End of Life Readings 

Stumbled on this, and it is so real and true, I have secondary breast cancer and there’s no cure but we are managing this diagnosis lifestyle is everything and live your best life people 🙏💕🙏💕 faith and positivity and gratitude is everything 🙏

I work at an assisted living facility and try to bring them as much joy as possible. I take them out shopping, bowling, i taught them rummy this week. I let them order Margaritas at the restaurant and when we do karaoke i listen to the house of the rising sun one of their favorites. And I always joke with them Im not grown enough to hang out with them! Lol. A 91 year old told me this week she watched the fish for an hour. "Why?" I asked. Her response " I just noticed for the first time in my life they were having sex. So i watched them have sex for an hour. And then when their done they make a fish face..." lmbo. I tell you Im not grown enough for these ladies. On the opposite side of this.... I sit with lots of them while they transition. I touch them and rub their hands and arms. And do energy work (in my mind) on them. Its really weird but I really enjoy being their for them and the families during this time. Just giving that last bit of love to them is amazing. ❤

I'm a Hospice RN and some of my best, most real, raw, powerful and positive relationships are with my patients and their families.

The first thing I think about when to talk about someone dying, "let them have tequila" is my Uncle. My Aunt and Uncle lived next door. They were like my second set of parents. More times than not they WERE my parents. They came from a place of Love. There was no judging. So when he finally went to the doctor he already knew it was cancer. They convinced him to do the chemo and radiation. This was a man that had drank a beer every day in his life. After the chemo, beer never tasted the same. I felt like this thing he did every day and enjoyed was stolen from him. It was the same for my Father, he loved smoking a cigar. When they found the cancer it had already spread. I wished that he would not do chemo but he was a Great Fighter and felt that he was in that 1% that could beat it. He stopped smoking his cigars and went into treatment. Of course what it gave him was a year and a half of sickness and hell. I wished often that he had just continued on with his life and enjoyed it. Sitting on his back porch smoking a cigar and watching the river flow by. At his funeral I put a couple cigars in his pocket forgetting the lighter so I'm sure he is still asking for a light. He visited me 3 times after his death. Each time he seemed a little more at peace. The last time he was actually laughing so knew he was finally happy. So yes, if they had a couple drinks or smoked a cigar let them have those things. What else do they have but our Love ???

"Get off the social media". Before my stepdad passed away I was always on FB. When he passed on, social media no longer seemed important.

🥰 I worked in a US government run nursing home (totally _not_ the best option for your loved ones, btw 😪) and one of my fav residents was Jack. He was 62 and wheelchair bound with a terminal illness. He had such a positive vibe and had a joke ready for any occassion, always making me smile. He would smell us employees coming in from a smoke break and lament how much he missed "a cold bud and a ciggy". One day I took him outside and gave him one of my cigarettes (apologizing that I couldn't supply the Budweiser too) and he was the happiest I'd seen him in months. Two weeks later his illiness took him home and though I missed his presence, I'm just thankful I could be one of the last moments of his freedom of choice while on this Earth. I imagine him now, younger and dancing at a sock hop in his Navy uniform, a Budweiser in one hand and a pretty gal on the other. 😊

OMG! I LOVE YOU ALLISON! "I turn on Facebook and people are just griping and complaining about just stupid shit!"

Thank you. I'm 79. Not afraid of dying but scared of living. Very little finances, Not much to look forward to. Feel so worthless.

This video is so good. It’s raining here in Ireland (shocker! 😂) but im going for a walk..as she said, even if it’s raining, you’re alive, at least you get to experience it. Love it ❤️

This was beautiful..I'm old too(Lol) my story is much the same as the 82 yes old..I just lost my last if my three brothers..he had terminal cancer..he decided to choose the time he left..I have children..grandchildren..great great grandchildren..I love them dearly..he left this earth early Easter morning..I can't seem to heal my loss..I asked him to take me with him..he said you need to finish here..Randy had absolutely no fear of death..he had spent the last month of his life saying goodbye..I still want to go with him..part of me feels bad for this..well thank you for listening..

OMG. I just got home from visiting my moms lock down dementia center. She was a strong confident in charge woman before this disease. I cry all the way home each and every time knowing she doesn’t understand why we lock her away. I too take pastries and pass them out. I too think they need a margarita or wine dispenser in each wing and wish they would allow them all the CBD they need to cope with this horrible disease. I fix faces and hair while I’m there. A little blush a French braid does wonders for their disposition usually. Thank you for this little video. You made me feel like I’m doing the best we can in this life. I am a subscriber.

" We come back in as we leave off". I have always believed in that death was never a end but the beginning.

Totally needed to hear this! It touched my heart and soul, taught me a lot as well. Eased my mind about passing. Thank you 🙏

Love the idea of margarita's in all the elderly home, but you're so right they should be able to have fun and do what they love whatever it is at that age. I care for my grandparents that have dementia they are 90 and I feel blessed to have this time with them before they pass even if they don't remember me now I know they will again one day. Thankyou for sharing❤

This was exactly what not only I as a Stage IV terminal cancer patient needed to hear but also for the living to understand being more at ease with death and dying. Allison you were so on point with people don't want to be around death I thank you for explaining that🙏 it's hard to adjust to. Appritiate and validate life and your loved ones today for tomorrow is not promised to anyone. After all life is terminal. Many blessings Tom and Allison Thank You So Much🙏💌

This was so very much needed. People need to wake up and realize what's going on around them, concerning their loved ones in hospice, and in our nursing homes. Give them that last fantastic meal! Right on Allison!! Thank you again! Strong Message! !! Me and my mother for a short time...only. All we need is hope. And for that, we have each other. Thanks again :)

Allison I watched another of your posts, where you said 'Don't think of it as another day away from the person who passed, but another day nearer to seeing them again'. This helped me so much, as I miss my best beloved husband Philip, who died 2 years ago on the 6th of this month.. I talk to him every night and tell him what I've been upto during the day, always tell him 'I Love and Miss him' and hope he and all the other 'Above the Cloud Angels I have' are waiting for me and will come get me when it's my turn to leave this mortal plain.. You also said here that we are here to 'learn' and change something from a past life, that we haven't learned yet.. I wonder, in a previous life, if I were dismissive or cruel, as I have lost my Grandparents, Parents, Husband, my Sister and our Son... So maybe a life lesson I have here is 'empathy' to either teach it or give it and my time freely to others.. Best wishes to you from Wales UK..

“Make this run a good one” yes thank you for the pep talk towards the end. 👍

Oh I just love you Allison! You are Such a phenomenal woman with such a sweetheart of a personality! And I adore your humor 😂 “Give em’ tequila they’re dying anyway” Sooooo much what you said and everything in between! I was into nursing before I got Crohn’s disease & Multiple Sclerosis, and the best few years of my career were the ones I spent in a nursing home 🙌🏼💯♥️ The stories that I got to hear and the people I got to know & love were such the biggest blessings! A patient on “my hall” in particular that I absolutely adored and it reminded me of what you said here (about the above referenced tequila) He was dying of terminal lung cancer. His daughters wouldn’t allow him to continue to smoke, so would not provide cigarettes for him 😢 He would always be out on one of the patios where the employees would go to have a smoke break, etc. and I have to admit I’m among the few of us working there that are guilty of giving him cigarettes 😝💯🙌🏼♥️ Like what the hell hes dying anyway, LET him smoke!! ♥️🙌🏼💯😍

Thank you for your comment about allowing the elderly in nursing homes to have fun, to have drinks, etc. I worked with the elderly for nearly 30 years and I agree with you 100%.

The love the two of you exude is so amazing. I don’t know if you realize how much comfort you bring to everyone. I thank you both 💙

Thanks, ya'll! When I was by the side of my first late husband (I've had 2!) when he died, it was wonderful. I told him he could go, and that I would be okay. And he left. I felt him lift up & go to Heaven! I haven't been around any of the other people that have died in my life, but I would recommend it to those who can. It's very rewarding to help them pass.

Very interesting. I came here breach birth, into a life with many sexual issues(abuse etc) aggressive and violence around me..only now, almost 60 and finally learnt to say no..and live the life I wanted to. What a difficult journey!

Allison is 100% on her views of convalescent facilities where a lot of our seniors end up. For a short time, I worked in one as a CNA. Long story short, I left that job and I never ever want to be in a long term care facility. Yes, let them eat and drink whatever they want. Whatever makes them happy is such the better way to go. I'd always ask my patients what music they loved to listen to and I'd make it happen for them, at least when I was in their room.

I’m crying just watching this, so powerful it all makes sense com3e on people let’s live! 💗⭐️💖

Thanks to both of you it makes sense, my 86 yr old mum just passed with dementia and breast cancer, and she loved and lived life, her passing was so peaceful, she seemed to just float away xxxx

We are pet crazy in Australia too. My pets are priceless souls!

Margaritas sound like a great way to go! Lol Love the idea of honouring our elders by providing them with an extraordinary and FUN life! By God they deserve it! We don’t do enough to celebrate our elders. I just love them and it makes my day to bring a smile to anyone’s face but especially those who are nearing the end of this life’s journey. They have been my greatest teachers. It’s not a coincidence that babies and the elderly go together! They are so much themselves, often so authentic at the fringes of life, beginning and end, alpha and omega, no wonder they adore each other!

Thank you Allison & Tom. It made me think to enjoy life. Today, was my last day at work before my retirement. It was actually not planned until this August but due to a toxic work environment, I gave my resignation & have to move on. There is so much in life that I missed because I kept working for 40 Years & missed some of those opportunities. Now, I will enjoy these moments & just be happy that I am still alive & healthy. I know that my guardian angel & spirit guide is with me always guiding me in to the right direction.

Perfect messages folks! Take it from the experienced. Make sure your loved one's have what they want and need on the last leg of their journey. Weather it be spirtual, or material. Thanks Allison!

I actually am a certified Continuing Care Assistant and you nailed it Tom, it is such a painful thing to watch everyday. Especially during the pandemic… poor souls. All I could do was love them and keep their dignity and respect their humanity. People need to come back to being patient and mindful

Great message and great energy, I just love you two together! I was lucky enough to be born into a family where visitations from those who've passed over wasn't unusual. This knowledge of an afterlife has brought me much comfort throughout my life. Every day we are just that much closer to being reunited...until then, to Quote Auntie Mame "Life's a banquet and most poor suckers are starving!"

I worked in nursing homes as an aide. I tried to give love and attention to my patients. Now, I look forward to joining my husband.

I just lost my 90 year old mom and your words helped so much. Thank you

There are so many more spirits of all those across the veil that hold you in their embrace and will ease your transition whenever that time may come. Until then, live your life as large as you can, and know you (and all of us) are eternal, loving spirits experiencing a brief earthly life.

Thanks guys. I'm not coming back either. So many other paths & adventures to take.

Oh my land Allison we are in total agreement ! I have chronic pain and when I see wrinkle commercials it drives me crazy! I would take wrinkles over pain any day! Have you ever touched on your thoughts making up your world with those who have crossed? I also believe bland diets for people whose taste buds are not working well is a crime. Every person should have the option of choosing how they want to live at their end of life. If they want to watch what they eat and get every second they can good for them! If they want to eat what they want and leave sooner good for them. It shouldn't be up to the Doctor or family or anyone else but the person.

Thank you so much for this video. My dear friend died of MND in her thirties and she knew she was going to die. She had a reading with Alison before she passed, and I have a photo of her and Alison . I never got to talk to her after the reading but It gives me such peace knowing that you helped her at such an incredibly difficult time. Thank you 💕

I love you Alison and your guest has got such a beautiful energy of love, compassion and sensitivity that emanates from him it is unreal :) it’s as if he was not from this world...You both are amazingly beautiful souls ❤️thank you for incarnating to help the humanity . It’s a gift to have you with us 🙏💐

Love your sense of humor, Allison - plus the nuggets of wisdom buried within it.

So happy your channel popped on. The information you share is so healing. Thank you 💕

I really understand what you mean, I don't know, but having to spend the last moments with my grandmother who was also my Mum( she adopted me), she was 95yrs, in my culture we have our love ones at home with us, when they die they are still with us for 3 days. I must say those minimal times I had with her, we're so beautiful, she would wander in her mind, to the other side and then back to us, and talk about her father, who she would see, and who was waiting for her, my mum also, conveyed messages from the other side as well, it was absolutely beautiful, and sad to hear these, I truly agree with you, about how this makes other people feel, but I felt Sad, but happy to know she was not alone, alone. It was hard to tell her to go, and that it was okay, and that I would be okay, I knew she was fighting to stay, I miss her abundantly, it will be a year June 20, My. Her birthday is 11/10/1924 and me 24/02/74, Mum was meant to walk me down the aisle, on 22/02/2020, I know she was there, as it rained a little, not so much, just a little and not for too long, as once my car drove up and parked the rain slowly stopped, Tears of joy from above, says my wife.again this too is also a cultural meaning. Sorry for the long story, I just wanted to share and let people dying doesn't need to be a scary thing, and yes about the food thing you mentioned, we gave mum what ever she asked for, like coke, and pie, lollies, food her daughter told us she couldn't have, ohh yeah and a beer..lol...and when we got the ” don't feed her that or let her eat that, I thought, what difference is going to make, she's in pain, she's asking for these, what difference is it really going to make. Mum was the only left here on earth, there was 14 of them, so I'm jealous now, that she's in heaven with them all, but ohh so happy for her at the same time. Xx Arohanui Whaea xxx aka Lil nanny, aka Blue Nanny, aka Nanny Garden.❤️❤️❤️❤️🌼🌼🌻🌻

So soothing, insightful and funny!! Been following since Medium on TV days. So Glad you are able to continue teaching!! Soooo much LOVE you bring!! Thank you from the fullness of my heart!! Carol Oakland/Berkeley/Stockton. I'm loving listening to Linda G, Psychic Violetta and other Sensitives, Intuitives and Tarot readers during these turbulent times.

You have both opened my eyes to a new way of thinking, thank you, so much

This is the best video to watch "TODAY". So many are deciding to leave us. Love you Guys.

This was one of the most enlightening "lecture" I ever heard. Thank you.

My favorite saying...Live & Let Live! This video was so much more enjoyable than I thought! And all because of the positive energy you both emanate. I am currently a Lady Sitter for a 95 & 97 years young pair of ladies whom have been friends since high school! They reside in Independant Living and show no sign of leaving anytime soon but even if they were, they would still be treated with the upmost LOVE&RESPECT! Thank You so much for Your insight💜

Love this! A not often discussed topic, but so healing for people, and such wisdom for us to learn from! Thank you! 😘❤️😘❤️😘❤️

These two were awesome together! Great messages !!

As spirits on the other side, we are Not forced to come back? And I as one will not come back ever..🥰

Very good to listen to. I have a good friend who is dying. I feel privileged to be there with her and for her and I was grateful to be able to hear what these two insightful are generously sharing. Many thanks.

You pair are amazing thank you luv from Australia 🇦🇺

I love this. As a healer I love this work so much. I’m 75 now. But hospice has been so rewarding

I really love listening to you and Tom! This is a great conversation. ❤️

Thanks again for what you both do for us......Vince

Hi! Thank you for your time and precious info. I enjoy your videos. Especially, today's topic about how one exits their life and the manner in which he/she returns. Fascinating...✨ 🌸 😊

You are both filled with wisdom, light and love. Great video; reminds us of what is important.

thank you so much for being there for so many of us, your honesty is liberating, love and gratitude to you both

What a fun and true video! Thanks for the joy!

You are both quite the "Dynamic Duo" each with a special energy that keep you bantering on such a taboo topic. Seldom do folks dare to speak about this I watched two of my sisters pass in mid-life, due to cancer. Knowing there is another side where we'll reunite is comforting. In the meantime, Alison you're so on point about living your best life in the here and now....loved this session!

Thank you God for Allison and Tom! 🙏🏾

Very interesting and comforting. Thank you. 🕊

So much wisdom in your advice n so much compassion. I see why you r given this gift. Both of you thank you for this service to humankind. Namaste

I love your video, Allison DuBois, the topic and points you make, as well as your sense of humor! Thank you for sharing the story about the 60 year old man. That story helped me because I think my fiance who had terminal cancer did the same thing with medication at the end and this helps me deal with it better. I'm just happy he is free from that body that caused him so much pain at the time, but still alive somewhere close to my heart

Thank you Spiritually to both Alison and Tom for bringing 'spirit wisdom,' along with your life experiences in this important work together. Philip conscious-spiritual-awareness, Australia.

Really informative and interesting video, thank you👍😊. Love and blessings to you both!❤️🌺🌈🙏

This was my favorite video so far. Alison I really got to see your personality here. I dig it!!!!

I love everything about this video. Thanks so much for that!💚💜

every video inlight my understanding of life and way of life. thank you . love your videos.

Absolutely loved this. Spot on.♥️♥️♥️

Thanks for discussing this deeply meaningful subject. My partner who recently passed over and I met in our mid-50s. We only had a few years together before he went suddenly but they were very loving ones for him which gives me comfort. At the end he was comatose, I told him it was okay, to call his dogs and go with them.

I just love you both for this one! THANK YOU🙏🏽🦋🥂

This is wonderful. Thank you for sharing this.

Your great! Just loved this. There’s hope for me.

Thank you both! ❤️🌻

Thank you very much.💕 really love you two on the channel, so glad I found this. Blessings from ireland 🍀 🍀 🍀

Simply Beautiful! Thank you so much

Beautiful and God bless you both xxx

So fun listening..what a wonderful afternoon I had...thank you *thank you *thank you*💗

Thank you for this video! You two are so inspiring!! 🙌🌈💕

Thank you! Allison love the take you have on the living and dead!

God Bless you both, thank you for sharing your experiences!! I believe you and am trying to make memories with the ones I love and enjoy being with.

You guys are really amazing, you have no idea how much you have brightened up my day ❤️❤️❤️❤️

I’m di glad I found your channel. I love you guys!

I really enjoy all the videos. So much interesting information to extract from them. Thank you both and blessed be ❤🙏

thank you... what a talent you have to share with us.....

I’ve always believed basically everything you guys have just said. So thanks for the confirmation. Also my son unfortunately never got to meet my father in the physical life, yet the amount of physical mannerisms, traits and general outlook regarding life that they share proves so much to me. Even more so that no one else in the family has these mannerisms etc. I am convinced my son spent a lot of time with my father before he came to me or maybe he is my father. I know in time I’ll know the answer for sure. In the meantime I’m happy to enjoy the time we share in this physical life and the lessons we teach each other. Thank you for a great video. Xx

I love people and wish I had the ability to help people in this way. Bless you Alison.

Thanks guys so informative yes you’re right live for the moment and enjoy and make changes now so you don’t have to repeat until you get them right so true we waste too much energy on the negative and not the positive I’ve written these things down and every morning I’m going to look in the mirror and repeat them love you both xxx

That’s like me I m surrounded by animals, I love them all. No abuse, I m safe. Not scared of the afterlife I met my grandfather from the other side on 3 occasions, to me that was the only affirmation I needed. I also got a big hug from one of my late cats she gave me the gift of peace after her passing I d really struggled to get over her lose until she hugged me - next day no pain, no upset it had all gone. I do regret not being there for my grandma when she passed in hospital. I knew she was dying that night but didn’t go, I did know that one of many came to collect her, but wished I could have held her hand at the moment of her passing.

Fantastic video and poignant topic. I worked in a a nursing home as a very young adult and am grateful for the experience because I was able to learn some major life lessons that have guided me in my life ever since. Thank you

I LOVE that you 2 are being very candid in your words...hahaha !!!!!❤❤❤

I just found your channel!! You two without doubt have the absolute best content!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing. I lost my son 1.5 years ago to drowning & it has been rough to not know how he is doing... 🙏

Thank you two. Very nice video. Peace.

God is with you and you both are so kind and genuine

I like you two together expressing your knowledge.

Thank you both.

Needed to hear this. Thank you

Thank you for a delightful video ...

THIS IS GOLD, THANK YOU!