First story: there was an update to the story. Her son didn’t want the house, she did. The son got in contact with OP or their partner I can’t remember. So this isn’t some entitled kid sending their parent, it’s just someone crazy
That's why Karens/Ken are a worst human being. They often uses excuses, uses other just for themselves, judge by others actions even though they did it themselves, stealing, etc. I wish this world would've been in peace from them.
For the mail story, it's absolutely illegal to take someone else's mail. It can get you a $10k fine and 5 years in prison PER OFFENSE. That postal worker could easily get fired for what they did too. Definitely NTJ.
I also heard my roommates talking about me. I heard them say how they couldn’t stand me and I was annoying. When I shouted down that I could hear them they then yelled at me for eaves dropping and to not listen in to their conversations
The second story kills me like I'm laughing hard. You don't want to go to the wedding cuz it's in Canada. But you want to see OP get married? And to top it off making it diabolical funny cousin gets a DUI and forget to tell everybody until OP and her fiance pay for the whole wedding, which none of the family helped. That's almost like a Jerry Springer moment.
It's like wanting to travel somewhere you like just to end up getting your family to change a country they themselves like, even without explaining their DUI
Once she asked "How much did you offer?" I would have said, "None of your f**king business; now p**s off and leave me alone." People need to learn to cut that crap off as soon as it begins.
I have a suspicion it’s not the son that wanted the house but Karen just wanted to have her son in the same neighborhood. I’d bet 10 bucks he never made an offer on the house.
Story1-Water off a duck's back, ignore idiots, you should have went in the house and left her sitting there looking stupid.//2nd Story, the cousin stays home, who cares, Congratulations on your wedding.//Story 3-time for you to move out, maybe by yourself if you can afford it.
For the first story. I would have said a ridiculous high price, and when Karen would be like "no you are lying", my answer would be "well that's what we will sell it to you for. What we actually paid + (like) 50 million in entitlement fee"😂
Last story: she ignored every single red flag and said she was happy with him Come on OP, you said it yourself, he's controlling, he broke up with you before, he added girls on his Snapchat after a trip you weren't present!!
Bro come on now you lying if you only want to sleep with one girl a dude is only as loyal as his options, I would argue that most men not all but most men would want to have multiple women not saying what he did is right or wrong but she did state they they wasn't together as a couple they was just talking so he really wasn't cheating and I'd also say that I know a dude can hate a chick and still sleep with her and love another girl🤷🏻♂️😅
One time I was working at Tesco I live in Scotland and I was stacking shelves when a woman came up to me asking where is the frozen food isle i pointed to the area behind her and she screamed I asked what’s wrong mam she said I was sexually harassing her and was touching her inappropriately she asked for my manager so here comes my manager he gets a grin when he hears the story so did I and what I told her was unexpected I said mam I’m gay and the manager is my boyfriend she looked stunned and ended up saying a bunch of offensive slurs and eventually was kicked out this woman literally picked the worst person to try this on 😂😂😂
I knew a woman, who was so pushy with the owner of a neighboring property that had an empty, unfinished house (that she wanted for her son), that the guy dug in his heels and decided that he wouldn't sell to her, if she were the last potential buyer on earth. After refusing for her the last time, he immediately sold it to someone for less than it was actually worth. She was furious! The new family finished the house and made it beautiful! I pass it every single day!
The mail story is insane, I'd be so mad and it's absolutely appalling that the mailman would accept a neighbours word like that. Dunno about the laws around it specifically, I just know it's illegal to open someone elses mail here. But a few years ago I met the mailman on the way back home. I saw my name and said "oh you can just give them to me since I'm here." They refused and literally made me watch them put them in the mailbox, they then proceeded to watch me take my mail out. I never asked for my mail again and just waited 😂
1sr story: the correct thing is ignore or just pretend you dont understand her clues. I.e., "oh my son really wanted this house" oh damn, me too! Thats why i got it, its soooo nice, and the area is just dandy!!!! And also...etc It's the best way to throw those people off, not letting them get a word in until they're annoyed enough to leave you alone
Seriously selfish people like Karen who try to guilt people into doing things are just scum. I have no time for people like that, I just walk away from them. I remember back in high school, I won an raffle challenge in school. The prize was a trip to Movieworld. So one of my bullies tried to guilt me into giving her my prize theme park pass to the theme park, saying she had never been before and her parents don’t have time to go, all the while beforehand she would constantly harass me for no reason even to the point of physically assaulting me. Not wanting to put up with her bs, I remember saying to her “that’s really a you problem” Long story short she stormed off and called me selfish, I went to Movieworld with my friend instead.
OP Honey, he is lying to you gaslighting you. It's bad enough that you had controlling parents growing up, but you have a guy who's equally controlling and probably the worst one because with your parents there is a limit short limit but limit and his is going to be unlimited. If you don't see the signs right away that you deserve a lot better than that. Just a heads up. 😊
#1.I hate people who dance around the subject. Either say it to my face or move the eff on. #2. Not the jerk. A.) There is plenty of consulates of Canada in the US. B.) Most of the time they will help you especially if its a first offense. I know my friend had one and he had to get a permit thats it. #3. Just tough it out until you leave. Then leave a strongly worded letter on each of their doors about how they are back stabbing people. Then leave all the cabinets opens in the house. I'd do the other things too but thats too far. #5. Drop that person. He's controlling and its only gonna get worse. Also about your parents. They need to let go. simple.
Story 2 - Sounds like the OP is trying to use ADHD as an excuse for being a bad roommate. They would drive me nuts, doing garbage like this constantly. They think apologizing should wash away their constant mistakes, but since they do it over and over, no one wants to put up with it anymore.
Second story: I have traveled farther by car for camping. My parents took us to Disney in Florida BY CAR. If you really don't want to drive 5 hours away for your own family members wedding you are a jerk and/or lazy
2:25 I would have tripled or quadrupled the price of the what I bought it for, an outrage number if she wanted it that bad lmfao😂😂😂. Pay my price and you can have it lmfao
Story 5: One thing I really can't understand why she is upset when she she said it's good to go and he goes. If you are upset about it then just say it or shut up
Years ago billionaire Larry Ellison wanted a specific house in a specific neighborhood, but he hated the neighborhood. So he went to every house and gave them an offer they couldn’t refuse. Wouldn’t surprise me if he added an additional zero to the house value. If you truly want a specific house you’re going to have to pony up the money.
I will never understand how people can become so entitled, that they demand someone sell them a piece of property or whatever. If I were to try, I think I would drive myself nuts.
On the story about the neighbor getting op's mail, NO op you are NOT the jerk. She needs to leave your mail alone, she could actually get into trouble going into your mailbox.
For the second story, the family should have paid fully for everything, including the wedding, the spending for the wedding that was canceled and all the cost been paid for so, all the cost for the fiancé's whole family to be able to go for the wedding at america and so on, and do the most generous thing just to do it at America, now most importantly everyone' s agreement, are you even going to do so?
I could understand if her wedding was like a destination wedding that would cost families thousands or even hundreds to attend. But a 5 hour drive is nothing
Its actually not that hard to rehab a house so long as the structure is good. The only hard part is following local code and getting the required permits. Removing asbestos and roofs with many angles asside once gou get something down to studs you can turn off the power and route new stuff with ease.
I hope the mail thief gets fined for stealing the mail and " redirecting it". That's illegal ya can get fined for that y'know. Also What's the game in the back? It looks fun!
Not the jerk, your wedding, your guest list. Tell them to make their minds up, because you can then cut the numbers of meals you're paying for. Cheaters always cheat.
As someone who works for the post I'll just say that the postman is not supposed to be delivering that mail to that house at all, period. They're the jerk for not just turning in a change of address
On the story about the cheating boyfriend, op it is NOT your parents, he is just using it as excuse to do what ever he is doing when he is away, like cheating.
Story about the cheating ex - people told me I should take my ex back after she cheated because she told me straight away and obviously felt bad and it was a mistake.. she did it 5 months later again. Don’t put up with it it’ll just carry on
The second story: if the wedding is 5 hours away from were her family lives what's the problem here? I don't think OP is the jerk here i think it's the family
*Story 1:* Damn! Talk about crazy! While I can relate to wishing I could have lived in the neighbourhood, you'd think this crazy karen would have just accepted that the house *wasn't* for sale at any price and just left it at that, instead of getting all pissed off and guilt tripping OP into selling the house. That's insane! I'm glad OP didn't sell the house and hasn't heard from this crazy *"karen"* again.
I think for the wedding in Canada story we need to know if it was in Winter or not first. Lol If yes. Then yeah for that alone ytah. But otherwise nope. Definitely Not!!
The last story. She needs to leave him. His relationship is a lie And he's lying about his body count😂 He's controlling? You don't like it but you love him so you stay with him? Girl he is a narcissist and he is gas-lighting you. Leave him He says he wants to propose? Yeah he's going to change after he proposes and he won't be as nice. If he's controlling now you don't know what hes going to be like after you actually get married
Damn the Narrators getting way too invested in the stories and sounds so toxic in his responses. While some people deserve them I've seen more than a few where the response wasn't justified in being that harsh. Wonder if hes got something eating him up in his life.
To the chick in the last story. Get tf out of the relationship. He’s controlling, he has cheated and will do it again. He’s the jerk but you’re the insecure one. Grow a backbone and just walk away. Do not get married to the lying cheat. You’ll regret it and resent him. If this was your friend and she came to you with these issues what would you tell her? Stay true to yourself. You’ll feel more independent and stronger. Take care of you. He doesn’t deserve you and you don’t deserve to be crapped on.
NGL I think being the bad roommate story OP wasn’t an asshole but he isn’t in the clear. His roommates are assholes but their shitty behavior is kind of warranted. I don’t think I can live with someone who is a hazard waiting to happen. Still OP should just wait his time and move out when he can. His attitude should be they don’t wanna see me and he should reflect it with a similar attitude.
for the people with the mail thief no you are not the jerk I would turn the mail carrier in to your town post master , you said you talk to the post office and that mail carrier. fill a complaint with the post master
Eavesdropping is never a good idea, but y'all are roommates, not friends. They need to open up communication, but its too late at this point. Don't socialize, just tough it out until June, then leave.
