem. Demands I would agree is something else and are honestly unrealistic at best. Peace and love brother
You will be surprised how many women tell daughters to never keep 1 man and cheat on your man while he is at work in the black community. This is serious issues created early and they do it all their life. Sabotage their on family to struggle like her mom did. It makes no since while they think better will come. It never comes lol
Damn most of all of them didn’t have fathers. They met him later in life. I can’t imagine growing up without my mom and not knowing her if I lived with my dad.
That 52 years old lady's Call, was one of the Best Calls that covers ALL ages...That reality in which Kevin Spoke, is so down to earth reality that hits home to the core....She apparently didn't realized all of these years, that she had valued Materialistic Possession more than a human being, a Man...and she knew she could take it with her, but the Manner in which Kevin stated the truth to her, l believed gain some serious traction... Materialism as Cost so many Black Women to lose... but they do not appear to realize it until bought to their attention, it appears .
@@RenitaStyles men historically have joined forces to invent, vacuumed cleaners, washing machines and dryers, job opportunities, etc ... to make women's lives easier. When have women ever collectively come together to make something that would make mens lives easier? Never. But yall will come together like clock work to try to make a man's life miserable. Why the resentment. Its like its in yalls(not all women but most of yall) nature🤷♂️
Women these days are taught that being a real wife and being submissive to a man is weakness. It isn’t. When you embrace who you should be naturally, it feels GOOD. Im raising my daughters to be good, submissive wives. That’s something I was never taught by my parents and have to teach myself how to do better every day.
They keep it has sick trophies to show that they are still wanted and have value. They think it enhances their value what they don’t know is that time isn’t on their side. Anyways this lady needs therapy
I remember in law school that was legal writing problem lol. All the women argued that it constitutes a “gift” so they didn’t have to get it back. All the men is it was consideration for a contract for marriage; and by the woman breaking off the wedding she terminated the contract and had to give back the ring.
@@CloudSephiroth That could be dangerous for them many rings are heirlooms. My family doesn't have one but if we did and she refused to return it. Well there would be a serious problem a violently serious problem. People need to consider how the other person will react before making the decision.
Why so many girl try to manipulate you every time they call into your show. Is this society now, where rude is the new norm. From what i hear on your show most of these people do not qualify for a date. Letting that child know what it was with the rings was the best part of the show and I completely agree. It is no wonder why dating, relationships are done and over.
People that called the show and don’t want to divulge information on the call you should book a session. Makes for a bad show when the audience don’t know what’s going on in the call
The young lady who was married for only a month had a miscarriage. The father married her out of obligation. Once she lost the baby, now he feels no obligation to her and wants out.
That woman 3x engaged did us no favors making us look like opportunistic golddiggers. You don't "offer" to give back a ring no longer serving the purpose which it was originally gifted, you give it back. And thankfully, there are those of us modern women who have traditional mindsets because of the way we may have been brought up. Sadly, modern women are less and less marriage material when these type are responsible for having wack-ass rappers including hypersexed Meg the Stallion and Cardi B constantly at the top of the charts. Same with the ratchetness of black reality TV with high ratings. If you encounter women who don't find these types of behavior in music and TV problematic enough to have no parts of it, that tells marriage-minded men all they need to know.
Did anybody catch that the x3 engaged women was being told what to say. Listen for the whisper before she answers. This might be the rebuke you girl or her friend.
I just discovered you channel and I have to watch the videos in pieces so I don't overload myself and can actually take in and process the information lol. I know it's women out here who will argue, but at the end of the day I don't know how a man thinks. The overall message I'm getting is you can't have qualities that repel what you want to attract and to be realistic. None of this is news to me, but the extra details definitely have me going and looking at my own habits.