Don't be Carrie. Don't be Impressed by the BASICS (SATC Analysis P4)

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Join me as we delve into the intricate dynamics of Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Big in Season Two of the iconic series "Sex and the City." In this detailed video analysis, I explore the aftermath of getting back together with your ex without any real resolve and just taking things casually. What happens when you don't stand by your boundaries? Discover the complexities of Carrie's journey as she grapples with unresolved feelings and the consequences of blurring lines in relationships.
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@insightsbyv 3 месяца назад

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@iheartny2001 4 месяца назад

Big was always punishing Carrie for his own poor life decisions. He couldn't introduce her to his mom because he'd already introduced her to so many girlfriends. He can't give her a key because he's given out so many keys already. She couldn't have her big dream wedding because he'd already been married twice. We don't talk enough about all of the emotional baggage older men have and how they use it as an excuse to only give the bare minimum.

@seemu2927 4 месяца назад

He didn’t do those things because he didn’t like her enough If he thought she was the one he would have done

@oneshotonehit6731 4 месяца назад

This!

@RadkaSlavova-ug9wt 4 месяца назад

I think that was just an excuse on his part. When be met Natasha he forgot about all that, and had the big fancy wedding in the paper.

@EloraChristine 4 месяца назад

TRUTH!!!

@chaosspy6723 4 месяца назад

she pushed back and invaded his privacy even after he was honest about how he felt. Carrie couldn't stop to think maybe he just didn't like her enough. Also he told her to do whatever she wanted for the wedding. him leaving was cowardly though

@lily_doesstuff 3 месяца назад

I’ve just had an epiphany!! Based on the looks of Mr Big’s first wife Barbara, his second wife Natasha, and the woman he was checking out in the clip, Charlotte would have actually be much more his type than Carrie ever was!! Park-avenue girl with a classic style, brown hair, pearl necklace and from a traditional family

@laryrumiantzeff 3 месяца назад

I did feel a vibe from him towards her. It feels like he is more careful with charlotte than say, Miranda

@EllieBellie_111 2 месяца назад

I completely agree. I just think Charlotte wasn't interested in his type lol

@inkeriananas Месяц назад

Charlotte never would've put up with his BS 😂

@misseskimo1 3 дня назад

This is true, but Charlotte would never with big would she? Outside of Carrie knowing him, he's too crass and player like for Charlotte. In my opinion.

@urgh9822 4 месяца назад

I feel like the writers wanted big to have the George Clooney charm , but it's actually more like George Clown-ey

@KevonnieElaine 3 месяца назад

Clown-ey 😭😭

@mosoulwrites 3 месяца назад

That’s so true ! But it didn’t work 😂

@enjoylife40 2 месяца назад

this is so spot on, hadnt think about it

@ss-wu1vp 4 месяца назад

It seems that the only reason you would accept breadcrumbs is if you see the guy as someone levels above you lookswise or wealthwise. If you consider him an equal you would never accept breadcrumbs.

@insightsbyv 4 месяца назад

Totally agree.

@mariarusek1851 4 месяца назад

But the "problem" is most if not all women are hypergamous that means we choose men who in fact are wealthier and more good looking - especially in today's day and age. If a woman considers a man as an equal, she ofthen wouldn't date him. For example Carrie wouldn't date mr Big if he wasn't successful or good looking or if he would always conform to her will. I think, in order not to accept breadcrums, we need to recognize our value and know with certainty where its' foundations lie, instead of thinking that we're equal to somebody. Thinking of yourself as an equal to somebody needs you to compare yourself to others and then decide if you are lesser, greater or equal. I think a truly confident person doesn't do that. Moreover it needs you to know what equality really means.

@hipnhappenin 4 месяца назад

Mmm not always. I accepted breadcrumbs from a guy who was mid lookswise and who I for sure made more money than. I put him on a pedestal for the sole fact that I wanted a relationship with him and he didn't want one with me. So I felt I had to earn his love.

@missmatti 4 месяца назад

One thing to add to this is that it doesn’t always mean objectively better (looking, successful etc) than you but it’s what you PERCEIVE as better than you e.g. “omg I can’t believe this person pays me attention”. Once you know you have self worth you will stop accepting breadcrumbs. Also it is very helpful to stop viewing people as better/worse than you (vertical relationships), and instead view them as equals (horizontal relationships) as described in the book “the courage to be disliked”.

@danielapardo9776 4 месяца назад

For me it was not money nor looks, he was very smart. I didn't consider myself as cultured, connected (networking), or intelligent enough to be an "equal" to him, or to make it in my career. To me he was leagues above me and kept accpeting the bare minimum and sometimes even less. In the end, I just accepted the fact that I wasn't what he actually wanted but my most authentic self. It's not that he was too good for me, is just thst weren't a match. Everyone has strenghts and weaknesses. We just have to work through it. I think that if I kept going to him I would have perpetually felt less than him, which would have prevented me from focusing on myself and growing. I think our goal has to be growth in any problem we face.

@Aerie925 4 месяца назад

Doing the bare minimum does not make it some grand gesture.

@oneshotonehit6731 4 месяца назад

I love how you're using SATC narrative to talk sense into people, to show them what relationship shouldn't look and feel like. You're explaining the events not from "like/dislike" position, but from a very logical, consistent viewpoint and I'm so here for it ❤

@insightsbyv 4 месяца назад

Aiii means a lot🤗

@carltonesmith5015 4 месяца назад

I agree with @oneshotonehit6731. You’re really breaking down some insights that will help people make better choices 👍🏾

@melisma8747 4 месяца назад

I hate how sometimes they sell Samantha like this open minded person and then she says things like that, that are more misogynistic than anything. She sometimes acts like men are stupid and just for sex and other times she herself acts like she has to be like men even if she caught feelings. She often deny herself and feel shame at the very little critique from men

@jellymila7678 4 месяца назад

Team Charlotte ❤

@Kela89 4 месяца назад

she was very naivee but he was just weird and uses her. Sometimes she was a friend for him,sometimes girlfriend...he was bored with his life and has space to mess with others. In the beginning he was simple 'I dont want to be in relationship' and its a shame she wouldnt listen. In later seasons he just played with her feelings. And she played with Aiden's feelings.

@KatBaumgarten 4 месяца назад

I love discussing big and carrie's relationship with my friends, overanalyze everything, work out motives and underlying problems and all that, but honestly at the end of the day the truth is that he just does not give a shit. Not about carrie, not about her feelings, not about how she sees him, not about if she respects him or not. The man could not care less. He hurts her constantly not because he wants to be mean, but because he simply does not think of her. He does what he wants and if she happens to be happy about it then he'll reap the benefits, but if she's upset he'll take none of the responsability. Men who hurt you constantly may not be trying to be mean on purpose, they do not care about you, they do not see you. And honestly that's worse.

@iuliaionelapetcu1411 4 месяца назад

He does not care in the least, but she's also a pickme supreme. For that I can't fault him, desperation in a woman is sooo unnattractive..

@KatBaumgarten 4 месяца назад

@@iuliaionelapetcu1411 oh for sure! Carrie's brand of pick-me-ism is the worst

@fruityeva 4 месяца назад

👏🏻👏🏻Great comment!!

@Stephanie_Ella 4 месяца назад

If somebody told me that he wasn’t going to come, but then showed up anyways..I’d be annoyed. 😒

@KolkhozWoman 3 месяца назад

The fact that Carrie kept being in love with Big shows how immature she was. These are the kind of relationships you grow out of in your 20s, when you realize you don't care for toxicity, but being loved and building something real with someone who takes you seriously. I know some women take a longer time to get there, and some never arrive there at all, but Carrie willingly gave up a perfectly healthy relationship with Aidan in order to go back to toxic Big. Eh why?? My ass woulda sent him off a long time ago. You don't want me don't waste my time

@deeniesmothers9310 4 месяца назад

Carrie got all googly-eyed when Big showed up.

@insightsbyv 4 месяца назад

I was soooooo anoyeeed 🤣

@OzmaOfOzz 4 месяца назад

I love your commentary and sassiness so much 😂 so invested in this series 😂❤ pls do a Miranda and Steve in the future, their relationship is so problematic 😭😂

@omotayoa5889 4 месяца назад

I'm soo invested in this series of yours 🤗🤗

@insightsbyv 4 месяца назад

ahaha, love it!😁 Thank you🤗

@katierosealexander8132 3 месяца назад

I can’t express how grateful am for these videos. Am seeing how relationship I’ve had is so unhealthy and realising I’ve done so many of these things and it’s so clarifying why can’t go back. Thank you

@taylorg2320 26 дней назад

Girl you look like an angel, who the actual fuck is insane enough to neglect you in a relationship?? I guess it just goes to show that looks have nothing to do with how a man treats you, shitty men will be shitty even to the most gorgeous women

@chloemcginley8275 4 месяца назад

I’m loving your Carrie & Big series! Rewatching this show in my late twenties I have a whole new perspective of just how toxic these two were. Big is constantly evading the tough conversations, belittling Carrie (from her column to her friends to her interests) and although Carrie acts out in immature ways it’s usually Big driving her to it by being so inconsistent.

@soonsims 4 месяца назад

I just finished the first 3 parts yesterday and has been checking for the new part. I'm looking forward to it, I am rediscovering the show. It just hits different when someone retells the story taking away the charm of the actors and characters, it sounds like a horrible toxic relationship from which Carry should have walked away a long time ago.

@ox-po363 4 месяца назад

Thank you for your analysis. I'm watching your videos after the break up. It gave me a few insights. It's helping me to realize the core of the problem in my relationships with my ex. It gave me certain confident I did things right and no one is responsible for other person's shitty behaviour except of themself. Just bare minimum is definitely not enough for healthy relationships.

@insightsbyv 4 месяца назад

I'm glad to hear that🤗Learning in general about ceratin dynamics was one of the biggest things that helped me when I went through mine. You got this!💪

@sugarmaddy_ 3 месяца назад

I think this video just gave me several breakthroughs in my own struggles with communicating my needs and seeing my own worth??? Im talking about this video in therapy next week, thank you so much

@soonsims 3 месяца назад

I rewatched the second season thanks to these videos and I am so looking forward to the second part of the second season. Mr. Big was absolutely brutal to Carry.

@Aerie925 4 месяца назад

Maybe b/c I didn’t watch Sex and the City until I was already out of high school, but I never liked Carrie with Big.

@mushroommagic1697 4 месяца назад

I also watch after high-school and damnn I HATE Carrie and Big. I never rooted so much for two people to break up.

@spenx09 3 месяца назад

If it's in a public place I would hate him singing to me

@insightsbyv 3 месяца назад

Ahahhaha.... same. 🤣

@damien706 Месяц назад

You are so accurate and ive rewatched the series so many times and in recent years realised how toxic big is. And how a revent relationship mirrored their situationship. And thank you, your commentary has reminded me im not crazy. Hes just shitty. ❤

@a.p.9381 4 месяца назад

Carrie-Aidan series in your plans? Would love to hear your take!

@insightsbyv 4 месяца назад

Yess, the plan is all season.. 🫣😁

@kimhminyee 4 месяца назад

I love your analysis of SATC! I'm on season 2 of it too since I wanted to rewatch it from a different perspective from before, definitely keep these going !! 🩷

@Yellowduchess 4 месяца назад

Im so glad i uncarried myself completely now. Im so squeamish just thinking of it now

@auroramichelle5450 4 месяца назад

Love this!! Yes, same!!

@ladyviking Месяц назад

I always felt like Big was just content spending time with her and having low key fun, and she was always trying to define the relationship and take things in a serious direction. They just wanted different things - he wasn't leading her on, he communicated through his actions SO MANY TIMES that he was not interested in having a long term committed relationship. In the end, she finally gets him to give in, but really she should have cut this off and found someone with the same partner goals. I don't fault him, because SHE is always cornering him into being what SHE wants and what SHE needs. Behavior is a language - she never got the memo, though.

@misseskimo1 3 дня назад

Totally, but also the gaslighting he puts her through is pretty intense. He avoids questions and dances around the issues, he knows what he's doing to keep her on the hook. She shouldn't still be falling for it, but people can be so manipulative, that's how abusive relationships happen.

@MeghanBean Месяц назад

Totally agree on the guy singing😆

@gabrielaaaascar 4 месяца назад

I love your analysis so much!!!!!! Excited for pt. 5 lol

@artbygilik 4 месяца назад

When I had limerence I put up with so much bs and I can’t believe I even liked that person. Don’t e afraid to heal so you know better why you subconsciously choose people who treat you this way

@esmeramsay8179 4 месяца назад

It is in their nature though , it’s not about disrespect / they can’t help it . The really clever men just know how to hide it well- accept it - they ALL do it

@ajgjngfthyfbk7564 4 месяца назад

It's really sad that you think that way. Men are unfortunately socialised to get away with a lot of things that women do not, and are even encouraged to oversexualize women constantly. It's not inherent or a part of nature, it's just cultural and something that should be called out and questioned. Women like you, who say "just accept it" are complicit in this problem unfortunately. Also, where does it end, with this line of thinking? Do you also blame rape-victims, or ask them what they were wearing, or if they were drunk? Do you teach young girls to cover up more, so that the boys in class don't get distracted? Men are not stupid animals with zero restraint, they can choose to behave appropriately or not. And a lot of good men are 100% monogamous, with no interest in looking elsewhere.

@amandabun 4 месяца назад

Been eagerly awaiting this next instalment and loved it x

@rosaria715 2 месяца назад

if it's in their nature to get their genetics spread around all the time, then we could say it's in our femenine nature to get alot of genetics into us when we ovulating. Just because someone has urges even primal ones, does not justify 0 self controll on both ends^^

@yokonono2171 4 месяца назад

your videos on this are so addicting!!

@katerynadikhtiar638 2 месяца назад

Thanks for great videos! And hello from 🇺🇦 Ukraine. Btw I’m watching your analyses in order to improve my English🫶🏻 thnx for content

@sodbaz4882 4 месяца назад

Can't wait for the Season 3 analysis😍

@danielalizcano6648 3 месяца назад

8:27 I JUST GOT THAT "the nile" but really it's "denial"

@georginaaltmann7292 3 месяца назад

Can you do videos of healthy green flag examples from tv shows 📺 and films 📼. So that its spotable to find in individuals.

@insightsbyv 3 месяца назад

Hmm, it's a good idea! In the meantime, maybe another of my videos can give you some of the things I consider 'green flags'. It's called 'Fall in love the right way'😊🥰 P.s. If you have any movies/shows in mind, please let me know🤓

@jordanbrown3887 4 месяца назад

This is why I subscribed. Fucking brilliant analysis.

@georginaaltmann7292 3 месяца назад

Been thier accepting the bare minimum. I didn't even notice it happening.

@britvica Месяц назад

I don't like this hate on carie in the comments. Everybody is so smart now. We all could identify with her for all her selfdoubt and everybody had a kind of "Big" in their life.

@juliagonzale6278 4 месяца назад

great video please continue

@aw12121 4 месяца назад

Ever love your voice and your words !

@trafficcontrol2420 3 месяца назад

It's Carrie's fault Miranda met Steve.

@insightsbyv 3 месяца назад

Uff, Steve.. I don't remeber if it chages, but... I'm not a fan as of season 3 🫣

@Lily-678 4 месяца назад

Are you from middle east, lebanese?

@corneliakobilke4638 4 месяца назад

Swedish i believe

@zab416 4 месяца назад

I think she said she's Serbian in one vid, could be misremembering.

@thirty_ish2890 3 месяца назад

Big is not new. He’s a 40 year old man. He knows that checking out other women in such an obvious way right in front of his girlfriend isn’t cool. I’m convinced he was doing it to test Carries boundaries. To see if she would actually say anything to him or not. How much can he get away with….like a child. 🙄 This man.

@grossliz1995 4 месяца назад

I love how they introduce Steve as almost the opposite of Big. While Carrie is begging Big to meet her friends, Steve meets them "after they just fucked" and is catering to them. After they breakup and sleep together, Steve asks Miranda "what's changed, is this a relationship now?" I love Steve.

@insightsbyv 4 месяца назад

I'm most definitely planning to do an analysis on the Miranda and Steve journey👀

@ox-po363 4 месяца назад

He is not that healthy man how it makes look. He has his infantilism issues. But anyone is better than Big in this show.

@sarizonana 3 месяца назад

My favorite of the ladies partners was Smith. He truly loved Samantha and supported her in her worst moments. I loved smith so much.

@juliaflavia774 2 месяца назад

the way carrie turns and looks just like a little kid happy that their dad came to the school presentation lol I swear she sees him more as an older father figure than a boyfriend

@aalulaa2549 4 месяца назад

My new favourite tea time channel. Keep going girl 💕

@insightsbyv 4 месяца назад

Thank you!! I'm happy you enjoy it🤗

@CarlaFaccina 3 месяца назад

i´m loving these analysis of SATC. 34 here and have been watching Carrie since 17. Her behaviour was so toxic to herself sometimes... and we related to her to much as a character when watching her while younger. I wonder how much the archetype of Carrie Bradshaw affected my emotional stupidity in dating many times throughout my life lol.

@martabanasiewicz6353 4 месяца назад

Ok but I’m not surprised that Big treat Carrie like that. She is immature, do whatever people tell her to do and have crazy drunk tantrums.

@srkh8966 4 месяца назад

Carrie only wants what she can’t have.

@melissacarvajal142 4 месяца назад

15 seconds in and already calling the relation a “shit show” hahahahha love this channel

@Elliealwayswins 4 месяца назад

Yes carrie spent the whole show being impressed by the most normal things and going above and beyong for the men, in fact all of the girls where pick me's in a lot of scenarios, just over accommodating men while they rarely ever got accommodated by those men

@soulmarxfan 4 месяца назад

I love how insightful you are in terms of relationship dynamics. Your podcast has really helped me understand some basic concepts, like matching energies and why it's so important (in your breakdown on S1) or how to recognize breadcrumbing (in this instance). I'm hooked, Keep up the great work!

@sablefoxsoul 19 дней назад

I have a part I find cringey . I think no one else notices. Its really insignificant but I cant help but be triggered. At the dinner he wasn't coming to he jokes on Samantha. And Carrie found it sooo hilarious. He's spilling our convo and hurting my friends feelings...... so triggered and probably silly😅

@stayglitteryqueen 4 месяца назад

Absolutely all of this stuff comes from not being sble to find wellbeing within ourselves, snd looking for love in the wrong places: someone who doesn't give love because he doesn't have it, he doesnt get it. When we feel good within ourselves we naturally socialize with people who are the same, and therefore kinder. We lesve situations that are less than good quicker. I truly used to believe I had to do a lot to be worthy, all because I felt horrible. Now that I feel better and i have healthy friendships, i finslly know that I'll neet a kind man who wants to be happy together, because i feel comfortable in life. Gosh things really can get better!!! Never balme yourself for your past or dwell on bad memories, now we feel better & know better ❤

@Starrr-jb2cf 4 месяца назад

So true

@mimic89 4 месяца назад

i'm watching SATC for the first time and i am REPEATEDLY frustrated with her choices 😭😭 she's so hypocritical and honestly self centered. i adore certain aspects of her character but damn.. the whole big fiasco drove me to madness.

@danielapardo9776 4 месяца назад

I want you to reach s3 so baaad 😂.

@insightsbyv 4 месяца назад

ahahahah me too! 🤣🤣

@yanetybanez3301 4 месяца назад

Do you plan of doing her and Aiden?

@shanandananscoo Месяц назад

"He got this veal." I remember hearing this line this when it first aired. I screamed. She didn't immediately apologize to Miranda!!?! She didnt even pretend to have forgotten or feel sorry!?! She acted like it was totally normal to just leave Miranda sitting alone in a bar waiting for her. She didnt just cancel plans with Miranda, she STOOD HER UP. BALLS, girl.

@misseskimo1 3 дня назад

SAME, it's the, not even an apology, she knew she stood her up and was never going to tell her she wasn't coming. What an awful friend she is.

@shanandananscoo 3 дня назад

@@misseskimo1OmG that’s right she wasn’t even going to TELL her!!! Miranda had to call HER. What kind of a b-tch friend does that.

@gabrielleduplessis7388 4 месяца назад

Speaking of big not wanting to hang out with Carrie’s friends. I loved how he went from this to surprising Carrie with her friends at their second wedding at the end. This is where he grew a bit. He went from not wanting to meet Carrie’s friends to knowing how important they are to her and have them be with her on their special day. Did it take him too long? Yes. Was it bare minimum? Yes. I still thought it was a cute moment though.

@cannellecinnamon5504 4 месяца назад

It was cute indeed! ❤ To me it shows that he really hasn’t changed a bit. He jilted her at the altar which is way worse than not coming to have diner with her friends . And it was for the same reason: he couldn’t make a compromise for only one day and give her what would make her happy. At the end of the movie, he gets exactly what HE wanted ( a small wedding in court) and she compromised again ( after having been humiliated in public) and she’s soooooo happy because he invited her girlfriends. Yep. Again. Bare minimum. Breadcrumbs. 😢

@xXMoonkiXtx 4 месяца назад

Adding “the feeling is wack” to my daily vernacular asap

@wolfgirl535 Месяц назад

My partner and I are both bi, so we like to look at attractive people together. But that's what it always is, something we share. We see someone attractive, we point them out and we can engage with that together. I personally don't think there is anything wrong with acknowledging that other people are attractive, but Big's stares are complete disrespectful. He stares at other women purely for his own satisfaction with no regard for the woman he is with, and its so gross.

@shanandananscoo Месяц назад

I disagree that "its good that Carrie finally told Big what's bothering her." She DIDN'T tell him, and this led to her EXPLODING and PUNCHING HIM IN THE FACE. Then she had no choice to "explain" herself. She busted his nose/ gave him a black eye. That's not a "little smack." I think it's called abuse. I would say the same about her throwing food across the room.

@Pr0fessorScience 2 месяца назад

2:38 same. Doesn't matter the context, how good they are, etc. If someone starts singing directly at me in earnest, I can't handle it. Years ago I learned a coworker I was friendly with did small singing/rapping gigs in his spare time and I literally *encouraged* him to sing/rap a bit to show off his skills, and then suddenly burst into loud awkward laughter like *2 seconds* into his performance. I had to apologize profusely when he was done.

@janineclove 3 месяца назад

At least big is honest about it. There are tons of men says that he’s ready to settle down and is willing to commit but does exactly the opposite. They simply just find excuses and procrastinate. They are either rich or handsome but far more toxic.

@mrs.sowieso1395 4 месяца назад

Thank you so much.❤I've been waiting for the video. Many greetings from Germany.🥰

@katierosealexander8132 3 месяца назад

@crazydoll111 4 месяца назад

Girl, what do you mean this is your last SATC video? I need mooore!

@insightsbyv 4 месяца назад

Ahaahh😅 I meant for season 2.. I thought I'm gonna finish it, but nope, too much to say🤪 I'm planning to do all the seasons🫣

@peachwedding 3 месяца назад

Can't wait for the next part!!

@ABiscuitandTea 4 месяца назад

I love your analyses! You're so funny!

@maevemaiden 4 месяца назад

This show made 30 year old women think it was completely acceptable if not desirable to have an emotionally unavailable man. Despicable. This series is great!!!👍

@KayTea4tea 3 месяца назад

But it´s not reality, it´s a show …

@maevemaiden 2 месяца назад

@@KayTea4tea absolutely but it happens in reality all the time

@shanandananscoo Месяц назад

Really? I thought it was a cautionary tale.

@EMC1986Hobi 3 месяца назад

I don't remember if they were serious at this point. Yes he called her his girlfriend but I don't think he meant it.

@redmagelibra2897 4 месяца назад

Big manipulates Carrie with her severe daddy issues. Neither is a good person, but he is crummy goblin wanting to horde petty treasures for his own convenience.

@reginafromrio Месяц назад

Yeah super red flag if he doesn't want to know your friends. I mean it takes time but they've been together long enough and he totally dismisses her...

@vincent3275 4 месяца назад

Always love ur analysis!!

@shanandananscoo Месяц назад

"Basic stuff" IS impressive.

@yencastro7760 4 месяца назад

I love these videos 🎉❤

@insightsbyv 4 месяца назад

Yaiii🥰

@NatureFreak1127 4 месяца назад

When people say they don't know, could it mean they don't know the person that we'll yet and they just feel spark and chemistry? S.g. there is banter.I imagine in such cases it's not a sign of potential toxic relationship. Of course, this has nothing to do with Carrie, I am just rambling. 😀

@blackcatkyoto 3 месяца назад

Carrie compliments Big too much. It gives me the ick

@jezwud5774 2 месяца назад

New to the channel but love your commentary!! ❤

@barbaraferreira522 4 месяца назад

My new favourite series 🤗😍 love these!!

@m.s9819 3 месяца назад

❤

@Karina-mu1lk 3 месяца назад

We are waiting for the next installment!

@insightsbyv 3 месяца назад

I'm working on it!😁🫶

@LolitaBonitaaa 4 месяца назад

I just love your commentary and analysis, you are SO spot on, you should be a relationship coah! I never gave much thought to Carrie but my gosh she was so pathetic and insufferable. She really let Big walk all over her until he got old and tired and married her. I think Big is awful, he's so selfish and careless, but I am more mad at Carrie for letting it happen for so long because she refused to accept reality.

@wyntahb3968 4 месяца назад

Can u speak up can barely hear u

@ewelinakami 4 месяца назад

Well put your speakers up cause I hear her great.

@Skullskoot 4 месяца назад

Yer a cringe pick-me.

@senorita-qh6bm 2 месяца назад

If he loves you, he won’t disrespect you, he won’t do anything to jeopardize the relationship or hurt you and risk you leaving, if he looks at other girls in front of you he doesn’t value or love you. Love is special lust is not.