For the hair story- Sounds like that little girl is taking care of her hair by knowing what products to use ,ect, if OP is tired of brushing it why doesn't she show she how to brush it herself or get someone with her hair type and length to show her, let her watch some tutorials, just explain to her why you can't brush her hair anymore, she takes pride in her hair no need to take away her confidence
I have thick hair and live in a very humid climate. I prefer to keep it short but that's my choice. No one should take that choice away from another, child or not.
When that second OP was naming the prices of the products her stepdaughter used, I was laughing: NEITHER of those products are expensive. $11 for a decent hair oil is not bad and $10 for a bottle of shampoo is nothing. Professional shampoo and conditioner is at least $20 per bottle. Expensive hair oils are way more than $11 a pop. That kid is not high maintenance at all.
I’m not justifying anyone’s actions, but at the age of 11 the stepdaughter should have been doing her own hair maintenance rather than the adults doing it for her. Also, the OP didn’t cut the hair off herself, she had it done at a salon by professionals. Next, until the stepdaughter or the husband is actively managing the hair and paying for the maintenance, they have no room for complaints. Finally, the OP is trying to set good habits for the stepdaughter like getting her homework done or doing necessary chores. You know, basic things around the house, and if her hair maintenance takes up THAT much time, then there are some serious priority issues. Finally, it is not specifically stated if OP has a job or if she is a SAH mom so she could be exhausted in the morning.
@@marckempe2143 Yeah, it seems like she’s in a pretty shitty situation(financially). Also, why is no one talking about why the SM has to completely take care of the stepdaughter, yet she can’t even tell her to cut her hair? The only wrong thing I can imagine she did is forcefully cutting the hair off before consulting with the husband. The parents are kind of. B**** for say the SM has no rights when she’s the one doing all the work.
@@marckempe2143the husband said he isn't bothered by the price and that he can do the daughter's hair, she is not the mother, is not her choice to make, she forced the worker to cut the hair, they must have assumed she was the mother. I am a man with somewhat curly hair, it takes way longer for it to have noticeable growth, years, plus, when it is short it doesn't go down, it goes up, extremely bad for a girl that wants a hair they can somewhat control. That is why they did braids, so it would not be as bad for the child.
@@alenasenie6928 I am a guy with long hair myself, so I know how long it takes to grow. The OP states that the stepdaughter is focused more on her hair than on doing anything productive, like her homework or housework. The priorities need to be reevaluated if the daughter wants to be focused on her hair above all else. Once more, it was never specified if the OP works or is a stay at home mom so she could be exhausted in the morning. Like I mentioned earlier, I am not justifying anything, but we don’t have enough information.
I absolutely love how this guy went in on the step mom. Like who are you to go in and Have this little girls haircut? She absolutely deserves what she gets coming to her and as far as the hairdresser she was in the wrong to for cutting the girls hair when she CLEARLY did not want it cut
When I was around 3 or so, my father took me to a stylist he was "seeing" because my mother forgot to braid my hair. For context, I'm black and at the time I had really thick,curly and long hair (approximately to the middle of my back). According to my mother she "prayed every night that if (she) had a girl, she had long, healthy curls" and truly enjoyed combing my hair as a bonding time. Anyway, the one time my mom let me go to my dad's without doing my hair in braids, he took me this stylist. She had no experience with my hair type, so she put a relaxer on my hair. When my mom saw me and realized what happened... let's just say that my dad had to call my grandpa and then great grandma to come get my mother off his doorstep. The stylist didn't ask my dad if it was OK to use that type of product on my hair. To this day, over 30 years later, she and her family avoid my family like the plague!! My hair only reverted back to its normal texture after I did a big chop in high school. The stepmother in story 2 will be lucky if she's left alone with that little girl again. Good luck on getting that child to trust her again though.
Story 2: I have really long hair, and it is very important to me. In my opinion, it's awful to make her cut her hair. If i was in this situation, I would be sobbing too. That takes years to grow out, and from the length you described, she's likely been growing it out for life.
I, too, have extremely long hair and it's my "shield"... I probably would have buzz cut the stepmother's hair while asleep just to let her loose her confidence too.
Heck, im a guy eho went through some issues when i was younger. Grew out long hair and had to get it fully shaved off due to going into military training.... It destroyed me. I understand it wouldn't be quite the same, but.. if your hair is part of your identity - one of the only things you can control and customise all you want - it is like.. your entire world collapsing
Its ok to tell the 11 year old you aren't doing her hair anymore that she has to do it herself but cutting it without talking to the dad at the very least is wrong
Agreed, she did not even get a talk with stepmum explaining it. It was just like "Okay honey, your going to get your hair cut. you cant even talk to me." Not even a solution.
If she just HAD to cut her hair, it could at least been to the bottom of the shoulder blade. That is a lot of hair to have and plenty of hair gone. But you shouldn't have forced here if there were other options.
That is horrible to do to deaf people. My mom is a translator for the deaf and I was raised around it for most of my life. I respect them so much so hearing that someone messed with them so much when suppose to help them is so messed up. Hope karma got to this person.
For story 1, the white knight mentality is basically an appalling thing for a hearing person to have towards the Deaf Community. They don't need to be saved, they just need to be treated as humans. No gatekeeping needs to be done...
Story 2: This makes me so frickin angry! I swear let’s cut your hair when you don’t want to! To a 11 year old girl! YTJ, in fact 👏 Y👏E👏S👏T👏H👏E👏A👏S👏S👏H👏O👏L👏E
Shame on any hair stylist that would cut the hair of someone over the age of ten crying because they don't want their hair cut short. Shame on that step mother.
The hair story is beyond insane. That stepmother went too far and is trying to victimize herself after she traumatized her stepdaughter. She is the villain here. He should divorce her. I also can't believe the hair stylist cut it. She should have said no.
My daughter's hair tangles easily. We made a deal that she could grow it long but had to keep it from tangling. If she didn't, it had to be cut. She only slipped up a couple of times. That was a mutual decision though, and I'm the bio mom. Another trick is to use satin pillowcases.
@InteriorDesignStudent it is a kid, a parent is usually allowed to decide to trim it, she didnt give her a bald cut did she? She didn't do it out of hatred, just concern and the fact she was fed up, so please TF IS THE BIG DEAL?!
2nd story: What a selfish piece of crap person OP is. I had very long hair growing up as well, and yes it was a pain sometimes, but it was and still is a large part of my identity. I have always had the final say in whether it ever got cut but if my parents forced me into any style I didn't want, I'd be devistated. How self-centered and controlling can you get? If you have a problem with the cost of products, have a conversation about her maybe picking up some chores to earn an allowance for her own products or something.
story 2 the hell is the ops problem cutting of the kids hair like that like what kind of stepmother does that she is acting like the evil step mother from Cinderella the narrator was spot on the op is evil and if i was the husband i leave her sorry butt and take my daughter far away form her before she can do more
For the car ride story: The coworker is disappointed for OP holding her actions against her? WTF? Of course you should hold her actions against her! She's being a hypocrite. For the hair cutting story: The OP should feel lucky if her husband doesn't divorce her. This was straight up abuse. She didn't ask for help, discuss it with her husband or the Mom, isn't even paying for the products. She never asked for help. At 11, the daughter should start learning to do most of the maintenance by herself. Everything OP did was unnecessary and literally is abuse.
@rightyscreativecorner6389hell, 11 and 10 dollars isn't even expensive. It's standard price for shampoo for man. Which is significantly cheaper then women shampoo. I spend 20 every 2 weeks for beard shampoo, 15 for beard condition, and 25 a month for beard oil.
I can understand the reason for the step mother doing what she did. I personally don't agree with her getting her step daughter's hair cut. I remember growing up, having long curly and waved hair. On top of that, it was very thick. Went all the way to my butt. I absolutely hated it because of how much work it took to manage it. Unfortunately, my mom refused to let me get it cut short because she liked longer hair. I strongly believe that the step mother needed to talk to the parents about the girl's hair and come up with a plan together. Give her the chance to actually take care of her own hair by herself and if she is struggling, then go and get it cut to a more manageable length.
For Story 2: I'm pretty sure the stepmother is jealous of her step kid's hair and trying to justify it even though OP is in the wrong. She went behind everyone's backs to do this because she KNEW her husband and the kid's biological mom would object. The kid is 11yo, she's pretty much a pre-teen and this stepmother shot down her self-esteem because her step kid felt...pretty? OP is the jerk 200% I think if OP has ANY intention to try to salvage this marriage, she should start by shaving her whole hair off as apology. After all, "it's just hair".
I would be pissed if a 11 year old girl with hair down to her bottom made me do her hair every morning I wouldn’t have cut the girls hair but I would have made her do her own hair
I’m grateful this guy doesn’t act like HES the one with these multiple stories, he even says in the title Reddit podcast, and gives his opinion on it afterwards.
They actually twist the titles to fit the video.. Usually the only way to get those stories in reddit (with possible updates) is from usernames the narrator provide in the description (which unfortunately is only available when this narrator uploads since the other doesn't)
For the wedding couple, definitely NTJ. My brother and SIL also had a small wedding; immediate family only. This was put together on relatively short notice because they were leaving for some contract work, and marriage (they'd been engaged for a while) made things easier arranging travel & other coverage. Now on his side it was just me and our parents, on hers it was her parents, her maternal grandparents (who hosted), her two brothers, their wives, and her two nieces, and of course their son. Not even my other local relatives like my mother's brother and cousin came. So yeah, our family was outnumbered, but we didn't care, and her family is lovely. My cousins on my father's side were disappointed, but also understanding.
For the hair cutting story I hated that I knew where it was going. Same thing happened to me as a kid but instead of a step mom it was my father. Who did it behind my mother's back. I remember crying the whole time it was being cut. I was also given a bob and not shoulder length hair, so at least the girl was shown SOME mercy. But now, as an adult I can 100% say it fucks with you. Every hair cut after is pretty scary, even as an adult. The fear of someone not respecting your boundaries is ever present. 100% asshole step mom.
For Story 2... Jerk, for a few reasons: 1) OP says her daughter's hair is expensive to maintain, requiring... $11 hair oil... Which lasts WEEKS, and curly hair shampoo, which is... over $10? So... I'm guessing between $10 and $11? That's pretty cheap. You can't buy much for $22. Not like the daughter is asking for money equivalent to a $2,200 bag or something crazy like that. 2) OP never specifies. She says hair oil only lasts "a few weeks"? What's that supposed to mean? Two? Three? Four? And her daughter goes through shampoo "at a fast rate". Again, what's that supposed to mean? An hour? A day? A week? Two weeks? A month? And her daughter's hair takes "a long time to brush"... What are you meaning? A minute? 15 minutes? Half an hour? A full hour? If you're THAT upset about something, SURELY you'd provide specifics to back up your case. 3) I find it disturbing that OP forced the daughter to cut her hair instead of maybe forcing her to do it herself. That would be sufficient to get her point across, as her daughter would have experience to how maintenance-intensive her hair is, or telling her daughter about how stressful taking care of her hair is, OR, as OP's husband said, asking HIM to do the hair. ANY of these options should've been taken first. Not all are good, but are all STILL better than what OP decided to do. 4) Everyone has preferences for hair length. Just because OP has shoulder-length hair, doesn't mean her daughter has to. Forcing something onto someone will only make them rebel and hate you.
@Avrysatos Tbh, I think it unfair to judge the stylist. They were in an uncomfortable situation. Also... Yes, they could've refused, but then they wouldn't have gotten paid. And we don't know what their financial situation was like. They may have been desperate for every dollar they could get for all we know. Besides, if they refused, then the stepmother could've filed a complaint against the company, which could make the stylist lose their job. There's a saying in business that "The customer is always right." What it means is that business rely on customers for money, so refusing to serve them isn't a good move, as they can easily switch to a competitor. I think the stylist had too little influence and too much risk to comfortably refuse to cut the daughter's hair. Trust me, I would be tempted to refuse, too, but, again, the stepmother had power over the stylist and could've ruined their life if they refused to cut the daughter's hair.
@@AutismTakesOn The saying in its entirety is, "The customer is always right in matters of taste." It means the vendor has no business in why the customer wants something the way they do. Truncating out the last part leads to Karen-levels of entitlement.
@@JamesDavy2009 The main point I make for justifying the stylist for cutting the girl's hair is that they'd essentially be biting the hand that feeds them. Companies care mostly about money, and if there aren't enough customers, they'll likely lay off employees, so in a financial sense, aka, the mindset companies tend to think, any customer is a good customer. Before you tell me I'm heartless, I honestly wish the stylist could've refused to cut the hair of OP's stepdaughter without having to worry about ANYTHING. I honestly wish that companies refused to serve people like OP. I don't blame anyone for wanting the stylist to refuse. I'm just saying that, had the stylist refused, they could've risked their job. It's unfortunate, 100%, and I wouldn't have wanted to cut the daughter's hair, either. I just think that it's unfair to judge someone who did something morally wrong in order to not get in trouble with their job so they can put food on the table. It's morbid, and I wish it wasn't a point to bring up, but alas, that's the mindset of most companies.
I feel so bad for the poor girl that had her stepmom cut her hair off. My mom wouldn’t let my hair get past my shoulders and I was devastated, until I turned 12 when she let me decide for myself. Since then I can’t cut my hair short, I can barely handle a trim. Doing what she did can absolutely traumatize or cause that child to hate you. Honestly I wouldn’t blame her. My hair is my safety blanket and would be so upset if that was taken away from me.
S2: omg what a lazy ass SM.. also $10 for hair products is affordable! My daughter has curly hair and cost $20-$30 a bottle. The hair dresser shouldn’t have cut the hair either seeing that the child was crying! What a crappy SM.
To the lady who cut her stepdaughter's hair, you were very clearly the jerk. First off, she's not your biological child, second, she is in a vulnerable state of mind until she turns like 18, third, you shattered the trust she had for you. You were supposed to act like a mother figure to her and instead you acted like a child, complaining that you're not a morning person and you were tired of doing her hair. I'm not sorry, you are 110% the jerk.
I wonder if that OP has ever seen a movie with the 'Evil Stepmother' trope in it? Because she's exactly that type of person and helps keep that trope alive!
Pt 2 I can't believe that she would do that without asking her if that's what she wanted and I'm glad both parents were there and stood up for their daughter, she didn't even ask either parent if it was ok!!!!! I have 3 daughters and all are grown and I still have enough respect for them to let them make their own choices. Even at 11 it's her choice not yours. My heart breaks for her.
For the hair one: My mom did the same thing to me even though i loved my hair everyone did but her and my immediate family that is older. She chopped it off and it looked hideous (this was 35 days before school.) and i literally cried when it happened. That stepmom is definitely the jerk for what she did. That is literally a door to bullying just like what happened to me.
This is for the girl with the long hair story. I seriously cannot believe that she did this. I am Native American and we consider our hair as a part of our heritage and this family could also have something similar because both of my children, son & daughter both had very long hair until they were old enough to decide to cut it or not. If her main complaint was the fact that she is not a morning person or that she was so concerned about the cost of the hair products, then she should have brought it up with her father first and not assumed that she could make such a decision by herself without consulting either her husband or the girls mother. She seriously should be ashamed of herself and I seriously wouldn't be surprised if she ended up divorced because of her laziness. How would she feel if someone did something to her own child without asking. She should be happy that they didn't call the cops.
The worst part is yes she is helping in raising them but you didn't actually went over this and asked your partner, the childs biological father, if that is a viable solution or if there would be a diffrend way to go over this. You had no right to go over and betray your partners (hopefully ex-partner by now) trust like this.
She was wrong to cut stepdaughter's hair but daddy dearest is in the wrong for ignore his share of childcare responsibility leading up to the op's burn out
@@syrusorelio2309 at no point did he ignore anything, she didn't tell him anything at all to be able to ignore anything in the first place, she even said he told her he would have paid for everything and not have her do it if it was a problem
@@marinrodriguez1021 yes he did he shouldn't have dumped all responsibility of his kid or their kid on her solo so how is his not doing anytime to help raise his kid not ignoring responsibility I never said he ignored his wife he neglected to help raise his kid and that is what he's ignoring. Not sure why you think he's not ignoring his parental responsibility. Both he and his wife are at fault for this mess. She was stretched too thin doing all child care which he have to be blind or selfish not to see and that's what led to her overreacting about dealing with her hair ergo as much his fault for not helping out as her fault cutting the hair
My niece is 10 and has never had a haircut, I joke with her lets get haircuts together and she screams NO! Everytime so the fact this stepmom still went through with chopping off her stepdaughters hair even after she was crying is truly awful and extremely selfish since the husbands reaction shows she never told him she didn’t want to do it. I’d never trust her with my kid again either and might’ve contemplated divorce.
I'm a 36yo with hair longer than hip-length... if someone even try to joke about cutting it, let alone forcing me to do it I'll probably "bit the krap" out of them. My hair is part of my personality, is my " comfort blanket" and I'm very proud of it. No one can impose their ideas on someone else's appearance, they don't know if something is therapeutic for them.
First one: I’m hard of hearing and if I can hear what that man is saying and seeing something completely different I would’ve been pissed too. 2nd story: why shoulder length? She couldn’t have it at least middle of her back like mine? Op is so delusional to think she did nothing wrong!? You can not think you did nothing wrong!? Just because you offered her McDonald’s after you FORCED HER to have a hair cut!? Just because YOU didn’t want to do anything about her hair? How selfish do you have to be to not think people DON’T WANT to be just like you!? She didn’t need to have it cut so shirt after having it so long!? All because you wanted “less stress in your life”if you wanted to do that then you should’ve talked to your boyfriend OR THE DAUGHTER!? Wow YTA!?
I’m honestly appalled at the stepmother who but the little girls hair. Like wtf?!? How dare you make such a big decision like that without consulting the dad first and also like, the little girl is literally crying because she loves her hair and you know she does! Like she actually takes care of it!! That’s not being vain that’s loving something about yourself and that helps boost confidence! Like how dare you?? Omg I’d be so mad at you too like I wouldn’t trust you either!! Ever! What a terrible person.
Story 2: the second i heard them say she forced a little girl to chop off her hair i was like oh boy OP youre about to get a mouthful from everyone in the comments and you absolutely deserve it. OP has no right to force a child that isnt even her child to do ANYTHING especially not cut their hair. I wouldve at least told her i need a break from her to see if ill ever be able to forgive her.
the thing about getting a lift/ride from a co worker is they are doing u a solid they can get into work with or with you the lest u can do is offer to pay for the ride
I can understand the second OP not wanting to have to deal with someone else child EVERY morning. She is 11 and cant do it herself? I was ironing, cooking and cleaning an entire home at the age of 9. The biological mother does not have full custody, from my experience that's because she didn't really want to deal with her own child. could the OP have handled things differently? yes of course she could have but i understand her point.
"I don't want her to become vain" Then raise your kid not to make fun of other people for their looks. Her wanting healthy hair has literally nothing to do with it. Just teach your kid how to be a decent freaking person, and they won't grow up to be vain. 🙄
In the hair story she is maybe bad but maybe good, the whol story sounded bad but if it is truth wath she said at the end that she raised her stepdother then she is right.
Personally I side with the step mom from story 2 but i agree that she should have discussed it with her husband first. As a person who has had both long and short hair, long hair is a pain enough with wavy hair and i prefer short hair but i would not force my child to get a haircut as long as they commit to caring for it.
For the second story I kinda have long hair I struggle a lil bit to grow it(I’m male)so I have kind of an emo cut my hair is at the front I’m growing the back but I would be sobbing to like the hell was the step mum thinking B
For story 2, i cant see why almost everybody is against the op for getting the kids hair cut. Let me spell it out to everyone...SHE IS A FUCKING PARENT TO THE KID! Hell, by the sounds and looks of it, ops in the kids life more then her actual mother. So, first things fist, she has plenty of rights to take the kid to get her hair done, since SHES the one taking care of the kid 99% of the time! Like people, shes raising both this daughter and son, BY HERSELF, and working ALL AT THE SAME TIME!!! And i like how the husband says, "well if you had a problem with it i would of delt with it." Like dude, YOU'VE DONE NOTHING! All the husband has done is dumped his two kids on the op and gone off to do his own thing. And i hate how the mother yelled at the op, for doing something ALL KIDS GET DONE! Yet you dont see them all crying about it do you? Plus, the op has raised this child more then the actual mother! And to everyone saying the two products the op named arent expensive, first of all, she mentions the "hair oils," meaning shes buying multiple hair oils at once, and the shampoo is also decently expensive. But she only named two! This daughter could of been using a couple HUNDRED DOLLARS worth of hair products, every morning! And to people saying the op was "jealous" of the kids hair, then tell me why would she mention everything wrong with the hair? Last i checked, if someones jealous of something...they name nothing but all the good things about it. Plus, she had several reasons to get the kids hair cut. And you know what? The morning person wasnt even one she mentioned to the stylist! She told everyone that the reasons why she got the kids hair cut, by a PROFESSIONAL no less, were; 1. Because it was becoming way to expensive to take care of, 2. The childs hair was starting to take way to long to maintain, 3. The daughter was focusing way to much on her hair, in a way that it was almost an obsession! Like, i dont know about you...but ive never...NEVER seen a girl focus *that* much on their hair...ever! I've been around for a while, and in my entire life...both as a kid and an adult, I've never seen any girl focus on their hair as much as this kid did...it's honestly unhealthy to me. She focused more on her *hair* then anything; Cleaning the house, doing her schoolwork, hell i wouldnt be surprised if the daughter focused more on her hair then her own health. So, op's not the jerk-
Last story) definitely not the asshole, even if it is a family business, you are not an employee thatvis on the books, if you are injured whilst helping out you will not be covered by the business insurance, or if you accidently damage equipment in the restuarant, this could very quickly end with civil lawsuits either way if the worst were to happen during the time OP did his brother a favor. Not worth it at all.
10:53 boo hoo it's hair it grows back it's not like she shaved her head. If the daughter wants long hair it's up to her to take care of it and if she lets it get ratty then it gets cut. That was the rules growing up in our home.
The second story with the stepmother that cut the girl's hair off... You might be responsible for taking care of the little girl, but you are not her mother or father, you had no right to make that decision. You should have brought your concerns to both biological parents and had a discussion. Then brought the little girl in to talk to her about her hair. At 11 years old my hair was also down to my bottom, but I took care of it all by myself. I had been taking care of my own self since I was 7 years old. Brushed out my hair morning and night, brushed my teeth, took a bath or a shower, washed my own hair with regular shampoo, dressed myself. And by 10 years old was a latchkey child, cooking and cleaning by myself. So I don't understand why that 11 year old wasn't taking care of herself; unless she is mentally challenged, on the spectrum, or something. Unless she needs to be driven to school, she didn't need to disturb the stepmother in the morning. *The stepmother is still very wrong for cutting the girl's hair without consent from the biological parents.* 👵☮️🖖
Look i understand why husband is upset. Little girl needs to deal with hair cut and it get tangled easy. I not think the step mother doings nothing of all.
first story: What the actual hell is wrong in James' head? It just sounds like he's a massive ablest who gets off on screwing with a vulnerable population.
The story with the hair I was like that but properly longer and I used normal shampoo and stuff and then my mum cut it shoulder length I ended up living it after a while so now I’m trying to grow it out again but the step-daughter isn’t your daughter she didn’t want to get her hair cut that much and you didn’t have to be the only one taking care of the daughter and son you could get the husband to help a-bit so shame on you(I get the person that did it probably won’t read this) and I hope the stepdaughter will be fine now and get her hair long again and good that your not trusted with her again
2nd story: Once i heard that the stepmother forcefully cut the girl's hair cuz of inconvenience, I knew she is a greedy POS. Just cuz yo times not right doesnt mean u remove dat girl's identity.
as much as i despise the OP from the second story i heard "you are the worst person on planet earth" i would like to make a separate opinion that there are much worse examples are hopefully not needed, it was most likely a heat of the moment thing but these are looked over by multiple people.
I;m not a girl so i dont know what its like for my hair to be cut short by like a foot but i think it was torment from the step mom she had the right idea but then she forced the kid to get it but and did not try and teach the girl how to care for her own hair i mean it seems she did this out of the blue she made a huge mistake and if she doesnt see it by now then i can understand the frustration of the narrator but the step mother could have just talked to his husband and all would be solved so she definitely jumped to conclusions. but if its all the same r there hair extensions or is there no such thing for hair because it could be a valid solution instead of destroying a kids pride w
Story 2: you are fully the jerk. Story 4: you are not the jerk, you have been taken advantage of for 14 months because when asking for the same in return you got asked to pay. Story 5: while you are not the jerk, you could have handled it better, if it was just a 10mn job, you could have asked to get some icecream as payment or something, making it clear that you need to get a type of payment BUT I do not know the situation, maybe if you helped then it would become a recurring expectation so maybe it was best to set your boundaries to avoid future problems.
Ice cream kid was not wrong. He asked to paid for the work he did and big brother needs to learn how to deal with busy days like any other employee. Lots of business have busy days I work in my school store and every time after lunch the rush would come in making it hard to ring anyone up because nobody who had exact change wanted to wait until their turn. His brother has to learn to put up with it too. And little brother came with friends to be with them not to work. And Lots of people are going be parts of groups is big brother going make them work for being not by themselves
Re: Story 4, OP should reconsider the "friendship" Re: Story 5, the big brother was trying to force a *customer* to do slave labour. That is verboten under every state's labour laws and any accident that happened would fall on the big brother to pay out of his own pocket as no insurer would side with him.
I think there was a bit of an overreaction for the mom who cut the stepdaughter's hair. Yes, she is a jerk, but not as bad as the family was making out. At 11 the girl should be doing her own hair. (I've known 3-year-olds who could do the basics) The problem was that the mom just sprung it on her at the last minute. There should have been a warning; Learn to do it or it's getting cut.
Remember, she also went behind her husband's back, too. The husband wasn't even aware that OP had an issue with taking care of his daughter's hair either.
.. yeah.. op should have given an ultimatum.. do your own hair or get it cut...... but also... its hair... it grows back.. its not scarring, its not a horrific act to get it cut - thats bs
The stepmom in the second story is dead wrong for cuttin her step daughters hair off but bro stop gassing what she did because that little girl was rightfully upset but it’s hair it grows back so she’s not gonna be scarred for life nor did that ruin her life bro she’s 11
3RD OP could have helped for 10 minutes. not a whole hour or anything. now the brother could've asked them to help at the register rather than the back cleaning out the machines.
The OP was a customer. I don't know what the labour laws are like where you're from, but it is verboten to have a customer do work at a business. Who's going to be liable for costs if the customer causes an accident?
