The truth will always be relevant, no matter how much we try deny it or push against it to make ourselves feel better about our choices.. I hope his message reaches more..
Right ! And seemed to be pretty content in not having to have to go down that road again, only now she can’t say her eyes weren’t opened! 👀 fool me ones…. Shame on you, fool me twice……shame on me !
She is hoping that if she has a baby by him, then he will magically change his mind and marry her. And when he doesn't, she will turn into his worst enemy.
IT'S AMAZING HOW HE HAS PASSED BUT HIS CHANNEL IS STILL GROWING. that's true power of knowledge. REST IN POWER CHAIRMAN SAMUELS!!! we will defend your legacy!
Will, yes. and it may be that he was really hurt in his first marriage and just does not want to go through such again. Or it may be that he like her but not love her or have that sense of connection that all men want.
Why marry her when he gets all the benefits of the marriage with none of the REAL responsibilities. “He’s a good father,” she says. Girl needs to wake up and move out.
@@silvacleo329 many are having a ceremony without a marriage licence so the government is NOT involved. Think of Tiger Woods' last girlfriend, they broke up and she STILL tried to sue for cash. The "No Fault" divorce system is flawed towards the person (either gender) who makes less money. Ask Comedian Monique or singer Mary J. Blige.
It's a spectacular Saturday morn'. Hopped out the LX 570, approaching the walking trail @ peace & relevant. "Pardon, but I'm taken Ms... Bond no. 9...I got to go (Lol).
So after having his illegitimate baby; she will blame him for the relationship failing, he would become “abusive” & “narcissistic” and was not ready to “handle” a meaningful commitment to a strong independent black woman
If you can’t hear the love in his voice, you’re lost. “He hates women”, yet he genuinely cared about the outcome of this young lady. Even his tone was softer than usual.
His underlying message to people was to make better decisions and the risk/reward factor of what you decide. Also, he was much harder on men before he talked to women. RIP Godfather
@@markcampbell2702 Yes, Mark he was very blunt and direct with the men. Because Kevin a man and so he knows what it means to be a man And since he a high value man then what he said is really golden Because he studied it and lived it as authentically as he was able. Life
@@josie6564 Everything needs to be said because what seems common sense and the right thing to do ~ ~ is looked at as prudish and restricting of xx freedom and rights
@@benhartart9487 I won’t be thinking like that since I was secretly miserable knowing a man wasn’t going to marry me. I’ll take being single and working on myself.
I’ve actually started watching KS since his passing, but I can truly say I’m hooked to his videos. A lot of women had a lot of negative comments towards him and I can’t speak for others, what I can say is that he’s brutally honest and many don’t agree with his approach but I look at it as Tough love 🤷🏽♀️
Negative comments also because he does not practice what he preaches. How many times has he advised leaving men who do not ask women to marry? At the same time, he himself won’t marry again, although he said that if he needed to, he could get married right now. Advising men in the modern world to take someone as a wife is as cynical as possible. Considering that modern marriage is simply financial bankruptcy for a man in the next 5-7 years. Almost guaranteed. Even if your wife cheats on you and files for divorce, she will still take half of the property and alimony. How were the escort girls who accompanied Kevin, did he marry them, no? Ooh...why not? Apparently they also had to demand marriage from him or leave. How far have you come in your Western society that such a populist is a prophet for you?🤦♂
This man did everything he could to help and wake these women up. They absolutely refused to change or acknowledge his wisdom. He was a national treasure.
Having a baby outside wedlock should be illegal. If you don't love your man enough to marry him, or if he does not want to marry you, no child should happen. WTF is wrong with people?? A child needs both parents to grow mentally healthy.
She is just fooling herself. Telling herself anything to get through the day. Sunk-cost fallacy. She’s already got four years in and is afraid of wasting it.
@@kenshin7315I’m sure there’s an appropriate word for someone disrespecting a dead man that is greater than themselves. For now, I’m just gonna call you a fool.
This woman is talking about needing to wait to get to know her man for marriage, but not for having a child by him?! And she's college educated! SMH. Sounds insane!
He asks therapist-like questions and really digs deep into the psyche of whomever he is talking to. No wonder he was killer at sales. RIP to this King.
We need to make some of these clips viral! The ones where he promotes marriage over having kids outside of wedlock. The encouragement. These are things people say he was against and it’s clear! Long live KS 🖤💙
The message he gave are eternal it never gets old because nothing has changed 3 years later I was dating a 50 year old and she was more childish then a 22 year old woman. .
"What you allow will continue" Pay attention to wise men, because they have spent all of history learning from mistakes that you can easily avoid if you simply listen.
That was a TRUE dissection of disillusion. How his haters say he hated women means that they only watch the hot clips and make a misguided conclusion. That was thorough advice.
He was actually really respectful here and was trying to put sis up on game ! Four years is crazy when you’re in your 30’s if you want to have kids and get married. He had already been married and has a child.. he is comfortable! Probably a roomate paying 50 percent as well. He was trying to get her to realize that she must have low self-esteem to stay in something like this, waiting and hoping for a man to change his mind. I feel like they argued that night at home but she still probably chose to keep staying in that dead end relationship because they live together.
This clearly Shows that a Master’s or even PhD in liberal arts means absolutely nothing. My bachelors in Mechanical Engineering is worth 10x more than a PhD. I love it.
There is NO ONE who can listen to someone speak and read a situation so perfectly. His questions are spot on, direct and holds people accountable. He calls out bullshit when he hears it and does his best to make people see common sense when they are blind.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central LA_ Salute to the Godfather ✊🏾 The delusion is REAL ! 🤯 Faaaar too many modern women feel that being a wife is more responsibility than being a mother. Their priorities are completely backwards. Behbeh mumma over bride ! Smh. Rest easy KS 🙏🏾 You are appreciated. 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
Kevin I would love to hear your assessment of Fani Willis. You were so wise and way ahead of your time . A bad disposition has been the downfall of too many women! We need more people like you to set the record straight! Rest in Paradise Kevin 🙏🙏🙏
This was a good one! When she thought she had it all figured out he completely shattered her glass fantasy. That’s why I like constructive criticism, dialogue and feedback so I can hear and see things from a different perspective than my own. I hope she really did think long and hard about this conversation. On the flip side her dude probably mad 😂😂
Kevin is so right!! I wasted 30 years of my life loving a man, who I thought loved me. I was wrong. I was mad at him for a long time. Until I sat down one day and looked at the situation honestly. When I did that, I saw that it was own damned fault. Red flags were being thrown all around me for 30 years. I always believed love would prevail in the end. I was wrong.
Show and interviews were so revealing of what the underlying problems in dating and modern relationships. For one, not realizing when you devote your early years to education and career you are sacrificing your "marrying years". Those who devote their time to work usually end up with failing marriages. Go and check the divorce rates for professions where people have to work long hours like healthcare workers, administrative roles, etc; you'll see they have some of the highest divorce rates .
"Marriage would be the best thing for the kid." This really needed the man to weigh in on this subject to vet what this woman's saying and to give some perspective from his side. Marriage is best for the kid that doesn't even exist. There's no guarantee this woman will be able to even fall pregnant. Then where does that leave this man? Unlike the kid, man does exist and he already has a kid of his own. I'm sure this man's reluctance and hesitation is warranted, and I'm sure this woman was on her best behavior talking to The Godfather.
I've noticed that too. I think that's why a lot of women who call the show don't answer his questions directly because they know if they did they would sound stupid as hell, so they try to frame their answers so they don't sound dumb.
Many women thinks having a child with a man will force men to consider marriage, which is not the case. If the man doesn’t want to get married, leave him.
"marriage means something" ❤ In the end, it's only GOD'S opinion on my status that matters. Come judgment day, He has the last WORD. The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom. Obedience is better than sacrifice. Jesus Christ is LORD! It's better to be single and a servant of Christ than to suffer unequally yoked with narcissistic wolves. Peace and blessing. HALLELUYAH
That flash of her pic was slick and showed us what he was dealing with. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 She couldn't find anyone else. A lot of her decisions were based on what I saw. Yikes!
This is why i never understood women's disdain for Mr. Samuels. Who is he helping and protecting here? He wasn't just on men's side. He was on the community's side. If this young lady just listened along with a lot of the other women, he may still be here today. He literally gave his life for the community's future by explaining on repeat the solution to those who refuse to listen. He's a true hero, and his work lives on.
And this is exactly why that cute little phrase y’all love so much “stay out of women’s business” is so foolish. Your single homegirls encourage your foolishness, a man will tell you the harsh reality.
Jenkins ~ ~ Yes she is a little rough looking. Looks to me she does not put much effort into herself. I think she COULD be quite attractive if she made herself neat. And fixed her hair just a bit because I like it since it is natural. And wear some lipstick and be clean and just showered. She appears slender to me so I like that a lot. Her clothing looks like that of a boy about to paint the house. She does not look feminine one bit. In my opinion. In general she appears to me. She looks to me like she does not care about herself and her image and the effect she has when meeting other people. She maybe has no self-esteem or low. Maybe she thinks she can never be pretty. Maybe others have said mean things to her. And Kevin would get exasperated with them sometimes because they often came to his show looking like french toast trailer park trash.
Man did this age beautifully. Lol smh It’s basically something any strong black male father would tell their daughter out of love and firmness. Problem is there aren’t too many of those and we’re seeing the byproduct coming from said daughters.
All of the advice that he is giving is the same that would come from a loving father. Many of these women disregard the wisdom of parental guidance. Sadly 😥 some have had foolish immature parents 😒 who didn't even have the wisdom to pass down to them, and they sat back at home learning the wrong thing to do in relationships. In any event thank God for Kevin and RU-vid so young women can get the advice, truth, and wisdom that they didn't or couldn't get from their fathers!❤
