U kno that hurt their ego and pride thinking they won a small victory over op after not getting their way only for a cop to make them look like a dumba$$ or well expose them as one to everyone lol
What do you mean though? The sister-in-law won that. She successfully destroyed evidence of forgery in front of 4 police officers. What's a bit of bruising to the ego when the other side is a felony.
I can only hope the OP in the 1st story makes sure to set up significant security cameras all around their new home. Because I have a feeling that a family that entitled might be willing to start vandalizing the OPs house out of spite.
@@kevintull3302 well op can use his threats to ruin the lives of his entitled family if they try to violate the order and they know op would be serious about pressing charges
Story 1: I always find it weird how these families can treat one of their kids so horribly and then be surprised when that kid resents them and wants nothing to do with them and is willing to fight tooth and nail to avoid contact with them. These parents knew they treated their kid like garbage, knew they encouraged their golden child to do the same, they were under no illusions otherwise, and it was very much thrilling to see them be stuck in a situation where they were told just how cruel they were, in front of four cops, where they can't just bully their punching bag into silence anymore. If they had even a shred of decency in them, even the tiniest, faintest glimmer, this would be a wake-up moment for them, but I don't see it happening. They're the ones who raised Dan to be a good-for-nothing entitled jerk who leeches off of others, so it's only fitting that they be the ones he's leeching off of.
They are under an Illusion though. The self inflicted delusion that it was justified. My parents were a less extreme example but they had a reason for everything. "Toughen you up." "He was just playing, you took it too far." "You need to learn." The Golden Child (Brother) needed help to reach the stars and the Scapegoat (OP) was a waste who would never amount to anything. Why shouldn't they help the one worth helping. Possibly projecting their own insecurities onto their child instead of dealing with it. Point being, "They will die on that hill, but at least their be dead."
When the son asks when they have mistreated him after all these years, and the mother starts crying, I honestly don't believe those are tears of regret. They're just angry they finally didn't get their way and are learning it the hard way. They had so much time to change themselves, but they didn't. So, good to the OP for standing his ground and cutting them off.
That first story OP is such a chad. He could've ended their whole careers like me as well as most of the viewers on this video would've done to finally give them the punishment they deserved, but he didn't, because he cared about the kids over all legal violations. He's legit the kindest interrogater I've ever seen. Still pretty badass how he exposed them several times tho lol
This just shows how relentless entitled people can be when they want something that badly. Plus how do you know if the OP isn't planning on settling down himself after get his debt minimized
I would've pressed charges, against them all, sent the children into foster care. They need to see that when you choose the behaviour, you also choose the consequences. Breaking and entering, fraud, conspiracy to obtain money, goods or services by false representation. Sister in law would also be looking at assault charges. With all those charges, sis in law and brother would be lucky to see their children before they graduate high school and age out of the foster care system.
Honestly the cops in the first story probably don’t get paid enough but I bet it was a show and they didn’t really have to do much other than stand there and watch his family pack everything up and leave. The OP was doing the confrontation for the cops
This is barely different than when the OP asked for his camper to be parked on their lawn. They refused him, so he works hard to get a house. He refuses them so they should work hard and get a house.
What boils my blood even more is how smug the SIL is to op when she thinks she won one over em like when they 1st came to op’s house to see it she was all smug smiling at op and he didn’t kno why until later like she really thought parents had power over op to order op out for them to move in. She was like haha u have no idea that this is gunna be our house cause u “have” to give it. Or how she and brother were all smug smiling and waving when op came back to see they broke in to move their stuff in like they really thought that since they already moved their stuff that they won. It drives me up a wall her just smiling and all smug just to piss and rub it into op’s face and when she doesn’t get her way goes crazy. Just goes to show how horrible this family treated op that they one had no problem kicking him out of his own house to live on the street when they have a roof over their heads at the parents but “deserved their own place”, and two they all couldn’t believe the parents couldn’t continue to order op around anymore even with something crazy like this and all of them bullying op into getting their way wasn’t working either anymore.
The infamous do "it for dan" There is a teen somewhere in the us of a cringing after seeing this and saying but I wrote this in the 6th grade English assignment
Story1, well in normal circumstances, and in the same position, I would have rented the house to them for some time to find a better one, however, since, he was mistreated by his family I would do the same he did, especially since they tried several times to steal his house.
Maybe they should stop having babies they can't afford. She should get a job if they want a house. You want something, work for it. You have a great life. Good luck.
I think more along the lines of are you F$#%^N kidding me?? how dumb are some people...As a guy who works security see shit almost like this everyday i just roll my eyes and let cops deal with it if escalates.
Story1: honestly I’d just press charges. Kid or not their parents are horrible people and taking the kids away would be better for them, than being raised by these people.
Story 1: I think I’d try to get them arrested and I probably will succeed very easily, honestly I think to me everything they did would be enough to get them imprisoned for 10 yrs.
That dude needs to file a restraining order if he hasn't already and they need to call CPS. People like that should NOT be having kids. Just sheer madness.
I would have pressed charges regardless. I hate seeing families split up, but this is case where the children being removed would actually be a better thing.
@@clarky23 exactly. The kids were technically accessories to felonies, though if under age 7 they wouldn’t face charges (not legally old enough to know right from wrong). The family are bad influences on them.
@@princessmarlena1359 even if they were over 7 they could easily make an argument for being scared and not wanting to know what would happen if they did not agree. I would not blame any kid that is still to young to be ok without adult support of some kind for being scared of parents like that!!
OP should've pressed charges regardless of kids being involved or not. Just imagine how nasty and entitled those kids are going to grow up to be with parents and grandparents like that. Only they're going to end up trying that bs with someone that has no blood ties to them and doesn't give a damn about their well-being and get put into an early grave instead of just scorned and shamed.
I would have filed a restraining order on the spot, then criminal trespass charges followed by home invasion and burglary complaint. Oh, worried about what the parents might think? After doing this, would you EVER want to be around them again? Any member of the family or family friends who supported this outrage would be IMMEDIATELY 86’d from my life. I think a few thousand dollars in legal bills and a month in jail might put the fear of God into these entitled a-holes. And BTW, their little plan that they colluded in together is a criminal conspiracy. My advice: prosecute them all to the fullest extent of the law. Criminally and civilly. End of story.
The boys are all probably going to end up in prison. Guaranteed, at least one of them is going to go on a date with a girl, try to make out with her, get told "No", refuse to take "No" for an answer, assault her, and then get sent to prison.
The OP from the first story posted yet another update after this one. OP's entitled parents and brother's family showed up at his Christmas Eve as if nothing happened. OP's relatives lashed out at them, SIL only made it worse by throwing the crybaby card and they were completely destroyed as a result. SIL continued to throw bullcrap at him but nobody listens to her anymore. Following this and a poker night with his pals, OP's entitled family have stopped for the time being.
I’m imagining a Star Wars opening ‘Do It For Dan Episode II The Black Sheep Strikes Back OP had just kicked his family out of his house for trying to take it and has gone to his social media to let the family know what happened While half the family now side with him, OP fears that his family might return to take the house he struggled beyond reason to get’
Dan is what's called the Golden child. You were what's call the scapegoat. I know because I to am the scapegoat! I've learned there's no reason to ever go back and try to repair this. Best wishes. I do get lonely for a family. But it's not worth being treated like shit.
This is not the first story I've heard where entitled parents try to drive the OP out of their own house in order to move the entitled 'Golden Child' in but this is definitely the wildest one I have heard. These people are just straight up INSANE. In particular my blood boiled hotter with every 'Just do it for Dan' his parents and sister-in-law uttered, knowing that NONE of them EVER did ANYTHING nice for him. "...because when I finally have a bit of success in my life, they just want to snatch it away from me and give it to their favourite child." sums it up perfectly.
That's why here in Poland we have straight up fences, cameras and probably metal roller blinds to keep those "parents" away. And, it worked! One time my mum was just dressing the house up with us, you know, christmas music, some barszcz (a christmas dish in Poland) and fun. It was at night, so the roller blinds were closed, the gate closed too, and the cameras turned on. In our house there is also anti-burglary door, so it was preety much safe. Then, when we heard a loud pound on our door, the cameras set off the alarm, but it was no heist, it was my mothers father. He wasn't really a father, he was just a smoking, drinking pathology asshole who would demand money from us for alcohol, and beat my mom in her childhood. So this guy started banging our gate for us to open it, I think he was drunk, but in the end, we called the police and they arrested him. The end bruh
The fact that OP didn't have the police file official trespassing papers against the dad, mom, brother, sister in law, and all of their children really bothers me.
Honestly after the first time he threatened to call the cops, when they were banging on his door, he shouldn't have even answered it. He should have called the cops and had them trespassed.
Story one: Op: *is genuinely attempting to be a good individual.* Ops family: “your an inconsiderate, lazy bum.” Op: “good for me. get the fuck out.” This is hilarious to me thank you poster for sharing this nice story with strangers on the internet and thank you RU-vid poster for doing this because some individuals do not have access to Reddit. I’m very ill while wrighting this so it’s nice to see some well deserved justice.
"You're going to be disowned for this!" That is like married with children "Damn it Kelly you ate the last M&M! Your in the will!" "No daddy no!" Like that is even a threat.
When he said: “the eldest son was sobbing a saying he could not have his room” i was having shower thought moments but laughing as well i never got a room for myself so nor will he Edit: best story so far i will have depression once i finish it
In story 1 if i was OP I would say “you know what I change my mind” while everyone is cheering then I’d say “I’m pressing charges” and watch their happiness die with an evil grin
The OP of the first story made numerous updates, after the Christmas update the parents contacted OP and came crawling back to him for his help to get Dan his own apartment because the parents didn’t want Dan’s wife living with them anymore. Even though Dan got angry after OP didn’t want to help OP pointed out how they couldn’t help OP when he was homeless. The meet up was at a restaurant, they left after OP offered to order food for them to which they accepted, not that much drama, but it was a better experience than before, OP stated that if Dan found a place to live he couldn’t be a co-signer for him in any bill Dan wasn’t or wouldn’t be able to pay. The troll who kept calling OP about the whole family man thing stopped calling after OP told the troll that the calls were just amusing to him. I’m glad the family backed up OP even the mother’s parents saw the true colors of how OP’s parents treated Dan like the golden child. The parents crawled back to OP after Dan’s wife’s toxicity was getting to them after they denied her request for the parents to move into a camper
This OP is being so nice. The bro and SIL and kids can live in the greatest house on earth - as soon as they can pay for one. OP saved his money and bought his house on his own, with no help from anyone. How his family thinks they can reap his rewards is beyond me. What absolutely horrible people. They should all be shunned by society and treated like outcasts.
I don't think this toxic brother and SIL would ever appreciate a house, no mater how large, they bought from the sweat of their backs. they sound to me as the types that appreciate only those thing they stole from somebody else. It's that kind of brother that would not be satisfied untill he wrestled the cheaper Christmas gift from his kid brother.
True... a deal with the devil tends to give you something you want, which is what makes it so tempting. These people are offering OP less than nothing in exchange for everything he worked so hard to get.
The fact that OP from the 1st story didn't press charges shows an amazing amount of restraint from his side. That whole situation could've earned them at least 3 separate felonies + CPS involvement. He could've easily destroyed their lives, and they should be thanking havens that he didn't. Although he should definitely get restraining orders against all of them - based on the police report of that incident alone, the court would grant them in a nanosecond.
It's more like an amazing amount of idiocy does he honestly believe his nephews and nieces would be better off with his brother than in some orphanage or someone else's house
@@AnimeGamer501st I agree to an extent. If I was the OP - the brother, his wife and both his parents would be in cuffs inside the first minute of police arrival. What's worth observing is that police evidently sided with OPs judgement of the situation. Felonies are pursued by police regardless if you press charges or not. In this situation police basically let them go. They witnessed an unsuccessful break-in, forgery of legally binding documents, and all of this with kids in tow - that's child endangerment with high-risk behavior involved - a class 6 felony. If the police were to do their job to the letter - they would've arrested all 4 of them, OP's opinion irrelevant.
In the first story OP did the right thing by changing the lock, I recommend whenever you move into a new house/apartment/condo to always change the locks just in case the previous owner has a copy
First story: I honestly feel OP is almost to blame for not stopping things sooner. This is a situation where you *MUST BE THE DEVIL* to make sure you end things completely. I would honestly press charges, sue, AND get CPS involved. This family needs a nuclear action to get the message be understood IRREFUTABLY.
It is possible that all of this could have been prevented if he did go ahead and press charges against the sister-in-law when she originally assaulted him. But I don't think it's probable. These freaks have such a ginormous lack of self-awareness that they would blame him for 'sending a pregnant mother of 4 to jail' and double down on the whole 'Just do it for Dan!' thing. The cops really should have arrested them whether or not OP wanted to press charges since there was such obvious evidence of criminal activity... I mean they already committed break and enter, fraud and even littering right in front of the cops. But yeah... OP is being way too nice here, because he stated that the reason he didn't press charges was because he was concerned for the kids, who would be screwed if Dan loses his job and goes to prison. And I absolutely agree that CPS needs to get involved because these lunatics are definitely not raising those kids right. At least the whole extended family pretty much hates them and they're not welcome anywhere anymore, which is what the next update to this story is all about.
Agreed, people like this should be hit with the biggest amount of Karma in the world, so I'm with you, dispite how over the top it may be, they deserve it! 😤
For the "Oh he has a family and you don't" I would have answered back with "Well maybe some day I will have a wife and 1 kid, and I already know moms and dads house is full"
Everything about story 1, is so satisfying, the fact that the boss and everyone was just so nice, the fact that the police were doing their job and more, the fact that we got narcissistic family members that were so easy to hate, and then see them get defeated in a satisfactory end, is perfect, and the fact that some of the questions that I really wanted asked, got asked
My God... It makes my family seem like the 'Happy Days' show ! I already do this through my actions, but I am going to go and verbally Thank her, for her unconditional love for me. My Whole family was pretty close when I was growing up. I am grateful for my happy childhood, especially when I hear stories like this one. I am glad that he FINALLY escaped those people. (I wouldn't consider them family either.)
For story 1, like bruh I got so PISSED OFF when the mother would say "do it for dan" I hate it when people treat you horrible but still expect something from u when they wouldn't do the same for you yourself. Honestly being disowned from a toxic family like this would be a blessing and miracle.
One of my neighbors had a similarly bad relationship with his family and I overheard one of their arguments once. It culminated with the neighbor saying, "if you were burning to death, I wouldn't even take the time to piss on you!"
The “if she wanted to she could do it for Dan herself and let Dan have her house” made me crack up and also whenever he said keep packing in a sentence
The original poster's intelligence really shows in the first one he really sat here and thought after everything he's been through after everything Dan and his wife and his parents have done to him that the kids would be better off with Dan like orphanages and adoption agencies aren't cookies and rainbows but damn they would have been a lot better off in those types of setting than they are with their parents
Hell I would have even said you know what I want custody of those kids my brother doesn't deserve those kids and he's kids don't deserve to have a father like him
As a police officer, we really don’t get paid enough for shit like this. One of my buddies was on patrol and he saw something like this happening (it hadn’t been reported yet) and he stopped to see what the commotion was about and it was crazy. He had to separate the mother and mother-in-law from fighting each other until another officer and his squad mate came to assist him.
You need to ask you parents “when you get to old to take care of yourselves, let alone each other, who do you think is going to take care of you? Do you honestly think I’m going to pause my life to care for you? To make sure your well cared for? Nope. Do you honestly think Dan & his wife will take care of you? Are they gonna wipe your ass’s when you can’t? Are they gonna make sure your eating right & making it to important doctor visits?”
That first story has me scared. I own a house and I have a bunch of freeloaders in my extended family who use the "family looks out for each other" bs to get free stuff. Surprisingly it hasn't happened.
Get a gun, go to the range for practice, get a "Trespassers will ge shot, survivors will be shot again" lawn sign, and most importantly. If they do come, fire off a warning shot any place below the waist to avoid attempted murder charges. People like that never learn until their lives are put into actual danger.
Story 1: Restraining order? I just don't understand why he wouldn't get a restraining order at that point. Oh, and an alarm for his house. I guarantee they wouldn't want to try moving in again with sirens blaring in their ears.
My mother did all that to me. I had a computer and joined the US Army. My father had died and my brother said, " mom told me I can have your computer and I will be over to pick it up. I mailed it to myself in Alaska. It was just sad.
Story 1: This guy has got hella restraint for all that crap his family did, I can’t imagine being in that situation however if I was I would not have been as nice as he was and I would’ve pressed charges against them
OP should have pressed criminal and civil charges, regardless of Dan losing his job (which he deserves). To hell with Dan’s kids, they need to be taken away by CPS from that bad influence of a family.
Let’s gooooo!! This OP is sooooo awesome he held his ground and did everything right, if I was in his position after everything I would’ve taken the cops out to eat tbh
i hope OP gets a lot more security set up, and gets a guard dog. A doberman or rottweiler. One that can take an arm off an intruder if required. OP should also install a big fence as well. Seems like the family will stop at nothing to get that house, and they might even burn it down out of spite. Edit: forget being nice for the kids. The kids are being used as shields to ensure they get what they want.
