Do SLAVIC Women Date the Same Way? 

it s like all the girls agree with each other except from the ukrainian, it s obvious from her facial expression all the time. But I feel like it s more of her personal point of view, which i think that doesn t reflect her country s mentality

If you don't have money no woman will even look at you. That applies to all women, not just Slavic. I am Serbian, wage slaving for 2 euro per hour up to 12 hours every day, no woman was ever interested in me in any way, shape or form.

The Bulgarian girl was super fine

There is a gap/difference between western and Slavic tradition or customs for sure and it's really nice that they are aware of it and go through it.❤

I come from Russia, but I am Asian not Russian ethnically. When the guy invites me for dinner for the first time then he usually pays for the girl. If I refuse to accept that, the man will be offended. Later on if we go out often and get to know each other more; then couples can split the bill. In general Russian men are very generous; they like to provide for the girl if he knows that they will be married.

I was wating for a video with Slavic countries , make one with men's poin of view from the same countries

I am Czech and my husband is French, i remember the culture shock when we splitted the bill on a date...😂I didnt really mind but i found it weird😂

Greetings Marina, as always another insightful video-TQVM. Only got to know about Slavic women/cultures after having stumbled upon your channel. So Glad I did. I do intend to visit Eastern-Europe over the next 6 months. I am from Malaysia, located in South-East Asia. Very open to travel now that I have a lot of time on my hands. I hope to be in touch with you to gain some heads-up, when I decide to go there. If you happen to be around and do have a little time we can meet in person over coffee and exchange pleasantries. Have a pleasant and productive week ahead. Rgds Wilson

Very informative, please put the country name above the people so we know & remember who the person speaking is from

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3:09 "in Slovakia theres no McDonalds" I really hope she meant to say that "in Slovakia, people dont go on a date to McDonalds" because the first McDonalds in Slovakia was opened in 1995 and there is more than 40 opened McDonalds restaurants.

I don't think the concept of career in Eastern Europe and Western Europe is the same. I am Romanian (not slavic, but Eastern European) and in Romania women have a kid and after 2 years you go back to 30-40h per week basically full time job. 4 in 10 senior executives are women. 1 in 3 engineers are women. Women will say that marriage is more important than career...not that they don't have one!!! In Germany and Itally women have a baby and come to work with a 15-20h contract. 1 in 10 senior executives are women ( usually HR). 1 in 10 engineers are women, but say career is more important than family and children and that eastern european women are gold diggers and not feminists like them. All these things show clearly that actually they are not equal and the german/italian guys provide more than romanian men need to.For them being career oriented means they go to work full time and not staying home with the kids, for romanians it means you are a manager/executive! Don't believe me? Check Eurostats!! I am sick and tired of these biases. I live in Germany and my german friends tell me how their moms work 1 day per week now that they are grown up. My mom woke up all her life at 5 AM to go to work and went to bed at 10PM ( holding a job, cleaning cooking and taking care of us kids) and most of the women did the same and this channel and western societies only focuses on who pays for dinner. Jesus!

In Bulgaria I would never go out to throw the garbage without eye liner and lipstick and even high heels… now I am still putting some effort in my attire but it not as much because in US this is weird.

One thing to add, it's not 'westerners corrupting' exactly. It's the culture. Everything is unaffordable. It's not even 'feminist' power. It's the laws and stuff. If I don't have a partner, I NEED a job. Now we are married, how exactly can we afford it with just my husbands 50k (thats the average canadian salary) I just don't agree with her implicit jab at 'feminism'. Maybe I misunderstood her. But it's not 'feminism' entirely that drives every women. What's wrong with feminism or doing everything yourself if that's what you want. Nothing wrong with being a homemaker if that's what you want

We do have McDonald's in Slovakia 😂 but we don't go there for dates

I'm happy to see someone from Ukraine can have a perspective outside of their society. I also feel she was not heard enough by the other women since the all seemed to have a similar opinion contrasted to the Ukraine woman. It came to a point she stopped talking :(

I am from Bulgaria and I live your chanel ❤

Super funny and educative, so different and at the same time very alike

Great segment very enjoyable.

All these girls are pretty but the Bulgarian girl is so attractive and cute ❤😍

For those of you who decide to be stay at home wives, you have to be extra careful to make sure you protect yourself financially. I have seen many former stay at home moms end up in difficult financial situations after divorce or widowhood because they allowed the husband to make all financial decisions. Set up independent financial accounts. Make sure that you understand your finances. Set up credit in your name. Make sure your name is on all retirement accounts and no withdrawals are made without your knowledge. You can be a traditional spouse and still participate in decisions related to savings, investments, and other financial matters. If you are caring for children and a household, your time is as valuable as the partner who works.

I'm Brazilian, and that's what I love about eastern/slavic/balkan cultures: tradition.

I'm half Ukrainian and half Slovakian but I was born and raised in Slovakia and when I hear all these girls talk, it really makes me realize more why I never fit in my own country, even though I'm slavic I personally hate a lot of the aspects of our dating style. Personally I relate incredibly with the Ukrainian's girl's personal opinions because it's very similar to mine. Go girl, glad I'm not the only slavic girl that thinks like you do. I also feel with the Ukrainian girl how uncomfortable she is there because that's how I'm looking and avoiding most people around me lol. I'm so uncomfortable in my own country and I see it on her too.

Miss Macedonia is straight up american gansta to me more than anything ngl

"In a manner to attract a man" surely no german woman would stepped for forward

I am a guy, just turned 20, and even though I occasionally come to watch some of these videos whenever I am bored, I always get one more reason to be glad not to be born to care about or depend on any of these things in my life, whether it be dating or "getting a girlfriend" this or that, nor having a crush. Perks of being mentally independent - - - Many of these so called rules and standards are just so gibberish for me to even comprehend why they are there.

I lived almost 10 years in Slovakia and had both long term and short-term relationships. I found slovak women to be very easy going and casual in dating. I even dated a couple of girls that took the bill (of course not on the 1st date). I find that there were some points that I didn't recognise on the slovak woman. But then again, slovak women could easily adapt to their man. I found that to be the strongest of their traits.

Those Slavic women are so beautiful in this video. : )

Interesting.

One thing that interests me about this is how, though there are many different Slavic nations, they are all "grouped together" much more than the Germanic or Latin nations. I wonder why this is.

this Ukrainian woman is so cute and so accurate. love all though, was fun to watch how they engage and talk about their cultural views. and they are also clever women who can look in both perspective; cultural and personal pov

That was an interesting video. Thank you for the different perspectives. However, I wish they would have let the Ukranian girl speak freely.

Bulgaria has two years maternity leave per kid. Just saying.

I'm a little sorry for the girl from Ukraine, she always tries to stand up for herself and the others keep putting her down, lol.

I am Russian but was raised in Germany. I know both eastern and western mentality in dating and relationships.. I understand the Slavic women point of view based on their cultural background. And I don't think it's wrong. It's just how it works for them. There are always pros and cons. It is true that in Slavic tradition the man is the provider but it also somehow gives him the right to be "higher" than the women, to have the power, to decide. Slavic women often want that and are ready to obey, because it's easy when you don't need to decide, when you just can depend on one man.. But very often the man uses his power.. In Russia domestic violence is a huge problem.. In my opinion no extreme direction is ever right. I believe in nature. And nature made male and female creatures. There is a difference. Look at the wildlife.. Here the male have to impress and to convince the female. So.. this is how I understand feminism, haha. She somehow has the power! 😅 I am for equality in terms of everything and it's great that in our modern world people can stick to someone with the same opinions and expectations :) I really struggle with dating in Germany, because I try to find a way somehow inbetween. I don't get along with the traditional eastern European men but also I'm repulsed by guys who want a pretty girl but don't see how much costs and energy come with a female petty appearance, guys who aren't interested in the differences that come naturally with the gender.. I mean.. man just can't imagine how it is to bleed every month. They will never know how it feels to make a human being inside of oneself (by the way girls carry the higher risk in terms of contraception)..! Not to mention the range of different hormones that are constantly changing our mood.. There are so many scientific studies that make the differences between the genders clear. Yes, girls can be physically stronger than men but in my German surrounding for example for men it's just easier to lift heavy things or fix some technical stuff.. There are still "traditional" conditions.. And here is what I am looking for.. Just an understanding of our male and female nature given differences and complement each other without trying to take over the power.. Oh, it's a huge topic really, but very interesting and discussable! Interviews like that give us the chance to look at other cultural specialities, which I find wonderful! I don't think that the world should be globalised in every single way.. (:

Love that shirt! Link to buy it though isn't working, can you repost please?

I would say this was a deep political social video, that needs more attention.

THANK GOD real women still exist.

I'm from Poland and my husband is Croatian. I can't imagine not having a job and not being independant. Our mothers and Grandmothers often were trapped in bad marriages because they didn't have money to live (if they had to) - that is Basic for me that I'm with someone because I want not because I can't afford to be alone. I would never Let the guy that I'm not going to see again Pay for me-if you like the guy and you want to spend time with him you can Let him Pay, because next time you can Pay for sth or organize the activity, but when you don't like the guy you are Just paying your part to not hear that you met him only to eat, Come on!

There are beauty and colours of this planet. No 1 is solvic women 2nd is wine 3rd is cigar 4th is flower 5th is fragrance or perfume 6th is ocean 7th is travelling. I have 2nd to 7th but no 1 is still missing and struggling for that

I am Serbian and I agree with Ukranian woman for the first part of the video. I would appreciate man simply offering to pay but then we can split the bill. Or I can pay, I dont really mind. If he does pay that first time, then I definitely want to pay the second one. It's quite individual thing I guess.

As a Georgian it's interesting that date paying and monogamy culture in Georgia is similar, but when it comes to dressing feminine, it's not necessary and there is not as big pressure to "put on makeup" or "dress feminine" as in Slavic countries. "Guys are visual types" - Not all. Georgian men would rather see you dress modest and plain than like a super star who grabs all the attention lol. I think this dressing aspect is more liberal influenced than conservative for Slavs. Also Good Education and career for a woman is really valued in Georgian Society.

0:51 lol

Ukrainian woman tries to be opposite from typical Ukrainian too much. She tells everything opposite. Actually in Ukraine men always pay and women always expect that (99,9%).

So nice video)) Like this ladies)) Как с подружками посидела)))

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Slovak girl in DBB video...hands up ...been waiting for that for quite a while. And everything she said is true. Oh and how about making a video: You know youre dating a slovak woman (and possibly man) when... Thanks.

I love the videos about Slavic countries and their traditions..some of these can relatable to my country too.. :)

I'm with Miss Ukraine 100% on this one. I'm not with the whole traditional gender roles, men Must do this, women must do this, etc. I like efficiency, compromise, and logical decisions. Gender norms seem illogical at times in these convos. Personality type, individual goals, and adaptation (to me) are wayyyy more important than all this other stuff about "emasculation" and women need to be "feminine" to get a man. Like, if you as a guy cant handle a woman paying for a date, you're fragile. If you as a woman always want to be submissive and dainty, feminine, and don't wish to have certain levels of autonomy, you better hope you don't get taken advantage of because [some] men will act like they "own you" if you act like you want to be "taken care of" all the time. That's how I feel about this and I'm a man.

Nowadays, when you put more than three women together, you get a riot

Bulgaria. Thank you.

A few things: first off, did anyone else try and get that “hair” off the screen only to realize it was the whiteboard on the left side of the screen? Second: yes, men are very visual creatures. Its programmed into our biology to find certain features attractive to make strong and healthy children. Third: the choice between a career and a family baffles me as to why it has to be one of the other. Raising a family and taking care of the home is a full time job. Its a whole ass career in and of itself. Either way you have a career whether the pay is a clean, well maintained home and hearth with a loving family or monetary.

Beautiful video. The Bulgarian girl is SO hot! 🔥

Im in Canada. 12 years with same gf. We both have had semi LTRs previously but never married. She will not accept a ring. Any ideas?

Gender roles are changing… Slavic countries can still be very conservative. I bet if you asked Italian, French, British, German, Spanish women the same question the answer would be so different!

These slobic women take no offense to the feminine movement here in the states. They're so polar opposite it's so fascinating also so attractive.

All others ganged up on the Ukrainian woman. She just stopped talking.

10/10 would pay for Antoinetta's Šopska Salata

Ironically, the rigid adherence to prescribed notions of femininity may appear as anything but feminine in its lack of receptivity and accommodation of the individual differences in not only men, but also in herself.

If I was a guy, I would definitely want to date a Ukrainian girl! So refreshing personality, independent thinker and yet very feminine 💜

I loved the Bulgarian representative ❤

Enjoyed learning the Slavoc culture...interests and stereotypes etc...As American it is Refreshing to hear other countries Not prescribing to the corrupt evil Hollywood ways .. it's awesome that countries continue to keep there Traditions and individual traditions and not become feminist american forced corruption.. Thanks I enjoy listening to all the interesting countries and cultural exchange of ideas...

13:13 the BEST thing you will learn from this video girls! totally agree with her

And finally an advice for 50 years of marriage to all the lads out there, this is what my grandma gave to me: "Drop by drop it will become a river", "Step by step you can climb a moutain". A metaphor, paraphrasing, she married his ass when my gramps was 28 and she was 20, they didn't had anything, no apartments, no nice cars, nothing. But what they gained afterwards, they build, sacrificed and acquired together as a family. You all don't want a woman that marries you for a fancy cars, apartments and money. That goes both ways, cause nowadays the roles are reversed, so that can be valid for a woman's side too. Her old man passed away recently, hope most of you that read this, have marriage examples like that.

Bugarska dobra

I agree a lot with the perspective of the Ukrainian girl. I mean if I want to date you, The looks is a complement with your personality and points of view. You can dress with pajamas honestly I don’t care haha (my opinion)

Bro there is defacto 2 bulgarians here the MK and The bulgarian :D

The ukrainian woman stood out in a positive way and had the best input in my opinion.

And the biggest Slavic county ofc wasn't included 🇷🇺

Their men beat them all the time

Slavic ladies are blunt!!!!! BEST

It's fine if that's what they want, but i heavily disagree. it's not 'natural'. It's simply your feeling. As a woman i don't want a 'provider'. I want a partner. If I had to 'provide' income while he 'provides' home making skills' that's fine by me. Again, not saying they can't have what they want, just that this generalization is something I disagree with. I don't think there's this magic 'innate' thing that 'women' (or men) have. I agree with orange dress lady. And she does seem to disagree with many of it. But I could be wrong. For me it can end with just communication. If I love my man, then I'll give him anything. Gifts etc. IF that's what he wants. My man can just ask 'hey babe (or whatever lol) do you like surprises'. It's really just about communication. So yes, if my man insists on paying, ask him why. Because it's the manly thing to do or because you like it? (some people are just naturally happy being people pleasers, that's fine too) Also, please be careful with the 'men are visual creatures'. I am going to say I know thats not what she meant, but these type of rhetoric is used on women, blaming them for their assaults. Let me emphasize, she's not a bad person, but it perpetuates the idea that it's ok to say it.

Še en dokaz, da so slovanske ženske najboljše. Svaka vam čast, ljepotice i Bog vas blagoslovi.

But why did you excluded a person from Russia!

Bulgaria was based

Yes there is a country called north macedonia. However the people from that country are simply called macedonians, not "north macedonians"

Marina from Ukraine 😂😂😂 And the host is Marina from Russia. This is gold 🙌🏻

Like for the Ukrainian girl and her honesty and position. I feel her.

I'm Mexican, and obviously as any straight man I love Slavic women, they always look fantastic, but the mentality is very very different from my country, even if I like them visually and we get along i think i couldn't date one... I want a partner in crime, someone to look as equal, someone that's independent and wants to grow professionally... Parenting is from both of us, tasks at home too... Also, I don't like to be seen as a living ATM. I think it's nice that women there are old fashioned, but definitely not for me 😅

They seem to argue a lot 🤔🤔🤔😅

Girl on the far right 👌🏾keeper

I've never seen an Ukrainian woman always paying for herself.

As a woman from another Slavic country I appreciate if men behave traditionally, because it simply feels very good, but at the same time I’m still ok with more modern manners, like for example splitting the bill etc. It depends a lot on culture which the man comes from, so I would have different expectations for a man from Norway, and totally different for a man from e.g. Serbia :))

My god, it feels like XIX century!

We don’t claim Željka..

6:18 It's not just in Slavic countries... I think in most of Europe it's like that. If you are dating 2 guys at the same time you will end up losing both of them. You have to make up your mind fast

I have a question, why are they standing all the time? Wouldn't it be more comfortable when they sit on somecomfy chairs? It just looks strange

Andrew Tate: talk to my Bugatti 😁😁

I'll definitely really agree with the Bulgarian lady it's okay for many to be a working mum and have few kids it's just mindset 💚💚😊 I do love the Slavic culture alot and I think it's becoming corrupt by the Western ideology I mean tryna to show ur better than a man most times do pushes away relationship and personally i think dressing do mattets sometimes U can't just dress up like a old woman and expect to be attractive Still tho i think at least the Slavic culture is unique buh it's changing due to the west and paying for dinner should be okay between partners buh if it's a first date and the guy ask u out he should definitely pay?😅 relationship dosent need to be fancy as long as you both love and trust each commitment is all above riches and other worldly distraction Love should be final 💚💚 I was expecting Poland too be here my favorite slav 🇵🇱🇵🇱💚🙏😊

Respect for a woman, yes, of course all women deserve respect! And yes a man is expected to be a provider, but to his wife, family and kids, not to a woman he first met and wants to go on a date with. If we are going out, we are splitting the bill, even on a first date, yes we are splitting the bill! Not until I am into a serious relationship with a woman, and not until I know what she feels, and I am certain that she wants more than just dates am I willing to start taking care for a woman. Until than, she is an emancipated woman, who can take care of herself, and pay her own share. Men, have more respect for yourself, your work and time, and don't allow women to use you, set the boundaries from the first day. And if we are all talking about traditionalism, I gotta point out that the modern concept of dating and hook up culture isn't part of a traditional society. Courtship is, yes the man is the leading side in courtship, but it goes both ways and a woman has to make an effort also, during the courtship. Respecting a woman 's boundaries during the courtship period is important, than asking the blessings of her parents, marriage, etc., that's the traditional way. And in some cultures a man is supposed first to go and ask the blessings and allowance of a woman's parents before even engaging into courtship. Otherwise the other way around is a major sign of disrespect.

Traditions have died and gone. We are living in different times where the men don't need to do chivalrous things anymore ..like paying for your steak. Pay your own bill. I ask you out you could say no.. When you said yes it is an agreement for both parties to pay their own meal on the first date.

In Macedonia there is no McDonald's

Bulgary n.1 ❤ from Italy Ps: marriage is reserved to very low body count cultural systems, exclusive access to x is n.1 incentive to the heaviest contract of a man's life and the hard sacrifice by women to not be promiscuous is compensate by marriage

As a Bulgarian who went to many dates :) I always split the bill. May be next time I will pay and try make the woman feel like she owes me.

Start your roller coaster ride by paying date night bills and end up by paying alimony.

The Bulgarian woman is the most based one as always 🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬

Don't talk all at the same time.

They have one thing in common money,money,money

Very interesting video n view. You have some similarity with western turkey

The Bulgarian woman is SO FINE 😍😍🔥 🔥