Do narcissist miss you? What do narcissistic people miss about you? Narcs miss the control they had 

“Them missing you is not necessarily a good thing” that hit. He didn’t miss me; he missed abusing me.

they don't miss "you", they miss the supply you provide them.

These relationships are so heartbreaking, soul aching if I didn’t have access to RU-vid I would be still wondering what I’ve done wrong.. thank you for the content.

Lol so in other words, the person we love and care about doesn’t feel the same at all. Thanks for that info. Helps me to never talk to her again

No. They Never Miss You! Remember They Have No Emotional Empathy. It is All About Control. They Hate To Lose Control. You are An Object to Them That they Own.

Of course he misses me. I miss him too from afar, but that's good enough for me. I won't be missing the anger and all that yelling he did.

It's a really codependent question. If you've had the smarts to run away, what does it matter if they miss you or not?? Walk away in your mind, too!

Consistent change can't be faked. He is fake. I don't miss him, I miss the rollercoaster. Now I work out when I wanna hurt.

hey lee, just went no contact with my narc of 5 years recently and every time i feel myself trying to revert back to those toxic facets of my life i watch your videos for motivation to keep moving forward 🤍 much love remember it will always get better

I love seeing the baby … don’t ever cut her out! She’s adorable…. thanks for being so unique in this field.

So we as empaths don’t really miss them then.....We miss sacrificing all of those lows for that one high.....because that’s how we were shown love as a child.

I heard my ex misses the fact I knew nothing and that I always tried to help him not change him.

I know it was my support, love, praise, encouragement, and other things we both valued. He did I think love me and he didn’t know what to do with it so he sabotaged again and again and I fought too long for him.

Damn this guy is a work horse!! He puts content out like crazy…

Been through it.. 4 year's expensive gifts, roses, anything he thought would keep me. Even told me he had to keep me in debt. What he didn't know that was the wrong thing to say to me.

It’s true that you don’t have stay with the abuser. Forgiveness is so that you can go on with your life. It doesn’t mean that you stay, and become a door mat for a second or third time for the sake of forgiveness. You have to learn to love yourself, and do some serious introspection. I learned that the hard way. When know better, you do better every day, one day at a time. You just have to get started. It can be difficult, but it’s doable. Real talk.💕🙏🏾🔥💯

They miss the benefits you provide. Great video Lee

She has to be in every video now you know that right? Lol sooo cute!!!❤️🥰

One of the best videos! You hit this one out of the park!!!!!

Thank you, I needed this “talking to” today. I am trying my best to stay on my no-contact path. 🕊

Thank you for confirming this. I wondered. This video is honestly a comfort after hearing all the I miss you’s and give me one more chance’s.

You talk so much sense. Thank you for the information. I wish I had this information about NPD a few years ago. I did not know what was going on with a parent and also a spouse. I just knew something evil was going on. Hearing the truth has been very helpful, making it make sense .Your work is helping so many. Thank you!

One of the best videos you've made.Must listen to it again .

Thank you for this video, Lee. They miss the convenience, control, sex and what we do for them. That is all. Once they lose that and have a hard time finding another supply to provide it, the injury sets in and the downfall starts for the narc. What a sad way to go through life treating people like this who actually care about being in a relationship.

OMG everything hit home with me today in my ex relationship! (Which I'm still fighting to get my divorce from after 2 years) I really really needed to hear this! Thank you so much for your videos🥲

“Intent matters” THIS is very important, because God judges people depending on their intent. It’s so hard to know their intent because they are not honest about their intent. Do you think you can expand on what exactly goes on in your mind when you decide things based on selfish intent in other videos too? What is the thought process exactly when you decide certain behaviors? Thank you Lee!

And yours little babygirl next to her daddy ...God bless you Lee.H and your family...love from England!!!🌺💖🌺

You are always having great content. Thanks a lot 🙏

Thank you for this video! I believe this!!! I’m laughing about the flowers 😂

Great video...thanks so.much Lee.H....!!!💖💖💖

Your daughter is so cute 😍 Straight Up 💯 get your power back, trust me they don't miss no body

Your baby is so sweet. God bless her..

True words... It's harder to be someone on your own, why even try if the supply is there to provide? They are totally lazy... Never met someone so lazy in my entire life... It's sad though... Because I'm the opposite, fight for what I want and dream, and I diacovered that there's nothing that empowers you more than to achieve your dreams in a healthy way! So now I'm empowering myself, not to teach a lesson or get revange done or whatever... I'm doing it for myself! Because there's things you can only gain on your own... And your self love, your happiness and your self esteem is your own responsibility and all about how you react to what comes your way! Great listening to your words 😉 it's been helping me to accept the red flags that have been showned from the beginning and MOVE ON!🙏 it's a day by day work though... Sometimes easier than others

Do your thing Brody!!

Thanks you. I get it. It hurts but I'm wiser.

My ex husband of over 20 years wouldn’t allow me to work. He had to have control of all the money. My name was never on the bank accounts. Or anything. What he missed when I finally left was the supply the control being able to verbally abuse me and destroy me. He missed having a clean home and family to come home to for his own image He’s so good at believing his lies he tells about me. He’s the victim. Zero guilt for what he has done to me and my children.

He missed his big juicy Steaks . And feeling comfortable. Until I pulled that rug from under his feet .After 12 years of all the BS . Two words I said to him he actually listened to was Games Over .. I remember miscarrying our baby . I said to him to stop always stressing me out . I said to him I think I maybe losing our baby. Which I did . All he said was I couldn’t give a fxxk whether I did or not . He put me under so much stress because I was walking on eggshells. Not knowing what mood was he in . When he walked through that door .

You left :/ didn’t take questions ? Thank you Lee for your time and effort . It does greatly help 🙏

I wish I watched these just a bit earlier, but this is great content.

Love ur videos I’ve learned a lot thank u 🙏 and ur baby girl is adorable I’m a mother of six children 💯👍

They miss the ease of the manipulation, getting comfort FROM you, your empathy… As for intention…mine always used the excuse that whatever bad thing he got busted on “was not his intention”. No, it was not his intention to get caught. Flowers, love bombing…lol…I never got any of that stuff….he used that for/on his indiscretions… What a waste of a human…

Good video!

The first time my ex narc got physical with me, he brought a bouquet of flowers and played my favorite artists' songs on front porch because he knew I could watch and hear him on my ring. I threw away the flowers when he left them on the porch. 😂 But I did take him back probably a week later... Flowers were his go to after he did something and I got mad.

Your daughter is so cute. Love this video Lee!😊

“stay at home narcissists”😂

Man facts straight out of the horses mouth! Dangggggggggg man those cold hard facts are harsh but reality 🤷🏽‍♀️Take it and run 🏃‍♀️

She’s so cute, aww

Great video

Sadly I miss those things I still think were real. Looking at stars. Going out dancing. Walks. Staring into each others eyes and just connecting. Movie nights. Trips. All these things I just held so close to my heart and saw as bonding. What was real, I’ll never know.

When I'd be gone either trying to run away or on a long trip with the kids his "missing" always revolved around my "pretty mouth". Yeah. I bet.

To a narcissist you are a mug. When they want a cup of coffee there they are, holding it with two hands, sipping out of it. Afterwards? Who cares. They won't even bother washing it, or caring for it. They can always get another one, or a pack of 6 at walmart.

If he do miss.me i wouldn't know i blocked him all ways. He wasn't consistent with me any way

Exactly 💯 no contact 4 life

What a beautiful baby girl! 😍😍💕

Im totally in love with your adorable baby daughter❤

They miss the supply you gave them. That’s it and that’s all. My Ex has this one friend he’s had for over 20 years and come to find out they’ve been being more than just friends smh but he says it was on our “breaks” which is still toxic and an unhealthy cycle/pattern. Plus, he’s not disciplined and very lustful so I highly doubt it was only during our off times. It’s just pathetic when I think about all his bs that came out years later…after I had a child with him smdh I’m so over it but it angers me at times. He told me he used her for encouragement and the sexual aspect while we were going thru things. Then in another convo he expressed how much he valued the friendship and she was such a great friend and blah blah beep beep beep lol make it make sense 🤣 then when he had this spiritual awakening, he called her to apologize for all the hurt and pain and said “I apologize to you for all the hurt and pain I have caused you. I apologize if you ever felt used or mistreated in all of this” whaaattt? I have so many questions! That’s the same apology he would give me. Why on earth would he tell me that and why apologize and tell someone you’re sorry if they felt used when that’s exactly what you did, USE THEM!! ugh!!! These videos trigger me, but I am sooo happy I know the truth and found my strength again. What a pathetic time of me dealing with that toxic boy! Def not a Man! Then had the nerve to tell me “I told you some very uncomfortable things I’ve done over the years and all you did was throw it in my face and tear me down” hahaha so if it was uncomfortable for him, how do you think I feel to know I’ve been betrayed and lied to for so many years??? That’s only one situation. It’s so many more stories!!! I kinda wish I didn’t know, but then again it helped me break the trauma bond and refuse to go back. He told me I was insecure and said I shouldn’t be worried about these women when he was trying to be with me lol these same women he keep within arms reach btw smdh These people are nuts!!! I saw the signs 11 years ago and ignored them. I had hope and thought he would change. He did, for the damn worse! Now he’s more manipulative and has become a professional apologizer and supposedly found God smh took my therapist away from me and has her fooled. It’s just a mess and I’m glad to be out! I see right thru his bull ish. Actions and words never aligned and that’s what made me understand what I was really dealing with.

Lol flowers 💐 public affection, they thought of you, everyone thinks you’re loved so helps convince yourself too that he loves you

Adorable baby!

What to do when we are missing them? those good moments? what we did for them? How we can just forget them forever?

I'm so screwed up with my head that I keep thinking I'm narcissistic cos when he left he cited all these things.. and everything I listen right now i check on me and when you post first I check if it applies to me. What do I miss abt him? Him. I miss loving him, cooking for him.. spending time.. affection etc.. so.. and now he is gone.. I think, has he eaten, is someone taking care of him.. is he fine.. guess this also strikes out.

So would that the “missing manipulating me” be the reason the ex narc went out of their way to find my TikTok account? After I blocked them on everything?

Funny because my narc ex said more than once “the good times outweighs the bad” meanwhile in my mind I’m like what? I don’t know but uuh seems like when we go on vacations etc we fight soo… lol

Love your SINcerity.

Yup! Too bad for the DBagg he can’t steal money from me any more!

#Factsbro 💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥

Lmao 🤣 He's a poison stinking flower 🌼. None of them will work 🤣 😂 on me.

My ex narcissists Misses what I used to give him and Misses torturing me.

Running all the business. Bookkeeping ect. 🧐 and I finally realized I was only around for that purpose. Just needed me for that. And only that. And he still didn’t even appreciate that.

Hi Lee !

Your daughter is so cute... 💗

I tell him all the time he misses that I use to put up with all the bullshit, he misses that if any problem arose that I handled it without any help from him, he misses that I’m the type that will drop any and everything if someone close to me needs something. He was cheating and out with the other girl his car broke down and he called me, her friend picked her up and I picked him up and I knew he was out but I always look at it as I wish if it happened to me someone would drop all to help me. I could say so many more crazy stories. He’s even told me he could never find someone as loyal as me and a safe place. He dates narcissist so I laugh when he does and pray he picks them as his number 1.

Okay, why would a narcissist want to control someone who's fighting to put them in jail?

I just want the cute baby 🍼🥰. She is absolutely beautiful

I stop giving and was wondering why is he still here ? I learned recently I am in relationship with a narcissist . Tuff realisation but It gave me more strength to know . I m doing my best for him to leave but still here. I was wondering : can he be also because of the procession aspect ? Cause he’s veu jalous and I know he fear I leave him for someone else . . I don’t know thou how far I can push him cause I am sharp with him now . He just pretend to be sad sometimes but not taking but watching me .. should I lock the room I put all my personal belongings when I leave the house ?

Get a dna test on that baby ASAP 😮

Women just love flowers!! 🤷🏽‍♂️

You know what Lee I think I answered my own question because my ex leaves me every time she gets income taxes for a couple months and then comes back around or if she gets a good paying job she discards me and then comes back around. I just had to accept that I was being used whether we have kids or not. I just don't know what to believe from her but I know that when she brings me my kids she's going to come all dressed up and smelling good and honestly I don't want to see her.

No flowers don't work!!! My ex turned up at mine with a bunch of 15 roses. 1st time in 13yrs!!!! He ever brought me flowers. Didn't work and yeah I do miss him last few days as struggling bit yh.

I don't truly believe I'm a narcissistic after doing alot of inner reflection. Ì did however do alot of narcissistic things like showing up at her house, blowing up her phone, and reaching out in unconvinced ways like letter and email after my very cold discard. This has led me to believe I do however have strong abandonment issues. The story is very complex. I do have empathy, i love and care for my partners, have no alterior motives, I don't lie, I've never cheated, and I don't gaslight/future fake. My actions after the discard are what caused me to question my narcissistic traits. Thought?

My ex narcissist messaged me saying (miss you) but I don't believe he misses me it's not genuine

Hey lee does narsasist genuinely miss thier kids… I got a Hoover saying he misses his kids

Kinda off topic, and then again it is not...when we talk about narcissists and their supply(usually empaths).... Can you talk on DARK EMPATHS? I just came across that term and now i wanna find out more.

Hope that they don’t

your baby is so cute 😊

Mine just hoovered me today. He misses sex. That's it. I said forget it.

💐 no way in hell I had enough !!!

Awwwwe....I just want to muah muah muah her cheeks!😆😁

Some of us did not get flowers from our broke a** ex narc boyfriends 🤣🤣Not that it would have made a difference to me, I don't take cheaters and liars back

She wants to have the kids see me on my birthday and if she starts talking about us I would like to ask her what it is she misses!!!!! If she's being true and sincere what answer should I be hoping for? She lies a lot so if you're going to lie to somebody you were with for 12 years what would you tell them if it was going to be a lie what would you say if it was sincere?

They miss their secretary and maid and security of supply,..supply between the new side supply

🤖 I miss my family 😢 booo booo beeep beeep used this on me twice… no more #7months #narcfree #healing

He misses treating me like a damn fetish. That's literally it. My caring and love...all i gave....nah he loved naughty crap. At points i literally felt like an object all while coddling a manchild with zero empathy. He has his po×× now he's good....meanwhile I'm out of the dating pool and doing myself 1 million percent

And if the narc won't allow u working bc he so paranoid, you might cheat! N emotionally, mentally n verbally starts abusing you! Its not being lazy. It's fear!!

Zero cuddler!@@

He'ssssssssssssss soooooooooo cute

Sorry man 🙁 Love the message, but for me, but your beautiful daughter stole the show...and my heart.

Hey Cutie

Hiyeeeee

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Do you miss your ex now?