We are same with our adult grandsons with car or motorcycle problems as husband a brilliant mechanic we help them if they are trying to help themselves but never much financially that's their parents job
When I left the US, I gave one car to my brother-in-law and the other to a nephew. My job in life is to help those whom I care about. Family helps family. Could I have added some money to my bank account? Sure. Would I have felt better with the money rather than the hugs from my family, absolutely not.
I was raised by parents the exact same way in principle! Mostly by my mom and grandma who lived with us. Dad preached the same but did the opposite, he always said do as I say not as I do! Now the tables have turned and I just had to tell my dad that he can’t come live with us! I’m flying out Wednesday to Mississippi to help my sister evict him from her property and he thought I was flying one way to help move his rv to my place in Tennessee! Since my mom passed he has been parked on my sisters property living in his class a rv, he blew through $250,000 dollars in life insurance and is now talking bankruptcy so she is ready for him to go b4 his coach gets repossessed and it’s even harder to get him gone! I turned the tables and used his life lessons that he gave us back to him! I told him that if he had invested the money and or used it to pay off all his debt including the coach then he wouldn’t be in his situation, but letting him move into my house with no means to support himself ( his social security is eaten up by a brand new truck payment and insurance) is a dead end to solving his problems and he needs to figure it out and get stable b4 my wife and would even consider letting him stay awhile. Cause right now it would inevitably be be more than a while and he refuses to let anyone look at his finances or listen to recommendations like selling the truck paying it off and using the rest to buy a used vehicle with cash thus freeing up $1200 a month that could go towards rent or a small camper payment! Being a kid of a father like that was hard, but being an adult and dealing with your father like that is hard enough without making it ten times worse!
@@Noneofyourbusiness2000Mickey does t have the experience driving those roads like Dave does though… I’m betting that had a lot to do with his decision to drive up himself… that and he gets to see how Mickey has really come along with his cabin and property… 😊
My dad always said to me, "if you need a helping hand, look at the end of your arm." He taught me most things I needed to create a pretty good life. I passed that quote down to my sons and they are doing great. I help because I want to, they never ask.
I was affected by your “taking two”, a surge of compassion and empathy ran through me. It took me by surprise, I only know that you are a very special soul. Thank you, you remind me of goodness.❤️😊❤️
Dave, you are one special Dad! Your “take two” had me in tears and concerned about your friend and/or Mich! You and Brooke are the first RU-vid channel I started watching years ago and you both have NEVER disappointed me! Your love for nature, for each other and family, your work ethic and getter done spirit capture the American Attitude! As a Michigander myself, I am proud of your supportive your son. God Bless You, Dave and Brooke!
Dave .. your life advice is spot on! Young people today live in the moment and don’t seem to plan for a rainy day! If it weren’t for my parents helping me I might never have made it to the ripe old age of 66! I miss them terribly! Mick has a great life coach in you and Brooke! Sometimes I think your down to earth common sense look at life might be what our country needs! Maybe you should run for president! I would vote for ya!!
Mick is a lucky guy to have you as his dad. Generous, practical, wise. What a great combo! On another note, I used to tell my nursing students to take care of themselves, because we can't give away what we don't have. See ya, Dave, be radical!
My folks always taught us you're never so broke that you can't help someone. We weren't given everything either, we earned our spending money and bought and paid for our own vehicles plus upkeep. Our folks were always there if we needed it, sometimes stuff happens thats not your fault- we learned to figure our way out but just a couple of times they helped. Your helping Mick will teach him a lot. It's hard when there's just no vehicles to be had. You sure went through some beautiful country, here in Oklahoma we call them Buffalo as well. Glad you had a safe journey, thanks for taking us along. I believe Mick will make it, it just takes some figuring out- you two gave him great lessons to help him do that. Stay safe and GOD bless
Dave proves the influencers and algorithm wrong. We're all here watching a big dude that builds small cabins, drive his small car to his young son 2500 miles away, and we're all entertained. I'd love to make that trip someday
He's living the dream really - would love to make that trip one day just for the adventure of it. Glad he can help his son out, I wish more people thought like this. I can honestly say I've given a car away to someone before which is a good feeling, I could have made a buck on it but the person was in need...supposedly. My heart was in the right place though.
Sir,you are quite the father with great wisdom and your son is a blessed young man. Mick did not fall far from the tree,he shows wisdom as well. I so appreciate his painting abilities.
Words of wisdom, thanks for that, Dave. At 18, I left school to work. Move away from home at 19 to work in Port Hardy, lost my job at 20, and huge inflation in BC. Moved back home, paid rent. In 1981, I joined the Canadian military. Now, at 63, I'm retired. Lots of ups and downs in life, if you get help - pay it back to others. Cheers. Thanks for the video, ay or eh.
Dave you are the BEST MICHIGAN DAD! Proud of your commitment to your son and family! Your filming and commentary is fantastic! I see where your son gets it from. Man you had me in tears on your “TAKE TWO”. God Bless You, Dave.
I agree with you, but I'll add this, at 56 years old, I've found, that some of the greatest hands up, has nothing to do with Cash.. A phone call, a home cooked meal, just spending time together, listening without, trying to fix things. This list could go on and on, but it important to remember, when you treat people well. They will remember it in their darkest hours... The power of kindness, is something that will never be forgotten..
Awesome job on helping your son! My dad helped me when i needed it and I do it for my kids and now grandkids! We do what we can to keep them from a total Wipeout! We can give advice when they ask for it, but they have to make the decision to follow it or not!
You are a good man Dave. Our family is the most important thing in our lives. Your car is good to have as an emergency ride for a while. But what Mick really needs up there, is a truck. I wish him lots of luck on his search for an affordable ride.
Dave, I'm a MI native, and seeing you go over the bridge and talk about St Ignace made me smile. I fish & camp up at the Greenwood Reservoir not too far from Republic (Champion, west of Ishpeming) so hearing you mention it and that you stayed there made me smile again. Love your channel.
This is my first experience with you I don't know who you are I don't know what your channel is about but I loved this journey. I hate to drive and I love being a passenger. You are a fine example of a father you do things not because you want to because it's fun but because it's your responsibility and you have to. God love you for traveling thousands of miles with a back injury that's just amazing.
I have autism so I don't always express myself the best but I just think you're amazing. You seem like a real stand-up guy I'm subscribing and we're going to check out what you've got going on.
Glad that you came to the aid of your precious son driving 1,000s of miles to take him a car. Thats what parents do and I am sure your son will never forget your visit. Cant wait for him to show off his car to us in his next video.
You're a wonderful father Dave! Your family is very blessed to have you, and your wife, in their lives. My father can't be bothered to even drive 2 hours to see me for a visit. Thankfully my mother is the exact opposite. She would drop everything just for the time to see her kids, and grandson. Definitely a good roll model for her family!
This is a wonderful act of love & caring that I believe the world needs more of. My children & family help each other out whenever we can because when you have strong, bonded family, you build strong, independent community. I’m in my 7th decade & my family & friends are my reason to do better with my resources. Great footage of your road trip. I live an hour from the Rocky Mountains in mid Alberta & we’ve had a crazy winter from -50 C to +15 C. Yes, those wild animals are definitely road hazards! Blessings to everyone 🤗🇨🇦
@@Bushradicalleave it......don't take it back. Buy something else for yourself. It's not like the car shortage there will go away for the next couple years. And if you take it back that's 7500 miles worn on the vehicle for nothing. Leave it.
Im glad that you were able to lend Mick a hand and had an adventure as well! He is learning SO many lessons - not the least of which is that you and Brooke have got his back.
Great to see you Dave! You’re an amazing soul helping your son in need, even with a cantankerous back to deal with! God bless, stay safe Dave!❤❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I sure am glad to hear you helping your son to be able to move along in life, as most parents don’t have the resources to do so and if they do, they pretty much leave the adult children on their on just because they’re now adults. I help my two children by sharing what I have. This is to give them a head start in life.
Our kids never stop being ‘our kids’ no matter their age 😉 ours over 50 - making their own way better than we did back then - however, we will never not be available to ‘assist’ in some way when we see the need…. You’ve done good raising yours as well! Thanks for your sharing spirit!
Enjoyed the ride-along to Alaska. My mind still boggles at the distances involved, especially through some rather beautiful but downright scary roads. You shared some solid wisdom too. I'm grateful that our three grown children are doing well and seemed to learn how to navigate life, marriage, and parenting. Despite our own foibles as parents, they turned out well and seem to have learned the good and filtered out most of the mistakes we made along the way.
Amazing video - no need to see the white knuckle snow storms but 70 mph speed up down the mountain was both exciting and frightening - great wisdom at the end - actions speak louder than words - if you are able and can help out in the short term in a practical and positive way - it speaks loudly as to where your heart is - and I am sure your huge effort will not be forgotten but accepted gratefully and will be passed on - not the never ending bank of Mum and Dad or a kind Uncle but a great way to show and demonstrate Love that needs no repayment but no doubt will leave a lasting, motivating and spirit enriching encouragement to someone in a particular short term tight spot - will watch again !!!☘
Beautiful drive, thank you for sharing. Also back pain is so relatable, the most random things will trigger back with me too, but I guess it just makes you appreciate your health all that much more. God Bless you and your family. Great perspective on helping Mick, but still letting him solve his problems on his own in general, that is a huge part of life in general.
Hi Dave .. thanks for taking us along for the scenic trip. Wish you could've gone when it was warmer and greener. I remember driving through Manitoba and Saskatchewan and it was just open and flat. You're a thoughtful and caring guy with great advice. If you're ever in Southern Ontario know you have a friend and a place to stay here. All the best to you Brooke and your family.
Well, this is wild. First the scenery is the usual epic North America, plus you helping your son is just fine, but the craziest thing, is that a Pontiac Vibe made it that far, through the Tundra ! :)
That was an awesome drive that you took to help Mick out. You did on an awesome Sunday where here it is finally going to get a bit warmer. Stay safe, warm/cool, and blessings.
Thanks for taking us along on your Michigan to Alaska trip, Dave. The scenery through the Rockies was beautiful, Alaska, too. (And, yeah, they’re bison, not buffalo.)
Dave I totally agree!! Although, I’m just making it right now, (Hubby passed two years ago) helping others right now is family, Church family and close friends listening and allowing us to come through grief… making it. Now I am back to teaching, I thought I was retired!! I do help those I can but God is indeed bringing me through this! Praying for Mick and your precious family!
Hi Dave. Your son is very grateful, I'm sure, that you took that very , very long treacherous trip to bring him a vehicle to use during the winter. I'm sure he will find something to buy later to suit his needs. You and Brooke have a hard working son that is "figuring it out" cause that's what he does. And the weight on his shoulders are a little lighter now since his dad visited him. Thanks for a solemn video for us all to think about. From Central Oklahoma
Way to go David your a good dad. You never stop being a dad. And never stop being a mom either and so on. God first then family the most important thing ever. Good for you sir and God bless you all.
You're a great father! My dad is very similar and it has helped me tremendously as I get older. Always remembering that taking a minute to find a solution is better than solving the problems your panic may cause.
I've been watching your videos for a while now and I love them. Two months ago my girlfriend and I moved to the south on the other side of the continent and this video brings back many memories of the first trip I took to our new house. Your videos inspire us a lot and we really want to build our own cabin instead of buying one. We send you a big hug from Argentina and we will continue enjoying the content of this great channel!
Sometime's family just need a Boost every now and then. The Dad's "Do What you Have to Do" is spot on Dave. Your video's bring a Calm to me,right when life seem's abit Tight. Thank' for Sharing your trip to Mick's
Beautiful scenery, thanks for sharing. I grew up on the shores of Lake Huron. I have a brother who lives in the U.P. & cousins in Vancouver. Helping your adult children out once in awhile is not solving their problems. It’s being a good parent & good karma. Stay blessed!
I agree 100%! My mom used to say you can help someone until they're helpless; now we call it enabling. Jesus fed the multitudes, once. He did not continue supplying their food.
Dave you are a gem of a father, husband and regular guy. I have always loved seeing the high country and wow those buffaloes. Thank you for the video of your trip. Yep that drive is a crazy one . I don't think I could do it all alone especially in a trailer or RV. Please post more of your trips. I lo e nature. So concerned about the loss of the artic and wild animals like the polar bears and seals. Live life to the fullest if you can. Seems you know all about hardships and value of all the good times God provides. Pray you and Brook and kids stay safe. Oh...love your humor. Enjoyed hearing about your prior jobs and life experiences. Thanks.
Can't beat having a spare beater, i bought a nice, old, used minivan for $500 that i now daily drive cause my previous daily driver decided to act up. That ole van is awesome and the previous owners took really good care of it. It's nice having something to lend to friends who might need it for a day or for hauling stuff. I totally relate with having the capacity to give, it's important and can have more impact that throwing money at other people's problems in
Words of wisdom! As a Mother who ended up raising 6 kids without a spouse I was on the end of receiving always knowing one day I would be the one giving. Truly a blessing!❤
I've been checking back and forth for a new vid from you for a while. The one day I didnt check, you dropped a new vid! Very glad to see your still around. Back pain is never fun.
Narrow, curvy road, but I am amazed that they got the road cleared of snow so well. I know Mic is grateful to his wonderful dad for some wheels. Great advice to set aside something to help someone else.
David let me start with At Least it wasn't on a motorcycle this time. LOL.... Bet it felt great. Yep... I have my trusty 1978 Blazer and it's even EMP proof. So it goes when the others wont. Yes I have my big one ton Van for convenience and work. But that Blazer never lets me down. And I can do all the work on it myself. Great video my friend. Always love your stuff. You're a good dad too. Happy "Presidents" day..
Drove that Alcan four times in the 1960s, first time in VW bug down to Texas in summer. Second and third in VW camper in winter and last time also in winter but only to Haines and caught the ferry to VC. Definitely preferred the winter driving - of course that was before they paved the road and it was so much smoother covered in ice. Did a whiteout on the last trip. I enjoyed your video, great memories. Stayed in Toad River on the first trip down...at that time you went in and picked an empty room and left the money on the table if you showed up after hours, which we did. No locks on any doors then.
Wow Mick looks just like you. Nice of you to take him the car. Too bad he couldn’t get his fixed. I grew up in Fairbanks. I’ve driven the Alcan 5 times, once in the winter going back up. I’d love to drive it again one of these years, maybe after I retire, take a nice long road trip to visit again. Take care.
Beautiful video, all of that talk about semis and driving in the winter gave me a chill down my back. I did that for 16 years for FedEx in upstate NY. The fact that I'd rather work a State Max Prison tells the story. I'd be interested in the pay for those drivers that you passed
Great adventure and great advice. My dad helped me growing up and I love it when I get a chance to help my kids. That’s what family is for. Dave, you should be teaching this course of being useful in all the colleges in America.
I would have done the same thing to help my sons ! My sons could be 3 or a grown man I’ll be there when ever he would need me I was raised by my mom and she was always there for me and I will always be there for my boys ❣️❣️❣️❣️ You definitely are a great father ❣️❣️❣️❣️
Hi Dave! Greetings from Northern MN! Thanks for taking us on the road trip to Alaska. It was indeed fun to see the buffalo/bison. God's handy work was everywhere! Looking forward to your next video!
LOVE your comments at the end. You’re so right about putting yourself in a position to help your people. Such a great feeling and just the right thing to do.
I agree with your sentiments-both about letting them figure problems out and about helping when you can. I’m relieved Mick has a vehicle now, and I’m sure he is very grateful to you for the loan.
What a great thing that you did for your son. All dads without question should help out their children when it’s really needed. A very good video Dave. Thanks for sharing. Take care.
Watched with great anticipation Dave Beautiful scenery A place we have never seen but watch you and Brooke and Mick channels and many other wonderful channels from Alaska Thank you for sharing Every parents wants the best for their kids, but you are right sometimes they need to figure it out You guys are wonderful parents
I enjoyed this more than you will ever know. I have two offspring. One has never needed my help but always my encouragement and praise. The other always seems to fall short. I have helped that one more than I can even count. The first born will help anyone in need because he can. The other has never had the extra to fall back on so your advice is dead on. I hope young ones watch your channels and learn something. Hugs from Texas! Can’t believe I am freezing at 55 degrees! 💕
Vibes are tanks. My aunts has 340k miles on it and has been thr main errands vehicle for her farm since 2008. I don't know how if the back seats have ever been folded up for use 😂. No major problems to this day.
Thanks for showing that the trip can be driven in a 2w drive car! (I used to have a Vibe!) I'm in Colorado, and driving up to Alaska is on my bucket list!! I love the encouragement to "have something to offer." Amen!
Wow what a scary drive but breathtaking I’ve never seen anything that beautiful now that looks like a winter wonderland!! You’re a great Dad and both you two are great parents your son is very appreciative I’m sure thanks for taking us along with you !!
Enjoyed watching your journey and your commentary at the end about finding the right balance with your kids and helping others when they need a hand up. Look forward to see your adventure in UP and Alaska again this year. All the best to you and your family (and pups).
I felt every bit of this vid. Been there, done a lot of it in one way or another. Doing it as a parent is a whole other level. Every moment as a parent is a teachable moment and you’re a parent from their birth until your death. Thanks for sharing.
Your perspective about helping others is absolutely correct. My first car was an old boxy rambler. Had to check the gas and fill up the oil every day. Gas was $0.29 / gallon and oil was $!.00. It cost me $50 and a new carburetor. I used it for a summer painting houses. Life was good but I didn't know how good.
