This kind of analysis should also be done on Pride and Prejudice! Darcy = INTJ, Elizabeth Bennet = ENFP. There’s a lot of scenes in the film that really explain the dynamics of the INTJ/ENFP relationship, especially when these types are in their unhealthy loops. It’s probably the only piece of fiction, I have yet seen, that explains that dynamic PERFECTLY.
Nah seriously. As an ENFP, getting the most out of life is the best possible way I feel would be "living life to the fullest". It's way more important to me then achieving a list of structured work/business oriented accomplishments. But don't get me wrong, I definitely see how someone could enjoy that. Just for me, I ride life like riding a bolt of lightening, and I'm good at it. The stories I have from the experiences I've went through, are likely just as phenomenal as the accomplishments an XNTJ has. I've seen and done things in life you probably would not and could not believe are even possible and I do stuff like that regularly. I love being an ENFP-A flying by the seat of my pants 👖
As an INTJ I can see how some people enjoy that approach to life, but I know the If I tried to do that I would be miserable the entire time. You get happiness from living life to its fullest, and I get happiness by see a carefully crafted plan get carried out smoothly. I suppose both approaches have their pros and cons.
@@ENDER_Music I think INTJ’s need ENFP’s who are “intellectually” fun, and would stimulate them intellectually. I’ve met INTJ’s who have (secretly 🤪) admitted that the reason they like some of us, ENFP’s, is because we understand their depth while also giving them an entrance to the more easy-going, fun, connection to life, and yet with space for some theoretical approach to it. Not that INTJ’s are theorizers purely, or don’t know how to have fun, quite the contrary. They just need those certain ENFP’s, (perhaps those with very strong and developed Ne + Te functions) who can sense and appreciate that inner curiosity and depth within them, and most importantly understand what the value of planning and long-term vision means to the INTJ. Likewise goes for the INTJ who has very strong and developed Fi functions to understand the ENFP. If both types master these functions, they’re a match made in heaven for sure.
Correct because, •The smiling at the beginning at the enfp, bc deep down you just want to be dumb. •The man thinking he came up with a difficult question, while the enfp answers with ease a deep unheard of answer that solves 3 trivial problems the INTJ has been trying to solve in their head for the past month.
As an INFJ, someone who is stuck somewhere between these two types, I see value in both perspectives. Unsurprisingly, I lean toward INTJ, as we at least share some cognitive functions.
as INTJ I don't hate fun, as long as it's in good company, like that of my INFJ husband. I was raised by an ISTPxESFP combo so I wish my husband would go out more, I'm used to a more outdoorsy, spontaneous an reckless life style. I hated being with my parents and I could never get along wit them. buuuut, they did leave the house more often.
@@HisameArtwork ISTPxESFP? How does that even happen? Must have been an interesting dynamic. I'm guessing your father is the ISTP, and you relate more to him? I suppose you being an INTJ came from a desperate need for order. As an INFJ, I buddy up quite nicely with INTJs, as we love in depth one on one conversations. The INTJs I know, I would describe as "fun", but I suppose "fun" could mean different things to different people. Personally, rolling around on a beach with a bunch of dogs licking me doesn't really strike me as fun, but I do get the sense that I'm generally more spontaneous than the INTJs I'm friends with...
I think mbti community and the world at large see INTJ women as mythical and non existent because our numbers are so small. In their minds its like why would someone who doesn't exist need a partner? 😓
@@grazynawolska8160 o please there are plenty of intj women vids, especially on this channel, but we get paired wit xNFJ or ISTP. Scar is right, the reverse is very are, but I think you're exaggerating. :P
@@HisameArtwork maybe a little lol... but for myself I rarely see myself reflected in movies or the media as intj woman. It's nearly always some villainous intj man or boy with a quirky dream girl enfp.... :) I can't relate... I find intj women are rarely the star of a show...main character.... that has relationships and struggles and loves etc. Maybe I'm in a mood haha
What? Enfp had a company and quit? Why did you quit? Was it not profitable? 😆 Lol you set up systems and delegate to subordinates till the thing runs itself like a well oiled machine. Then you go do what you like while the machine makes you money. I mean why would you give up a profitable company idea... to eat ramen and struggle financially in your old age cause running it wasn't fun? As intj I'm confused lol. She needed to meet him earlier so that he'd make it a self running machine for her... lol - efficient intj.
lol it's true -- the ultimate intj goal is to make money without actually having to work... while staying within the framework of personal values... so that we can have the time to pursue our real goals. is that so complicated?
@@suzihoude hehe so glad we resonate. It's so intj to think up automated machines/systems so that we can make make money on autopilot and free up time to do what we want! 😄
@@rehammohammed846 possibly, though i know a few ENFP business owners who want to be fully immersed in the day-to-day workings and totally engaged with each client and employee -- and that would be my nightmare.
Enfp here.. I've been there.. I have given up things that would make me money or success.. I would rather travel the world or atleast my country than live a boring life.. and if someone tries to make a self running machine for me I'd rather run away from him.. lol.. maybe because I am not mature enough hehe..