Teachers, Preachers and Law Enforcement Officers are in positions of trust. All of these positions should be mentally evaluated, and background checks before being hired. Our children and community are at stake.
She's getting married in a couple of months and writes to an 11 yr old boy, "I do love you more than ANYONE in the WORLD..." I cannot imagine how bamboozled her fiance must feel besides being violently sick to his stomach.
As a mother to a 5th grader I am literally sickened. How could any adult look at a child and find them attractive. Disgusting. I hope they give her max jail time.
I mean kids are attractive (sure) but if you look at them in a different way, thats a whole different story. I am sickened to even think about this. Felt more anxious to send my kid to school now. Very disturbing!
I think they’re quoting the messages between the two, not calling the actions just making out. You are correct we do need to use the right terms cuz sugar coating it makes it a farce for people.
Oh wait I think I see what you mean, do you mean the title of the video? Because then yes absolutely we have to use the correct term. Sorry I thought you meant what they were reading.
Stunted maturity - She is still a "child" in an adults body (not cognitively but emotionally), allowing for those types of "relationships" to develop. Considering she's on the verge of getting married, it's possible that the stress of that and "becoming an adult," might have triggered her to attempt to "go back" in a type of denile - unfortunately leading her to have an inappropriate relationship with her past.
The reason there aren't as many male teachers getting caught these days is because they think better of going for that first kiss because girls are chatty and tell their friends everything.
Who cares if it's her "first offense"? How about we start sending the message that if you interfere with children you won't see daylight for 20+ years.
Here is who cares.....all the children she didn't get a chance to prey on. THAT is who cares. THAT is what matters. It's bad and sad enough that there is one child.
@@oooh19 it wasn’t only handwritten messages. At 2:23 he says text exchange, and later mentions the parents allowed the teacher on a ski trip and allowed them to exchange phone numbers.
The fact that we’re even questioning whether she deserves jail time is absurd. Leniency because it’s her first offense. If a man did this it would be automatic jail time
I agree with why are we questioning it. But we can’t say a man would get automatic jail time. My uncle who attacked me at 8 didn’t. The daycare worker who attacked me at 10 didn’t.
"Haha bro I just want to make out with you" HOW DOES SOMEONE WITH A ADULT MIND FIND THAT ATTRACTIVE. I've hung out with 11 year old, they are weird, silly and annoying.
Imagine being her fiancé and knowing she'd rather be with an 11 year old KID instead of you. I feel so bad for the guy, but it seems like he dodged a bullet....
What you forget is that the young man could have easily called for help or said, "I'm telling my parents, you freak!", but instead he was a willing participant.
So much collateral damage here. The parents of the kid, her other students, the school as a whole, the fiancé, fiancés family, her own family, etc etc. She just made a ton of people look back on every interaction they’ve ever had with her in a different way.
HOW could you look at an eleven year old child like that?!? It’s so disgusting and I just cannot wrap my head around it. There’s something seriously wrong with her mind
@@nekemli2622If it had been a man, and his female fiance left him, we’d ALSO be relieved for her, for the bullet she also dodged. What’s the confusion? The fiance may not be the primary victim, but they would have been married to a sicko so they’re lucky not to be. duh. 🤷♀️
@@abutestes1855A change in attitudes and perceptions of damage too, I imagine in the past people would be told off or sacked but not it is more and more becoming to be seen as criminal.
Am I insane? Or does it seem like you guys feel more empathy for the husband than for the actual victim? As if the husband is the victim and not the child.
@@chrissyscholl816 precisely my point, way too much weight is put on a criminal background check. It's not a psychological test, and even that may not tell you their intent.
Screening will do even less than a full assessment. It’s common practice for police departments to put cadets through full psychological assessments to ensure they are psychologically fit. However, there are still a lot of bad cops who get through. Read the news on any given day. I worked corrections for some years and the officers could be as psychopathic as the inmates. Assessments are expensive and not fool-proof. A noble suggestion but not realistic or truly valuable.
he was born in 2013. probably still wearing diapers in 2015. In 2019 he was still in kindergarten. He started 1st grade in the pandemic. She was making out with this child and was sexually obsessed with him while being very aware of his age, like she said , she has a cousin his age. She is beyond sick.
I'm a retired teacher. Women teachers have always preyed on students. It's only now that they're being punished for it. I've seen male and female colleagues prey on students. The men lost their jobs, their marriages, their teaching licenses, their freedom, and were put on the SO registry for life. The women were allowed to resign, kept their teaching licenses, didn't go to jail, and weren't put on the SO registry. Even now, women aren't punished as harshly as men, but at least they are punished. And I guarantee you that for every case that gets on the news, there are 10 cases that the district administration hushed up, involving both men and women. Btw, notice that the female teacher "made out" with the 11 year old boy. If it was a male teacher, would the news report it using the same language? Of course not.
Exactly. If this was a man “making out” with a 5th grade girl he’d be doing some time of some sort most likely and I think more people would be enraged. This is crazy!
Very true. And also very telling considering the whole "equality" push and sham.... they don't really want true equality!!! They want obvious privilege when it benifits them, yet still have the underlying sentiment of being viewed as "harmless" in these kinds of situations!!
I agree!! I am a teacher and that sounds so weird. In over 20 years of teaching, I have never socialized with the parents (except when my own children were friends of my students).
That does seem weird. I wonder if that didn’t kind of start this whole thing maybe. Since she started spending time with him outside of the classroom. Just a thought.
I’m a teacher and it is standard to not allow student contact unless through parents, and even then teachers are encouraged to only contact parents through school phones or school based digital contact like email.
See, it’s not allowed. But seeing as she is willing to break the law and do intimate acts with minors, something tells me she didn’t mind breaking another ethical rule.
Really? I had a non official gf in pre k, we would sleep next to eachother everyday during nap time. Then I had my first official gf in 2nd grade and we were togther till 5th grade when we got seperated to different schools. @@Tygeera
My Math teacher came on to me when I was a junior in high school. It really upset me, because I had looked up to him before that. I had trust issues for a few years.
@@nekemli2622 yeah i definitely would've at the time. though looking back on my first relationship now, i'm really glad it went the way it naturally would. and i fully believe the former way creates a deviant.
As a female, my parents have always said to be aware of weird male teachers and to report anything if I felt uncomfortable. I always thought hmm why do you never give my brother this talk??
dude wants to get out of that he punches her in the face and its done. What is she gonna do goto the cops and say i was trying to r@pe him and he clocked me?
@@albertfinney1328I was SA’d for eight yrs of my childhood by my father. I’ve nvr SA’d anyone, much less a child. A history of SA does NOT excuse her behavior or anyone else’s behavior who SA’s a child. The trauma it leaves behind is FOREVER, and anyone who has experienced it should NEVER want to perpetuate that kind of trauma on another person!
@@tallahoramismothe fact you think because he “liked” it makes it the child’s fault is so messed up. The teacher aka adult should know better and report the inappropriate attention and completely shut it down. Your the type of person to say to a girl what were you wearing? If a girl gets SA’d. This is the hill you wanna die on? That he liked it? I hope someone checks all your devices.
@@MissKateKatieyou mean a girl minor is a child that woman gonna get a slap on the wrist because most of the judges are men she gonna get 5 to 10 year in jail but if it was a man who had done this with a 11year girl he getting 25year to life in jail and the male imates gonna have him for breakfast 😂😂😂
As a woman who works with children I cannot comprehend how this keeps happening. While background checks seem like the answer, anyone who works with kids is required to get regular background checks. That's not going to change anything if you've never been caught. There needs to start being more severe consequences for women who victimize children. If this was a male teacher with a student people would be absolutely outraged.
Now that so many of these cases are generating awareness you shouldn't be working around children either. You might start getting ideas once you come across a child at work... women are just weak like that. What makes you any different than the rest?
I bet they have a lot of regrets for that decision. They had no idea she was a child molester at that point. Prayers for the child. He will definitely need counseling after this.
@@dylanpattiattiforeal, kid still smells like pee lol. This crap just keeps happening left and right! Everyone should just homeschool there kids forever this world is wild.
I agree. It’s fine to specify the acts done in cases like this but once we understand what happened they should continue referring to it as the assault it is.
I thought you had misspelled the word misspelled but I wasn't sure so I googled it and I'm glad I did because I was wrong as usual and I'll see myself out
@@leinonibishop9480 when she's back roaming the streets after being inside this is the "PRIOR" conviction she will do it again! Keep her inside for life
So gross. They say it's less likely to be a stranger and more likely to be someone close to the family to take advantage of children. Disturbing all around.
My 11 year old JUST started outgrowing his stuffed animals. Like we are packing them up as we speak to be put in the closet and some will be donated. He still sleeps with his favorite stuffed dragon that he's had since birth. HE STILL HAS A COUPLE BABY TEETH FOR GOD'S SAKE! This society is so, so sick. People are rotten in their souls.
Really though! I used to teach this age. Some don’t even know how to tie their shoes. Pick their nose absentmindedly. My son this age still loves his stuffed animals and I don’t think even washes himself properly in the dang shower (always having to remind him to get a wash rag). These women are sick in the head!
My former high school “advisor” was convicted of assaulting two boys years later at a public school, and she was an overtly cruel and sadistic woman. I was, unfortunately, not even slightly surprised when she was arrested (Alison Marchese)
Wow and here I am at 33 and telling 24 year olds that they’re way too young for me! 😵💫 And this lady is chasing a dang 5th grader!! What the heck is wrong with people???
@herward1047 I was an 11 year old at one time. Should I think about myself and how I could have been assaulted by THAT teacher? Your premise is flawed. Your need to play the victim is noted. Your son isn't a victim, BTW.
@@herward1047 you're not a victim, ma'am. Your son isn't a victim, ma'am. I was 11 years old at one time, as well. I'm not a victim of this teacher, either
Talking to ALL kids (boys and girls) about inappropriate conduct with trusted adults is a hard but important conversation that is much more important than ever.
@cableexpertcarl. Bull sh it. The women are dealt with much more harshly than the men. When was the last time you saw a male pe do teacher plastered across the headlines? Because they don't prey on little girls? They're much more prolific in their perversion than female teachers (they're both disgusting) but female teachers are in the news more because it's much more titillating to think of young women with young boys.
One thing that I believe is causing a rise of these illegal / inappropriate relationships is that through cell phones these adults have access to children that they never had in the past. I am 57 and my teachers were not able to reach me at any hour day or night without my parents’ knowledge. Prior to cell phones, these adults would not have been able to have a 24/7 private relationship to prey upon and groom these children.
@@TheYazmanian emergency situations. I’d only give my child a phone that preset with like 3 numbers. Mine, dads, and 911 or another emergency contact. They don’t need to be texting their friend let alone teachers. But most parents nowadays don’t gas and just give their 5 year old an iPhone
I think it happened in the past also but was under reported. Just the other week at my work a young female staff shared nude snaps with a 17 year old student and then he shared them with his high school friends and a student reported it.
I’m a teacher. My first year teaching was in another country (Colombia) 24 years ago. It was normal there to invite invite teachers to outside activities. I am still friends with many of the families to this day and stay with them when I visit the country.
I live in a town as opposed to a city. I know some of the teachers at my son's old school were friends with some of the parents of their pupils. It's not so weird.
Yes, but think they are not innocent, they know what they are doing too!! So both pay next time don’t teacher seduce them or opositive, they both panish. Yo juro ningún jovencito abusándose de su gana de travesear van a quedarle ganas de faltarle al respeto a una persona adulta!! A veces la falta de dinero y accesibilidades para llegar a esos recintos sin ser vistos ni criticados los hace tomar esta opcion, una mujer sin riesgos de enfermedades y sin usar condon.
@@basebaby6113 it’s probably somewhere in between. The internet is forever to everything is traceable and it encourages copycat crimes with more people seeing them. Or I could be totally be wrong whos to say
@@joas3324.please don’t lump all of us teachers like that. Most of us are decent people and think this is disgusting. I for one became a teacher because I fell into it after not properly planning my future career. Now I pay the price for that daily believe me…
The boyfriend is not the issue. The woman is. It has nothing to do with ego in part of the boyfriend by feeling bad that she cheated on her with a kid. I think it's more that she's mentally sick!
She was caught ABUSING this child. Let's not sugar coat what she did. As the parent of a boy close to this age, I had a visceral reaction to this. I am absolutely disgusted and enraged. I cannot imagine how a grown woman could do this to a child and a teacher at that. Just vile.
@@GodO4-because those tests are nearly impossible to manipulate. They also test for inconsistencies (deceit). You’re talking 300+ questions and many of them are repeats and merely worded slightly different, and they’re timed. So if you try to cheat then it will pick up on that and you’ll still not get the job.
Has it changed? I think we are just seeing this more with the more widespread and easier dissemination of media. I think we are just becoming more aware of how often these inappropriate relationships between students and teachers are occurring.
I was thinking the same thing!! I’m guessing that she was hoping he was too naive to realize what she was doing was wrong. Probably why she was targeting someone so young 🤢
Why did this kid have enough privacy to have a text conversation with this woman? Got to get these kids off the Internet. I know that it was a teacher, but still it’s just too much exposure.
Its because of modern day parents giving little timmy total privacy because he deserves privacy at 10yrs old and parents shouldn't "overstep their boundaries" or restrict their 10yr old kids no matter what. 10yr old kids deserve the respect of adults or they might get mad at their parents so do what the 10yr old wants
Exactly. Parents trust the school to raise their own kids. Parents give kids phones well because schools will give them laptops anyway. So the school says so let’s do it. Absent parents allow for predators to step in. The internet and cell phones allow predators to step in.
I have spoken with many men in my lifetime that told me they lost their virginity to their babysitter. Sadly this has been going on for a very long time.
my ex boyfriends dad moved in a "housekeeper/babysitter" to "show him the ropes" when HE WAS 10!!!! NEEDLESS to say he will probably always have problems in relationships with women, he certainly did with me...
Over the age of consent leave them to it as long as they keep it outside the classroom but 11 is a tad young even he is telling her he wants to make out
@@johnbarlow4572Well…outside the classroom still means that there is a conflict of interest, even if the student is of legal age. Relationships, making out, dating and s3x affairs, between teacher/adult and kid/student, is still not appropriate and should be made illegal. Once the student leaves school and is of legal age, sure… though it’s still kinda weird from a parents’ perspective. But definitely, those connections are NOT acceptable when the kid or youth is still in that school and being taught by that teacher or encounters that adult, whom is working in that school.
10,11 years old I remember caring a lot about cereal, getting home quick to watch cartoons that I liked. Your whole world is getting to school and vacation days and when will summer days come- and your relationship with family,siblings,pets. There is so much you don’t know at that age and it’s a blessing. A man I care about was abused at a young age by someone he was supposed to trust and he remains broken his potential thwarted by coping with what happened and anesthetizing himself. This woman is a brutal thief to take away this eleven year old’s innocence and damage his potential.
Thats the BS double standard when it's men teachers with young female students but the women with the young men most of the time get a slap on the wrist an the kid gets a high five
Just warn the boys about female perverts already. What was with all the hand-wringing and agonising over this from Hansen? Stop prioritising a grown adults feelings over a child's safety. We don't have this issue when the sexes are reversed. Clearly women's feelings are considered more important than the safety of boys. Okay...I get it...we pander to womens feelings in literally EVERY other facet of society. That's how our culture works. But NOT here. That is a hard line.
Am I delusional? Do you notice how everyone in the comments feels sorry for the husband, but no one speaks about how much more traumatizing it is for the child? People act as if the husbabnd is the main victim here. Or am I wrong?
@@nekemli2622 that's another part of the double standard. If it's an older female praying on a male child, people feel that the male child always wants it. They fail to understand that children cannot consent. The child is always the victim in these circumstances.
