Their abilty to stand up for what they believe is right, no matter what opposition they face! (which to be fair, is sort of leaning into what you wrote above)
As an 8 I do appreciate the fact that you said “unhealthy 8s” vs “8s as a whole”. Sometimes it is nice to have someone else that’s qualified to be in charge & take that leadership role. But you better believe I’ll take over in a heartbeat if you’re not up to standards bud. 🥂
in group projects I genuinely try to let other people step up... but then they screw up 3 times and I'm like screw this I am in charge now. Its like that old saying, if you want to get something done you do it yourself
I don’t think 8’s always think they do the right thing...I’m an 8:) I think it’s more that they don’t care what anybody thinks about what they did...it’s right to them and that’s all that matters:)
Sorry, more to say. All or nothing is SO true...stick with what you say! I was dying at the keto example...me and my husband!! 😂 except I don’t feel betrayed I just think you’re a woose if you can’t stick with a commitment:) And I don’t think it’s accurate that we think we are always right:) if you can “bring it” and show how you are actually right, I’m totally open to changing my mind. You just gotta persuade me:) I’m a wing 9 so I’m really cool with letting someone else lead:) Great vid!
Thanks for the insightful comment, Alana! 💜 It's interesting to hear that it's more than just feeling like they're always right. It's more about being right *to them* and that's what matters! (also, so glad the keto example resonated with you 😂 I thought it was funny)
As an 8w7 I completely agree with Alana, my mind can be changed but the other person would have to bring a convincing arguement. And I REALLY love when someone will actually engage with me to debate/discuss something. Like please, don't LET me mow you over with my opinion if you don't agree. I want others to stand up for themselves and their beliefs. Of course as I've grown up some I realize that is just not how everyone functions.
8randi totally! I feel sooooo loved when someone “hangs with me” to the end of the conversation instead of shutting down or running away. I definitely agree we must be aware of others feelings etc. I am not argumentative or ugly when I “debate” but I am challenging and bold. I just love when people stick it out to the end:)
My husband won't engage in those debates because he says he knows he's not gonna change my mind... but I do feel like he could if he would just engage instead of giving in lol. He said it's cute that I think he could change my mind, but he knows better 💁♀️
My brother's a Type 8... he hates the Enneagram... always talking about how it's not scientific or whatever... Which is ironic, huh? Hearing the Challenger challenging.
As an 8 I read some "psychology experts" say that the enneagram was pseudoscience. Their arguments were rather weak - sure no 50 question test can perfectly characterize something as complex as a human being. But by analyzing core desires and fears it is perfectly reasonable that a system could be established which prescribes behavioral guidelines to individuals. Furthermore, I had quite a few people that I know well take an enneagram and it was accurate to their personalities as I knew them - aside from a couple things that were revealed to me but then confirmed by said friends to be accurate. Essentially, I trust my own inductive reasoning and my own anecdotal research over that of these "experts". Tell me where I'm wrong lol
Important distinction about the creating conflict thing: 8's create conflict as intimacy IF THEY LIKE YOU, believe it or not. Lmao. If they don't like someone or really have a problem with them, it's not about intimacy and they probably want to destroy the person of their ire in those circumstances. But if they're just jostling with you, it's probably because they like you as a person and want to see if you can play with them back.
Very true! I want to know what someone is made of. If they can stand toe to toe with me, I like them. If they are easily intimidated, I’m not going to have much respect for them.
Thank you so much for those testimonials! I go everywhere to understand an 8 woman I fell in love with and this explains a lot about her. I try to understand her logic so much but I'm a flamboyant 4, it's hard 😂
My boyfriend is an 8 and I had to explain this to my best friend when they met. He decided he really liked my friend and then instantly started giving her a hard time about things and she was so confused.
Well, it's not how we are... I'm an 8w9 and yes, the anger part is real, if I'm angry, I'm angry and that's it! I do swear at work if someone annoys me, regardless of how "unprofessional" it may come across. The nuance part... is iffy... yes and no... I do see a lot of nuance and I'm not that intense, but I do like to divide people into friends and enemies, because it makes planning/interacting with them so much easier. The authority part... again iffy... if someone wants to consult more people and debate... I can't stand that, just make a decision. A bad decision is better than no decision. If no one makes one, I will make one, regardless of hierarchy. It means they are unable to decide, so I have the authority to make the call. Just like the nuance part... it's about clarity. Clarity is good, clarity is the best and I hate feeling confused. There are so many meetings at work after which I leave thinking that it was all a waste of time and we decided nothing. And having to talk with others... I either let them decide (most of the time) or I decide alone. They should just tell me what to do, not explain all the philosophy behind the decision. I don't take control just for the sake of taking control. The only control I want is over myself. Also, I don't do it for minor stuff: like where to go out... I don't care... anywhere... And I definitely don't start ordering people around, unless there is an emergency and there is no time for debate.
I'm a 9 and my BOSS is an 8. Arg! So this video was both really, really funny and painful. (BTW, my 8 boss has a heart of gold. Truly. Like she'd ever let you forget that! 😉)
I'm a 9 and my mom and sister are both 8s... a good time lmao. Grateful my mom's an 8, she's helped me own more of my 8 wing, rather than always defaulting to 9w1 :)
Fun fact, that “anger” you describe is not always an 8 being mad or “angry”. They are frustrated and disappointed with those around them. They know you can do better but you refuse to due to your shortcomings. A healthy 8 can see that sometimes they are frustrated and disappointed with themselves but they have trouble admitting that they have done something on the same level as you. Your example could have expressed that with better wording, just saying.
I agree with the being frustrated with other’s lack of effort!! I always say, “if I can do it, so can you!” Lol it’s hard to not get irritated! I hate group projects for this very reason.
YES! My husband and daughter will tell me I'm mad, when I'm not. They are both 2's... I'm expressing frustration. When I'm mad, it's a whole other level of decibels.
That can feel like never being able measure up, though. Very unpleasant to be around someone and constantly wonder what you'll be criticized about next.
This is a great video! I am an 8. It’s not that I want control all the time - it’s just when things are moving too slow or there is confusion or indecision, I can’t take it and I assume leadership. If there is ALREADY strong leadership, I am very happy ☺️
Yes. I really wish people understood that about us. My greatest pleasure is sitting back in silence and watching great leadership taking place. Unfortunately, it's an extremely rare pleasure.
100%! I love interacting with people who lead from the front and I defer totally to them if they are competent. The other 99% of the time I have to move things along as gently as I can haha
Yes!!! If it’s a good strong leader whom I already respect and trust in those situations I’m willing to go along with them and even be willing to step aside and learn something, if I don’t like or trust the leader though then I’m a huge pain in the ass to work with no doubt. If they’d just be competent though, even if I don’t love them as a person I can at least respect them, it’s the bad leaders who are indecisive or just plain don’t have a backbone that frustrate me
I'm an Enneagram 8. When I was in college, a bunch of women I knew were all sitting there eating salad. I said, "What, are we having some kind of competition to see who can eat the least satisfying meal possible, and in the scantiest portion sizes? No thanks." Then I sat down, and proceeded to dive into a cheeseburger and fries.
Lol I’m an 8w7 and literally I could relate to all of these. Especially the explosive one. Legit got SO PISSED that my family canceled our travel plans last week. After canceling my flight, they tell me the travel plans are back on. Like how are you so indecisive?!?
I’m an 8 and I can still see nuances in some situations. I just don’t think nuances are always the answer. I guess that kinda affirms the whole black and white thing but I had to say something. (This was actually very type 8 of me, I’m ending it here)
I was already kind of thinking my husband is an 8, but after watching this, I'm almost positive he is. I'd love it if he'd take the test but he's really busy with this takeover at work and monitoring a new security system for our apartment complex and besides... haha... I don't want the 20 minute lecture on how personality tests are a waste of time and how I should be spending my time instead. LOL. I'm a 4. I know.
How is this marriage going for you guys? I read a lot of negative comments about 4/8 couplings... I am getting to know an 8 and he’s amazing. I am a four... and it’s still a even a very young friendship... so we will see. But can you tell me a bit about it..?! The beginnings, how you knew they liked you, challenges you’re having, can the 4s be vulnerable about their soft side with the 8, without the 8 looking down on them.. what does the 8 do when the 4 gets moody/ depressed... appreciate your time on this!
I’m seeing a lot of spouses of 8’s in these comments saying they’re 4’s. I wonder if there’s a natural attraction there. Now I need my partner to take the test 😅
As an 8, I have been told over and over to "calm down" and relax, and definitely draw lines everywhere in my life. Black and white everything. And being somewhat insubordinate at work! My sister (a seven) calls me out all the time to admit when I'm wrong 😂😂
Everytime I start working somewhere, the first thing I say when introducing myself is "My most hated word is "chill out/calm down"...noone has ever calmed down in the history of the world from being told to calm down!"...seriously!!! :D
Dude. For real. I was hitting the gym day in, day out. I got sick and haven't been back for almost a fortnight. Sticking to a routine is easy but getting into a routine? Put a bullet to my head.
My husband is an 8. This is absolutely him. He always talks about how attractive I am when I'm feisty and not in the mood for his shit. I'm actually a 4 so our relationship is.....interesting. Haha. But, seriously, I swear to GODDD, the man creates conflict with me just because he likes that I challenge him and won't back down (orrrr I withdraw because I refuse to engage in pointless debates and it spurs him on even more). He hates being a follower, it's always someone else's fault (I don't allow him to get away with this logic lol), and anyone that is sensitive or emotional **cough**again, I'm a 4**cough** is a baby. I have to come in and remind him not everyone processes the same as him and help him tone it down. He does but it takes some...what do you know..."conflict" to do that. I literally have to stand there and say "now, go apologize for being harsh and demanding".
Why is it that I’m always the one who has to roll down my intensity to ‘fit in’? I feel like I have to wrap myself up in cotton wool and Saran Wrap to blend better into my surroundings! If people knew just half the things I don’t say so I can fit in and play nicely according to everyone else’s sensibilities!
I think you did lovely, with the exception of the fit throwing about the cookies. I (as an 8) would never get that emotional about it. I would just be done. Maybe that's just me though. Either way, I adore your videos.
As an eight, I love to express myself and even cause arguments (friendly ones, mostly), especially with my friends and family. But let me tell you, it's so annoying when they take it personally!
Oh wow, I am married to an 8 and never realized how true a LOT of this is. Lol. He's amazing and I love how he's never afraid to stand up for what's right.
I cannot wait until Arielle gets home from school so I can show her! (She’s my 14 year old 8w7.) I won’t bother with my 18 year old 8w9 daughter... she’s convinced I’m insane to even get to know all of this and she doesn’t need it because she’s already right about everything.... 😂
You have two 8 daughters?! This is why I didn’t have kids. As an 8w7 I knew I’d have 8’s and it would be like herding velocaraptors. Of course I’d be the head one, until they unified and took me down. 😝
No you guys like making fun of other for being different. If people aren't as flashy as you or as smart as an 8. You make fun of there short comings. I know people decisions make the difference but to make fun people for a different race or not having as much money you people are horrible.
Alex Green What are you talking about... I’m an 8 and I’m not like that. I don’t make fun of people for being different than me. Yes, I get fustrated with people who don’t make good decisions, or don’t respect themselves, but I don’t run around making fun of people and torturing them.. This is what frustrates me, when other types think 8s are immoral monsters. I would never in a million years make fun of someone for being a different race or class than me, that’s just stupid.
@@maryprice8458 I have to say this little piece of information right here has helped me immensely in my relationship. I think about it all the time and it makes it a lot easier to not to get defensive or engaged in an argument.
As an 8, my critique is that I would not be ‘crying’ or showing that much emotion while berating my loser friend for not following through 😊 When we are explaining to others why they are wrong and we are right, there are never tears. Crying is for babies.
Especially not argueing about any nonsense details, I agree, that's wrong, we don't do that meaningless shit. It might look that way to a non-8 from the outside. Seeing them as unlogic, quarreling psychopath. If an 8 will call you an asshole, there is absolutely a sincere reason for that.
I'm an 8w7 and you certainly nailed it. One of the biggest and most helpful things I've had to hone in is the ability to listen for, look for and obey social cues and boundaries from others. It doesn't come naturally to me but in sharpening this skill, I've preserved and enriched friendships that I would have otherwise exasperated. I also have a high need for detail and clarity. Very high. I've learned to preface my tendency to ask questions with others by often saying, "I know there may be a limit to what you prefer to share, let me know when we get there, but I'd appreciate the opportunity to ask some more questions so I can understand things." I find it's helpful when I recognize with others that a boundary exists and that I will respect it. Again --- clarity!
I came up as an 8 but also close 5.I resonate more with a 5 because I had to learn how to be an 8 because of growing up with a narcissistic family member.On the Meyers Brigs I am an INFJ.This is all fascinating to me
8w7 here, and I choose to think I am a healthy one. Nice video; everything was good except that I disagree about the emotional expression when your "friend" ate the double Oreo. The emotion expressed was displayed as sadness, but Eights never get sad when someone can't keep their commitment. Its straight 0 to 100 miles anger. Yup :) Never could really relate myself to sadness; probably once in my life when my hamster died I CRIED like a human had died. I guess also about being healthier as Eights; we keep more of our judgement to ourselves; like in that scenario where she was being judgmental about eating salads. These days I don't express my opinions anymore; sometimes I fear not being able to control myself once I let my opinions out (Either I shut up; or I go big time argument). So I shut up. Has any Eights here been in an argument with other Eights; and you feel like you did your shit right you fought till the end, and you stood up for yourself well; and the other Eight says "I like you."? Hahah its such an Eight thing! They give respect and admiration to those who are gutsy and confident and solid in their stance. Thanks for the video! :D
Yay!! So glad it brought you joy, Simon. (and so freaking cool that you're watching from Sweden!! I've always wanted to go there!) Thanks for watching and commenting... I really appreciate it! 💜
As a type 9 I feel like type 8 is the hardest to deal with for me. Creating intimacy by creating conflict?! It's the opposite for me, I create conflict by creating harmony and softness. And I dislike so much when people act dominant, bossy or rough to me. Or when I get criticised. While 8's do all of those. My husband is type 8 (as well as my father and sister). Now I feel like that's rather problematic and explains why things don't go so well😔 I'd be very interested in a video series like: 'as type X, how to deal with type Y' (specially the 'as type 9 how to deal with type 8' episode)🙂
Wow, this is uncannily accurate. I've been watching videos on the Enneagram since this afternoon, trying to figure out which I was, and have been surprised to find 8 coming out most dominantly. This video actually just cemented it for me. It does a good job of pinpointing the times when I realise that I've just been the worst version of me. These are not things I like about myself, but it's really useful to see them pointed out. Thanks for the fun, lighthearted, and TRUE depiction!
These are so correct for me. 3 applied previously, but I have seriously worked on it. My fave thing about 8s is that we do lots of planning so things go smoothly. ~Rebel
I’m an 8 and for the record, even though I act like I’m always right and never at fault, I don’t believe that and I actually hate myself. I’m not as proud as I project
me too, thats why i say that its not that im (8w9) is right, but they are just wrong. im actually very self degratory too. (mostly when people say im being insensitive about their feelings)
I’m an 8 and I used to just think everyone in the world thought the same way I do. It was incredibly frustrating. Now I understand a lot more about why I think the ways I do. I’m still always right, but at least now I know why☺️
Hm. I’m most definitely an 8 but the anger thing isn’t true.I do push it down till it makes me physically ill. ( That’s just how I’ve been taught) it REAlLY doesn’t work for me. It’s probably why I have death,high BP.
Me too!!! It adds to the indecisiveness in me and of being torn apart inside. Specially on situations where it is better to be assertive but after i let go of the assertion i immediately revert to being "chill" so as to keep the peace and not offend people. 😂😂😅 many of my co-workers would call me moody and even though we've been working for a long time, there are still times when they get surprised by the way i act or the things i say.
The me, having discovered Enneagram and hour ago : what a load of *** The me, 25 seconds in the video : is she talking about me? I feel she's talking about me. Why is she exposing me like that?
I've actually shat on salads so many times in the past...very accurate video lol The only time I've ever eaten salads was when I was all-consumed by my desire to look a certain way. It's always all or nothing with 8s.
What I like about having an 8 wing is the courage, determination, and fire to strive through life whatever challenge is thrown at me. Yep, that aggression could go out of hand, and stress towards 5 makes us more distrustful of anyone around. Hahaha, anyway, a toast to another good video! 😄🥂
My husband is an 8 and so much of this was hilariously true. It was insightful too... that the conflict creates intimacy...huh! That makes me feel better about when he's pressuring me for my opinion that I know he's going to disagree with anyway...lol! He's seeking intimacy through that...?? I've never heard it said that way. Does that resonate with you other 8s?
I'm the same number as you! 3 and when unhealthy, move into 9. But yeah, I've read that 8s seek conflict because it creates an honest intimacy with the people around them. Maybe ask your hubby and report back!
I'm an 8 Teresa and yes I do feel that way. I mean what's more intimate than passionately expressing your thoughts and feelings with someone? We WANT desperately to know not only WHAT you think and feel, but WHY you think and feel that way also... so that we can truly KNOW YOU
I think I am an 8 cause I am an ENTJ. I did resonate with this video and the comment about conflict creating intimacy gave me an ah ha moment. When someone can stand up to me and be as honest as I am with them, then it does feel more real and intimate than someone who is wishy washy with me just to make me "feel better"
hahahhahahah i'm a 8w7 - I relate to this so much and trying to be less aggressive. I'm an ENFP 8w7. I am super light hearted and quirky, but when I'm pissed or want to be in control, I can bulldoze people...I'm learning to be better.
I am split on trying to decipher whether I am an 8 or 5 because I resonate highly with both. It is driving me nuts! I keep reading and seeing if there is a correlation and there is to a degree in terms of dealing with disconnection of emotions... This is why I don't have friends 😔
Oh yeah my brothers an 8 and he never takes responsibility for his wrongdoings. He’s an unhealthy 8 so I don’t judge all 8s by him but he’s an asshole and is so mean and dominating of my 6 sister in law. And tries to be of everyone else too! Ugh 8s can be frustrating. That line “you’re so sensitive” that’s his favorite
I’m an 8 and I can say these type of people are the only type I fight against with - toxic 8’s. Everyone else I am kind yet firm when is needed. My pet peeve are people that think their dominating but they’re actually just domineering. Arrogant, not confident and these are people not fit for leadership. poor emotional regulation, lack of self control, no empathy, and self absorbed. These people allow their emotions to own them instead of being the one to own their emotions.
NUMBER 7 KILLED ME HAHAHAH I'm working on my school's prom planning committee and it's such a struggle to not just r u n with everything because i know everyone else is going to do it wrong/ won't do it as well as I can 🙄
oh my! I am such a balance of a 7 with a very strong 8 wing! Both this and your 7 video had me laughing so hard my 4 husband asked me what I was watching :-/
I have next to no attachment to this Enneagram concept. All I know is these are things I've said and done, repeatedly. This is essentially my life and frame of existence. As far as "needing to be right" a lot of that can sometimes come from the fact that I have very high standards for what I consider to be acceptable evidence towards me being wrong. I'll rarely if ever deny I did something wrong that I did do wrong. I am incredibly intentional in all my behavior. If I did something, I intended it that way. If it was the wrong way, or it was a way that caused problems, that is where defensiveness comes in, since I am a neurotic perfectionist, and also suffer from severe black and white thinking. If I admit to the mistake, than I am a mistake ubiquitously. I am very passionate, with strong ideals, and if I view something as worth fighting for, I will fight for it until I am given significant evidence that It is no longer valuable or personally beneficial to fight for it. As a result, if you're my friend, and you are harmed by someone else, then I'm usually very particular and exhaustive about making sure the problem is dealt with in any manner that best resolves what happened to my friend. I'll often explain in detail why I view something a certain way(such as the salad example in the video), because It comes from a field of genuine compassion the person I am talking to. Hypothetically, if I'm explaining to you why I feel that women eating salads is asinine to watch weight, after you say you enjoy eating them, I am explaining it to you not to be right, or correct, but because I genuinely fear that If I don't tell you this, and if I don't successfully change your views, than your quality of life will decline, and life will just be less enjoyable overall. Because I'm an Idealist and want the best possible life for every possible person, I feel a strong sense of duty and responsibility to ensure I contribute to that Ideal in whatever small way I can mange. I don't want you to suffer, so I attempt to change your view. I take everything in life very seriously, everything is a big deal, even having fun and relaxing, so as a result of that, it's hard to actually conceptualize a different worldview where you can just... accept anything less than the ideal or best potential outcome. If I spiral into depression due to stress, I completely collapse. I have a very strong ego, but if a weak point is hit, I rapidly decompose. I talk to no one, advise no one, help no one, do nothing, and feel nothing but pain, regret, and guilt over my failure to foresee and prevent what happened that upset me. Being an Eight is a very fulfilling life. I would not change it for the world. It is hard to walk the fine line between accepting the traits I've stated, while still avoiding harm of individuals, but this is truly where I feel most comfortable. In my case, Eights are passionate, unparalleled Idealists, with enough internalized stress and pressure to help them actualize their Ideals into Reality.
TIL I am a textbook unhealthy 8. Its bizzare having someone I have never met quote me directly. Edit: immediately after typing this she said "if you're an 8 you are already typing me a comment..." I feel so...seen.
I’ve been diagnosed as an 8 by a good friend of mine. I watched this video with a furrowed brow and waiting to unleash a “How wrong can you be?” Comment...... but you took the wind out of my sails 🤣😂 I don’t think the enneagram explains EVERYTHING about a person, but it’s a decent baseline for what kind of reactions you can expect from different types. Since discovering the enneagram I use it when approaching my employees. I know what buttons to press. My favorite description of an 8 is “The person most likely to run into a burning building to save someone, but also the most likely to have started the fire in the first place” 😂 this was an enjoyable video 👍 well done
I’m happy I’m not an unhealthy 8 on number 7 because I know my place when to lead and not to. Plus I hate people trying to boss me and other people around when they don’t have the authority to. So why would I want to be a hypocrite and do the same thing
Your personality is uplifting. You got me exactly right. I'm SO ASSERTIVE, PERSUASIVE, YET IM HEALTHY ANDMINDFUL. HAHA. WHAT 16 PERSONAKITY ARE YOU. ENFJ, ENFP, ESFP.
I would never say anything stupid like that. There might be two types of eights, and the one in this video might be the emotionally unstable "8Moron" type?
As an Enneagram 8 who spent at least 20 years being unhealthy, I can completely relate to all of those negative traits and have shown them in spades more than a few times. After recently starting therapy, I've learned to examine my thoughts and how my words and intensity can impact those around me. I spend a great deal of time refocusing now to make sure I am building up good habits and good relationships and not just pursuing that "lust" mindset you talked about.
MrManican, what a refreshing entry. I don't know what type I am, and don't really care, but I moved in with a woman who lives, eats, and breathes type 8. Our relationship for 9 months exhausted me, totally burnt me out. I suggested therapy, but her narcissist rage leveled at me was a response which was truly frightening. I moved out. Just left. How wonderful to read that you chose the sane approach and sought professional help. My best wishes to you.
Your personality is uplifting. You got me exactly right. I'm SO ASSERTIVE, PERSUASIVE, YET IM HEALTHY ANDMINDFUL. HAHA. WHAT 16 PERSONAKITY ARE YOU. ENFJ, ENFP, ESFP.
Came across Enneagram today, supposedly a 98% match to 8. ENTP on the MBTI. Was never one to be boxed into a specific type but it's a great way to help understand your strengths and weaknesses I tried to be as honest as possible with my answers, even being a little more real with sensitivities and how much I do empathise with people and their feelings but yep, still a bossy boi. I didn't relate much to the video until number 7. That was a little too real. Anyway, what is this? My life story?
How is that possible to be INTJ and 8 at the same time, while others can be ENTP, if that is an 8, too? The test results can be reproduced independently, but it doesn't make much sense?
@@horsthorstmann7614 I've done both tests in different 'moods' well a part from eachother and still reach the same outcome. To be honest, I wouldn't imagine it's worth over-thinking mate.
Ahh! My 14 year old brother is an 8 and I have NEVER in my entire life seen something that describes him so perfectly😂 he was always challenging me when I was in charge/watching them and it took all my willpower not to strangle him😂
I'm an 8 and the biggest mistake I have made in life is to try and conform to average societal standards. The unhealthy 8 in me came out strongly as conforming is something that 8's just wont do. Now that I have resolved to fully explore my strenghts including being confident, resourceful and strong willed, I am on my way to living the being version of myself as an entrepreneur. Sorry if I may appear domineering but it's how I'll drive my vision as an 8 😅!
I'm madly in love with an 8 woman and now I watch everything and anything I can to understand her mentality and have a healthy relationship with her but it's hard work 😂
I am an 8 wing 7, I think most stuff is spot on, only thing for me is I tend to internalize and bottle stuff up a lot, and never like to deal with emotions
I’m a 8w7 and this made me laugh! I think I do some form of all of these things. However... I DO think there’s such thing as nuance, but I do think I’m always right LOL.... also, something you might be missing but idk how accurate: 8’s are really good at profanity
By the way, the Daniel character is a good representation of Enneagram 8 and Enneagram 9 dynamic. With Daniel being the 9, obviously. Eights love 9's for some reason.
I’m an eight type I only become “annoying” when i feel like those people are close to me otherwise idc for other people ..AND it’s not about control more than it is about doing the right thing
First time watching this channel and I’ll be honest, as an 8 i was hella nervous... BUT this was so well done and spot on! I was either nodding my head perfusely or laughing (because of how true it is) throughout the whole video. Well done!
I’m an 8 and I will say, it has taken a lot of self work to be able to own up to my mistakes. Also, I do try to control everything and I think I’m smarter than everyone. So you aren’t off 😂🤷🏼♀️
