If they're pre-teens or older they should be able to handle themselves properly, provided they were raised properly. You've got the TV, likely a portable or rented gaming system, and should have brought some books to read, or playing cards, or something like a note or sketchbook. It's easy to stay entertained or otherwise preoccupied in a non-destructive manner. Maybe one or two parental checks just to see how things are going is all that is really needed. Sounds like the kids have been neglected for years or have some other behavior issues to cause this kind of damage.
I’ve brought my kids to a hotel many times except I love my kids and enjoy spending time with them so they don’t get their own hotel room while the parents get drunk. So who’s the problem?
That wouldn't do anything. Literally the FBI doesn't give to fucks, and its one person they wouldn't have to deal with. That however is a local law enforcement matter, and a federal crime.
@@CertifiedSillyGuy622I agree, the hotel really wanted to, they should’ve charged just whomever made the group reservations or the culprits themselves. Not unrelated families
@@Justthatguy1998 True but since they were told who was responsible, those innocent families will run back to the families involved asking for payback, "why the hell should I have to pay for the crap your kids did."
@@IzzyPR2010 yeah, and since the hotel took it into their own hands. The family in question just won’t pay. At best the innocent families can take the guilty to small claims but I doubt it
@@NeoArashiit depends say a illegal operation is going on there I don’t think the fbi (if they were dealing with it) would give two shits about the rules like “pal you think this illegal operation going to open the door? No they’re going to block it we gotta break it down no matter what”
If they were registered under one party, it makes sense. If the rest of the team and the parents of the kids don't know how entitled the troublemakers are, now they know. Maybe the troublemakers will even get kicked off the team and the parents be shunned. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
I thought so, the team might demand the money back from the entitled family, but entitled family probably just wouldn't pay it, or lie about the damages.
Being in a family where my grandma forced my mom to use the name she picked, I hate it. I haven’t used my birth name in close to 10+ years and only never changed it due to threats of being disinherited, which SURPRISED was still disinherited for a complete different reason. Just haven’t gotten around to legally changing it cause the pandemic hit and was told by the court that filing name change wasn’t a priority lol. By the end of this year tho I plan to change it legally. It’s funny too cause I was told all my life as a child it’s illegal for me to change my name yet my grandma changed her name many years ago, fucking hate religious names. In return tho, since my grandma’s passing I’ve only referred to her birth name and not what she changed it to
Considering, to my knowledge, mom was under aged and given the threat of being kicked out if my grandmother wasn't able to name me. Consider that more forced choice than anything. But sure we all have our choice.
Hahaha, i don't find it one bit hard to believe at all!.... allot of hotels are penny pinches, and when they hear the price to install cameras,,, they never get installed.... and as per the logic of the classic stupid boss, in any industry, across the board, it is the cost today that matters....the fact that the investment in cameras/whatever will pay for itself in the long run, is not considered.
Been to many hotels, rarely seen hotels have cameras in the guest room hallways. If the hotel have them it's usually only the lobby have cameras but it's incredibly rare. Not even the dinning area.
My DIL was expecting my 3rd grandchild. We of course felt free to make suggestions 🤣 We had come up with sharing my late fathers middle name and for baby’s first name to use the middle name of the great grandfather that the baby’s Dad shared a first name with. I came up with a variation- the great grandfather was called Grampy Pete (last name was Peterson) So I thought Peter with my Dad’s middle name. Called Son and he laughed at me !! “Congratulations Mom you broke the code” I had guessed the name they had chosen.
Omg. But that last one 😂. I missed the first half of it, so when she started talking about when she would ask him to do the dishes and he would essentially throw a fit, I thought she was talking about a 10 yo boy. Not her bf…. When he does that, flip it on him and say I can’t believe your such a child that you want to throw a fit like a baby over doing simple house work. I didn’t realize you were looking for another mom when I was looking for a partner. When you do that, it really diminishes the way I look at you, I don’t see a partner I see a child that I have to care for and I don’t like it, it really upsets me.
last story he used up all your sympathy he kept weaponizing it till your body realized that he isn't worth it move on lady the guy is a man child and quite frankly doesn't deserve a sympathetic lady like you. you stick with him eventually he'll suck out all your empathy.
The last story: It's a safe bet that the boyfriend is a narcissist, more accurately, a covert narcissist. They're particularly dangerous because they know how to weaponize their emotions by playing the victim/charity case or turning into a total raging butthole when they don't get their way. There is really no in between. OP would be wise to cut contact completely and move on. She doesn't need someone who's going to gaslight her, emotionally manipulate, blame shift, finger point, project and make her feel bad for having her own opinions or laying down boundaries with him.
The last story. Run!!! Being a single mom of a toddler is tough especially when the toddler is an adult. You need to be around adults and start dating an adult. Someone as empathetic as you needs to be with a mature adult that will respect and care for you.
Story 2: If you're that insistent on naming someone who isn't your child, just write a book. That way you can name the characters whatever you want, and no one will complain - with the possible exception of the publisher or editor, at which point they're just getting a taste of their own medicine.
As a writer, I agree with this point. Then again, most people who think they can write usually have no skills outside of ranting on social media, text messages, grocery lists and bad checks. Just saying.
The parents in the first story sounds like most parents I have seen on vacations. Most parents would rather have fun than watch their kids who are just monsters.
That 1st story is crazy from parent perspective. If security comes to you with something like this you apologize and get your kid in line. This is the last thibg you do
The security guard should have taken it a step further by getting child protective services involved. If I were in that situation, I would have done so and I would have told them a little bit more just to spice up the situation and get the father in more trouble.
Omg I used to work at a Midwest pizza chain that specialized in saurkraut pizza and had a game room. The JYFL leagues were all terrible! The parents would sit in the dining room chugging pitchers of beer while their kids tore up the place, climbing on games, throwing food and just being little assholes!
2nd Story... Keep your mother as far away as humanly possible from your child once he is born. Do not trust her at any point! I wouldn't put it passed her to pull something to abuse her time with him. Or worse yet try to push you two out of having any say with parenting that child.
Having been working in hotels since 2013, I can safely say that parents of kids sports team are some of the worst guests you can ever get. They are never worth the momey they bring.
😂 my sports team had my intimidating father and coaches who threatened us ladies that "you act like the boys you will be punished like them too." Safe to say it worked, and we all stayed on our best behavior! But yes, we can be awful and as someone who used to go on tournaments as a kid. Thank y'all so much for your patience. Those days were some of my best ever!!
Animal attraction worker here. I saw tweens basically dancing in a baby soft play area (kind for babies age 6mo to 2yo) with their shoes on. Big no no cuz the area has to stay clean. The next time I saw an attendant for the play room, I told them they MIGHT wanna take the whole area apart (Velcro panels) and disinfect EVERYTHING. The amount of dirt and dust those brats brought into a place for babies, smh. FYI, this wasn’t the ONLY thing this particular group of twerps did that caused problems. Our security answered SEVERAL calls for shenanigans. You’re right. Not worth the money they bring in.
F in the chat for all the rooms who had to pay 500 dollars each just because some parents dont deserve kids "As a wise commenter used to say" "Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child"
@AetheralMeowstic it is automatically charged. The only road they could have taken is to take the parents to court over the added cost their children caused, of course if they went that route they would be wise to include time lost and court costs. This would be after demanding the parents reimburse them for said cost.
The same to you from Buffalo NY. P.S.-- After 16 days of overcast and no sun it's finally shining. Sort of. Very little snow left from the blizzard, temps normal, sun now sets after 5PM. 🌞
Story 2: clear as the day. The mother is a control freak and she see the kid as toy. Its like all this entitled a-holes: "kids on grown up bodies who can't cope other people has life, goals, etc".
Parents should be charged for all the damages! Their cards should be charged, or they should be sued into Oblivion! The parents should have been dragged out in handcuffs!
I think that charging EVERYONE in the 1st story was extreme I would have charged the one room and wrote notes to everyone else, telling them what those kids did. XD
I work at a hotel. Whenever there’s sports groups the parents drink and do drugs. I’m not talking about weed either. The kids are unsupervised running wild with hockey sticks, lacrosse sticks etc…. Things get broken. Fights between parents and other guests. This is about sports, competition, experience not partying. Partying seems to be the parents priorities.
As a armed security guard, I've felt with shit like this several times. One even had to get pyschical with a person who attacked me and reached for my sidearm. He is now in jail, and I am the one who detained him. See, in my state its a level 3 state with powers of duties of a security guard. Meaning, "While in the performance of their duties, such security guards shall have the same powers of arrest and the same powers to enforce law and order as the sheriff of the county and the chief of police of the municipality in this state in which any such security guards are performing their duties." -This is taken directly out of my states law.
story 1: also a hotel is private property, soo... they can kick you out without giving you a reason, as long as they provide a reasonable argument that it isn't because of race, color, religion or national origin (basically that it isn't discrimination)
I can't believe that he kept his cool though all of this. I have a very short temper everything ticks me off so i would be screaming at the group at that time.
Same! Well. Except still married and Our 3 kids have the names that we picked out together. Except i told him that if 1 of our girls had his dark brown hair her name would be Ivy. I figured if she wanted the name she'd have the hair. Lol And. I'm the one who will be filling out the paperwork. If she didn't then she'll get the name we picked. Neither did. So no Ivy. His mom kept trying. Luckily he has had no problems telling her that we are the parents of our kids. Even if he didn't understand why i said no.
With the last story the next time they are with friends or family when he leaves the group she should bring up how sweet and in touch with his emotions he is and tell them that sob story about the dishes.
The second story is just so confusing like how hard is it to understand that at least for females “if the baby isn’t/wasn’t in your body it’s not yours”
I use to drink and know why these parents did all this. They don't care, about their kids, what they do to the place, or anyone involved. The hotel should have charged all of the parties for the sport event the same amount, even though it was over a thousand dollars. I've heard stories that has been done for big parties like that.
The last story is sad. She thinks that she loves and wants to be with him but she actually doesn't. Imagine being so manipulated and brainwashed that you don't notice that you don't actually like the other person.
The OP in the last story needs to give the boyfriend an ultimatum that if he cries to get his way she will break up with him. It is absolutely emotional abuse. She needs to know she is being abused.
Story 1: like bro... What the fuck if me and my , sister would have behaved like this in a hotel and our parents would have found out .. We wouldn't have lived the next day .. Like... Bro... My parents would have gotten Furious.
story 1:when am a security guard and am going to talk to the front desk and i heard somebody "yea go ahead leave u know u are wrong" if i heard that being said to me i would do the finger to them
Could potentially lose your job, one of the guys I used to work with lost their blue card for such behavior. (I am an armed security guard, and in my state you need whats called a blue card just to be armed on a security job. It's a state issued certification and permit that can be revoked for being unprofessional.)
So was the guy in the hotel story was he really an FBI why was nothing ever said of that? Even if he is in the FBI you still have to follow the rules and laws write your family does sounds like he's raising a delinquent!
It’s honestly disturbing the way people can leverage situations in the US by claiming to be FBI, or a Judge, or just rich and connected in general. It’s not like that in other civilised countries.
I feel bad for the first guy in the first story just imagine you're trying to do your job as usual patrolling the hallways making sure no one breaks in and all sudden boom 2 little brats starts causing a ruckus destroying stuff breaking stuff stealing stuff you name it and you know what the worst part is now that the janitors have to clean up the fucking mess but now they have to replace everything that was broken/destroyed I just feel bad Edit: I forgot to mention that the guy in the story got to meet his friend after a very long time
As a person who was taught when I was little to be respectful to people if I heard kids running and heard glass shadder in the hallway and I knew we was on a higher floor like let’s say I was staying a Hilton hotel for my future job and it’s a high end hotel and If I know I’m on like the 7th or 8th floor imma stick my head outta the door bc I hear glass I think the worst my dad is over protective over my little sister so If I hear a little girl imma be like fuck what happened I need to protect this girl but I ain’t leaving the room imma just say are y’all okay the only way you’ll be able to identify me is if I had on my work badge bc I’ll be in business casual clothes khaki pants a polo shirt and dress Chelsea boots
