INTJs love ENFPs: Relationship and Friendship Compatibility 

"It's okay ENFP, I'm very aware of how your minds work" 😉

I have news for you. (1) YOU STILL SOUND SPACED OUT 😬☺️ and sidenote: (2) AI writes a lot of comments on AItube.

Oh gosh me too! Where are the cameras??

OMG I JUST CAME TO THE COMMENTS TO SAY THE EXACT SAME XDDD im done

😂 same!

Don't tell INTJs that 😂

On point! 😹 The thought creeps me out, though.

Stay away from meeeeeeeeeeeee

@@Kalle875 noooo commeeerrreee!!! *Chases in goofy enfp*

@@shanzayaftab6125 stay away!!!!!!!!!! U are toxic I don't need you

Agreed! ENFPs really do have this charm to them that makes it difficult not to laugh or get annoyed 😅

My best friend is an INTJ, almost every time we meet I mess up our meeting with my messy time schedule (by accident, trust me) and he freaks out to replan everything 😅. but Ne and Ni conversation... oh boy that's a wonder.

I can, it sucks lol. starting to be more extroversive so potentially I will meets more ENFP's to "make me smile with their funny, crazy and energetic personality".

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I might be wrong but I feel like all INTJs see it 😂

INTJs probably know you more than you know yourself AND where you'll end up 10 years down the road.

Truth!! I’ll let others talk & listen & smile & encourage and hide myself . It’s weird & uncomfortable truly expressing my deep deep self

Iunno, maybe I’m a weird ENFP but I’m genuinely just being myself 😮

Always happy to hear about other positive experiences between INTJ x ENFPs 😁

Exactly 💯 at least in my experience

Congrats on finding an INTJ! I'm sure he feels the same about having a genuine connection with you as well. Take good care of each other 🙏

Classic ENFP/INTJ love story 😆

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As an enfp i find this very funny 😂

That's the dream. 😭

It seems like how it always starts with our types 😂

why is every enfp and intj introduction such a meet cute 🥺

@@sandymakesplans I wonder why too

I met my INTJ friend in a similar way. My INTJ had a friend who was giving me dirty looks. I don’t know what made me ask her why is her friend giving me dirty looks. Her response was “I don’t know. Ask her.” The was she said it was so stoic I thought I was hilarious. My response: “Yeah, I like you. We are going to be friends. You are easy to read” the amount of confusion on her face 😂😂😂😂 She is the ying to my yang. She keeps me focused and the delight of exploring her inner world.❤😂😂😂

I don’t see walls. INTJs are different & unique. They’re awesome! The stereotypes about them are so wrong. 🤦🏾‍♀️

You found one of us! Keep doing you ENFP, we're easy smitten by you guys ✊

I agree.

Jealous brotha 🙃

Meet them online! Or is online technically outside as well?! 😂

😂 so true for me ! I’m outside whenever I can be . Barefoot hiking, lol

Spoiler Alert: some of us, are physically disabled, extremely shy, or just social instinct is last in individual stack (and ENFP'S are prone towards self isolation, if they live in hostile environment, without possiblity to escape), and we tend to live in virtual reality. Your chances of finding few are quite high.

I'm an ENFP though and I currently am inside my room exploring any videos I can find on ENFPs (and making sure I'm still an ENFP lol (you never know)) Sooooo not outside haha

We can come over if you like ! As ENFPs we love being let inside your inner worlds, and coming over is a way for us to discover a part of who you are that you don't usually show so we love that ! Be aware though that we might break some rare and expensive souvenir you cherished oops

"same same but different, but still same" 😂

You do the same thing don't you 😅

@@justcallmejon22 True! Hahaha, and it really warms my heart whenever my friends remember the songs I (consciously or unconsciously) sing to them.

They don't even see an exterior 😂

@@justcallmejon22 😉

​@@justcallmejon22came here to say that lol

Thanks for the reply and please take care of my INTJ family 🙏

Always happens that way 🙃

Por que maldita??? 😢 Somos amáveis 🥺💚

My INTJ husband and I have been together 14 years, married for 11 years and only recently found out I was mistyped my whole adult life. Turns out I'm an ENFP. No wonder we simply get each other so well... and no wonder I keep him on his toes with my antics. 😂

You guys are fantastic the way you are. Don't change unless you want to, my ENFP friend ✊🏼

Good luck on capturing one of us ENFP. It sounds like you're enjoying the chase 😂

INTJs always notices ENFPs 😁

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That sounds right 😂

As an ENFP female in a relationship with an INTJ male for 14 years and married to him for 11 of those years... I can confirm that I am most certainly a pain in his butt... and never boring for him. 😂 He adores my chaotic and fun side... even while deep breathing and shaking his head when I inevitably mess up his carefully laid plans. I'm a wrecking ball when it comes to plans... and I don't even try to be. 😂

So you're an enabler.

Sounds like a lovely relationship 🙂

It sucks to hear that someone hurt you and I hope you get well soon. ENFPs really are the greatest 🙂

oh hey! I (ENFP) hurt my INTJ and i miss him so much... (He's still unsure about wanting to be with me or not... At the same time he falls in love with me everytime we meet. But he wants to think rationally so he just kills all the disturbing emotions - like love - in himself. Besides all the pain it causes, its so exciting to see all the stereotypes suiting, right?!!!) I really understand why youre saying you were the best pair. I hope you get to be with the right person sometime! ♥

Glad you enjoyed it 🙏

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They're everywhere dude! You just have to go to the mytical land people call 'outside' 😅

Did you catch one of us lol

Try "study with" them, and they'll likely be up for it. Nothing more fun than diving into a new topic that piques the interest. Even better, doing it with a buddy.

Agreed on their moral stance on things. I was planning on going over the negatives as well but ran out of space before I could talk about it 😅

@@justcallmejon22I would like to hear the cons! Jon, could you make another video like this?

That chaos you speak of....is scary and intruging at the same time 😅

Don't let the video fool you, there was a lot more pauses and stuttering before editing 😅

I'm happy to hear that you found your INTJ! There is such a strong attraction with the pairing that I'm not surprised that you two ended up together without much effort invested. Enjoy your time together ENFP and please take care of my fellow INTJ ✊

All the ENFPs I've dated said the same thing about my "mean mug" reaction. They relish in it 😂

@@justcallmejon22 Yup they do and while they relish in it they just know how to make us smile!

Congrats on finding an ENFP 😁

Don't worry ENFP, you're perfect ❤

I got you 😅

ENFP here who had to rewind because I was looking up the Fe stuff. I got distracted by the video such that I missed the video 😅

We're all more than just stereotypes! I'm happy to hear that you have positive experiences with INTJs because I have tons with ENFPs in my life 🙂

They outnumber us 4:1! 😂

I love both representations of INTJs but I feel like I have to defend Dempsey's character in Enchanted after you wrote the defense for Darcy! His character sheltered a random person he met on the street that he thought had mentally unstable, helped try to find a way to get her home, gave her money to sustain herself when she said she wanted to go look for Prince Charming, gave her a place to stay again when she couldn't find him, fed her, took her on a date, didn't kick her out when his previous relationship was on the line, didn't yell at her for cutting up his drapes, and most importantly..he allowed Giszelle to be around his daughter that he adores. Although jaded, Dempsey's character is a very healthy INTJ because he understands and displays empathy when he doesn't have to 🙂

@@justcallmejon22 You’re absolutely right! ❤️ Totally blanked out on those scenes. Thanks! Always appreciated a good response, haha. I’ll adjust my Dempsey comment. 🤗

I usually don't get upset when ya'll space out as long as you bring me along your Ne ride 🙂

ENFPs are magnetic ❤

... because the crazy think is FUN! And the wild spirit leads to adventure! How else is my INTJ husband going to have random hypothetical conversations about what the world would be like if we clapped using our feet instead of our hands? And who else is going to wonder out loud if the shape of fruity pebbles were inspired by a booger? 😂 How else will he have an entire subculture built around our 3 cats, which include their rapper names (Oh-rie, K-Lobe and Little Way), the fact that the oldest kitty is the chief of the other two and is also a Mexican Don, that none of them deign to use vowels when they spell, and that one of the younger cats is a raptor bent on taking over the world while his wombmate (litter mate), is really a cousin of Garfield and came from the cabbage patch? Oh! And they each have their own voices when we narrate their behaviors. 🤪 Plus... how else would he have seen more of our country since meeting me than in the 27 years before meeting me (we've been together 14 years and married for 11)? And who else would get him to willingly zipline over alligator habitats, swim with dolphins and stingrays, hold juvenile alligators, pet flamingos, play with penguin chicks, feed stingrays by hand, feed birds on our arms in an aviary, hold starfish and sea urchins while walking on the bottom of an aquarium and wearing dive helmets, go spelunking, and camp in the wilderness for 10 days until our dog got us kicked out by a park ranger because camping was apparently not allowed on that trail and his human-like cries caused hikers to think we were wounded in our tent? Also, who else would convince him that visiting a volcanic park with sulfur deposits and boiling mud 5 hours before our flight left to return home was a good idea? We arrived at our gate just in time for boarding but had the time of our lives in the meantime... and now we finish every vacation with a super fun day right after check out. We plan the latest flight home possible, spend the day exploring and then head to the airport at the last possible second. Prior to meeting me, he really only went on trips with his family or school. They rarely traveled and usually stayed close to home. He only socialized with a small group of people from our church. And he spent much of his time alone. Since meeting me, I've brought color, fun and chaos to his life. He loves our adventures and our mental sparring, as well as our cryptic communication, our fun what if... discussions, and the subcultures I build around random things... including inanimate objects. My goodness... ENFP really is chaotic and all over the place. 😂 But, we are fun and we simply get INTJs... and we feel free to be our weird, chaotic selves around INTJs. My INTJ understands me in a way nobody else in my life ever has... including my ISTJ mother and ESFP father and ESFP brother. He understands me better than any friend I have ever made. The connection to him was instant from the first time we talked with one another. We just get each other and I love that it is like that for us.

We have to be able to jump topics to understand you guys 😅

You should be scared 🙃

Golden 🍐

Thank you for the compliment ❤

It's easy to find us! We're all over the internet 🙃

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Thank you very much 🙂

I speak for the INTJ community and say that if we're friends with you (ENFP), that means that we've seen the part of you that ya'll are trying to hide and we're okay with it 🙂

Congrats on finding yourself an INTJ! Please take care the INTJ for me 🙏

Very ENFP of you 😂

Go for it! The world needs a lot more positive support 😀

Mr. Collins is cool, I for some reason really liked Jane Bennett 😅

@@justcallmejon22 Jane Bennet is wonderful yes. This is going to sound kinda odd but when i think of the actress who played Jane - Rosemund Pike, i always imagine her as this super CEO woman who likes to deal out discipline whilst talking about TPS reports. Sorry, not trying to ruin her image lol Definitely not talking about Jane Bennet *

Come join us, it'll be fun 🙂

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You're welcome and please take extra care of my INTJ sister ❤️

I think ENTPs see the wall but chooses to ignore it 😅

I know I'd for sure be attracted to someone like that and approach them if I hadn't been homeschooled, I remember not getting the cues that my cousins were joke flirting with this kid at their house like I asked what they were doing with their winks and hand waving kissy faces or something, and they said they were flirting so I calmly went 'oh..' before the absolute ***STORM*** of running after him trying to go in for a kiss that he literally climbed a fence, grabbed hold of a vine and swung across a mini river to his house so yeah MAYBEE I don't always get social cues but you can't say we'll play games with how we feel because the same thing happened with my neighbour that my brother helped set out this plastic kids picnic table out in the backyard for him to sit, and I say take a seat or something before straight out saying I loved him and that freaked that kid the hell out he ran and then literally moved back to his FIRST COUNTRY

I'm starting to think that it's a hobby for most ENFPs to have a collection of INTJs 😅

I hope the friendship lasts forever 🙂

Happy to hear that you enjoyed the video! Sending you good vibes and I hope you and John work out 😁

@@justcallmejon22thank you! ❤

The attention span of an ENFP is astounding 😂

@@justcallmejon22 Has definitely lead to some interesting adventures 😎🤘

Stop ignoring our walls ENFP 😅😂

You'd have to extinct me 😎

Whether he is or isn't an INTJ, I hope things work out positively for the both of you 🙂

Thank you 😀

@@justcallmejon22 I hope it won't offend you but - Where are you from? And are you single? 😀 I'm just asking for a friend 😇🤓

I'm fine with any pairing for INTJs as long as they treat us well 😂. I'm not sure if I accidently mentioned that I don't have N type friends in a previous video but I've collected all MBTI types throughout my life.

One might surprise you one day 🙃

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Ne never fails to Ne 😂

You probably already know an INTJ and they're just good at hiding behind their wall 😅

@@justcallmejon22 any hints to figure out an INTJ? 😅

Happy to hear that you found someone at yourself with. That's always a sign of a healthy relationship ✊

Congrats on finding your own INTJ! Don't forget that the INTJ isn't ignoring you on purpose 80% of the time and that she's just caught up in her project. It sounds like you're enjoying the relationship since you're watching this video so keep up what you're doing and don't forget to keep growing but grow together. Please take care of my fellow INTJ Queen 🙏

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Congrats and please take care of him for us 🙏

We wasted so much time on that wall if it's just a bump to ya'll 😭

@@justcallmejon22 It was not wasted time at all! Healthy ENFP will see, but respect those protective measures (at least the intent you built them with). Just expect an occasional poke if we deem it is for your own benefit :-D Sometimes, we can even help you to improve those measures in order for them to be more effective and less restraining for you (since barriers work both ways).

Biggest N group type that always seems to be attracted to INTJs. Our dating pool isn't as hopeless INTJs make it out to be 😅

@JustcallmeJon haha. Maybe so. I know male intjs enjoy female enfps. I haven't met male enfp, but lots of female enfps. They also break down walls to get to me. In my case though I find they are developing their Te function and always want me to Te their problems, at all hours of the day. It gets exhausting. It's a way of outsourcing your own Te development. I've seen this with entps and infj also. Entps follow infjs for Fe outsourcing so that infj can Fe their problems. However, I do enjoy 2 enfp male streamers. Jesse Cox and DrGluon. They're hilariously goofy. Their let's plays are always a joy to watch.

I always feel bad for ENFPs, especially male ones, because there's so few INTJs for them to match with. And then we act like INTJs if they do find us. It's a lot tougher for them to get this match than it is for us.

You think that violating the wall at all times is better? My INTJ friends says ENFPs get tiresome at some point. INTJs need some time alone to chill.

Thank you 🙏

Thank you for the kind words! I think they're both great for the INTJ. I think there'll be more tension with ENFPs if Fi doesn't align but magical if it does. I think that there's so much room for growth and adventure with ENTPs because we have the exact opposite functions. ENTP video coming soon 🙃

Thank you for the confidence boast 😀

The ability to do that is a super power. Don't ever lose it because it motivates more people than you'll ever be aware of ✊🏼

Us your Ni as a lure on a fishing pole and you'll easily catch one once you cast 😁

You meant to say INTJ right?!?! Don't tell us you don't see a wall, it makes us feel vulnerable 🙃

@@justcallmejon22 oops Yes I meant INTJs & I think we all know there is a "wall" It's just translucent lol

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Classic ENFP! 🙃

Congrats on finding your ENFP! Lots to handle but usually worth it 😅

@@justcallmejon22 True. Quite challenging! We do have a lot of conflicts but I would say that we have lots of enriching moments too 😹

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Vocês são incríveis, continuem sendo a luz do sol no mundo sombrio de um INTJ ❤

@@justcallmejon22 aaaaaaaah 😍😍😍💚💚💚💚💚💚 obrigada. Um amor pelos INTJs 🫶🏻🫶🏻

Not surprised 😁

It's okay ENFP, I understand you guys 😉

I'll consider it but don't want to have to rewatch the show to make sure my memory of the relationship is accurate 🙃

@@justcallmejon22 Ah the INTJ scared-to-be-wrong-and-called-out trait again XD

That's how you know you're both on the same wavelength 😁

I felt a jolt of pain reading your last sentence. The objective truth is what leads an INTJ 🙃

@@justcallmejon22 You ground us, we give you dreams, a fair exchange!!

It's amazing watching ENFPs do that 😅