Don't Expect a Clean Up Man to Save You 

Facts! The days of a clean up man saving women are OVER! I done ghosted a lot of chicks after finding out their past and/or situation.

I wish this was taught in middle school at the least or high school at the most

A Men can accept a women with a few miles on her, but it very difficult for a man to have peace with a women with a lot of emotional miles. Our human mental car just don't drive the same

True, men shouldn't have to be the clean up men when the woman knows what's wrong and can take the steps to fix it herself. God himself won't help us if we don't cooperate with him. And these women who "dog the man out" don't want the clean up man anyway, if they are bragging about mistreating him, they like their mess. If they don't like it, I wonder why are they bragging ?

Romwills you right this new generation is not having that. I don't know why older women don't teach younger women this.

In that role reversal of being a clean up women, in the words of minister Jap you know the answer is no!!!"

Uncle Rom, you are one of the very few dating relationship experts on here who have integrity and says what he means without compromise. You offer great content and help Black women-and women period-w/o throwing men under the bus or being a hypocrite. I will remain a lifelong listener and supporter Rom.

My captain don't ask questions.

ROM WILLS MVP!!!🏆

Brother Rom you a bad man,I'm learning something from you all time. Lol I just got to distinguish which channel is for the women. Lol

Self preservation is the key to healthy relationships

Great video RW,a responsible mancant afford drama,he got business and maybe a family to look out for,a womans history tell who she is,amd also what turns on,if she isnt working and sacrificing for your happiness and benefit,your not the the one,just one of many to fulfilling a need.

AMEN!! FINALLY THE TRUTH IS REVEALED!! THERE IS A GOD!!

You are right brotha, I love this Video, thank you Mr. Rom Wills

Good morning, ROM!!!!

REAL TALK

💯 as always

Can you please talk about how this same thought process seems to be very prevalent with most men (obviously not all). But I notice a lot of guys are socialized to think they can run around in their youth, sleep with whomever, and once they're ready to 'settle down' they want the so called virtuous woman to be waiting for them. I don't think there's anything wrong with having standards, but you must be able to meet that standard yourself. I'm not coming from the typical 'women should be able to do what men do' rhetoric. Genuinely curious as to why some men think they deserve a virtuous woman when they themselves have not been selective or intentional about their relationships. Thanks!

There is nothing but truth in what you say... there is so much more to sex than the physical. It is more spiritual than physical....you are on to something about men passing their energy to women through sex... Its true because the woman is really the receptacle if you look only at the sex organs.. So many women or young girls have developed emotional and psychology problems from dealing with the wrong guy while he is unaffected. Personally, I believe in being mindful of the energies you expose yourself to....now they don't teach this in school but our old folks have always guided us accordingly....watch the company you keep; don't mess with xyz etc because they are not good. Its what you would probably call the metaphysical aspects of relationships (right?). Its our responsibility as women to protect our spirits and beware of the energies we expose ourself to. Then you will not have to worry about a clean up guy. Even if things don't work out for you with a 'good man', he will always take care of his children. Keep teaching Rom.

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