ENDO / PCOS 

I am a dude and I watched the whole thing for education . Honestly you are so amazing ,wish you nothing but the best V !

As a nurse and fellow woman, I would like to say you are doing an incredible thing raising awareness where some may be scared to do so! Sometimes all it takes is ONE voice to open the eyes to something a person is unaware of, and suffering through when they may be able to educate themselves to possibly help reduce symptoms. I personally do not suffer from any of this but my mother has Endo, she suffered through immense pain before finally having a hysterectomy. I can only imagine sharing your story personally from your symptoms to the loss you both have had to endure was difficult. Keep your voice strong. Thank you! Krista Krista 😊

girl, thank you for sharing your experiences and information about these. im so sorry you've lost so many little ones and i wish you the best of luck in the future to have some little babies!

Thank you for sharing so openly. A lot of us ladies are always googling ‘issues’ and symptoms down there!! This video is very appreciated 🖤🖤 Hang in there honey

I completely relate! I have Poly-cystic Kidney and Ovarian Disease! I have gained 30 lbs this past year and I have very irregular periods, 2-3 months in between each cycle. My hormones are wild, when I have my cycles, they're crazy heavy/painful, acne issues, bloating issues, gastrointestinal issues, mood swings, all kinds of stuff you mentioned here. It's a hidden monster too many women suffer from. :( So so sorry to hear about yours & Danny's loss, I wish you guys the best of luck in the future with children! Also thank you for sharing your story! PCOS and Endo Awareness is so important!

5 minutes in and I’m about to cry. Thank you for talking about this Victoria. I can’t imagine how hard it was for you to do this, but please know women like me who are dealing with these problems as well appreciate it. Much love ❤️

I'm so sorry to hear of your experience 💔 I know that must be really hard for you and your partner. I do not have Endo, but I do have PCOS. I struggle with my weight, I have always been pretty heavy and it's hard to lose weight. I also deal with being unnaturally hairy, my hair on my scalp is thinning and constantly coming out. Irregular periods are real and suck!! The longest I have gone without a period was almost a year, with random spotting. A lot of women with PCOS also deal with low bone density, my vitamin D count was extremely low when I went to my drs about my PCOS. I am in my early 20s, so dealing with this is difficult. My obgyn actually didn't want to put me on birth control, so I'm not sure what else to do. Thank you for sharing your story and for the info to help spread awareness💛

Thank you so much for this video V ♥️ I have both ENDO & PCOS & know exactly what you’re talking about, I get my periods regularly every 70 days & sometimes it can go away for even 6 months, the pain is horrible & it sometimes even makes me vomit, it is embarrassing & frustrating because of the hormone imbalances, specially for the hair growing so thick so fast I didn’t know there would be another person who goes through this and it’s so inspiring to see such a strong, amazing woman like you talk about it, thank you for raising awareness, the symptoms are really “in your face” but sometimes you just don’t notice until you hear someone else talking about it Sending all my love to you & Dany ♥️

“Pretty much everything good in life” Literally exactly how I felt when my doctor recommended changing my diet...

I’m so sorry to hear this for you, and Danny. I know you have talked about children before, but I’m very happy that you have support from him and he isn’t mad about you not being able to.

I needed this today. I don;t have either of these but you're an extremely calming presence and I need that rn.

Hi. I’m only child. My mother only could had one child because she and my father had a lot of problems of fertility. Finally after 10 years of different treatment I’m here. That why I’m feel a lot of empathy with you. I think made this video is so healthy for you and others women. Something to helped a lot to my mother was took a psychological therapy. You’re pretty brave to share you history also you’re so brave for broke the silence about this topic. Thank you for do this. Sorry for my awful english.

you are so strong, Victoria, you are so strong and so very inspirational! thank you for letting us into such a personal matter, but girl trust that we are all here for you in support 💗 much love to you my dear

This was an amazing video! You’re so right. It isn’t talked about nearly enough and I think PCOS is shrugged off a lot these days because it is so common but can present in such a variety of ways in each case. I struggle from both as well. Thank you for sharing. You’re very inspirational! 🙃💜

Oh my gosh girl, we love you soooo much you are so strong and we are all here supporting you ❤ I personally don't have to fight through this and I could never imagine the bravery and the mental toll this could take but I am so happy that you are strong and fighting this... As well as everyone else who is battling this... My prayers are with you guys ❤

Thank you for posting this, I can't imagine how hard it was but I am so proud and I love you

You are so great!!! I think this video will be great to show my sister. She is experiencing some symptoms and this information will be extremely helpful!! Love you V!!!

I love your confidence!!! You are so beautiful and knowing that you’re the shit is so awesome to hear! I don’t have the same disorder but I know the fear of child bearing because with my nerve damage from back surgeries, scoliosis, and other medical conditions I have so much pain during sex and my drs don’t know how I will carry a baby and I love when women talk about what isn’t really the norm to talk about and just raising awareness! Love you and Danny so much and I just know you will have a big beautiful family whether that’s babies or more fur babies!! ❤️❤️

You're so incredibly brave for posting a video like this. And it comforts people like myself who struggle with these things. You're such a beautiful human being and I appreciate you talking about your story. The pain thing is a major thing I struggle with every month. I have to call off work a lot, and I vomit due to the intense pain I get all of the time. My Mom has PCOS and I have endometriosis and PCOS. It has been such a struggle on me physically but more so mentally. The infertility issue is what tears me up the most. Being 25, I'm at the point in my life where I want to have children..and it absolutely breaks my heart knowing I might not be able to give my fiance his own child. I've also struggled with acne and weight gain from PCOS which also has taken a toll on my mental state. & the hair thing I have had trouble dealing with as well...used to get bullied for excessive hair on my arms in school. You, Victoria, are an inspiration and I'm so grateful to have had a chance to watch your video. I really REALLY hope you will post more videos like this in the future. Love from Toledo, Ohio 💕💕

You are so strong and speaking about everything you’re going through for other girls to not feel alone and educate others is so incredible. You’re seriously amazing and thank you for posting this video

I came to watch your video because I saw the link on Danny's IG story and because I love your personality...I'm finishing watching it thinking you're an incredible strong woman !! I'm not suffering from ENDO or PCOS, but I know friends who do and I see how harsh it is on them, so kuddos for talking openly about it. I'm a mom of 4, 3 of them being girls (22, 19 and 15) and I make sure they are aware of how important it is to listen to their body , because sometimes Dr don't exactly know what's going on. Life is really odd ...I've felt guilty to easily get pregnant while seeing my friends having troubles for years...But life is what it is and guilt won't help anything, so now I try to stay informed to be able to talk about it with friends if needed. I admire you, your courage to face all this, your strength to keep going and overcome everything. So I'm sending you supportive hugs and soothing vibes, from a human being to another. Stay the beautiful soul you are, enjoy every second and let life flows...Blessings to you Victoria

Thank you so much for sharing your struggles as there are so many women seeking answers to their issues and there is so much negativity and misinformation on the web, but watching/listening to your story it brings a very real human aspect to something that women everywhere need to know more about. Your video is very informative and your information is based on real medical information, which is what so many need to hear, so kudos to you for sharing what you know about PCOS/endo. My best friend has PCOS and after many, many years she and her husband did have a baby girl, who just turned 6 (her name is Keira, but I lovingly call her "Nugget," LOL), after trying all types of fertility routines, but they were never able to have another child and have the mentality the same as you guys, "It's too much to keep putting the women through over and over again.". My heart goes out to you and your mate. I have only had one miscarriage at 12 weeks because my body can't carry babies without trying to kill me in the process. Our youngest, Loki, was a preemie, born at 31 weeks, because I developed HELLP syndrome and he spent 30 days in the NICU. That journey almost broke me, it was agonizing watching all these little ones struggle through so much. I was pretty much forced into getting a tubal ligation after having him (which has caused me nothing but complications since having the procedure done) and I remember feeling like they took the very thing that made me a woman away from me (it took years to stop feeling that way). I was able to have 2 boys, Free and Loki, albeit 14 years apart, but they are probably the only thing I ever got right in this world, LOL, and I couldn't imagine life without them. It breaks my heart that I can't have any more children and being with the love of my life and he has no biological children and I can't give him any it was a struggle mentally whether to stay or leave the relationship because I believed he deserved children if his own. Well, needless to say he refused to allow me to make that decision for him and you could never tell he isn't the biological father of our children, he is happy and content with them, they are "his" children. I only mention any of this as I can only imagine the mental anguish you put yourself through and the thoughts of knowing/thinking you know what your partner wants and deserves and feeling like you can't do just that very thing can eat you alive and take you away from living and enjoying your life and you deserve to love every moment of your life, PLEASE remember that. I can only imagine your heartache and my heart goes out to you, just watching your face in the video as you talk about your loss is heartwrenching. Just remember this does not make you "less than" and there are many, many ways for you and Danny to become parents together!! I bet you guys will be AWESOME parents!! Also I don't know if this would help your mentality any, but I did medical transcription for 22 years and I'm learning medical coding now and when doing medical charts we call the "medical abortion" a "therapeutic termination" or "elective termination" and I'm not sure if it would help your anguish that shows so clearly on your face when speaking the word "abortion," as I know you are just speaking the terms the medical personnel have said to you over and over. Your such an inspiration and you seem so strong, I just wanted to share a couple things that "might" help you have some comfort (hopefully) in this trying time. I wish you and yours all the best in the future and thank you again for sharing your story and for your inspiration to women all over the world!! Luv, luv!!

I do have & live with PCOS since three years, and already did a surgery once, i was feeling super bad & lonely, i was hurt badly and can’t stop thinking about how I’ll never get my health back, i even made a huge mistake leaving the most person i love after we were together for years 💔 but now I really wanna thank u for bringing this up & sharing it cuz it make feel a lot better ❤️❤️ much love for u V & for Danny, hope u beauty get better soon ❤️

You are so strong! I can’t even imagine going through that. You and anyone else that has these are incredible. Going through one miscarriage has to be hard but 6? You are absolutely amazing. 🖤

she's so gorgeous and strong! luv u and thanks for sharing ur story, sending u all the love

Can you do vlogs, and day in a life at work, home, etc?

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I know that took a lot of courage to let yourself be that vulnerable and I’m terribly sorry the loss you and Danny went through. I’m convinced I have pcos because I have almost every symptom and have dealt with it since I hit puberty. I had a very hard time getting pregnant as well. But I’ve talked to 3 different doctors and none of them have listened to me and tell me nothing is wrong with me. It’s very frustrating and disheartening

So proud of you for posting this ! I had a big long comment written out and then my phone died, and I can’t bring myself to write it again. But just know, as another 20something with endo and pcos, I’m proud of you. It’s so hard to talk about, but we need to, you know ?

Thank you for sharing your story. It’s very much appreciated because you gave me the right words to get my cousin that is more like a sister from the heart tested for both. I have endometriosis! I won’t say the “I’m sorry” even though I kinda just did but know you are strong, brave, and hold a kindness that you don’t see nowadays. Thank you for making me feel less alone in this fight. You and Danny are my couple goals. The fact you are what that man’s wanted and his heart has needed from the start. Y’all just have my heart ♥️

New Fan here! & New Sub! (Big Asking Alexandria & Danny Worsnop Fan) Sending you lots of LOVE and Positive/Healing Vibes! I wish I'd had your courage when I was diagnosed at 19 with Endo. Instead, I was ashamed, embarrassed, etc. and eventually after getting the Lupon treatment I just stopped talking about it. I'm now almost 46 and have Endo throughout my abdomen and in the muscles from having 2 C-Sections. That's something they don't warn you about when you have to have a C-Section. :( My Gyn suspects PCOS and I was scheduled for a partial hysterectomy in Feb but I had a bad feeling and got scared; I cancelled it. My 21 year old daughter is going through some of the same issues that I initially had along with two bleeding disorders and some other health issues. I have always tried to encourage her to speak up for herself and be strong. You remind me a little bit of her with your honesty and bravery when it comes to being a woman! Keep on speaking up and spreading awareness! xoxoxo

Thank you so much for sharing! I struggle with PCOS and it's so difficult at times. The infertility is the hardest part for me. It feels like something is stabbing me in the heart every time. It's hard to describe the pain from it. Thankfully, I don't have ENDO. I can't imagine what that's like on top of having PCOS. I hope it gets better for you :)

so much respect for talking about this.

Fellow PCOS girl here... my husband and I just went through a miscarriage after two rounds of fertility meds... I agree, the pill medical abortion is absolutely awful!!!!! Mentally and physically is debilitating, thank you for speaking up!!!

You are so strong, my mum has endo and me and my brother were considered miracle babies, especially me, my mum was trying for me for 4 years because she wanted me and my brother to be close in age but now there's a 4 year difference because of obvious reasons 💙💙💙

My best friend has PCOS as does another friend who is a coworker of mine. Both have begun Arbonne health supplements. I’ve personally dealt with different things, not PSOS but things that made it incredibly important to pay attention to ingredients in everything I eat & with this brand, it really can help. Just with the bloating, there’s a product called Digestion Plus that is life changing. You take it in the morning before eating or drinking. It’s packed full of prebiotics, probiotics & digestive enzymes. Everything is vegan, no artificial ingredients, no soy or gluten & is vouched for by the Mayo Clinic. My husband is military, like you, & uses these supplements as well. If you’d like more info, let me know. It’s so heartbreaking to know that you’re going through all of this. Just the miscarriages alone are beyond anything I can imagine. Girl, I’ll be praying for you. You’re a serious light for so many people also struggling with things like this. My heart so genuinely goes out to you & Danny both. Dealing with military Dr’s can be a NIGHTMARE!!! They told my best friend, who is an Air Force wife she couldn’t possibly have PCOS b/c she had 2 kids & had gotten pregnant other times (miscarriages) and “ppl w/PCOS can’t have kids or get pregnant” so it took YEARS for her to get a diagnosis & turns out, she has a horrible case of it. She has literally every single thing/side effect you’ve touched on. I’m so glad you kept on going. Being active duty might’ve been helpful for you as well. But sometimes it can actually work against you, depending where you’re stationed & who your supervisor/PCM is. Again, prayers for you girl! Sending so much love & light.

Thank you so much for posting this

You’re so amazingly strong 💙

You’re amazing! And you’re doing a very brave thing talking about this. I had a miscarriage almost 2 years ago and I’m still afraid to talk about it. Currently 16 weeks pregnant I will 100% allow you to come and snuggle with my baby 🙂 any time girl!! But I send you virtual baby dust your way, and I pray that everything works out for you and Your fiancé.

Love this needed this video right now you are amazing so strong :) please upload more often :)

1 in 10 women ar effected by PCOS. I went 15 years undiagnosed because even doctors weren't that knowledgeable. My doctor insisted since I had a child in 1997 I could not have PCOS. Never mind I had a lack of periods (like 1 a year), weight gain of 70 lbs, excessive hair growth and ovaries that looked like bunches of grapes on ultrasound due to cysts. (Hence polycystic..many cysts). I am now a type 2 diabetic due to the insulin resistance. I am on a good regiment to manage symptoms now. I made peace with my son being an only child many years ago. I was lucky to have him.

sending you my upmost respect victoria 🖤

Thank you! I have PCOS :(i luv u girl from Hungary❤️ you are soooo strong ☝🏼

I'm sorry for the losses. It is a whole different kind of hell to endure.

GURL PLZ DO A VIDEO ON YOUR BODY SKIN ROUTINE! I get ingrown hairs around my ankles, curious if your method will help me! You are seriously the cutest little thing, you could be friends with anyone and everyone and that’s just an amazing trait to have. I’m so sorry about all of your miscarriages. You’ll be a fantastic mom and if you ever want to consider a surrogate, I have a womb and I’d be honored.

Also, I get out in 39 days. I’m trying CDB for the pain as soon as I get my DD214. I’ll let you know how it goes 😂 thank you for answering my question as well ❤️

I love your videos! Please be more constant

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Thank you for sharing this. It means a lot, especially with the pcos, not a lot of people speak out about that. What is your routine for the ingrown hairs with pcos and do u wax at home or get it professionally done ?

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Sending prayers love.

Be careful with the surgery for it because that can cause added scar tissue and adhesions and can mess you up more. It did me.

I'm so sorry. I know there is nothing anyone can say but please know, we care and we want you to be healthy and happy. Six? SIX? I had two miscarriages and I almost died every time. It's so mentally draining and I couldn't walk for some time after. I cannot be pregnant over 5 months. But to experience 6 miscarriages is awful.

Oh my god, I just found out a lot of women I look up to or follow suffer from endometriosis. First Tati Westbrook then Halsey. Idk if it’s that common or just a coincidence, but it’s still sad to think about. The struggle you all have to go through is crushing. Tati is literally one of the healthiest people I know, but it must be devastating to take care of your body to its literal prime, only for it to betray you or not have it do what you want.

I have endometriosis. Its horrible! I have had a laboscopry back in January and was told I have stage 1. I wasn't confident in the doctor, so I seeked another. She is still waiting on my results from my previous dr, however during a normal exam she immediately noticed I also have pelvic hernias. It's extremely hard to talk about because everyone thought I was making it all up. Have you and Danny thought about a surrogate? I know it's not ideal but it is a thought.

I have endometriosis and adenomyosis and had a hysterectomy in 2011. It almost killed me a few years ago. Even after my hysterectomy.

My experience: - I'm 20, I will be 21 this June. - my balance is shit - hair on my head is thin and falling out, but everywhere else is growing as fuck - coffee is shit. I love coffee, cannot drink it. - I'm fine with sugar tho - hormone imbalance is such a /great/ thing. Gotta love having menopause symptoms while still having period, and being manic and depressed at the same time. Gotta love it. - with my last miscarriage I was in my 5 month and I've seen my fair share of shit, but goddammit, I never want to go through that again. I was in so much pain that people didn't know what to do. I was bleeding my uterus out and I lost my baby boy and hospital people fucked so many things that I figure out later. - the pills. I have addiction in my family and I scared as fuck to get addicted to this shitty pills. - I understand the embarrassing portion of all of this shit, but I'm here and I am going to talk people about it, I know too many people who don't even know there is something wrong with them. Period pain that lasts for days is not NORMAL. WTF. - when I broke my knee it hurt less than my period. Let just leave it at that. - ultrasound is awful. - food is the only comfort I get. Diet doesn't help me, so I eat whatever I can. Bananas are great for pain. At least for me. - I love sex and I'm usually fine during the sex but I need an hour or something after to chill. - doctors recommended weed for the pain, but it makes it worse and I just eat most of the time. - my memory is shit too. - DOCTORS DON'T KNOW SHIT. GO THERE AND DEMAND THAT THEY TAKE YOU SERIOUSLY. I'd probably have a kid right now of my doctor's wouldn't just say "it's normal to feel pain" and "a little bit of bleeding during pregnancy is fine" and "you still have time, you are young". No, I don't have time. I don't want to have time. I don't care that I'm 20. - doctor's not wanting to tie my tubes. I'm 20. Another pregnancy can kill me. Another miscarriage will probably kill me. If by some magic survive the pregnancy, birth can kill me. I can die before I reach my 30ies because I can bleed out if my uterus decides to fuck off into the sunset with cysts and vaginal dryness. - blackouts. I blackout if I go up the stairs too quickly, if I get up from bed too quickly. - insomnia and sleepiness. Fuck me sideways, I watch my hubby sleep all night and then by the mercy of who knows whom I pass out in the morning for an hour or so.

You are so insanely beautiful

I am sorry to hear about this situation. maybe this verse from God's word will bring some comfort. It's Isaiah 33 verse 24 : " And no resident will say: “I am sick.” The people dwelling in the land will be pardoned for their error." So God has a time appointed to cure mankind from the imperfection we inherited from Adam and Eve's sin. Please learn more on Jw,org

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sending you my upmost respect victoria 🖤

You are so insanely beautiful