DO YOUR CHILDREN GET ALONG?? Sibling Rivalry: Our Experiences vs Our Kids //  

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Racheal is so eloquent. She speaks really good English.. sending u flowers..

As a child...I don't remember being anyone's child in all the homes I have been to including the few times I HV been at both my real mom and father homes...I proudly say I was a rejected stone that is now a corner stone...I didn't fight with anyone in all those homes because I knew my position in their homes....😢😢 I pray I be the source of hope to everyone in my home

PUMLA and Angie..My forever Role models

Angie, you are glowing! Great show ladies... You are all amazing. You are blessings us all

Rosette's- we need to speak more into our children. Affirm them. That's very important.

Who else loved the ladies makeup , its so cool

Angie....such a pleasant story teller❤...

Been waiting for today's episode since last Friday 😅. I"m afraid I'm addicted😊

There is a way I can want to skip Ad but I remember that is money for Bump Love and I relax...

Intentionally speak into your children! -My take home.

Racheal truly stirred this Bump Love ship sooo... beautifully. What a Captain for the day! We ❤ her simplicity & eloquence. Also, her crew looked very, very stunning too. Thanks Bump Love, for always making our Sunday afternoon's quite delightful back here. Sunny 🌤️ regards & 💖 to you all, from Dubai. 🐿️🌨️🍃

I love the way the camera zoomed in towards Bianca

Pumla's face when Angie said " The truth is mum says we shouldn't say this but we were clear mistakes"😂😂😂😂😂 . This has been refreshing!!! Smart ladies.

The longest awaited. Thank you ladies before I even watch

Sometimes u all see the world differently with different perspectives..just 3 different brains..😅😅😅 and now that's where the fights are FIGHTS!!!!😅😅

Angie you look so beautiful in this episode. Well done ladies.

Rachel’s hair ❤

Wow Rossette! I copy! Teaching these kids love, kindness and patience is the way to go! Speaking into our kids is key too... Comparison is so wrong! Thank you ladies for today's episode! I learn so much with each episode! You're doing a great job! Love you all...😍

So Aggie, Roset, Rachel, Manuela and Pamla as they sat , like finally I Know who is who, . I really find everyone interesting in a unique way Thank you Bump love

I dreaded being a twin growing up because of the comparisons people used to make between us. Not knowing we are two different people with different interests and personalities. People should stop comparing children

Thanks so so much ladies for the brilliant talk as for me I was the nalule at pumula house , thanks alot for make Ugandan family improve each day am so grtful each tym you pipo speak long live bump love programs 🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️

Angie, your rich auntie vibes just keep on giving ❤❤❤ Ladies thank you for this episode.

Meanwhile this show 😅😅😅💯💯💯Pumla and Manuela mumpade enseko

😂😂😂who else waits for Friday

This conversation has been so informative, thanks bump love

Since am.the last born... All my brothers had rivalries with me...since I was the CCTV camera for my parents in their absence😂...until one time wen they used to segregate me wen carrying out their plans😢...I felt bad and changed there and then..we became good since then😂😂😂

Da way I always fought with ma elder bro but we are good friends

Rosette dropped some major parenting sage nuggets-the kindness one ,that never goes out of style.❤

Thanx for the show ladies. Siblings rivalry is too bad if it proceeds into adulthood. One of my uncles lost a daughter and the siblings didn't show up for burial because of unresolved issues. Imagine! And now their children are also rivaling each other.

Fought with my twin brother to a point of death 🤣my mum intervened until she got fed up and just waited it out. We have a good relationship now. My advice is teach your children grace, love , forgiveness and peace when they fight, eventually they'll grow up and remember your teachings. Thank you Ladies for today's episode!

Wow I love you guys you always make my day always watching bump love in my free time.

Interesting topic and me I rmbr fighting wz my ccta often times over most thgs and we're like Rosette we had diff personality but worst thg was our moda didn't know how to handle da tension btn us coz she wasn't dat talking moda wic affected my ccta making her angry all da time. Now I think as parents let's relearn and learn new ways of nurturing our children diff from how we're raised and of course preaching kindness, empathy, sympathy and love. Thx for show ba dear

Banange you guys thanks alot and especially when you talked about words of encouragement. Me growing up my family was chaotic and my dad would give me a hear full and those heart wrecking words. So for this saying mbu “sticks and stones can break but words can never break me”. That’s a lie, words can stick with you forever, they can either make you or break you. Therefore let’s watch the way we use our tongue on our children.

This was such a lovely episode. Angie is so soft spoken and I can listen to her all day. Good job ladies

Gwe katono oba now one episode aweek seems not enough😊 but i still appreciate your efforts ladies

Angie in her own world as usual 😂😂😂😂

Hello ladies…I’ve been patiently waiting for the next episode 🤗🤗

Honestly Bump Love is so underrated 🥲🥲🥲 we should have a million subscribers 🎉

my family is the word tight-knit. My sister and I are almost twins anyway so we rarely fight, I think the last time we had a major disagreement it was last year! Our mum saw to it that we are close and fight for each other as a family and that is exactly it! Ever since we were little kids, till now, our big brother fights tooth and nail for us and protects us, it is one of those ''perfect'' siblings life! haha! I hope to instill that in my kids someday!

Angie’s looks ❤,i loved everyone’s ideas keep it up

I love this❤ so educative. Thanks to bump love✨💫

Thank you for making my Friday special....you are my heroes in parenting....my children will not remain the same after watching this....more years of impacting generations...happy heroes' day to you ladies

🤣🤣🤣🤣Wabula Angie!! It’s the knife part for me. Lol

As an only child, can't relate😂😂

Aggie’s look is amazing

We are 3 girls, am the second. I fought so much with my big sister, more especially in secondary because we were studying far from home, and she was always acting the parent. Yet I was the law breaker always. When we were younger there was no much fighting but she was smart, and somehow it was a motivation for me . I did better coz she was doing best. But I really hated it when they would compare us, saying she is better than me, and I would not make it to what she has done. So I would work even harder and either be better or at the same level. I never ever saw it as a competition. Right now, we are close because I am the one teaching her the life she missed while she was being a parent at a younger age 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. The mother figure in her comes up sometimes but I quickly remind her that am now old and know exactly what am doing.

Man, I think I wasn't affirmed much as a child so nowadays I find affirmations either weird or lies. Parents please affirm your little ones... Ofcourse I am now taught to affirm myself but I wish it came when I was little.. thank you Bump love for this honesty.

I faught sooo hard , harshly with my brother whom I love to bits today n ensured his living a better life.

Thank you for talking about this. My relationship with my sister is like Rosette and her sister, but unfortunately for us, I still feel we are far from a happy ending. I have found that there is sibling rivalry between me and my younger sister up to this day. I am very sure it came from a place where my mum (my sister's mother) is always comparing us and putting her down while celebrating and praising me, her non-biological child. I wasn't paying much attention to it until we started to stay together. I started to realise that my sister would be bickering with mum all the time bit she would be happy whenever I fought with mum about something. I celebrate her. I support her, and I always fought for her as kids. It's so sad because I love her, but I had to give her some distance until she learns to deal with what is in her heart.

Really loved this one🥰 I can't wait for the next show

I am just glad that, I am not alone. Honestly, my kids fight, and i was even scared that they don't love each other, and i was praying for them. But i hope they will grow out of it.

In my adult life, i've gone through alot of therapy to uproot the damage from childhood. Because i was older than my sister, i was expected to be patient with her when she started a fight, i was not to complain or report her. When it got to going back to school, my list was taken care of last and sometimes not, because i was the older and patient one. Our parent threw a party everytime my sister was returning for holidays and for me on the other hand, she one time forgot to pick me up after a long term without a visit. I was not to use any of her things or borrow her clothes but if i didn't share mine with her, my mum would scold me. I hated my sister but couldn't fight her! I shut down and stopped relating with my sister and mum. I would be in isolation all the time because i didn't feel like i belonged or even heard. I've had issues with confidence, low self esteem and self worth. We're friends with my sister now, i don't hate her anymore. I love her dearly because she's my own. I loved my brother because he would be the one to talk to me and comfort me. I remember he used to sacrifice and secretly give me all his pocket money, grab and groceries to take to school. Parents have to learn to listen to all their children. Hear them and get into their little positions. We shouldn't ignore their complaints. As a parent now, i'm intentional with my children. Every night during our devotional time, we all go through what we have done during the day and identify areas where each of us felt hurt , happy, not heard. If any of us wronged another or has something against another, we talk about it and apologize. This includes us, the parents. Whew... i've had to drop a few tears but it is well.

Glad you shared this!

Huh. Thanks for this episode. It brought back so many memories. I fought with both my older sister and younger brother. I'm a middle child. Our last sister is my best friend to date, she came a few years later. We are now all grown and are good friends.

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 looking beautiful 😍😍😍

Thanks for sharing your experiences and strategies. I’ve learnt a lot at a time when I was drowning in my children’s’ rivalry

As an only child raised by a single mum, the sibling rivalry was been me and her...we didn't agree on so many things...there was alot of friction. I stressed her alot bambi but now our relationship is great. There's a time she commented along the lines of " kumbe u were actually learning and listening amidst all the stubbornness and rebellion cz I am impressed with the wise woman uve become..." Thanks ladies for another beautiful episode. ❤

We appreciate u ladies ❤❤❤

Can’t believe I have to wait till Friday again 🤦🏽‍♀️I think we need 2 episodes a week at this point 😅

Never compare your children, they are different human beings.

❤️❤️❤️ Thank you so much ladies for the show. Sibling rivalry is so bad to a point of being toxic if not attended to by parents/guardians at a young age when raising children up. 😢 It is sad when competition due sibling rivalry is still happening when the siblings are all grown and even out of their parents' homes. Even when they take different career paths, get married to different men; they still compare the incomparables like she gave our parents the first grandchild, she did a course better than mine. I pray that God restores peace in siblings who still rival and seem to have silent competition going on between them. As parents, it's important to speak positivity into our children and help them to constantly appreciate that they're who they are as individuals and different from each other. That releases tension and reduces competition between them as they grow. Keep up the encouraging and educative shows! Much love, Racheal

I agree eith Rosie with that preaching

On Rosette's view of talking to your children. I had to encourage myself most of the times..

Wow!! I love this. We dance gospel songs a lot as family, so this helps my children to laugh and keep at peace. Thanks so much Ladies. Not forgetting, Angie you're glowing...

The intentionality it takes not to compare kids is so hard to master. As a classified deputy parent, I often catch myself comparing my younger siblings and rubbing my hardwork and success in their faces. Like they all should strive to be me! Thankfully I'm aware about this shortcoming and I'm working on it. I often apologise after running my mouth. Thanks for the show ladies, we learn so much from you all.

Am the first born and my Brother came after 12 years trust me I never loved him for some good time that I have been struggling with it till now .sibling rivals are so serious ,its really painful that am still struggling to love my brother😢Thanks Bump love u talk my heart out in many of ur episodes ❤ silent majority🥰Live in Saudi Every friday Love u Ladies

My sister follower and I were always fighting...mummy got fed up settling the misunderstandings😅😅till she organised a wrestling match a d closed the door.we fought for two hours non stop 😅😂😊..till we stopped fighting to rest😅😂...but now,we get along very well ❤

Thanks bump love for the show, i request you guys to talk about whether parents especially mums should get involved in their kids differences/ fights with their friends in school or where they play from( entalo za baana). Much love from me❤

Thank you Rosette....!!! Learnt alot from you today...❤❤

I loved this topic you all look beautiful ladies keep it up !!

Speaking to children is important. I can count the times and remember the moments my dad did talk to me. those moments are the only reason that I always worked hard. Just the 4 times, how much more would I have achieved if the affirmations were more? But I thank God I figured out a way of keeping myself motivated even without being affirmed... But I guess i realized we were many for my dad and he still had a hassle to deal with so he wasn't present for that.

I love Rachel's laugh..😂

Thank you ladies for always filling our cups

Maturity is the goal . Just understanding that we are all different helps me deal with them differently ❤

Angie you are really glowing😍😍

Hello Bump Love, You really do us good. Thanks so much for the words of wisdom. We are looking forward to a kids programme just like the men did. God bless you.

My elder brother was so calm and I don't remember fighting with him and then there is my follower, we fought at every little thing but most especially doing chores coz my mum would leave me to take cake of the home and goes for work for days and this boy wouldn't want to help, he was always messing up things, breaking things and all he wanted to do was to eat. I couldn't accept that so we fought fought fought but it reached a point when he would beat me seriously 😀😀

Bianca's smile tells me she is nolonger going to believe the “ypu are both right strategy "😂😂

Siblings following each other 😆

You are so amazing ladies, I love to hear all you, keep on putting smiles on us,❤

I see the rivalry between my gals and i had to get a devotional about living your sibling to go through with them. Its going well so far. I fought alot with my sis who i follow… bt we outgrew it and are great friends now!!!! Thank u for the show

I fought with my twin sister that time came when we couldn't stay in the same house together so we were separated and up to now we don't really get along at all and trust me most people around me don't know that am a twin coz I even refused to use the twin name she is really the opposite of me and of course when you find us you be able to tell if we are twins

Always looking forward to you ladies

The way i jump out of bed just to be here is amazing now I have to sit down and think about my relationship with my siblings as a first born thank you ladies. ❤❤

Thanks ladies for the show. As for me we've always been fighting with my brother that follows me(difference of 2yrs) My personality is when i dont get along with you,i normally distance myself from you to avoid unnecessary drama.... Ladies and gentlemen my dad came at school in primary abruptly and i didnt know where my brother was😂😂..the saddest part he had just broken his leg from the football evening game..... Upto now we rarely communicate,,no rivals but i always distance myself from him because of his drama....

Me always waiting for the next episode

Banange nali nakoowa ba assistant mother🤣🤣🙌

Angie is glowing 🤩🤩

Bring kasuku back please This tile around with salvado 😂😂😂

Great message, thank you Bump Love ❤️

I am here for guided healthy competition...in my case, I was viewed as the golden child. I never put effort really, naturally, I am responsible, the youngest, I am an introvert and the sibling I follow is the opposite. I think our rivalry comes from the outside because personally, I wanted us to be twins lol. My sister also used to throw me under the bus in our early 20s, I thought what did I do to this person? But the animosity came from outside. Now we are trying again because I am not giving up hehhe.

Bump love❤..I never used to understand the chemistry between sibling rivalries..You can only understand the why?? On bump love😍.

Ladies the smartness for me👌👌

I read a book about sibling rivalry that opened my eyes to how bad it can get and how commonly it goes into adulthood. I'm now intentional on not contributing to it as a parent yet not ignoring sibling fights completely. Sometimes one of the kids is actually wrong, sometimes someone needs to apologize, sometimes it's something really silly that can be ignored so we deal with things case by case, not one size fits all reaction

Mostly fights emerge due to inadequacy in resources. Everything is being competed for. So kids see each other as potential competitors.

🤣 Mimi (Manuela) I hope that was not Sarah you faught with, when growing up.

Then there's me, 5 siblings and i fought with all🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I think I was just problematic

We had verbal and action fights with my big ccta 1st born am 2rd even now we're still fighting 🙈Kati mama is using Manuela's method 🤣🤣kyoka am too close with 3rd born 🤔we never had any fight

As always, I love love love every bit of the show. Thank you for the show ladies. You guys make parenting easier