Story 1 I hope op and the new wife tells them to kick rocks. It's been 16 years. And after losing everything and no one believed him it's Too little too late
@@shanewoody4232 you can live a good life and still have no love for people who betray you. Just because they are doing well doesn't mean they have to be warm and kind to people who were bad to them
@@shanewoody4232 If you are okay with being around the people that betrayed you. Then you are just as gullible and naive as your comment makes you sound
That's actually Mexican culture as a whole (I'm mexican) a lot of rumors are spread about people and often times are not fact checked but people eat it up like BBQ chicken
@@yoholup19 so people can stay in a divorce process for a whole year without being able to talk to your partner or prove your innocence talking to the other worker? No one questions this?
@@M.W.2 Essentially if something gets passed around enough it becomes fact in my culture that's another reason the mexican legal system is notoriously corrupt
@@M.W.2 Yup as a Mexican myself I can confirm what they said is true. My mother was branded as a cheating home wrecker but in all reality it was my father who was a cheating home wrecker. Even with proof mostly everyone still shit talked my mother.
Emma is the reason why men these days no longer offer helping hands to women. Once, it was common for random men to assist women in need, even for everyday tasks. Now, most men would rather ignore a woman being crushed under a weight than risk having their entire lives fall apart.
Is sad (the life-ruining part) and true. I think it's a good thing though that chivalry is dying. Women are either regarded as competent equals or treated as helpless and vulnerable dependents (in my opinion you can't have both - it's either egalitarianism / equity or subjugation, not "equal but some more equal than others/privileged" aka double standards and oxyMORONIC) and I'm sick of the capitalist, utilitarian mindset regarding men that is propagated by the ignorant, toxic and indoctrinated alike. Y'all get demonized for just looking out for yourself as "selfish" then taken advantage of with severely delusional entitlement ("risk your life for me cuz you hang and swing (male) and while I sit and swoon! (female)" or just straight set up with shit like this. That woman's got a special place in hell as with the rest of them if this story's even real 💯
Are you referring to that incident at the gym where the man offered to help and the woman exploded on him, then bit off more than she can chew with the weights and proceed to chew the entire gym out because no one helped her? I remember that. And you’re exactly right. It’s crazy how easy it is nowadays for a woman to ruin someone’s life by saying a few words. It’s ridiculous.
@@somnus7959 Nah I'm talking about Kenan Basic, look him up. This chick told police Kenan SA her. He spent time in prison, his wife left him, lost his kids and his job. Cameras on the scene showed he didn't do anything to her. The police got her to admit it was a lie but the damage is done. She only gets a slap on the wrist. And what was his sin!? Dude helped her when her car stopped functioning. He literally spent 2 hours assisting her with her car and walked away. Nah. If a chick is screaming bloody murder in the street I'm just going to raise my volume and walk away..
@@ARcinderWorse is how Emma is literally making things worse to actual SA victims. As someone who was assaulted, it's traumatizing AF and people don't always believe you, Emma is the one the reasons why. Victims already are going through enough trauma without people like her weaponizing and invalidating it further.
That thing about Emma lying about cheating reminded me of when I was 20 and at a party and a woman lied about me trying to sexually assault her or something because she didn't know everyone else there was aware that I'm Asexual and even then I have a romantic preference for guys so she wound up having a hard time because while I didn't press charges, like 12 people there ruined her reputation by calling her out on social media and she lost her job.........I laughed.
I’m glad she got the karma she deserved. It doesn’t give her the right to make up lies like that just because she wanted to stir up drama. Ridiculous. But regardless, asexuality for the win! Thank god you let people know cause that would have ended way differently. I’m glad our flag managed to protect you lol.
Also why does everyone else at the party know your made up sexual preferences? That seems hella weird and really nasty to be telling random people your personal info that they never asked about fr
Yup. Been there, been accused. Got extremely lucky that word of the false accusation did not spread like wildfire (Her parents probably had a hand to play in that). Now I help no-one, just not worth the risk of having your life ruined.
@zackkatian3436 I can't believe that. I am so sorry. So the family knew she lied? I know you probably don't want drama but she kinda maybe deserves to be exposed
I worked night shift as only employee at a hotel after college. We had a bunch of late 20s - late 30s men and women who were extended stay guests for a long term project. They finished after months and had a party out back at the grill. A few hours later some of the guys come to the desk and say one of the ladies drank to much. They asked me to carry her to her room, unlock it, and put her in her bed. I was nearly slackjawed at them even suggesting that, the tv in the back was covering a major sexual misconduct trial for a celebrity at that moment... and they were asking me to do that?! I explained how that wouldn't be something I can do, they then asked me to give them her room key so THEY could take her to her room and put her in bed. I refused and ultimately arranged them to call another woman in their group down and a group of us would go. I'd unlock the door to her room while they carried and helped her to her room and the woman in their group stayed in the room the whole time as a witness and she was the one who put her into bed. Then once all the guys were out of the room the other lady closed the door to keep an eye on her over the night to make sure she didn't hurt herself. I was 18-20 during that time and that incident was one of the scariest I handled at the hotel.
I feel that if you need to take a drunk girl back to a hotel, whip out your phone and record everything that happens. This will protect you from cheating allegations. (Or "worse" allegations) You can never trust others these days. As to why she did it, who knows. I'd say she didn't like him for some reason or wanted his position. At least it was a cheating allegation she made and not the 'other kind' of allegation...
Story 1: I guess the lesson is, don’t ever be alone with a female coworker, because she’ll accuse you of sexual misconduct. Story 2: Don’t complain to your friend about your relationship. And don’t get with people who are poly if you’re mono.
I would say the perfect middle finger to the gullible idiots would be for OP to just do nothing and wait for the kid to become curious about his bio-dad, and when they finally get to meet, OP should spill the beans about how the kid should be careful because their family would believe anything without proof.
Trauma bonding has to do with an abuser, and their victim not two people bonding over trauma. Trauma bonds (also referred to as traumatic bonds) are emotional bonds that arise from a cyclical pattern of abuse. A trauma bond occurs in an abusive relationship, wherein the victim forms an emotional bond with the perpetrator.
@@artshowcreeper1978no that’s not true at all if people find similarities in their traumas, they connect each other together through that. Thats trauma bonding
My response to story 1: I am from an American family, but i can tell you... i grew up in a messed up strict religious family, and though my life isnt remotely similar to OP's, i know the sheer grief what misguided family dynamics can put one through... might be why i cried almost. I also know the frustration being falsely blamed can do, and that can happen in so many different life situations, as i saw what can happen when lies hurt people. So, to me, i think at least its highly possible with how tear inducing it is, its highly possible that at least part of that story is true. Even if its very detailed post, which is a thing that seems to make readers ponder validity of a persons life as if its well-rehearsed story in a post, i think one has to look passed that to remember how hard it is to forget trauma even after healing. scars last long times, physically and mentally. So, OP, if your reading, i believe you, and give you, and people with even remotely similar issues, my sincerest sympathies. Also, i think i understand wanting to reconnect with your family despite issues since you want them to believe you and welcome you back, but i wouldnt do it unless they admitted they were wrong, and werent just trying to ease their own senses of guilt (which is often the case)... so tread carefully, or just tell them to f*** off. ... Best wishes for you and your wife. Be safe, amigo. 😊
There's two similar stories too story one. In both it's found the brother was the person who paid the friend or stranger into trucking everyone OP slept with them. In each story the OP gets revenge by being happy. In one the brothers drunkinly admits what he did, in the other the friend confesses she lied about the affair because her fiance found out about it and gave her the ultimatum iirc
1st story, so just before everything goes to hell, the only other person with access to the accounts does a runner, and they are like, it must be the person that stayed?
Jesus, wasted half an hour of OP's life story and then mentioning the family wanting contact like it's some cliffhanger to a promised sequel that will never happen.
it seems real, at least if you listen to the Mexican people talking about their culture. It’s apparently very likely they would have ended up in the same place or at least very close. Honestly, the fact that their isn’t really a pay off to any of the things that happened to them is kind of what makes it seem real. Things just happened and then he moved on, which is how real life is
No its because they never been in a situation like that and can't see it being true. Those people are what we call simple minded not everyone's life are the same. Some people have a wonderful up bringing while others have gone through hell and back and I can vouch for that.
It's probably because a majority of stories on reddit are fake and usually very wild, so people are less likely to trust the sincerity of a story even if it is actually real.
There are people who will believe an acuser over a loved one. There was one story where a cousin accused the OP os SA, and the family kicked him out and 16 years later, the cousin admitted she lied. Then the family was all apologetic and OP told them to kick rocks.
In Mexican culture word of mouth is worth a lot unfortunately being Mexican myself I have had rumors about me spread in our culture like wildfire mostly just me dating XY and Z and a lot of people believe it
Sounds like both characters in story 2 are not ready to be in any kind of relationship! He’s gaslighting her and wants to be free to screw any woman who approaches him and she’s a fool to put up with it! If you can’t be faithful to the one you are in a relationship with, then move on and save them the headache of dealing with your BS. 🤦🏼♀️
Exactly! This second story is a failure from beginning to end. I just find it asinine that people would want to stay in a relationship with a partner who is not satisfied with them whatsoever.😑
I wonder if the truth ever came out the Emma lied, but I wouldn't want anything to do with them for the way they treated Lily even after her name was cleared!
Yeah I'm with secret voices on this, "yeah my family believed a random woman's lies about me sleeping with her on a buisness trip, disowned me, ruined my life, and my brother stole my wife." And then suddenly BAM "yeah I'm talking to my family again but it didn't feel too important to add cause my fantasy story was taking up too much space, also why was my obviously fake story removed? Was it that obviously fake?"
Not all justice systems are as focused on protecting defendants from false accusations as the UK/US systems are. Not saying it's necessarily true, but that part doesn't actually seem so fake. It's "Emma" inventing an affair that makes no sense to me. If she thought something had happened in her drunken stupor, the accusation would normally be of sexual assault.
@@lillypharaoh5945 Big facts 💯, thus stuff plays out worldwidd like I dunno what - and that's not even what made me think the story was fake. Ppl act like the US is this super shiny and ethical place such that it's "inconceivable" like worse hasn't/doesn't happen here 😂😂 It was them being "twins" then crossing with the other twin in another random town far away by coincidence and then BOTH of them don't remember/recognize each other's first and last names either in applying or viewing the application - that all had cast this into serious doubt for me. The family part may be unbelievable for some, but I've met enough stupid/uncritical/aint-shit people to know they exist. Eh - well written all the same, I'd listen to an update.
Happens all the time. A lot of 'legal' prosecution is merely finding someone to pin it on, wether they did the deed or not. This even happens in the US, though enough legal professionals believe in the ideals to make it less common.
Story 1 - This story feels fake because he refuses to actually tell us what happened with his family re-connecting him. He says he feels his post is "too long". I think OP just ran out of ideas on how to continue the story and needed a break. He also filled his story with an insane amount filler and fluff. Way more than an ordinary person would tell. It reads almost like a novel.
14:40 - Story 1 - OP is lying. If you are looking to start a brand new life, then you DON'T hire your ex-wife's twin. He's claiming she was the best at the job, but we know that's a cope. He's not over his wife so he hires HER TWIN.
Story 1) I’m sorry that you and she had to go through that I’m glad you’re happy and I hope the truth comes out and clears your name, and that karma will come for that B ex-coworker 2) He is a narcissist, he cheated on you multiple times and then cheated, you deserve better than him he deserves nothing but infidelity
Sadly it's pretty easy to get people angry at someone. The really scary bit is that those who question are immediately accused of doubting the victim and victim blaming. From there most people are too nervous to ask if maybe before destroying this poor person's life and reputation we should carefully examine the story and evidence. In my case my eyes were forced open the sad way. I was willing and eager to hurt an innocent man because a Close friend accused them of r. Luckily the truth came out before I did anything. The thought that I nearly did that to an innocent man got to me. Sadly after that I came upon 2 other similar instances but learned to think before acting. Oh haven't spoken to the former close friend in years.
For the first story, op damn, I’m so sorry. I feel that there’s more going on… I hope you are well… and the second story wow… I mean wow… with a ‘friend’ like that who needs an enemy…
Yo wtf??! STORY 1 is soooo incomplete! What happened to OP’s estranged family and ex? Was Emma’s lie discovered and why did she do it?? Any attempts of reconciliation by his ex?? It seemed like the Evil side has won!!! 😢😢
Those are the most gullible and pathetic people I've ever heard of. How do you take one person's word and don't let the other person speak, get the other woman on the phone etc...?
Story 2 - Of course he's going to blame Op for how bad the relationship, not like he's going to admit that he F**ked it all up by screwing another girl behind her back. As for the "You're making me look like a Bad Guy" part. Truth hurts, doesn't it mate?
Story 2 seems pointless. It was already bad before her friend betrayed her. Once he said the boyfriend tried to convince her to allow him to see other girls that should have been the end of the story. Whoever wrote that just loves pain and drama.
The Telenovela in the first story was just as basic as every Telenovela I've ever watched I mean even the ending was rushed and didn't make any sense 😂😂😂 not to mention the twins, the evil woman, the horrible mother, the cheating brother / probably cheating wife 🤣🤣🤣
15:52 nah. Its never platonic, especially when its just the two of them. The inviter would always have ulterior motive, be it for romance n courtship or assessing the chance of romance....or simply for hookup.
What happened with the pregnancy of the ex wife in OP#1? It wasn’t mentioned. Like do they have the child? So yeah are the siblings cousins and siblings at the same time🤔
I am sorry- but if I wanted to read a romance novel, I would have (and for the record, I pretty much only read non-fiction and hard science fiction). This reads (or listens...) like a fan-fiction writer decided to make themselves the main character this time!
22:00 well....despite their....corrupt system, this is the difference with usa. Govt isnt paying prison contractor. Thus, theres little rotaring door scheme. Thered be corruption but theres no incentive for govt personel to keep her in prison.
Im mexican and i wanna know the Little town to visit them. Hope you can put of where is this story for know the continuación or if you could put it i will thank you so much
Good question, my heart hurts for OP's first born (who is 16). I predict that OP's first-born will file for emancipation, disappear on her mother, uncle, mother, and OP's ex-family to couch-hop with so-called friends who are backstabbing parasites, next, at 17, she'll move to Dallas, TX, (which is in the US) for a fresh start, apply for US citizenship, find solace with/marry a boy who's despotic and abusive (verbally, emotionally/mentally, and physically), fall pregnant when her husband traps her, and become conditioned to stay with her abuser because she doesn't want to keep him away from his flesh and blood, even, if he puts her in the hospital, and threatens to un-alive her if she divorces him, then, with the help of DV social workers, flee to Illinois (because she scared that her husband, mother, and OP's ex-family will take her baby away from her), and stay at a women's shelter while she gets her GED certificate, 4th, at 18, find a cheaper apartment in Chicago, take online college courses, work two jobs to provide for her one -parent household, ask neighbors to babysit for her, because she won't have OP or other relatives in Illinois to help out; all OP's first-born and her baby will have is each other, and 5th, instead of ever making new friends, finding new love getting married again, or creating her own new family, she'll need to be careful with whom she trusts, whom she lets get close, and whom she allows her life, steer clear of potential new partners, and concentrate on getting therapy for herself, raising her baby, and creating a stable home environment for her as a good single mother.⚠️
