I am an unlucky...The comment sections are filled with Mom's love and support...I am the one who tolerate mother's worst words during period...Not only periods days, some times other pain days... Today also i am facing this... My mom's words are kills me aa lot more than this video...
My Mother in law is such a pathetic person, she always tries to make me feel guilty if I am in pain, start saying that " hum ne to Bari Bari taklifo me sab kuch Kia hey in naukri karny wali larkiyon K to nakhry hi khtm nhi hoty, ye Ghar Kia basaey gi" 😢😢 Shadi se pehly hi job churwa di Meri K hamy naukri wali nhi chahye warna Ghar Kon sambhaly ga 💔😓
I also used to feel that way, But now I can understand... That could be because Parents r generally burdened with hell lot of things, they feel low and frustrated (as they have manage their and ur daily routine, have to think of their upcoming medical issues, all finances, children's future and many more things) So they dont have time to relax and wants children to take responsibility to lower their burden (parents' burden) You will realise when we see ur Parents getting Old and realise they might leave the world soon. Although, I am just wondering when parents have to do daily routine tasks, house chors, cook food, help their kids... why are not they considered servants then?? Parents shouldn't exploit their kids but yes it's everyone's responsibility to take care of things. Every member is equally responsibility and accountable. .
My parents sometimes even push me out of house say to clean there shoes my mom really doesn't care about me cuz when i say i fill uncomfortable going out for groceries many things but mom really never cared but if i was more older then it was and were i am only 13
Oh my God! This reminds me of my horrible mom who said that I'm lying down was a drama to avoid doing household chores and to bunk school.. I usee to wriggle in pain and what killed me was her words.. she used to say that her mother would say even worse things like all this drama is to get to bed with a guy.. my horrible childhood and worse adulthood.. now when I remind her of that she says that she hadn't done a thing like that.. she asked me to go abort my child so that she can't help me for a few days of postpartum.. I will never show my daughter's face to her and keep my angel out of such family toxicity
Why should she take care, ask your husband and in laws to do that and she has only taught you truth. There are men who may not be doing well however they still go to work. They do hard work because they don't want their family to struggle. A man can live in a single room with bare necessities but they want to provide comfortable life to their family
@@softsensbaby taught her truth??? What truth? That she was bad parent, men do not face monthly problems and the other problems they face are mutual in both female and male bodies and if they are not , then most of the men are taken care, by their wives and if not wives them mothers, but a girl is always taught to face period pain and not even expect a bit of comfort by the people around her, BY HER OWN PEOPLE. I understand that men go through pain too and still work for their family but so does women. Why can't you just be normal for once and not compare men's pain and women's pain?
@@studylife5529if you think like that then choose a time and say I love you maa and give a hug then talk then if you have job take her to the place where she likes because these kind of love she didn't get from her mother just break the pain without risk there will have no gain if it successful do not cut the communication and finally chant Hanuman chalisa every morning and evening. Wishing you a great success on your passion and make your relatives getting jealous on your parents that they have a successful daughter who made them proud
So he watched her do this for years to his daughter. Didn’t support his own wife, which is y she’s like that. And now all of a sudden he’s a hero?? What’s wrong with u?? 🙄 😒
I just cried when I see this ............... because I lost my mother when I was in 2 nd stand I was so small so my father married second time but my second mother tortured me and effected my studies so that's why my father leave her and now I am in 9th standard but I still miss my mother 😭😭😭😭😭😭
It's really very emotional But my mom never tell me this things 🥺 even when she is suffering from these things she also do all wrk of home 🥺 my mom is such a really goddess for me ❤️ I wish " god give everyone mom like my mom " 🥺🥺🥺❤️
@@ananyamohapatra8844 So only cooking, cleaning comes under household chores? What about providing and protection. What about getting things repaired no matter. Understand this men and women work for house. But they are different. Also as a man we will never know completely how it is to have a period with uterus. We can only feel bad by the way you are. That's all. So don't ask us what we cant.
@@ananyamohapatra8844 I dodnt wnat to comment because this is not something as a man I can experience but as soon as you included other things. I had to
@@Raju_K thats the problem with this INDIAN society ...women are expected to work at the house ..no matter however much qualified you are .. they'll still "expect" you to serve them dinner at the end of the day
@@Raju_K Rene de Bhai yeh sab bechari bechari banke jindangi katne wali ladkiya hai... Aur jo bechari ka rona nhi gaati sab bahut agey chali gyi... Aakhir kaar they are papa ki pari ☕☕☕
The father's heroic entry and the dialogue, but if the same father would have treated his wife at rest during her periods ....she would not b so frustrated n not in a mode to prepare her daughter to b strong like nothing happens during periods... Periods is not the issue, showing care n concern towards the female can make so much difference. ... Men in house should start doing this in every household....
Probably her mother never told about her pain, her husband might be understanding but since she never disclosed about her period problems, he thought that she was not having pain . Not all women feel pain during periods, and I am one of them. I can do all the work without pain, and thus I don't like anyone interfering in my work during periods. Her mother should have told her husband that she was having pain and thus needs rest, how could anyone understand if anyone is having pain if that person doesn't spoke for herself?
@@rupama31 i get it, not all women have pain, it's not about taking rest also, but periods are no joy with pain or without pain this is the time where mentally, physically n emotionally she's a little sensitive...n should b treated sensibly .. especially those women who are home makers and do 24/7 job...my point was if the woman was treated sensibly by her husband during her periods after marriage she would have changed her behaviour n perspective towards her girl....
I'm 21 but still my mother take care of me like I'm a little baby especially during periods thanks for sharing the video it made me realize how lucky I am
I'm really lucky to have the kindest mother, she always supports me , understands my pain and always is there for me, I'm so lucky , I really thank God for giving me such a wonderful mother.
No my mom never told me that and my dad was so supportive and even told me if you can't handle the pain just take rest your health is more important. Even now it's my period and my mom told me to take a day off. 😊
Felt so sad seeing this. I’m so fortunate to have my mom. She never once scolded me for getting up late, bunking classes or anything during my periods. Instead she always took care of me, brought me hot-pads, massage my legs, back and feet. She knows I have terrible mood swings and would always put up to it. She would buy my favourite chocolates cause she knew it would bring relief to me. She is the sweetest, kindest soul to exist in my life.
The same words my mother used today and i suddenly remembered this and opened this short The same words, same anger, but my father was not here like this to say something to her, no one really is on my side, and my mother makes me mentally sick She said the same as i didn't wemt to school These words just get pinned straight on my heart I'll never forget how she treated me! Girls don't listen to your moms just ignore them, 'cause ik its hard to hate them as they brought you here but don't be bounded with this 'cause it was them and their wish! You do not necessarly NEED to repay Its good if you do, but if they are not good as parents then you can choose not to be the best children for them
Imagine if your parents chose to not be good parents ? Don’t judge on occasional outbursts …parents do everything for their children. Love your mum, try to understand her and try to help her too if required
@@GeetikaKulshresthaif you will try checking the internet you will find 70 percent of kids attempt suicide because the way their parents treat them my parents also treat me like that I have attempted suicide 5 times but it turned out to fail idk why God is not supporting me (My bestie is also suffering from the same. Now when that day we confronted each other from that day we motivate each other and forget everything in school and classes and in my school we are known as the happiest students. But we aren't still happy)
I had a friend who was diagnosed with PCOD when we were at 9th standard she didn't get period for months...she once confessed that when she was diagnosed after ultrasound her mother said her you can't give birth as a woman you are useless!! This really broke my heart she was just a teenager and a kind hearted girl P.S women with PCOD can easily conceive it doesn't make them infertile
@@Kuroyuki2007on't worry girl. Every problem has solutions... You can take allopathy, homeopathy or ayuervedic treatment.After then it gets fine. And also remember not able to give birth is not the end of world. Your health is the main priority you should think and care of. Nobody is worth to sacrifice yourself. Lots of love ❤
@@Kuroyuki2007 at 15 irregularities happens I too used to get periods for 10 days!! When you are at the end of puberty and you think it's not getting better then you should see a doctor
It hits hard when someone can't understand u, it hits harder when a girl can't understand u and hurts extreme when your own mother can't understand u !!!!💔💔💔💔 I am lucky to have a loving mother❤❤❤❤🦋💖💖💖
Same here, my mother never said any harsh words to me. My father used to massage my legs, in starting years i used to get bad cramps, but after his massage i felt much better.
That hits hard..! Agree the fact this is how her mother treated her ,even she knowing that it did nt make her feel good,she chose to follow her and treated her daughter bad ! A good mother doesn't do that! I'm a person who had kind of conservative parents and all i decided i wont become such mother like my mom used to be..I'm so proud of me❤
Actually yes , my mother said all same things to me but that things never made me strong....but these words hurt me alot and I used to do all domestic chores during my days 💔
These are the things which we are getting from our parents in form of legacy... Try to understand we can't change our mother but we can change ourselves so that our upcoming generation can live their life happily
Before getting married my mother used to feeds me with her hands and always supports me especially during my periods. I really miss those days. May Allah swt grant long and healthy lives to our mothers.. Ameen ya rabb FYI my husband is supportive and understanding too😊
Ya my mom is this... Initially I didn't had any problem but when saw my friends mothers n cousins mothers they are really really supportive but mine .....I am not complaining about anything but I just also need that extra care n consern during those 7 days. I just hope I also have a supportive person during my periods with me .
I'm lucky..my mother whenever I am in my periods she insists me to skip school or college because she knows that I face severe pain.. Love you maa ❤❤❤❤❤
If fathers helped their wives, maybe moms wouldn’t be so frustrated about everything. My dad would always support me when my mom scolded me for something. But after becoming a mom, i realise now.
Wrong !!! If she doesn't intend to then atleast she would care about it somewhat but all she care about is that I don't touch any thing that is to be put in prayer or that is to be served as 'bhog' and all of that Caring for them is bullshit !!!
I am blessed to have mom who understand my pain.. She never tells these things to me.. Once she told her mother always makes her do household works at that timee.... Love amma
Never ever I heard this from my mother...she is the precious gift which I get from God..i hope I will be a great mother like her... love you maa for being there always..❤
That's how Mom's make their daughters strong... World is going to be tuff for them, of they can't tolerate this pain, then it will be difficult for them only, who else knows it better than the mother. ❤❤❤ Daughter will thank mother for this in future.
She is supposed to understand the pain specially cause she has also been through it Speaking in harsh tones does not make her stronger or build any strength
lol, they dont understand. they already went through that pain. But adults knows that whatever pain is u got to do your work. Excuses dont make men earn money, hardwork does.
my mom never said this type of words to me... even if she said, she says with a warm and sweet voice... my mom is bestest of the best... thankgod... i got such a understanding mom...🥺🥺🥺
My mother tells me that it is normal because it is normal... every girl go through this every month. Period cramps are painful but that doesn't mean we should stop all the work. My mom tells me to do a much simpler or that kind of household chores that doesn't require any physical activity like vegetable cutting and folding clothes or filling water bottles...she tells me to keep on my studies and when I feel like I can't concentrate anymore she orders food from outside. She's a working woman and cares a lot for me. She's my iron lady ❤️
Yeah even in my house it happens. I always feel why wouldn't i get rest even in that time. But if your financially independent apko yesab sunenahi padenghe. Thats the motivation i give to myself everytime this happens 🙃🙃......keep your courage girls 😉 we all are with you ❤. Take care 🫂🫂💕
Thankfully my mother and father both are very supportive, caring and are able to understand my pain and mood swings during my periods especially my mom she let's me to throw tantrums and never ever said these words to me🙂 I feel blessed to have them in my life as my parents ❤
The way she said it could’ve been hurtful but the reason was to make her stronger in holding the pain… yet some women should know that the pain is not the same for everyone nor every time is it the same kind of pain. Like myself, I have the terrible cramps every three months and it reduces for the next two months and lapses again on the third. The only time I was hurt was when I couldn’t even get up off the floor or move myself in that extreme cramp once that my mother wouldn’t believe I actually had terrible cramps until I cried… in other words think twice and use your words wisely
Period pain at times = mini heart attack. Once a heath care provider shared with me. Give that girl a comforting words of love, heat pack and dark chocolate. Family needs to give them a break at that time.
my mother is the best mother in the world. She never says like that. She tries to feel comfort to me in that situation. I love you mom for you endless support❤❤
But I'm lucky to have a such supportive and understanding mother who never ever hurted me by her harsh words😌❤️she is like literally my bestfrnd with whom i can enjoy and share every little thing💗✨
That's the thing you know.... At the time you're the most vulnerable and emotionally down nobody feels it. I mean they look at your face but can't even feel it. If you've cried the whole night then too nobody notices and then they say you're cold
Well... Being a girl and when my mother tells me this I think she is making me stronger for the world... Because it is the reality. You want comfort, but the world is not in open arms to provide you the same. Periods are not a handicap. They are the sign that women are strong enough to overcome this, and that too, without anyone's sympathy❤
sometimes you have to fight yourself to get up and i’m grateful to my mother to show me that. this is the real struggle to fight for what lies ahead of you, psychologically it does absolute wonders. it all depends on the persons own medical health of course
My mother is a loving person. She never hits me. I'm so grateful for having such person like her. She sometimes scolds me. But not that much. My father is a hero. He is always there for me. I love them both so much. My mom and dad says to me, "Your are like a gold to us, Don't be silver for others" I still don't understand why they keep saying this.
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In this time every girl and woman wants the person who understand her pain, this is not just a periods, this is about feelings she suffering from the pain which is not tolerable, she need rest bcoz of lack of iron in the body she feels weakness, do support her instead of scolding or taunting her, bcoz every person is different, some people can bear and some can not
My mum treated me like a princess and I love her the most so I helped her whenever I could but she never asked for it♥️😇 realised it more after getting married
I'm blessed that I have a mother who's quite compassionate and understanding. She took me to gynaecologist the day I got my first period(I was 10 😑). She took me to Yoga Ashram in order to cure my terrible cramps. I started following diet chart which included me getting rid of Junk food, processed food and too much oily food. Eventually I recovered and then she told me to start running in order to remain fit. At that I blamed her and my periods like nothing. But with time I understood why she did that.
The truth is the mother had her own reasons She knew that she can't beer her pain but the world doesn't care they would do the same so why not make her stronger now so that she is there when she falls apart to lift her up and give her support
Mothers should talk kindly with all her children equally. But kids should also understand the fact that their parents are their well wishers, they might seem strict at times But their intention is always pure for them…!
For some people periods may not always be painful. And for some people periods is always painful. So..not everyone understands the pain. Not even all who experiences periods can relate to the same pain. Everybody has different symptoms. Some experiences very harsh and some low. So understanding others pain during periods is not easy.
my mother was extremely caring about me in these days and luckily my husband is extremeely caring too he helps me alot even makes tea for me boils eggs for me give me comfort and alot love❤
this is so true...we says things to others when we ourselves we don't like hearing it from someone else.... if we want to strengthen our child then we must do it in a positive way not to hurt their feelings
I am blessed with the best mom she never uses such words for me when I am on my periods ( she do uses but not at that particular time ) she understands me and my pain. If there is an emergency then only she force me to do something.
Mere mom ne esa kabhi nahi kha, Ke sehna padega, she is very helping Ek baar toh muje period se fever ho gya tha aur book uthane jitni jaan bhi nhi thi
Moms know very well when her baby is really in pain and when she's acting. When in pain mom definitely will stand by her daughter and give full support and prays for her well being. Every girl goes through this, and gets both support as well as bangs. Doesn't mean mom doesn't care, she only wants her daughter to be strong both physically and more mentally.
I am very lucky that my mom has not been kind to me in this aspect...She made me realise that world is not a beautiful garden. Today I am a strong woman just like her. She has been kind to me in many aspects but there are times when you have to be harsh with your kids just to make them learn something. There will be times when your parents would not be with you, you yourself has to be strong and that takes time and courage. Many end up losing their lives. So it's better to train your child as early as possible.
🤣🤣🤣dont glorify unkindness here..she might be her mother..but only the daughter knows what pain she goes through...the mother may not have pain during her period but the daughter has..should a girl faint for everyone to realise that she is not well??why does no one shows empathy on her when she say she is in pain...the world has lost empathetic people...
