Yes, it is sucks my dear friend, and this is exactly why you’re educating yourself to make it suck less. Right now you have the right amount of energy and time to heal so take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this! Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
The capacity to love means you have a healthy brain that is able to create attachments and teams. For this person, don't try to kill the love, but just love from afar. They are too toxic for you to love beside them. They will slowly break you down, and it's not worth it, know your boundaries, it's your job to protect yourself. I won't obsess about you more I watch flies dance on the floor I can love you without talking Without knowing, without stalking I haven't heard of you for weeks Still it doesn't change a thing
I’m sorry to hear that… I feel you my friend! Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this! Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
Im only starting to feel the ease of the pain in my heart after 5 months. I didnt see the breakups comming . We wrte 08 years together .he was the most beautiful kind giving generous man i ever knew. .we has a pure soul connection . I still have lots of love for him but the heartache is easing I see a lot of my own contribution during these monts of reflection ❤ ❤❤
i prey and hope you are right in everything you saying, curse holy shit it hurt when you still love them, and they jump into a new relationship.. rebound or not, you can never be 100% sure i feel like.. but thanks for your wisdom friend. :)
For sure, my dear friend thank you for watching. I’m always here for you so please let me know if you have any question or video suggestions sending love and healing to your heart. 🙏🏽🤍
After careful consideration, l have decided to follow your advice to not focus on getting my ex back, but instead concentrate on moving on and completely healing. Could you please do a video on healing. Thanks for all your work.
I have made many videos on healing in my channel but I’ll make more for you! In the meantime check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
6 years together and he has a new gf after 3 weeks. Couldn’t even breakup in person it was through a text and he said “he’s happy.” In gonna be 31 single w no kids and he’s happy in another relationship. This is an unbearable pain.
I noticed when I step back and watch my and others break ups when they end by betrayal I see the patterns he is discussing and this person will go on and on in this same pattern.I have seen it over and over again
I have yo agree I thought the pain in my heart would never heal, I lost a half stone in weight could not sleep .eat or think It's possible to die of a broken heart . You have to heal and build your self confidence
When someone dumps you the best thing to do is arrange to meet them the day after. If they cancel or make up excuses then you can dump the dumper. If you are a gay male the person who gets into a rebound relationship has a 70 percent chance the rebound victim will send your ex back to you and a 20 percent chance your ex will return.
I hope my ex returns to me from her rebound. She was my first actual love, and if you know anything about men, we never forget our first love. If she doesn't come back I'm staying single forever because it's unfair for a woman to marry me while i still love my ex. Even if she's okay with it, my integrity just wouldn't let me. I'm praying to god everyday she returns. 💔
@@golf1diesel i know. I think i accepted my fate and I'm staying single. I don't want to go through this pain anymore. I'm just going to focus on myself
Hey man any updates 3 weeks later? I’m just starting the cycle rn I will love her forever but I’m disgusted w her actions I have too much dignity to take her back ever again. There are plenty and plenty of women out there. Find one that makes u work for the kitty, because that is someone who values themself which will make them value you too❤️
I feel you my friend! Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this! Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
I was in a relaionship for 5 years, he lied and said he just wanted space and move out. Then cllicked and got him to admit he was in a relaionship and cheating. He loved bombed me. Told me he loved me, then broke up. Begging to be friends. I was in shock. I lost 2 half stone in a month and a half. I am in no contact .he is 40 and he went with a 25 year old. My heart was broken. Still messages me now, asking how i am.do these age gap relationships last?
My heart bleeds for you hearing this. I've been in similar pain before. It is awful but I promise over time it will get better. YOU CAN DO BETTER THAN THIS GUY. Try to reconnect as much as possible with good friends. Lean on them if you need to. Try to eat something filling even if bland a couple of times a day to start with. I ate oatmeal/porridge every day for a month. Try to do some meditation and focus your attention on tasks/work. But ease into these things and you will get there. I educated myself on attachment styles and my own anxious style, of low self worth and still am today, so that next time someone that is healthy for me appears. You deserve better, love! ❤
It was during covid I want to save money she want to spend money I said this isn't going to work out after I just spent $1,500 on a cat. I worked on myself internally when I bike rides worked out increased my income she she was in a relationship by the time December 2020 rolled around. We broke up in May of 2020.
Do not worry about it , go on your own , it is all it matters! As soon as you start to realise they are gone forever , as soon as you will start again.
@@PazGoldmanOfficial I just want to know in general. How do we actually know if that relationship is a rebound or actually a new relationship, And yes, my ex has a new partner after only 2 months. We wer together for 3.4 years/months and the last 6 months, living together. They are all over social media and my ex even blocked me from everything after seeing their picture on FB. Thanks for responding Paz!
