First story, next time she refused to give back the child then called the police and have her arrested for kidnapping. She can't keep the child and refuse to give it back to the parents regardless of her being the grandmother
Story 1: Get out of there ASAP... and fast! If the OPs mom will forcably take away the baby for something trivial like that, then i would grow eyes in the back of her head and soon. The OP's mom definitely sounds like one of those crazy grandparents that will try to run off with the baby and claim "grandparents rights". Story 2: Learn to listen and take directions. At the hospital where i live, they have special coloured dots on the floor to direct people to certain wings and areas... as this hospital can be a major maze. Story 3: OP is not a jerk. That was a gerat comeback. Story 4: OP isnt a jerk here.... some bad luck with the nosebleed, i know that feeling, but why would Sarah think you ghosted if you left your stuff there? Doesn't make sense to me. Also, if you both had been drinking, you both could've gotten a cab or something. Story 5: Just because they are family/siblings, does not mean that they should be allowed to come to the wedding on those grounds. If the OP wants to re-consider, it would be best to meet up with him like a month or 2 beforehand, and if he had changed, then hiring security would be smart, but if not, then screw him.
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Uh… I'm not sure if I'm correct or not, but did the EM in the first story just kidnap OP's baby? And it sounded like the "Until you clean your room" part was basically the ransom note. If she does that again, OP, call the police on her
I know it's getting that means fucking sick how many people are actually defending this child abusing mother poor girl having her baby still taking like that if it was me I would I would have killed her I would have lost my shit my sister went through this where my mom does that kind of issue
story 1: the mother is just crazy b story 2: the mother is just stupid b story 3: OP needs to change jobs incase of this happened again story 4: why do i feel like the date was just an idiot story 5: hope the fiance brother doesn't F up the whole wedding
The first story, the 19 year old mom is an immature child. She can't be told what to do? She can't support her self or the baby and doesn't know not to sleep with the baby???? What grandma did is wrong, but it's her house and she is providing a home for both of them. Whole family needs help, but especially that 19 year old. She needs to grow up and get some life skills fast.
It's funny that no one realizes the grandmother actually can do this. She can even kick the daughter out and leave the baby there. It's called grandparents' rights. It's not kidnapping. A grandparent can take a child from the parent if the parent is unfit. It honestly sounds like the mouthy is unfit.
@dutchden80 ah grandparents rights don't do much unless the grandparent can prove the parent is incapable of caring for their child and/or is neglectful. My daughters grandmother tried this when I refused to let her toxic ass near my daughter and she was laughed out of the police station, she tried to take me to court and was practically laughed out of court as well. Because the grandparents haven't done anything to try and claim their "grandparent rights" she can charge them with kidnapping
@@cake94309 it sounds like your situation was much different from the OPs. The grandmother here actually removed the child from a dangerous situation and merely took the baby to another room in the same house. It sounds like grandma could have called CPS on the mom, gotten custody of the baby and kicked the mom out. The mom couldn't support them. I really hope she was getting some kind of jib training. Hair school doesn't take that long and you can make 6 figures once you build your way up to a big client base and get into nicer and nicer salons. The mom is about to get some tough life lessons.
Momma dearest needs to find out what jail is like. If you were smart while she's gone move out and never let her back in your life. She's a demanding manipulative person who needs to understand that the world doesn't revolve around her.
@@cake94309 so you would let your mom take your child because your room wasn't as clean as she wanted it to be? You would let your child in a toxic environment?
I understand not wanting to have your wedding day ruined but I also understand that it's his brother and even if he is a jerk to not invite your own brother is kind of a big deal like the other person said maybe his change Maybe set up some sort of casual get together with him beforehand to feel out what kind of person he is now to see if it'll still be an issue and like the other person suggested have a security guard so if he tries to start something big can be ended quickly
Nope. Its totally understandable that the jerk brother dont get invited. Its her wedding day and if she really insisted not inviting him, there is deep dislike in there. She just wants her wedding to have no possible risk. If I had a jerk of a brother whom I also dislike and thinks that he'll cause an incident or just ruin the mood, i probably wont invite him too to not ruin my and my fiances wedding. If it doesnt get settled yet then delay the wedding before grudges amd issues are settled. Better yet dont get any wedding at all if issues like this keep reappearing possibly. Whos to say that after the wedding, things go worse? Like having the jerk brother going to your own place any time or in their own little family occasions where he ruins the mood and feels entitled.
@@MuscleLineRailfan babies are supposed to lay on their back not on their stomach so when she lays on her chest she must obviously be laying on her stomach. A percentage of babies that die young are due to suffocating from laying on their stomachs
Thank you for covering my story and i was honestly surprised you out of all people covered it because ive been watching you since my little brother started watching your channel (a few months for me but your content is the most entertaining) my story is the first story by Who_asked4569. you turned a bad day into a great day thank you.
You should have called the police for kidnapping. I would leave her and never let her see the child, and when she’s older and can’t take care of herself, let her rot in a nursing home.
for story four, if that happened to a person I was on a date with I'd make a light hearted joke of "Oh you must really be into me if your nose starts bleeding like an anime character" but I'm a weeb sooo yea that joke would be obvious.
But... If the room isn't really dirty... I clean once every 3 weeks, cause I'm lazy. And sometimes it's dirty. Still, I don't need 2 hours until it's spotless. So, cleaning her room shouldn't be more than half a hour, if it really isn't that dirty. So she can't clean for 30 minutes every few days. Or She's lying and it's a biohazard... I'm just thinking here...
Yeah in most of these we only get one side of the story, so when op says their room isn’t that bad it’s hard to tell if that’s true or if she’s stretching it.
That lady's mother deserves to go to jail for the rest of her natural life. I don't care what excuse it you keep your kidnapping a child and you're basically blackmailing the mother to get it back
The DUI story sounds like it was just some miscommunication and a series of unfortunate events that was mostly beyond control. The fact she got drunk was likely due to irrational fear of being ghosted and that having impaired her judgemental lead to the DUI.
First stoy, OP, Sleeping with your baby in the same bed is a HUGE fucking suffocation Hazzard and you absolutely shouldn't be doing that. Also, unless you're paying rent, it sounds like you're living in your parent's house, which does give them some rights over how clean the place is kept. Sorry, but no sympathy from me.
Story #1 - The best solution is for the OP to get her own place. She clearly stated that she has an issue with any authority yet is not paying the cost to be the boss. Also is very immature if her first thought was to start calling names etc. And what do we call a female that is grown that lives at home with her mother still? You know how females call men Man-Child when he still lives at home. Last Story - Why do females think that they are the sole person that can say what happens at a wedding? So the groom is just their as what a place holder? I am so glad that my fiancé is not like that and WE are making plans together. The OP's response is like she is talking to a child and he has no say in the matter.
Ah there's nothing wrong with still being home as an adult especially in the last couple years it's actually become more common, also just because she lives with her mother doesn't mean she has to deal with the manipulation and nasty behaviour of her mother
I can understand this. Sounds like both sides are in the wrong, the mom shouldn’t use the kid as a bargaining chip. But the op comes across as entitled saying “you know I don’t respond to being told what to do”. In most stories you are only getting one side of things so I don’t know if the op is stretching the truth or not, but it sounds like her room could have been worse then she was letting on and we just aren’t getting the whole story.
@@thefanofeverything5039 I'm with you on the grandma just taking the kid, That was uncalled for. but based on the "you know i don't respond to being told what to do" comment i would say OP is VERY entitled. MANNNNNN! i'm just thinking about what would have happened to me if i had said that to my mother living up in her house. she would have tanned my hide asking me if i'm responding to this way better. OP doesn't like people telling her what to do? THEN GET YOUR OWN PLACE! you pay the cost to be the boss and guess what? if you're not willing to pay that cost then, you guessed it! you're not the boss.
I guess we all miss the fact that you know parents are legally supposed to be taken care of their children until they're 18 and this child is 16. I guess we are on a bunch of heartless cunts in this world. If my mother ever tried something like that should be sitting behind bars for the next for the rest of her natural life
@@KC-nx8ol exactly!!!! We live in a society where young people are spoiled, lazy, disrespectful, entitled, and just pure garbage. If you still living under your parents roof but don't contribute to the household, then you most definitely gonna follow their rules. And if one of those rules is you gotta keep your nasty room clean then it is what it is. And the fact that you brought a baby into the equation makes it even more important. But these entitled young idiots only think about themselves. I'm glad the grandmother took the baby. Someone needed to step in a be responsible because the op definitely isn't.
Jesus! The mother isn't doing anything wrong, many do this I did this with my children and was even encouraged by a nurse with my first born, they're well cared for. Pull that stick out of your ass you sound just as bad as op's mother
Oh a man trying to know how to how to how babies work. Genius you know more babies died in the crib . Because they are sleeping on their stomachs do not let your baby sleep on their stomach my sister when her child was young sometimes she would sleep in the National of her arm my sister's Insomniac so she would never sleep anyway but no it's when you put a baby to sleep on its stomach smart one
I agree with you. I lost a friend to suicide and if you said that to me you would have a black eye 👁 or 2 and maybe a bloody nose. Don’t say stuff like that to people, you might rub them the wrong way with your words
Story 1: That child isn't a toy or anything animatronic. She's a live human being. The OP's entitled mother shouldn't be taking something that isn't hers. That Entitled Mother should be ashamed of herself and she should be in jail for this. Also your mother should've had her key taken.
That mom is acting like that child is a console or an ipad. Like...no it's OP's child. That's not at all a good way to get your child to clean their room.
hmmm so she come and take the baby without asking (possible kidnaping) with enough force to make op let go to avoid the baby getting hurt (child endangeremnent) and refuse to give it back until a task is done (blackmail) forget being nice this is enough to empty that woman wallet for years long enough for op to gtfo in a hotel until she got a new job
@@jeanmaillard6001 you do realize that I was defending the girl not the mother they're both mother's own so it was a little bit harder I guarantee you they wouldn't be able to find my my mother's body if he tried taking my kid like that and tried hurting her
There are lots of reasons you know while I was getting boot fucked by my step dad when I was like 12 the internet was a safe place for me to go and you know where I wasn't judged in so I could find help guess what through the internet I got out of my house and do an independent living thing sued my step dad send him to prison
Last story: so she can invite whoever she wants but not the fiancé? Does she care about only her feelings? Because if he can’t invite his brother he’d be upset but if he invites him, then she’d be upset. Either way someone’s going to be upset… why does she think about her feelings over her fiancés? There has to be some sort of compromise… you can’t just be authoritarian about who can come and who can’t when it’s not only you’re wedding…
Well for story 3 if the restaurant was closing or he was done with work for the night yeah it's ok to drink a little. But if you can't control your mouth when drunk just go home and drink cause if someone else heard that the OP could not only have destroyed the business by putting that one comment out but could also possibly have cause to press charges on harassment
Last Story, I'd handle it like this. Essentially tell him he can come under these conditions. 1. He must be sober. 2. He cannot drink or use drugs. 3. He cannot be anywhere near that brother. 4. He will be on his best behavior. I'd also ask around in your friends group. See if anyone knows someone or has done security in the past. Or hell sometimes Off duty cops will do it. Specially if your more rural areas for some extra dough.
Story 3, HOLY SHIT. Like, yeah, wtf are you as an owner doing drinking on the job, one, and two, WHAT THE FUCK, "hope you finish the job"??? Love to know my own boss just straight up wants me dead n gone despite my service to the resturant 🙃
With Story 3… um… the story mentions that either the owners were done for the day already or the restaurant was closed. If they were already done I don’t see the issue with them drinking in the back. Now that doesn’t excuse what he said but I don’t think it’s really right to complain about owners having a drink after they finished working for the day.
The brother who acts like a jerk. See if he's changed and try to see if he can behave himself long enough to attend the wedding but if anything happens he's paying for all damages done
"cleaning related PTSD" wtf is that lol. I swear some people just want to diagnose themselves with everything they can. She has PTSD, insomnia and ADHD. How much you wanna bet none of those were diagnosed by a dr
First story, the daughter is living in the mother's home, probably rent free, in a pigsty. No mention of a father or boyfriend. Has a kid at 19 with no job. So you know she has her life together and makes great life choices 🙄. If you want to act like an adult, get out of here house and go live on your own
Carful. Society doesn't like it when you hold women accountable for their actions and pi$$ poor behavior and choices. It's somehow always "someone else's fault or uncontrollable environmental factors".
@@calebhill3446 While this is true you just said the main point. That being ‘history’ meaning OP *should* be able to have made proper arrangements. Also at the end of the day it *is* the mom’s home so her roof her rules (regarding entering the room and the level of cleanliness expectations not taking the child). Also OP does not help themselves or act like an adult by ignoring directions when given. That is the behavior of teenagers not a 19 year old adult who has a child and wants to be treated like an adult. There is alot more to being an adult then just working.
Story #5: I’m not married and probably won’t be getting married anytime soon and if and when I do get married I won’t be inviting one of my cousins because he’s been in and out of jail several times.
Last one, I think kinda. Like I think it's probably the way you told you're boyfriend, like you weren't asking it seems. And he's right, it's his wedding too. Then using the phrase "my wedding" gives off the wrong wibes. If you truly respect him, try to use "our" instead of "my".
Dude- story 1 OP needs to get out because the mom is absolutely insane!! Taking anything from your child as a way to get them to do what you want is already awful parenting as it teaches them to hide stuff, but taking a child away from it's parent- Nah bruh. I'm not a parent, but after taking care of my youngest brother for two years if someone were to take him from me while he's in my care you best believe I'm throwing some serious hands
I mean, OP is a teen mom, and I think that's why the mom feels entitled to keep schooling her. She's doing it in the worst possible way, and she's absolutely wrong, but parents of teen moms tend to believe they have the right to be the authority above everything, especially when they keep living under their roof.
@@lizzybearstar1661 as I said, little triggered person that complains without understanding what's written... "she's doing it the worst possible way, and absolutely wrong". As in I agree that what she's doing is WRONG and absolutely illegal. 😉 read better hun.
@@ElleD308 my apologies I have dyslexia and autism so it's sometimes it's harder for me and I use my phone voice command and sometimes it gets a little bit mundled up my apologies
@@lizzybearstar1661 I also have dyslexia, dysgraphia and English is my second language. It is hard to read and understand people; I get that. But what I don't do is attack them when I know I don't understand them; if you know you can't understand words and people, then don't attack them.
Story #1: This op sounds more like an immature slob that isn't responsible. Sounds more like grandmother is genuinely concerned about grandchild. I mean op gave herself away when she said she doesn't like respecting authority. How much you want to bet she doesn't have a job and the father of her child is a less than stellar guy. I'm sorry but if you are an adult and making adult decisions, then you have to be an adult and accept the consequences. And one of those consequences is respecting your parents rules when you live rent free under their roof. I swear some of you people are so entitled..
Well let's hope you never have children you so you okay with baby snatching that's kind of sick. Your PARENTS ARE LEGALLY OBLIGATED TO TAKE CARE OF YOU TILL YOU'RE 18 SOME PLACES IS 17 SHE IS 16 THAT MOTHER IT'S TRASH TO TAKE SOMEONE ELSE'S CHILD THAT'S SOMETHING ONLY A SOCIOPATH DOES AND SOMEONE THAT DOESN'T BELONG ON THIS EARTH
@@lizzybearstar1661 tell me you are irresponsible without telling me you're irresponsible. First off I didn't remember the oo stating her age so that one flew by me. Second, if she is 16 then most definitely her mom did right. How the hell you gonna be 16, a mom already, nasty, lazy, and talking about you don't like listening to authority. That may be the reason you 16 with a child. And third, how is the grandmother trash and doesn't belong on earth when she providing the op entitled azz with a place to stay. Some people would kick their kid out if they got pregnant at young age. I swear you entitled spoiled young idiots are a trip. And for your info I have 2 sons ages 20 and 18 and both are responsible enough to not get anyone pregnant untill they have their goals accomplished. Anyway lizzybearstar, how old are you? 18? 19? And you probably already have 2 or 2 kids by different fathers huh. And I bet you blame the world for all your irresponsible decisions huh. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
"immature slob" her mother literally caused her PTSD and has zero respect for privacy and literally took the kid over a very small pile of clothes in a corner. Also did you miss the part where it's stated she does have a job and is gonna attempt to move out soon? Maybe wait until the end of the story to comment
for story 5, I honestly think the girl is being a jerk, she keeps saying me, me, me, my brother, my family, obviously shes had reason to do so, but it is her fiances brother, and she should be willing to compromise for that maybe hiring a security guard would be a good idea, but shes being pretty selfish by only thinking abt what the brother will do to her rather than thinking abt her fiance.
So everyone says call the police for the first story for kidnapping. I figured I'd explain why that won't work. There is a law called grandparents' rights. Part of that right is that a grandparent can take a child from the parent if the parent is being unfit. They can even keep the parent away from the child if it's proven that the mother is unfit. The mother is not cleaning and sleeping with the baby and can't afford to take care of the child. That's all the grandparents will need to win any fight with the law. So, no kidnapping. Calling the cops could actually hurt the mother more than help. I also agree with someone else about the cleaning. If it takes more than 30 mins to clean a 10 by 15 room, the room is not slightly dirty it's trashed.
Laws called "grandparents rights" do not apply everywhere. Not every state or country has them and laws greatly vary. Usually in an area where Grandparents rights is actually a law, this would be in effect if the children are being abused and/or neglected and the parent has been found incompetent of taking care of their children. Just because someone has a home that is a bit messy, it doesn't mean the parent is unfit and they deserve to have their children taken away. If house is unsanitary and unsafe, then that's a different matter completely. Taking a child from the parent without consent is kidnapping. Having a little bit of a messy room is not a reason for kidnapping and holding the baby hostage until their demand of ransom is met. The OP should call the police to file a report if her child is being kidnapped by another person. If there are concerns about the home being unsanitary, then the grandmother should call the police or CPS to file a report. They will do an assessment and take proper action if needed. It's not up to the grandmother to decide this just because she doesn't like that the room is a little messy.
Yeah when the mom said her room was just a little messy it made me think she might be stretching the truth about that, since in most cases we only get the Op’s side of the story. And she does come across as entitled with how she describes herself in her own story. I feel like they are both at wrong and both in a tough spot. The mom should learn to clean her room if she is living in her grandmother’s house, and the grandmother shouldn’t use the kid as a bargaining chip or threat. But if the mom calls the cops what happens to the house or the grandmother. Sorry if this message is jumbled or rude in any way, the first story just sounds like two entitled people. I saw a lot of commenters going “if it was my kid” or “if that was me”, but it wasn’t you. It sounds like a lot of people are projecting their feelings into the story as the op, when they can’t trust the entire story and don’t know the whole situation.
Hearing the reader on the 3rd story say its irresponsible of the owner of the place to get drunk and all that is pretty funny bc they restaurant and bar industry is literally just that. Most of the asshole owners get WASTED on the job or are generally just complete drunks. Not to say that this is a good thing but if you've been in the service industry or in some way involved with it bc of family, you know stuff like that is normal
First story: My house, my rules, my standards. Support yourself and your child in your own home with your own key to the door, then nobody will be able to interfere with you anymore. I would not do that as a grandmother, but also with the attitude of “I don’t like being told what to do” she wouldn’t be living in my house. Kid or no kid. If you’re old enough to make the choice of engaging in behavior that produces children, then you’re acting as an adult. Adults don’t live with mommy…..
So you're okay with child abuse child engagement kidnapping well I guess you'll enjoy jail. And aren't parents under the legal obligation to take care of their children to the 18 I could have sworn it was 18 that's because they have a child doesn't mean they don't need help and you sound like a horrible despicable nasty woman
Bro when the mom on the 1st story said you can have her back when your room is clean and it sounds like you can get it back or have it back the baby is not a toy
This is my honest thoughts on the last story and to me I feel that the original poster is better off just calling off the wedding and breaking up with her dude because here's the thing of this guy doesn't have the balls to say no to his brother now what he's done to him during his high school years then clearly this dude is never going to protect the original poster his future wife down the line not only from her brother but anybody else that doesn't agree with her are just straight-up doesn't like her and it's not fair for her to go through a marriage or her life to be a living hell and her kids are going to be mistreated just because people felt that the original poster and her husband never should have been a thing I hate to say it but that's the honest truth because her life is going to be full of nothing but toxic people that are apart of the husband's family
First story it sounds like both sides are in the wrong, the mom shouldn’t use the kid as a bargaining chip. But the op comes across as entitled saying “you know I don’t respond to being told what to do”. In most stories you are only getting one side of things so I don’t know if the op is stretching the truth or not, but it sounds like her room could have been worse then she was letting on and we just aren’t getting the whole story.
So a mother's in the wrong for not wanting a psychopath to take her child cool a little of the other kidnap people know how you feel. That woman deserves to be in jail that woman doesn't deserve to be called a mother you don't kidnap your chill your grandchildren because you don't like something you talk to the person and you express your feelings. If this had been me I would have put my mother in jail for the rest of her natural life
Why are people agreeing with the OP in the first story? She sounds terrible. She's in her mother's house no doubt, and she's a child herself. Furthermore, she sounds very ungrateful and entitled herself.
And you sound like a cold-hearted cow. It's not a toy it's a child you cannot blackmail your daughter into cleaning her room or you won't give him back your baby you deserve to be in front of a firing squad and if you disagree with me please sterilize yourself
1st story - the op needs to get her life together. Why did she have a baby knowing the environment she is in. Unfortunately for her its her moms house hopefully she will get out and live by her rules.
Angel someone like Satan to me. Yeah I'm sorry have you ever heard a post-traumatic stress disorder are you just clueless with your head in the clouds like a Barbie doll
Story 3: While the comment the owner made was terrible. I still think the OP should apologize to the owner. Just so both parties know that what was said wasnt right. Plus the owner might apologize for what they said. IF the OP ever decides to leave the company at least they can part on good terms and maybe get a character reference from them.
