Such a blessing!!! I often wonder how now, as a divorced woman, I am more financially prosperous ON A SINGLE SALARY, flowing and growing in my life's purpose more abundantly than when I was when married for 10 years. I realized sometime ago, my X had a poverty mindset and even though at times our money was OK, we never progressed. He was holding back my spirit and OUR spirit. Although I am single and at times lonely for that special person I realize that it cannot be just any old guy. I don't want to ruin my flow with a man who will intent to drain and suck my spirit. If only more women really realized this! It's not a theory! I see it! I see couples where the woman looks haggard and drained and the man even if not particularly handsome blooms like a flower! After he slops up her honey, he's on to the next flower leaving her dried and withered. NOT ME! My Ancestors won't have it either! Thank you for sharing your beautiful wisdom and words!
OmG thanks for sharing. My husband isn't a bad person. The money is ok. He sold me a dream. He has a deep rooted poverty mindset. I feel like it's slowing me down in my manifestations (negative emotions). It's draining. I'm trying to decide between staying for security or leaving to become more independent...😔 I'm scared because I have a child and no one else.
I was only married for 3 years, however my life improved once I divorced my ex husband. He was financially abundant but he was a cheater and his energy was negative.
@queen you absolutely right about how the husband kept you in that poverty state of mind...mine has been doing that to me too and been trying to release him for many yrs now. Your passion is very encouraging and pray one day my silver lining comes trough
I could feel the tears rolling down. After getting married, I feel drained. There were red flags before but I saw potential in that man. He never meant to be business owner. It was all lies. I feel physically sick, always sleepy (can't sleep), depressed. He was just a dream seller....His poverty mindset is trying to contaminate his soul. I don't want to feel like this. We have a daughter. This video is for me 😢 No growth in the relationship.
Same here but I was with him for 20 years and I have five children but only four is his but since day one this man wasn't doing right I stayed with him that long because I had that Christian mindset to not leave. It wasn't till my oldest son which is 23 woke me up in his spiritual journey and saw his dad for what he really was. I started my spiritual journey saw and now we're separated. And she's right blessings just start flowing abundantly!
I can definitely relate. I got my courage after 17 years of marriage to an energy vampire and covert narcissist. I’ll tell you what someone told me, “when you’ve had enough you’ll leave.” The minute you do, you’ll instantly feel relief and things will flow. Our children are even thriving more now that we are apart. They feel your energy, mother. Remember the subconscious is 90% of us and it is feminine. I pray that your courage arrives soon. Love, light and peace be unto you.
You are right, ladies! My narc mother wanted me to suffer like her. That's why i stayed in this toxic marriage. No more people pleasing. I'm planning to move far away! The hardest part is forgiving myself..
IMPORTANT NOTE: I’m not speaking of situations where a couple is good to one another and meant to be and they’re starting at the bottom, but are destined to do great things together. MOVING FORWARD TOGETHER at a SNAIL’S PACE is Okay for a time, as long as things are IN MOTION, 🛴🚲🚙✈️but if things become STUCK or GOING BACKWARDS, that’s a big problem! If your credit scores are dropping, your health is declining, your ambition is weakening; that is when you know it’s time to GO! ✌🏽#YouCanDoBadByYourself! While I don’t prefer “Build a Man” relationships, to each their own.
Ashe, Ashe, I haven't been fed like this since I left home 30 something years ago and moved south. I have a better understanding of why people have been cleared from my life, why I feel better since they are gone and who stole me. Peace and blessings
This was an answer and confirmation for me. I really honestly believe that daughters of Oshun and Yemeya should be with emotionally available and wealthy men.
I'm still recovering from a 20 year soul tie in which I gave him my youth, my zest, my body, my mind, my time, my brilliance, my beauty, even gave him three babies; my all. This video really touched my spirit.
I did the same for 10 years. Don't give up honey you are still a beauty. When those men drained us and our outer beauty declined we had to go deep inside and use our inner beauty to dig our selves from the grave we found ourselves in. Like she said we magically come back to life. They say Jesus rose from the dead. It's our story of overcoming the traps in our lives.
@@Leomommy234 me too...it's been 25yrs of more not so good then good. We married to young all because he didn't want to lose me...damn i really should over trusted my instincts...but I got to beautiful healthy children from it...So God is good. I pray for you and me that we'll be able to release these men from our lives
This is a real place! You can actually see the changes in you in your mirror, in pictures at the time. If you pay attention, you can learn to change or leave the "partnership".
I am a daughter of yemaya. I left a abusive / draining relationship last year and I’m so glad I did. He went crazy when I left but I haven’t spoken to him since we broke up. He hooked up with my ex best friend who has herpes 🤦🏻♀️. So glad I got out of it I wasn’t gonna be in no drama with miserable people. I enjoyed this video. I am trying to get my life together. I own a business and I want it to be so successful.
I have been filled with abundance financially every time I’m single. Money and opportunities, as odd as it sounds have been coming since we’re in the middle of a pandemic. I was told by a psychic, based on my birth chart, 2020 will be a great year for me and I won’t have time to date. I have met the worst type of men so that makes me nervous about karmic debt. I have never been happy in a relationship, I haven’t gotten any support from them when it comes to my career and even getting compliments from other creates drama. I have attracted weak men (filled with trauma, mommy issues, anger issues) who are looking for a healer but when I meet them, they don’t come off that way.
Hey Ms Brooke Michaela - I have a female relative that says the exact same thing and I shared with her how important it is to figure out why you are attracting those kinds of men - men who are not for your betterment. Prayer helps and asking whomever you pray to to keep all evildoers out of your path. Many blessings and light to you.
Be picky. Once I started looking at red flags o was out. I don’t give men second chances. You’re either in or out. If they want healing then they need to go and pay for it,
@@princessviolet470 me too girl. I legit cut off two men in a two weeks time. One had the nerve to tell me we would go out that following Saturday and never confirmed, never called or texted early or beforehand. I texted him that same day and told him sorry not interested. The other did the same. We had planned to meet up one weekend, and he had the nerve to take his nephew to practice knowing we had plans. Then had the nerve to ask me for my address to "stop by and say hi" 🤦🏽♀️ like my address is public domain or something. Cut him off that same day too. These men today are so weak it really sucks.
I’m a daughter of Oshun and dating sucks. I’ve only found one man on my level spiritually and it was my twin flame. He lives in Netherlands and I live in Canada so it’ll never be more than distance. It sucks but I’m being single for now. I was always told by legit psychics that I’m meant to be with someone very wealthy. Money isn’t everything but I’m not messing with men with potential anymore
I was born 3 months premature. I have always felt drawn to the ocean. When I place my feet in the ocean, I feel much better. This video made me cry. It's crazy that I used to insist on going to the ocean & not just anywhere, at the foot of Africa, but my grandmother warned me not to go near the river especially the river mouth.
I was married to a borderline narcissist for 2 years his mask kept slipping slipping slipping until it fell all the way off. while I was in that relationship I was constantly drained, only thing good about that relationship was the intimacy and the sex everything else on a scale of 1 to 10 was negative 0. until I left that man my life was in a downward spiral I woundt up in a shelter! everything that I had was taken from me while I dealt with him. I lost good friends, when I finally left him my life got back on track.
Oh Iya, Im getting chills. This reminds me of a loooooong toxic/emotionally abusive relationship I was in. I had hair fall issues, weight gain, ovarian pain, low self esteem, and a man who always seemed to be flirting with others, would never marry me but wouldnt leave me alone. Since leaving things have blossomed for me as I keep healing and growing.
This is so true !!!! I jus barely got out of a toxic karmic relationship, got my cards read that he was jus the negative energy stopping me from my opportunities , and i was bein cheated on, my energy with him always felt bad like low I felt as if I was never doing anything right beside him. And I noticed that ever since he came into my life it was so bad with him but I finally let go!!!! Proud of myself . I’m still young and will wait for my love. I thank the universe madre yemaya for opening my eyes !
Yes! I put in so mu h effort to be with my ex. I tried everything I could to help him. I cooked, cleaned, bought things for him, gave him lots of affection and even went to counseling on my own in order to support the relationship... I suffered and lost a lot. I actually started to lose my beauty and my mental health went down the drain. After 2 years I brought me up with him and in a week my beauty came back! My friends and family said I was brighter too. I still miss him but wow my life is so much better now! Yemaya swept me up and set me on a much more productive and love filled path. I owe her a lot and I'm so happy she's chosen to be apart of my life. I feel good knowing she has my back.
Child of two waters here but the information is timely and updated by genetic mixing it affects the mind of both parties ,it takes 7 years for a women to clean her dna , most arguments are not with partners but their partners Ancestors vice versa and while we may have slept around and was already ill affected what we can do is start the process of healing & cleaning. The oppression of our ppl has led to failures bc without the right knowledge we can't do right , so no judgement on what you don't know but you know now that what we've been taught has led to our dysfunctional lives , there many factors your beliefs , ideas and condition and spirit issues
Yes. We are all responsible for what we know and can not be blamed for what we don’t know. BUT, once you know, you MUST do better, act better, show better, teach better and be better. Making better and knowledgeable decisions are required because now you are better and you know better.
I was once trap for 5years, that relationship did suck my energy away now that I'm free I started to blossom 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻 , thank you for that knowledge now I know what what was really going on
Ma’am I found you at the right time of my life. I’m 24 currently struggling and thinking of reasons of is it worth it stay with my bf who has emotional cheated on me several times. I’m depressed, lazy, sad.. it has even affected my online store. I don’t pay attention to myself or my shop. Everything has been crumbling down and IM STILL TRYING TO MAKE IT WORK. I’m not usual like this. I’m aware of how I was before and lately it’s been horrible and I’m seeing his traits as mine own. Lazy, sluggish no work ethic. I’ve had all the signs and I tried to bring him up to me but I’ve gone down to him. I’ve been known as a healer and I suppose that’s why I’m still but I can no longer do this to myself. Ma’am I’m grateful for you and your videos. Thank you thank you thank you. You don’t know what your videos have done to me. It’s time for me to DO now. I have to tell him it’s over and cut ties
This was a confirmation that my stubborn behind needed to hear. I heard the mothers of all waters speaking through you- peace be unto you and thank you.
I would not be surprised if I was a daughter of Oshun. I recall getting a dress from a flea market event with the peacock symbol and decor of colors all over it. After getting out of an abusive relationship I began to discover who I am. I have done my genealogy and discovered American Indian heritage and one African child brought here in 1780s.(mother’s side) I went Oshun long ago and to feel her energy. I believe in my heart when I allowed her in my home, she ran off my abuser. He did not like my spiritual journey but I wanted to have peace so that is route I was lead to pursue. Learning from my mistakes and understanding that I had to go to ESu for permission to speak on my behalf or whom I should speak to spiritually in connection, I learned to honor my ancestors first. So, apologizing and understanding things happen for a reason are my morals to tell here. Your absolutely correct about all of this. Working on becoming an American Indian priestess and honoring what other connections I have that made sacrifices are not only important, but required. Keeping my wits about myself and going through court proceedings to address the issues are already in place and with the American Indian people our spiritual systems are within the waters, winds, earth, & fire elements through Amun-Ra... as do with African spirituality.
Lord have mercy! Queen, you described my relationship with my ex's to a T! When I got with my husband, i knew he was the man I would marry. We are blessed and over flowing but with my exes I was so dry.
The part of reevaluating my life and looking back... this was something I did in shadow work last year and I learned most of the people who were around me in the younger years were toxic because I was hurt, broken, co dependent and felt like it was all that I deserved. Once I realized this I got to work clearing and cleaning up inner me and to my surprise as I healed most of the old friends and family disappeared on their own without me needing to remove them, and those who didn’t I put up boundaries and removed them from my reality. I’m very selfish with whom I allow around me in my energetic space ...my energy is more precious than anything in this physical realty
I am a Dead Flower,, all men even my Father benefits from my Love and prospered of my heart. As I typed this and was saying "Nothing" goes right you were saying it on video. WOW
I know what you mean sista. Smh but I'm here to tell you You are a Beautiful Woman inside & out! Tell yourself this daily. I'm learning to love MYSELF. 💯💖
I’ve been single for years have no plans on ever settling until I am told this is your husband. I try to warn and talk to my family members it’s like I’m the only one who can see people from the core of their hearts. May they arise, awaken from out of their slumbers my goodness this hits close to home. I been there, however I didn’t stay there thankfully.🙏🏼✨
This was my last relationship, I actually saw blood coming from my wrist. It was like I was self-harming but I've never ✂️ myself or anything like that. I was sitting next to them when this happened. I said to myself thats not even me. After going no contact, spirit told me you have connection but no love. Also said they just watched my life fall apart and it did in every way.
I found this video when I just blocked my twin flame. Long story short he did add to my life in many ways. Kundalini and everything until it had ran it’s course and I’m just done with shadiness. Blocked moving on and building on my own beautiful energy. It’s painful and sucks but I know it’s the best for me now.
Omg...that's all I can say right now. That part about women trying to get to my energy through him is definitely something I have experienced. Also, I have made the mistake of destroying my good thing by picking the wrong man. I have gained materially from some men and lost with some, looking for love in all the wrong places. This is so eye opening; I don't know how our families made it without this information. I need clear, information in order to walk through this life. I'm so grateful for this channel. 💕
Wow, great video. This can help explain why I gain weight, loose my beauty & feel depress when Im with the wrong man. Once I cleanse myself I get right back to normal. Thanku & Blessings to you. Así Así 🥰🙏👍
Deeeeep! When you said sometimes even your soulmate or twin flame can be the worst to be with.... goosebumps. So true! Your poem... truth! Bless you. May your cup continue to overflow. I will watch this video again from the top. Let it sink deeper.
I am so happy to have seen this today. I am realizing that several of my relationships where toxic (friendships as well as sexual relations). I am understanding that ALL of these people have been separated from me by Universe/Source because I asked for guidance and a clear path. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!!!
Idk how I got to this video but it was needed. I want to do more than walk away. I want to break the soul tie and get everything I lost back. I want to return back to sender.
wow, wow for 20 I had a woman drained me out exactly you described it.. I let it happen for the sake of the children.. now I'm like a dry fish washed ashore looking for a freshwater to start my life again..
🥰🥰.... things have a way of presenting themselves to you when you need it most... I recently just ended a relationship that I knew for a while wasn't where I needed to be... and nearly EVERYTHING she said in this video was spot on.. when i look back at where i was and where I was going before I met my ex and compare it now, my life has declined in many ways since the start of that relationship... my health, confidence, fertility and especially finances have been drastically altered. And many times throughout the relationship I would feel used, taken advantage of.. I often felt like I couldn't be my true self, and like I had to dim my light to make him comfortable.. and even with past relationships I often felt the same way.. there's Been a pattern.. men are attracted to my light, but then once they have me, my light dims...my progress slows.. I stop leveling up... this video was so encouraging, and extra confirmation that I'm on the right path.. 🥰.. since my ex and I broke up, I've felt lighter, I've felt less stress, I truly feel a sense of peace, I just got accepted into a masters degree program for marketing, I'm feeling optimistic about life.. and I'm truly getting back to me.. 🥰 thank you a hundred times for this information. I'm getting my power back, my glow my light, and any man that wants to be in my life in the future will have to match my energy, and my flow.. I will no longer shrink myself for anyone. 👌🏾💯
I haven't been back with him anymore but I'm still off. I do spiritual baths, the eggs, etc. I go places and songs come on that we used to listen to. I feel like he's reaching out through the 5D.
This information has benefited me so much. And I’ve never heard more realness. I was stuck in a relationship for 10 years that only drowned me and did nothing good for me and took every bit of my energy. I gained so much weight I became infertile. As soon as I walked out of that relationship I became healthier. I lost a lot of weight I started getting things that I had always asked for and never gotten before, I remarried and everything about my life and I was so different.
Grand Rizing My Sista 💪☝️. What Your saying , is what I need 2 hear 👏👏. Outside Spirits Are An Combo of Negative/🤔 debri. It really pays to Observe and Protect YOU !!! A'SHE MY SISTA
Goddess your are absolutely right! In my path I have found a lot of women of consciousness drain good men because of their trauma or inside knowledge of spell work ect
Snap snap snap; that poem is justice. I speak on this because there are things i know now that I don’t regret not knowing yrs ago. But i speak these words to people that speaks to me or come around to pick my brain. But facts is facts when people place/keep their self. I explained to people you have full control they just need to find the strength. Having strength appears to hurt in that moment of change or detachment but its soooo worth going to that. The end result is way more satisfying!
I'm new to all of this but this was a guide leading me to your channel. I'm very intuitive but have a bad habit of seeing potential in a man. 10 yrs with 1 man & now 4 with another. I am 32 & exhausted. Classic narc empath relationships. This current relationship is extremely draining. Literally everything you said is on point. I'm a good supply of nurturing energy. But I feel better flourish without them but I crave that connection. Still learning💜
Whew Chile, wasn't this the coffee, juice and the tea. My goddess this was so good, so educational, gave me lyfe. Truth bombs dropped everywhere. I felt like I was being mentored and sat down by big ma and nem. This reminded me of my nanna and what she'd water my soul with. Just the other day the capacity example came to me while I was in meditation. This ALLLLLL of it was confirmation and re-centering. Thank you mother Yemoja. Thank you mother Oshun. Ashe ashe ashe
Every time I didn’t have a mate I had peace and money rolling in. I think I was supposed to be navigating alone. But a man who drained me is now prospering but I know it’s from me and another woman (karmic triangulation). Thank you for this Sis. I’m calling my energy back. I have learned my value. I’ve literally seen my prayers answered from men!! Gratitude 💜✨
Wow.... I’m watching this at the full moon of the beginning of Leo season. This is a timeless message. Thank you!. I am standing tall and remember who I AM☀️☀️☀️
Words cannot surmise how much I appreciate seeing this video, deciding to click on it, and taking the time to let it DIGEST in my soul. Im so grateful for the constant lessons and protection I have received even with my own ignorance, being saved from that. I’m humbled and just so thankful. Thank you andunola for the constant jewels you have given me and others you are golden 🙌🏽✨✨
I came across this video this morning. I must say it had me realize that I am not crazy. The energies that we share with people are deep. I realized that it was okay for me to remove myself from toxic people. I also thought of my ex out there cheating and me feeling this crazy energy that drained me. Thank you.
Where was this information years ago? I spent many years with my kids dad who drained me emotionally mentally spiritually physically. But honestly I had to go thru that to become the person I am today. He brought out the worst in me.😔
I had to watch this again! Thank you so much . I really needed this message. The crazy thing is I got here by accident ,but I found out this was meant for me to watch .
A son of Oxun / Ogun, thanks you for your divine wisdom and compass calibration. I felt this deep inside... but wanted to be fair and nonjudgemental... but the the truth is. Peace and prosperity. Asé
Alaafia Iya, daughter of yemoja here and you just blew my mind, just helped me identify and gave me clarity.... Cleansing and cord release time.. you are a blessing indeed.. thank you..
Wow... I really needed to hear that..every single word you spoke pushed and poked at my soul. This really explains it all, I know what I have to do but it truly will be hard. Thank you for this message
Not familiar or sure about being the daughter of either of the names you mentioned, but I do know that I am different and have been my whole life. And as long as I was with my ex husband my life was hell... We were childhood sweethearts and I had all my children with him. I fought to keep him from mistreatments, cheating and deceit all the while my life force was being drained. I almost died several times when I came back to him from health problems whenever I broke it off. But I found myself doing well financially and physically every time I walked away, it took me decades to get over him and heal and love myself enough to cut it off for good, as well as his family. This is the 1st time in my life since I have been an adult that I’m very content and happy with my life. It’s almost 4 years that I walked away and severed the friendship we had also, that’s when I saw my prosperity flow. Health got better, finances aren’t where I want them to be but all of my needs are being met on my own salary. Thank you for this video I learned a lot ❤
This became more clearer after my 1st year of celibacy (now it has been more then 3 years)... I am now able to enter into another without depositing anything more than the experience and at the same time, very easily able not to absorb theirs. That is mainly because my intuitions are heighten and my music flows in a place where TRAP MUSIC will not mix with my MOTOWN! After our reading and even better, your clarification you sent; even though I have handled the sexual clearing and revamp; the FAMILY and mother has reach the point that my river became a pond! So I am moving on! Thank a You!
WOW 😯 so DEEP! This is so real and I thank you for sharing this information to the world. Your examples and how you explained it was superb. Peace and many blessings continue to be unto you my sister 🤗
I just had my guardian Orisha ceremony and was confirmed by 3 Babalawos that Oshun is my guardian Orisha. So much of this hits home for me. Thank u for this sis
THIS HIT ME HARD!!! Nothing but truth and what I have felt deep down inside for the past 4 years while I gave away myself to someone who abused me so much! Since being in that relationship I have gotten so close to suicide multiple times. I didn’t know my head from my tail...I felt/feel on edge all the time even now...gray hairs sprouting up...not knowing what I’m doing in life or where I am going. It’s been so much! This message definitely came at the right time when I am having to take all that’s left within me to leave this person. Lessons learnt. I keep praying it’s not too late to start over my life one last time. 🥺
Thank you so much! As a son of Yemeya and Esú, I’m dealing with a toxic person, right now, and the word, “love” keeps popping up into my head. And I’ve already thought about blocking this person forever and keeping them out of my life with that toxicity, as they told me recently that they were toxic, and that they could become toxic. So, in long story, this person told me not to text nor contact them until I’m ready for them to fly out to see me. I’m going to block this person, now, and thank Mama Yemaya for her wisdom through you! 🌊 And I’m so glad that I’m 23 and have enough time to make mistakes and learn from these mistakes, but my TIME is very important. My Babalowe told me that people must make boundaries for people, so that these boundaries will produce something healthy for you and the other person.
Thank you for your delivery of this message Adunola, you seem deeply concerned and this is advice we all need to follow that is blessed by your guides, so precious I wish I heard this when I was 16, it makes perfect sense now. Also thank you for sharing your incredible poem!
My goodness… at 32 years old I’m so happy I haven’t wasted any more time..cause I’m already feeling the blues of being associated with the wrong people
