So true.... once you've met the devil, it becomes really annoying how many fucktarded people he has in his marionette strings... Which is pretty much everyone.. It's annoying and doesn't give any incentive to give a shit about humans anymore. Im looking forward to living alone with my Burmese python and soon to be Green anaconda. I feel safer in the company of real, giant, dangerous snakes... They can't do what narcs do. I trust snakes over this fucked up species... Peace
One night the ex husband narc was in my face scolding and intimidating. I said to him “the Lord rebuke thee satan”. His head went backwards just like I punched him physically! He the replied in a small and child like voice “I am not satan”. I used this on another bully narc and he stopped in his tracks. I am a believer and not sure if it works for people without faith. Do not rebuke satan in your own name but that of the Lord.
Yes! Back when I learned about rebuking the devils in the Name of Jesus, I was receiving obscene phone calls that were quite disturbing! No caller I.D. back then. One night I hollered, “Devil Come OUT of him in Jesus Name!!” He hung up. No more phone calls! Praise God! Narcs don’t like it if you talk about Jesus. So be like, “Jesus this, and Jesus that.. Jesus Jesus!!” I love Jesus! ❤️ They don’t like the TRUTH! They avoid you. It’s Gods Deliverance from Evil! The Name of Jesus is a Christians Weapon! Plead the Blood of Jesus! They hate that! 😂 Praise Jesus! ❤️
thanks paula valuble imformation especialy for those just becoming aware of the dynamics i liked the analogy of the sword and sheild. if poor gabby had this info she would still be alive
Narcopaths I call them or Robopaths Programmed in inly one Destructive destroying path why they're so predictable all the same it's a one Program fits all Robots
I think it is so hard for other people to see that someone so “nice, friendly and charming” could be wearing a mask that hides someone who lies and abuses. These narcs are so good at conning people.
It is hard to believe if you haven't lived it. It is so foreign to a human being. It takes a while to realize there is something so wrong. Thank you for touching our hearts with your messages. It is wonderful to be healing from all the craziness that a narc brings around.
I have a grown son with special needs and I can't begin to tell how many times I've had to deal with attention seeking sickening saviour and victim of their victims gaslighting, workers in the mental health care industry! I can't believe how many of these sick saviours God complex predators are drawn to working with the vulnerable!
SuperBike Racer - yes is it is true! covert narcissists get themselves into positions where you need them! they always the play the role of someone 'who would never hurt anyone'! they always get themselves into the savior role! why do they get pleasure in hurting vulnerable people? people with empathy and common sense would see that as cowardice and absurd behavior, but they love it! that is why i believe that covert narcissists are nothing less than demonic! they are of a 'spirit' that is evil!
@@DrewNorton3712 thank you, you worded that so well, it's something I've pondered often, it's scary to think that someone would look for employment where they can do the most damage.
@@SuperBikeRacer7 - i have experienced it growing up at home, when i joined the Navy and when i sought counseling for all that i have been through, and so have many other people! i have been following covert narcissistic abuse RU-vid channels for about four years! the more you live and learn you will see it play out more and more in your life! it is very real and most of these covert narcissists have the same traits! as many youtubers say 'they use the same playbook!' i know the pain and confusion covert narcissists can cause in people's lives! when we share our stories it is very reassuring and helpful so next time we experience it it is not as shocking to us! so yes sharing our experiences can make a huge difference for or us and other people who experience it! your comment helped me alot also!
My sick narc who stole my children went directly from a 20 year psyche disability while married to me to a Guardian Ad Litem in the Texas courts. Satan doesnt follow any rules and he helps evil narcs exploit and infiltrate systems for easy access to people who need help and illusions of noble intent, hiding behind titles and positions.
Distance and no contact gives you access to understanding their playbook. When the fog clears....they are so predictable and they become boring.... yawn......good riddance to bad rubbish 😘🙏🏽👏🏽👍🏽
Yes, distance and no contact. As time goes on you see clearer. I'm no contact for a year and I'm still like Wow. I'm shocked at the things that were done to manipulate me. Good riddance, or no i don't wish Good riddance, just stay away from me!
Once I figured her out... I flipped my script to an OBSERVE & REPORT attitude... collected evidence whilst divesting my life's work and accomplishments... complete destruction of the past... that's how bad it can be folks... I'll never see her again...because I'm not going to hell...but she is... and she hates the heat... the battle is real...
Yes,distance is the key word here. You can go back in your mind and picture this. While still remembering the good memories you held dear, just blink your eyes while you are gentle on yourself, and it will come to you. The narc/s were beside you but eventually was/were distant and as misery,disdain,secretive pit stops,disgust was the trail they left 👣👣👣......as the bigger picture was unfolding always right before your 👀 's. It's something like a coloring book,you hand to a very young child and they can't help but scribble allll over,going outside the lines. But when looked at, you are still thrilled and will compliment the efforts for genuinely trying as they colored the picture. We on the other hand , color the picture,take our time,stay in the lines,use appropriate colors to create a colored fill picture. So,narc/s.....do have a playbook and the book may be thick but as you reflect there is really nothing on the pages but scribbles of misery,distain,disorder,dysfunction to ruin the bigger picture. Especially the one you were in with them. Color your life with the beauty and all that makes you, YOU....and it will be a canvas of love,peace and happiness
Yep, I read some amazing quotes recently, one being, "I lost myself trying to please everyone. Now I'm losing everyone as I find myself." And in my opinion, it can be a beautiful time of self growth, because you have less distraction, to come to terms with & grow from there. A few others I love just recently are, "My love is unconditional. My trust, & my respect are not." Another, "I cannot compromise my respect for your Love.. {or fake love}. You can keep your love, I will keep my respect." :)) 100%
@@tracieratliff2672 sure is a time of self growth Tracie. Sometimes people think im a bit harsh,opinionated,etc. one of krishna murti quotes is "Its no sign of mental wellbeing to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick world" Takes a while to learn discernment when we know what were up against. Thanks for sharing.
@@stephenrandall484 Hi, looks like part of my post didn't go through -- yeah, actually my sister & I (she's passed now) used to talk about that exact point, she mentioned in a world that has so many problems {not her exact words} if your well adjusted in a world like that, it's not necessarily a good sign, it makes more sense if your not exactly doing so great in a world with so much problems, neurosis, etc.{conversation so long ago, I'm not verbalizing it well--- she mentioned how a young group that was having some real problems being well-adjusted with all the problems in society {violence, deceiving people, etc) they were taken out to spend a certain span of time just living off the land & out in nature, & after, they found them flourishing & so healthy, in mind, body, & soul... I guess the quote I recently saw that wasn't finished on my post above is, "My love is unconditional. My trust, & my respect are not." We don't need to apologize or feel bad if we have kind, good hearts... we but we do have to start to say, "No, this is My boundary, If you cross over into it this far {disrespect} I will walk away." Another I saw recently was, "I cannot compromise my respect for your love {or fake Narc love here}..You can keep your Love. I will keep my respect."~ :)
@@tracieratliff2672 Yes Tracie, your posts came in full. Another thing re, "respect" passes for a platitude in many situations. The word comes from the latin. Spectare" Re.means to do again. and spectare means" to look" Its where we get the word spectacle or spectator. If people respected one another as a constant.then the change that occurs to the individual over time would evidence a more meaningful understanding for both parties. especialy in a marriage for eg. At least thats how i see it .thanks for replying.
Hosea 4:6 Gods children parish or are in chains, bondage due to lack of knowledge. Ephesians chapter 6 talks about an armor that God gave to his children (which we are all his children). The sword is what we use in battle, which is the word of God. Basically guys, we need to know the word of God because also in Ephesians chapter 6 it talks about us fighting between principalities, demonic spirits in high places. This battle is not between flesh and blood but I demonic entities that find vessels in humans to bring other humans down. 🗡🛡🙏🏼 God bless us all! We’re in a war Narcissist are in our parents, siblings, children, bosses, spouses.. it’s a spirit! It a stronghold
This is why you MUST turn on the narcissist, SUDDENLY, and without warning; stab them in the back, turn onnthem, don't be silent, tell what they did, leave them alone. Many say don't mirror the narcissist, but I respectfully disagree. I believe that you don't have to mirror their actions in a tit for tat kind of way, however, I do believe you must mirror their coldness towards you, their unloyalty towards you. They will then leave you alone because the predator has now become the prey.
I never suggested rolling in the mud with them. The coldest thing that you can do to a narcissist is to behave like they no longer exist; not in a pretentious sort of a way, but in a real way, like someone who has passed away...and no matter what they say to you, don't say a word.
@Southern PrideUK Nope. Backstabbing to a narcissist means no longer playing their game and telling the Truth about what you experienced with them: no more covering or trying to save their reputation. My mother is a malignant narcissist; I have learned a few things about how to deal with them, in the worst way, unfortunately.
Not sure how right this is for everyone, but I did it and I'm an extremely sensitive person. Can't watch a Hallmark Card commercial without crying, so it wasn't easy to go grey rock. I set up the plan and once I committed my heart I put the hammer down and left him over the holidays. Cold as ice. I'm in survival mode now and so he can say what he wants about 'ghosting' or how open to communication he's been and it doesn't matter. I texted for one day to let him know why and then went no contact for six weeks until I had to arrange a move out, so I got the 'you betrayed me' screed, but I don't care. To everyone he's managed to turn into a flying monkey I look like the villian, but so what? The mission was accomplished and I'm free. And yes, Praise God for giving me the courage. I've been praying everyday for strength. Good luck to everyone dealing with this situation. Above all, stay safe!
This is exactly what they do. This is exactly right on point the perfect description of them and what they do. I love the analogy of the shield and sword. Once you have them, you are untouchable. And as you keep exposing the demons over and over again, they break like a little twig right before your eyes and you realize how weak they really are. Its amazing to watch, it really is. They are not human like us. I couldn’t agree more. Thats why i always have my Holy Water Ms. Narc Con. I was thinking of putting it in a spray bottle so i have a wider reach with it! Lol! Have a great day!!
Excellent, excellent once again Narc con. You have a wonderful library of vital information on narcissistic abuse. Everything you teach here is excellent. We are all trying our best to heal and come out of this ok.
Its very difficult trying to explain narcissism and the implications that come with it especially the spiritual warfare aspect of it to others. Some people can be so black n white and can't see or chose not to see the in- between. Honestly pages like these are my only outlets. None of my family nor friends understand the gangstalking I've received or the gaslighting, devaluing or discarding unless their educated on NPD. And yes i agree that this is definitely a spiritual attack on the chosen ones. Sadly most people turn a blind eye to it 😔
The evil that is behind a narcissist is after your soul, there are 3 parts to your soul #1 your emotions #2 your mind #3 your will, all these the narcissist will ripe out of you over time, your soul is one of the most priceless things you have that's why Christ died for you and Satan wants it, I have experienced what a narcissist can do..
Logical thinking must eventually override our emotional thinking. It's not impossible because I did it. I was still trauma-bonded & I stopped reacting. It was like an experiment- & I saw her get more & more desperate with her hoover attempts. I saw her become depleted, physically & mentally. I knew then that I had the power- God's power. And somehow, unconsciously, she knew I was the one playing her (which was never my intent). She eventually went into hiding like a hermit. We both knew I won a game I had no idea I was playing. I commanded respect again- . thanks to this channel & ones on NPD. I hang onto this fact every day. A lot of time has passed and I'm still hurt- even though I was blessed to learn about NPD during the idealization phase. I put up some healthy boundaries & in came the smear campaign & slander. That sealed the deal for me. I never gave her an ounce of attention after that. I saw through her- literally. I'm still cutting strings from the trauma-bond but was able to ignore all hoover attempts- & there were several- coupled with stalking. You guys, I got my dignity back when I cut of my supply to the narc- if I could do it, anyone can. One of my biggest fears was knowing that she would leave if I didn't give into her hoovers- but I believed what you said- logically. I knew she would never be happy- she was miserable when I met her. I'm at the turning point in my life where I can accept this fact and create a wonderful life for my Self & those who appreciate me for who I am. ❤
@@NarcCon Your gift from the Holy Spirit has inspired me. I Always look forward to your videos. They've save my ass on many occasion. Love responds to Love alone ❤. 2021 we're bustin' out of our shells with confidence as the rightful heirs to the kingdom of God. Our validation was met by our Brother over 2000 years on Calvary. ✝
You spoke directly to me and my situation. The narcissist provokes in secret over long period then exploits our reaction. Thank you for your videos and your work.
That is what usually happends 1 comes out an Empath' the other one Narc, the bully the golden child in my case too, Us Empaths' choose the good path, and they choose evil, God is with us yeah always'🛡👏 "Observe, dont obsorb response dont react! And please Ignore all the rude disrespectful comments that these people leave in your comments they come around and attack us through these channels too Ive noticed that and alot of people have too, Yes we heal through God, the knowledge here that we learn, Thank Ú Much I feel and understand yoú all the way! HAPPY HOLIDAYS' WE STILL HAVE NEW YEARS' TO GO! HUGGS ❌⭕❌⭕ Excellent Video On Point! Like Always♥✨
Amazing enough, my ex narc wasn't a believer....and now it make even more sense, because in this way they don't need to be face with accountability if the don't believe in God.
My ex narc was the opposite,, he prayed at mealtime,, recited scriptures,, tithed the church big money,,, holier than thou ,,, and the biggest hypocrite you ever seen
When I was 9 y/o, following some pretty serious abuse, I got a visitation from an entity that seemed like it was sent to protect me, but I knew something was wrong. I screamed and my dad rushed into my room. Looking back, I would say it was a familiar spirit taking advantage of my vulnerability to recruit me. Glad I rejected it.
The lord bless you and keep you he makes his face to shine upon you and he is gracious to you he lifts up his countenance upon you and he gives you his beloved his PEACE 🌈🌈JESUS loves you 🌈🌈
You have mastered and conquered this unbelievably complex life issue and explain it so perfectly..You are a shining diamond of humanity..A true Super Empath..A HEYOKA SPIRIT...X
I told the Narc that he needed to work on himself and his mental health, his reaction was that I was thinking of myself like usual. I told him "I knew you would say that too bad for you I know what the love of Jesus is and stand on His truth!" 1 John 1:5 God is light and in Him there is no darkness at all....he changed his attitude so quickly like changing a shirt.
Well said. The shield of the knowledge! The knowlegde is that we are great and have excellent coping skills to handle well we set our mind to! Our value is sky high! What a healing video!
I can’t believe how spot on all of this info is. Your videos have described my experience completely. It definitely feels like a spiritual war and I really want to hate them for what they’ve done, but I can’t help but see the broken child inside of their eyes and that’s made walking away the hardest part for me. Thank you so much for all of this info. It is incredibly empowering to know I’m not alone. 🙏🙏🙏
My narc husband of 38 years used to drive me to a rage and video tape my rage to show it to our kids. Our kids, now adults, never saw what he did to push me. They only saw my raw reaction. I did not know what was happening. I did not know he was a narcissist. Now I know but I don’t know how to prove to our kids that I was reacting to his manipulations. He made them believe that I am the one with emotional problems and that he is my savior. 😢
As long as emotions drive us rather than we drive our emotions, narcissists have power over us and we can't truly enjoy our emotions. To become emotional mature is what matters.
I like your material so much. The spiritual aspect is so refreshing, too. Wish you had a type of blog/forum where us survivors could befriend and support one another 🙏
My sword is the word of God. I have used this sword and their response is silence. They have nothing to say to God's cutting. God tells us to be at peace with all men as much as is possible for you. God gives us a way out of these difficult situations. He gives us permission to resist these demons and we do not have to talk to them. I have removed myself from family even at times for several years to save my immediate family and sanity. God is good. He cares for these people but does not demand we be punching bags. He told me to go back and reopen the relationship after a time and they are starting up again after some years but I finally realized their narcissism. Yes there are demons involved. We wrestle not with flesh and blood but with demons these people have. We overcome by the power of God's might. In Jesus name! It is an ongoing process of learning and loving as well as trusting God to keep us and guide us through protected and to heal our minds. Just follow him even if it means separating from these people.
Yes . I ended it after he discarded. Moved out. He sunk away from me when he could tell I knew what was going on. Now I just want my stuff back he’s holding hostage .
When I got worked up, most often by them, I'd spot that smirk & get even more triggered.. Grey rock, no contact & distance, flips the script & brings you peace & healing
I'm not convinced that they make a conscious choice...I view it as more of a possession. Regardless, there is definitely a demonic/evil component. It's almost impossible to explain to someone who hasn't experienced it, but those black eyes and the delight when they see that you're suffering isn't explainable any other way.
Grey rock, no emotional reaction to the narcissist drama, trauma and chaos, ignore them, keep the emotions to ourselves. Let us not give evil any emotional reactions. Thank you Pola❤
If you believe in good, then you have to believe in evil too. In a way, just saying that these people have a disorder lets them off the hook. It’s another way of saying that these predators aren’t responsible. I believe that we all make choices in life and they certainly make theirs. I’ve seen the frightening face of evil in my mother and brother. When I was little, my mother’s face would twist and she would pinch my arm very hard and tell me that pinching causes cancer. I was terrified. She got lung cancer when I was in my 20’s and asked me why she was dying and I wasn’t. I thought, my God, even a bear would throw herself in front of a car to save her cub but not my mother.
"If they can not get the emotional reaction they need to survive...they will leave you alone." Very true statement. Not to say they won't test the waters again if given an opportunity.
Synergy it’s only word I can use to describe today the last couple days actually. My experience with a narcissist is minimum and I was not abused not by a narcissist but because this was recently brought to me I had to get a crash course I didn’t even know what the word meant until four or five months ago But like most things in life once you shine light upon them they quickly disappear when they come from the dark and you’re so right if you got a good soul you’re not gonna behave like this no matter your upbringing no matter your hardship it doesn’t make you evil same can be said for those who had a perfect childhood and still exhibit evil behavior it’s inside you it’s in your soul why do you choose to call it evil bad whatever it’s just another name for someone that has Something in them that they should not stay strong keep your chin up and together will shine a light on these individuals and they will scamper away like cockroaches
Excellent presentation, Paula. Plenty of memorable quotes, including this: "The sword 🗡️ of emotional indifference [ataraxia in the Greek philosophy of the Stoics] and the shield 🛡️ of your knowledge."
Great to find an Irish channel. I have been through a spiritual awakening. I have danced with the devil, I saw the démon in his eyes. He tried to destroy me and my beautiful family. I have a book in me describing the craziness of the experience. Despite thinking I was losing my mind and suffering a myriad of emotions and confusion and making so many mistakes along the way , I know I am one of the luckier ones as I am a capable, financial independent and an educated and empathic woman. I don't rely on him rather he was the parasite, mooching off of me. I have three beautiful children with this monster but I have plenty of leverage. I am getting stronger every day and I am closer to going no contact. I would love to talk to you about the where the land lies in Ireland in the court system if it comes to it regarding the children and also counselling for the children. Thank you for your work.
Hi Brenda 🙋♀️..your so welcome here..I have some experience of the Irish court system from personal experience..glad your in a good place now or getting there..my email is narcscon@gmail.com
I follow several experts talking on narcissism both in English and Spanish. But your focus (same as Paula Gonzalez from Republica Dominicana) is soooo interesting because it's not only psychological but spiritual which I strongly believe. Thank you again!
Hi I totally love you’re content. You explained that so well. Totally resonated with what was going on . A Hugh thank you . Looking forward to more videos
Brilliant Brilliant, thank you so much for explaining it so well, this is what I so wanted and needed. The trouble with some people when you try and explain whats happening they think your going a little nuts!!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
God bless you for all your videos. My Narc was making my life a living hell. I felt broken an lost. I cried out to God to help me, I wanted to understand what I was dealing with because my Narc was trying to keep me in a state of confusion. God allowed me to discover he was cheating on me an my heart broke. I had to go get tested for STDS just to make sure he hadn't exposed me to anything. He had already put me through so much. But once I excepted he wasn't who he pretend to be I got a little stronger an when I felt weak or was hurting I asked God for strength. I learned not to engage in his word salad/stupidity to get me sucked back in. I was a housewife for years and he had total control of everything. Last month God blessed me to find a job and God has continued to bless me. I'm secretly making plans for I an our son to leave an every day we're one step closer to that becoming a reality.🙏🤗
I found methods to keep my peace on my healing journey. And with the gift of time forgiveness start to creep in. Thank you so much for your support and knowledge. Wishing all a Happy New Year💐
The Evil Sarcasm that I had experienced from a Narcissist was in the beginning very emotional triggers.& pain. When I got the knowledge of this spiritual disordered creature. I began to self regulate and be Aware of spiritual warfare.. SARCASM IS A GREEK WORD MEANING, TO TEAR FLESH. HMM INTERESTING. 🕊🙏🕊
The most powerful tool is to break the soul tie with toxic narcissistic strangers ("people"), correct? God can break the soul tie. The Devil (toxic narcissistic strangers) can't do anything about it. Amen
Thank you thank you thank you...My practice begins NOW..I needed to hear this and it is absolutely the truth...I thank God for your healing advice /healing..Bless you
Evil...LIVES...it has a 'pulse' and a 'purpose' and 'sticking yer head in the sand'...is NOT...the best way to 'handle' it...imho. 'Possession' is a REALITY...look around...imho, it's right throughout the 'control structures'...of this 'world'. That is, unless, like 'wee me'...you've always SEEN that evil...since infancy...'in yer face' and 'greedily grasping' at...'anything that moves'. We are already 'armed to the teeth'...with FAITH...but imho 'almost all religion' (which is a business)...has 'dulled our blades'. Sharpen up people...this battle is REAL!!!
