Story one had another update. If I remember correctly OP actually got a restraining order but chose not to press charges due to not wanting the kids to be put in foster care. OP's brother did come back to claim the house while OP was away. The brother actually thought it was a good idea to drill out the locks and replace the doorknobs/ locks and move his family in. Thankfully OP was able to get cops to remove them especially as they ran into the house and locked the doors but the forgot the drill and old knob & locks out on the porch where the cops could see their handy work...busted themselves immediately with that proof of breaking and entering. LOL! Easy task getting a restraining order with all that proof added to the recording of their first visit.
The family tried to force their way into the Christmas party he held for the extended family and saw there was a showdown between the extended family and themselves
Honestly should have pressed charges and honestly f*** the kids they don't get to be used as an excuse for people to evade the f****** law and Justice f*** that if the kids ended up in foster care well you know what tough titty said the kitty the mother should have thought about that before putting her hands on somebody
That first story is absolutely amazing! Having to deal with a spoilt brat brother, losing his job, living in a camper, then buying a house only to have his entitled narcissistic family try to force him to give it to his brother. Seriously wtf? I would cut them off completely and never have anything to do with them ever again.
I would've done the same if I was in their family. The bad thing about this story is the fact that it's only the beginning since the same person that told it had to put up with his god-awful family two more times. So cutting them off must've been kinda difficult for this guy to do.
@@Bunny53689 he did end up calling the police the story reminds me of a girl who was one of my kids' friends. the day she turned 18 her father threw her stuff out the window and told her to move out. Poor girl ended up at my house in tears. After she told me her father kicked her out I told her she was moving in with us. Apparently he wanted to teach her what it was like to be an adult?? this was years ago and I'm not sure if she talks to him these days. I do know she's since moved to another state. I also miss the time she stayed with us. She was an absolute sweetheart and I still have many fond memories. the funniest one being this one time her and I were looking at pics of different albino baby animals and going all ooh and ah at them. then I looked at her and wondered out loud about how an albino bear would look like. we both began imagining a bear that's all white. then I remembered one thing, we already knew what it looks like. they're called polar bears. I told her that, we both giggled Lol
@@dylanclay2741 "As a single guy with no kids and a 3 bedroom house myself I get this constantly from people wanting to rent because "I dont need all this space "" You should tell them that you plan to move out when your house becomes the property of your future ex wife!!
It’s crazy how entitled the family in the first story is where they couldn’t care less that he had to live in a camper and then when he bought a house they thought they could suddenly plop back in his life and take his house like wtf
Those type of parents are so used to making the rules under their own roof, and are so blinded by arrogance, that they think they think they can make the rules under OP's roof!
@@joshishere96 It is a difficult concept to understand for those parents blinded by arrogance and stuck in the past.... but it certainly makes a beautiful scene when their power trip leads to falling flat on their faces, i never get tired of seeing that happen! LOVE IT
Because they claimed his camper van was an eye soar to put beside their house. I would have said the bros family would be an eye soar in his house and gtf out
Honestly, I’m proud of the OP in the first story. He worked so hard to keep himself safe, sane, and alive. He survived for so long, and did it all on his own. Screw his entitled family, they bit the hand they stabbed, then begged.
I honestly have no idea weather to be amazed at the op sticking up for himself in the first story or absolutely in shock at the entitled family for doing something like trying to claim his house.
Shit I would cut off most of the family without them forcing me to do anyting judging by how they act and especially how the daughter-in-law was acting they make the perfect family that I would not want to be a part of I'd rather go out get married with intelligent beautiful woman and make my own
I wasn't expecting story 1 to be such an inspiring tale of someone nearly becoming homeless due to losing their job and having a useless immediate family, and staying in a camper by their work to eventually get a house. Truly rags to riches.
My favorite part of Story 1: Dan: "Family comes first!" OP's Family: "No you can't move your camper onto our land, it's an eyesore." I guess family doesn't actually come first for them, just Dan does. Time to install a security system after the Restraining Order and have them arrested on sight.
In update 1 he pressed for a restraining order and it went through. And in update 2: THEY LITERALLY BROKE INTO HIS HOUSE AND SQUATTED IN HIS HOME WHILE HE WAS AWAY. Literally leaving all their break in tools on the porch. Cops got involved and they were automatically charged with breaking and entering.
The sad part is interactions like story 2 happen far too often. Honestly half of the time the people making those assumptions are in the medical field. I have a fairly serious nerve disfunction where I’m in high levels of pain 24/7, I see specialists who are experts in their field. Those specialist give me prescriptions and the second I walk into a hospital I’m told that I don’t have the diagnosises and my personal favorite, I’m drug seeking. I was in the hospital with meningitis and had a nurse refuse the pain meds ordered because he didn’t believe that I had an at home prescription for that same med by mouth. It’s like if you aren’t bleeding out or missing limbs you obviously can’t be disabled or in pain
Had that issue, pinched nerve from a disc in y spin after a car crash, if you’re younger and it’s not visible they label you a junkie right off. Bunch of scumbags. I wanted to tell them so bad “look if I wanted to go get high I have 6 different people I could call up right now and get harder stuff than what you could prescribe and for cheaper than this out of pocket doctor visit” Having to struggle with that while over hearing some old lady who get prescribed every type of hard core narcotic under the sun for her mild issues was the icing on the cake for me. These older folk caused the pill abuse pandemic and young people get to suffer for it. Had the same issues when I had a vitamin D count of 7 and ptsd from a car crash and a mugging years prior to that too and asked for Xanax or volume to help with my nerves/sleep while I got the issues fixed.
I've had a few issues like that like having severe back pain or even with my asthma. A teacher accused me of faking my asthma because I was able to run without dying- Bruh I used the inhaler before and after running because that's how it was meant to be used as told by my doctor. And the same went for severe back pain. I told my grandma that I couldn't babysit my brother because of my back, which I'd injured a week prior to that conversation, and she told me I was quote "Too young to have back pain" I do fricken' martial arts!! I get injured all the time! I'm not faking my pain for attention, I'm just in pain and can't work until the pain either gets better or fully goes away depending on the injury! People are just so rude and assume everything!!
A friend of mine had this to happen with some cousins and his main family, and last i checked, he socked 2 of the cousins hard enough to knock them out for 28 hours and had them arrested for trespassing, assault, and attempted murder somehow, in the end they were locked up for 2 or 3 years
I can relate to the second story. A lot of people (including my "mother") refuse to believe that I have a bad back and a bad left knee. One doctor told me that it was so bad that I'd be wheelchair bound by the age of 20. Six years later, I'm still going. I have a lot of chronic pain, but I deal with it the best I can.
story 1 -OP should definitely press criminal charges against his brother, sister in law, and parents, if they take any measures to take over the house. These are the kind of people who will not desist unless stopped.
Its awesome that his employer set him up in the lot where company security guards his camper while hes away from it. Absolutely not a jerk. This man worked hard to break free of these toxic family members. He owes them nothing
Saw title and had to listen to it. My move: call lawyer, police and get restraining orders for them.Never allow them in your space/in your face. Press charges/sue them for emotional distress, stalking, verbal abusive/assault, etc. Hope you made out OK!!!
Absolutely insane. I've seen people act like this so I believe it, but it's absolutely crazy. How OP didn't go no contact from the start is a mystery. People, if your family treats you with no respect, cut them out completely. No halfsies. You will regret it.
Ridiculous enough, I have seen this happen exactly one too many times in my life. I promised myself that I will never let myself get mistreated like that. My mother spoke on behalf of my enemy instead of me, and we haven't spoken since.
Story 1: even with the updates and a restraining order put in place i still wouldn't want those monsters in charge of kids more than likely those kids will grow up entitled if left in their care even if it means the kids end up in foster care because at least there they have a chance of finding a family that will teach them correctly.
The second-story I'm surprised how the Karen reacted after she was proven wrong, I expected her to start screaming and yelling and trying to make it seem like she was right. 👍
That first story is absolutely insane. I've cut contact with my aunt just for her demanding a 500$ bonus over my dad from the inheritance (To this day I have no idea why she wanted that. She got almost 100k but for some reason wanted those 500 bucks extra even though there had been a clear understanding not to fight over the inheritance and just split it exactly in half. I guess it was some sort of symbolic victory she was going for). I don't know how I would react to that type of shit.
Story 1: that family is actually psychotic. “You don’t deserve this house!” What?! Dude was homeless, made due with scraps for months on end, found a job, proved himself, and finally saved the money to get an actual house, and you say he didn’t deserve it? They treat this man like a glorified slave
Can we just talk about in the first story how the parents wanted to keep up appearances around others but were so happy that the son moved out to couch surf before he had already graduated high school? If I was one of the relative I personally would see that they never changed from their ways if their son would rather not know if he could sleep somewhere then live with them.
The guy who posted his story has so much patience I would literally call the police if this happened like who do you think you are?! Am I right or wrong?
Last story...I was diagnosed with osteoarthritis in my teens as well. Had to replace a hip before I turned 50. Arthroscopic surgery on one knee in my mid 30s. Not fun. I hate when the weather changes, too.
I hear people say all the time “having kids is the most fulfilling experience” Having a car that doesn’t have any crumbs in it…that’s pretty fulfilling. Besides, it sounds to me the brother doesn’t even deserve the ground he walks on, nor the children he already has…him and the wife definitely deserve each other though
In this situation I would say, "Oh mom... I am doing exactly what you guys have done to me... when I went for help, you guys gave me 2 options, to pay an absolute ludicrous rent, or the door. I am giving you exactly the same. You can buy the house from me, and use it as you will, and is yours and the banks problems, or get to the door and don't come back. Have a good day"
1. Is there a way to punch someone magically through the screen because that sister in law seems like she definitely needs one and recalibrate her morals 2. The clerk is amazing and I can actually totally relate to this story because I have hemiplegic migraines and possibly rheumatoid arthritis gotta do the tests first but I’m in severe pain pretty much everyday with symptoms that are like seizures and paralysis and A LOT of people assume I’m faking it including my family but my mom is the only one who’s never said that (love her❤)
Despite being arguably the least horrific of the bunch, that last story hits really close to home for me. I have bilateral patello-femoral osteoarthritis, which means I have what OP does in both of my knees. I'm lucky that I don't have it as bad as the OP, but I have yet to find a pain med that reduces my pain at all, and I have been walking with a cane for the last three years. I'm 28. I constantly worry that someone is going to accuse me of faking because I'm so young. I've missed work because of my pain many times. If you see someone with a mobility aid, please mind your own business. Don't ask them what's wrong with them as that is uncomfortable and rude. Don't call them a faker because they can go short periods or distances, or even a day or two, without needing it. Don't call them a faker because they're "too young" to have that kind of an issue. I would love nothing more than to be treated no different from the people around me.
I absolutely sympathize with you, its absolutely ridiculous that your parents treat you this way. You don't need anyone, just break all contacts with them and NEVER HELP THEM EVEN IF THEY ARE DYING. Then they would understand the pain
That last story reminds me of an incident that happened when I was 14. Came off a friend's scooter near the skatepark, took about 1-2 millimetres of skin off my knee and had severe bruising on my right shoulder, plus several other scrapes from skidding almost 3 metres on concrete before actually reaching the grass next to it. Couldn't walk properly for over a month, was given special permission by the school to self-medicate when I needed painkillers, and had one of my PE teachers basically tell me to "stop faking it" because I had a doctor's note preventing me from doing strenuous activities until my injuries were healed. She apparently didn't like that I had an "excuse" to sit down. I just shrugged and took the bandage on my knee off, to showed her the tennis ball sized scab that had cracked open and started bleeding again because I walked up and down a flight of stairs for my previous class. She already didn't like me, but I think that was the incident that made her actively start hating me. Mostly because our other teacher saw my knee and he had a mild panic while asking someone to help walk me to the admin building to get ice and sit in the sick bay until the bleeding stopped, so she physically couldn't do anything about making me stay.
You NEED to make an OP vs Dan playlist I would watch this endlessly for hours because it’s so juicy. I’ve heard this entire story (out of order) and it only gets crazy. Please I’m begging you to make a separate playlist for this epic feud
I honestly feel so bad that the OP from the first story had to deal with all that, If I ever meet with him IRL I'm just gonna give him a hug and congratulate him for all he has achieved. I do not know he nice or polite he is, but I can assure he is a good human being.
I've dealt with something similar but for me, it was my PS4, the 1st time I got it, from my grandparents, my cousin tried saying that he was older so he should get it, but I straight up said no, and when he punched me, my grandparents walked in, him getting yelled at was hilarious, and now he tries to one up me at everything, but fails miserably
Dude in first few parts of story one it said that the dad forced the kid to pay rent that equals to an apartment but then later into the story the brother thought he shouldn’t pay rent because he’s “family” and family doesn’t make family pay rent.
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I'm 47 and have osteoarthritis also. My knees have degenerated to the point that I can barely walk across the house, forget taking a walk around the neighborhood or going hiking in the woods. Every step is pain, laying down is pain, sitting too long is pain. I live in constant pain. I need both knees replaced and my Dr and I are fighting my insurance because 'I'm too young to need knee replacements'. I've heard many comments on how I just need to get off my fata** and walk when using a stores electric shopping carts. First my body turns on me and then ignorant people humiliate me over something I have no control over. It's horrible to deal with.
I don't understand how parents can treat one child so horribly. I have 4 sons, who I raised alone after leaving my ex husband, their father at 22 with 4 sons 3yrs and younger due to DV. I missed out on so much of their childhoods, but I refused my sons to end up living homeless, or having food insecurity, home insecurity and not having what they needed. Thank goodness I had a younger sister who could sleep at my house. I worked 96hrs a WEEK because my ex husband left the country to avoid child support, so it was just me. When they all became legal adults, I never told them they had to move out, but I told them all the same thing. Either you went to college and got a part time job, and saved your money, or if they didn't want to pursue college they could still live with me, and save their money. But, they had to prove that they were saving their money and not just blowing it all on material items. Luckily, my sons saw how hard I had to work to provide for them and they're all pretty much savers. My youngest son bought his own home almost a year ago at the age of 21, my oldest son is about to start his own business. My twins have families and seem to be happy, and they know that if anything happens they can all come home, because 💩 happens. The only way I can ever see myself not allowing one of them to come back is if they turned into violent criminals. I'm so proud of OP busting his ass and giving them the finger. I know the chances of him seeing this are slim to none, but if you do. I'm proud of you. If no one else has ever said, just know some random boy mom is proud of the man you became, especially when you didn't have anyone supporting you financially, emotionally or mentally. It's not easy.. I hope you have your own family now, or a serious GF. Create your own family. Family isn't about blood, or genetics, it's about love.. period..
Nah man. Story 1 I would have pressed charges I would tell them to get out as soon as they even come. A family like that doesn’t deserve love from you or anybody else. Those kids might have to go through foster care but they can actually learn and there in the right hands hopefully. At least better than those greedy scum bags.
Can we Just talk about that the Karen from the Last Story actually realised she was wrong and also kinda ashamed? Like it Doesn't justify her assumptions, which were ridiculous and completely unneccessary, but with apologizing and actually behaving to See her wrong doing IS way better than Most of those Karens in These Storys WHO are straight Up thinking "I AM ALWAYS RIGHT" and "IT HAS TO GO MY WAY" Also the First Story IS absolute wild and makes me somehow loose fate in Humanity Sometimes to Just do Something Like that, do they even have Common Sense???
Story one's OP was WAAAY to polite and gentle, he could have just ruined their whole life and reputation if he wanted, he could have argued in multiple ways and just straight up kicked them out like they did with him, but he stayed (almost in a frustrating way) too soft and gentle with them
Jesus. I haven’t spoken to my family in years over way less than what that first OP went through. He was way too nice, I would have pressed charges and been completely satisfied doing it.
