Its an oops, i forgot about that feeling thing. Im not in control of how you take it though. I was giving you benefit of the doubt. I didnt realize you would take the objective reality i mentioned so personally..., I mean if it applies to you personally...thats objective, not my problem....or is it? Just messin with ya!
@Putri Tude MBTI types indicate natural partners, not the types which one should restrict themselves to. Any two healthy types can enjoy a loving relationship, given that they accept their counterpart's personality and adapt to it.
Exactly, when my dad starts his questioning ramble on random subjects or begins to point out illogical statements of various TV presenters my mum just sits here and is like *Did I really marry this man* Although I think spending a lot of time with my dad made her more argumentative than she naturally was, so when she actually speaks up then BOI YOU BETTER HIDE, WE HAVE AN EMERGENCY, THEY KNOW HOW TO FORM GOOD ARGUMENTS
ENTP: “I’m just messing with you man.” ISFJ: “Ohhh!” *confused laughter* The ISFJ inwardly: “I... this... no, no he really wasn’t, people aren’t that mixed up, they can’t be-“
I’m an ENFP with an INFJ. I am constantly begging these questions and messing with her, but most of it goes over her head. I think she appreciates my sense of humor, but she doesn’t like to argue or use sarcasm!
Marta Kołakowska i’m an infj and i like arguing too! it can be pretty interesting and it’s just very fun to witness the other person question their whole perspectives. but i am not depressed. i hope things go well for you
Nah he just found the arguments confusing, people who help the homeless are generally more in tune with what the situation actually is like and understand why they do what they do. People don’t just dedicate their time to something that doesn’t benefit them just “because”
A drug addict would never choose to be homeless if he could just be guaranteed a room to live where he can do as much drugs as he wants. They take to the streets because it's a choice between a roof and the drugs they are addicted to for any number of reasons. It IS often due to mental illness. It isn't to say addicts shouldn't be given help for their addiction, but not everyone will overcome it. A rich asshole can die of an overdose in his mansion. Why can't these unfortunate people be entitled to a roof too? It isn't just SJ's who take things seriously. Us INFP's do too. Except I would debate the ENTP back harder on such a topic. I guess they like that.
the isfj never understanding when people are messing with him... how dare you remind me of every embarrassing middle school memory i repressed years and years ago?? brilliant video as always :’)
@@Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97 i saw this notification and was so ready to talk about that misconception and how Si usually develops a complex network of vivid, detailed memories, not a photographic encyclopedia... before i realized you're, you know, clearly messing with me. (in my very weak defense, you'd be surprised how many people i've talked to who really do think similarly... but you got me. i'm a whole adult and still falling for this; how sad is that?)
Lelah S I think it’s more that ISFJ and ENTP are personalities that clash in that sense, that they can’t really comprehend or understand why the other would say or do that. As an ENTP myself, I guess this ENTP was realising that the other person was not one to be up for a debate or understood, that he wanted to strike up a (for him) interesting convo. The „I am just messing with you“ was his easy way out.
I think an ENTP with better-developed Fe does things a little differently. ISFJ: I do this volunteer thing for the homeless. ENTP: (hmm, I wonder if it’s actually effective or if it’s not making any real difference? Let’s find out...) Oh, cool! So what kinds of things do you do? ISFJ: We have a soup kitchen and offer counselling services. ENTP: (that might offer some short term benefits, but it’s not really tackling the larger issue) that’s really nice! So... what is the charity’s long term mission? ISFJ: What do you mean? ENTP: Their long term plan, you know, what is their *mission*? Do they want to tackle the causes of homelessness? Do they want to change laws to further protect the homeless or to make it easier for people to seek drug addiction treatment? Do they want to help these people get back into employment or.... ISFJ: Oh, um...to be honest, I don’t think it’s like that. We just want to help people in the here and now. ENTP: (huh. But is that really helping? Meh, I’m already bored anyway.) Well it sure sounds great. See you later! ISFJ: Bye! (my life is a lie)
Very effective tactic though, I'll bet the very next chance this ISFJ gets, he'll ask whoever runs the charity the very same questions, just to try and resolve the cognative dissonance.
Unsure how the ENTP couldn't wrap their mind around the depth of the ISFJ's service from their first answer. Perhaps the ISFJ was not immersed in their actions to that degree and a better answer would be "it makes them feel good and that is the extent"
As an ISFJ, I can confirm that I would legit start questioning my whole existence and everything I’m living for after a conversation like this. Anyway I have an ENTP friend who always wants to argue with me about things I have a very strong opinion about and it can drain the heck out of me, because I just want to keep my peace
Actually, I think many ISFJs are like this. We love debating ideas and possibilities, but we hate conflict and arguing. And we hate when someone criticizes something that is important for us.
I've don't debate about things often but when I do (I don't know if it's counted but take making theories as an example) and I get some comments on why it's wrong I'll just start to feel like the dumbest person on the world and want to kill myself-
@@josehenriquefs888 i found this relatable even tho i’m an infp haha i love isfjs, y’all just seem like really nice people to be around !! isfjs are actually one of my favorite types lmao
From my experience, the "I admire that you do that" is kind of a way to cure the social akwardness. In the end, i know that the ENTP guy dont fully agree with ISFJ guy
'U do u hun. Being an entp, ill say that we do not agree with anyone else but ourself or einstein , so thats the instinct in a situation that i would do too. I cant be stuck with the awkwardness with some certain people just because i dont agree with them u feel me?
Huy Nguyễn Vũ As an ENTP, for me personally it is just the thoughts I have and saying them out loud. It isn’t necessarily what I agree with to one hundred percent. It is just my thought process. Sometimes I have a set in stone opinion, like everyone does, but it’s not as common as people expect ENTP to be like. I like to see you think, to agree or disagree with me and have an interesting convo with me. It’s not really about thinking what the other person is doing is wrong. Sometimes, maybe, but not all the time.
dada pcvd Are you sure you are an ENTP? I feel like (just based on what you commented) you could be more of an ENTJ. Or are you more of a fluid personality person in that regards?
As an isfj I would say it doesn’t Matter where they’re substance abusers or not , at the end of the day they’re still on the streets and we all gotta have the common humanity and decency to give somebody a warm blanket to sleep in at night regardless of the circumstances in which they found themselves there
But are they still "human" when they lost their sanity from substance abuse. I mean, there are street kids or other poor people that also needs help like them, so why they are being prioritize (assuming you prio them since your executing to help them)? EDIT: You know what, nevermind! You do you my lovely hope for humanity. -xNTP
@@jankyyard5610 I hope you keep rereading the first part of your sentence till you realize how terrible it sounds. For generation, people have used all sort of excuses to treat others as inferior and sub-human, and put them in institutions or force them in eugenic programs. Look up historical facts. IxxJ.
It makes you more clever if we do. We are checking the tribes maintenance to some degree. Making sure you know how to spot validity, a useful tool for survival. Your welcome by the way.
The ISFJ is 100% accuratte. The best part is whe he is alone and says: "He likes to argue?" That is exactly how I would react! "He almost made me question all I believe and now he says he was messing with me, he just like to argue?"
He is teaching you, a tribe member, to think and be able to recognize validity. A useful skill for survival. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-JTN9Nx8VYtk.html
Hi,As an ENTP I can say that the argue in this video in the mind of ENTP was like ISFJ: he likes to argue Me as An ENTP: I can say that entp guy was about open up an argue but soon he just gave up (I'm messing up with you - I just like to argue / as an ESCAPE on the argue he started due to lack of idk,like...hurting someone's feeling, lack of (fe) developing, or just not wanting to argue due misunderstandings people have with us (ENTP'S) ✌, OR 🧐 just giving up on it cause this not might change the whole homeless people matter in the future but it's a good work from our (ISFJ) :) here😄 he is doing good,anyway, something like we (ENTP'S) NEED to have argue of self growth and development on our way questioning of the matter in the first ( as I said (SELF DEVELOPING=AS SUCH AS OUR ( FE) DEVELOPING thingy,) :)) Bye 👋 In the end now I know but not enough yet about my sle f Really Thank you for this comment 🤗🥰😍 -an ENTP here
@@mytimedied8231 Oh, now I got it. It's not that you guys like to argue, you need to argue, but at the same time you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, so in the end you act like if it was all a joke. I had a ENTP classmate that would do this all the time, now I understand why. I can relate to this thought process, the search for the truth (Ti) versus the consideration for other people's feelings (Fe) is familiar to me.
Where's my ISFJs at? Yeah we're gullible at times...and are maybe not that street smart when it comes to other people airing their opinions, but Hey! we're really nice people ya' know!
You used the word incarnated!!! Thank you! So far i am the only one who uses that word commonly in my friend group when disscussing philosophical things. Also 'Kineticized' any one? The cat kineticized the ceramic coffee mug and it shattered on the tile floor.
@@loriwilson7220 It's a pretty often used word man... Also saying "Kineticized" sounds like you're just trying to sound smart for no reason, as it serves no better purpose than just being a replacement for "moved" or "pushed", you can come off as pretentious like that, and you do. Like, what is the point? To sound more "philosophical" ?? In that case go in balls fucking deep man, say shit like "metaphysical subject-centered reason bankrupts culture" or something like that. You'll make sure that nobody understands you then.
No, I wouldn't say "I just like to argue", I would say I just like to explore the matter in depth and from different perspectives in order to gain knowledge and understanding (while at the same time enlightening you about different reasons why this might be a scam, not that I'm saying it's one though"-ENTP
More like "I like to purposefully bring up the most extreme scenario in order to observe your reactions and test your innermost convictions. Why? Because it's fun" Source: married to ENTP
@@trash.j Understandable! I agree that all ENTPs (or people within any type) are a bit different from each other. I personally don't argue with just anyone for fun because (1) I was raised differently than that (people tell me I'm often too nice--I agree), and (2) I've been in so many pointless, irrational arguments that arguing makes me exhausted sometimes (hence, me picking my battles). Watching logical, information-based debate can be entertaining to me, though. 🍿 Many people write me off as argumentative when I'm just tryin' to be helpful and let them know that they may have inaccurate information. I can't stand misinformation. 🤷🏽♀️
The body language of both types was really accurate. 😂 I'm not sure if this is prevalent in all ISFJs, but staring off into space and retreating into my head to synthesize while someone is talking and at the same time not making eye contact... the accuracy hurts. When the ENTP let out a stifled laugh and said "Ha, I'm just messing with you, man." Like not understanding why the response was so stiff THEN THE ISFJ LETTING OUT A BROKEN LAUGH fgdhsgdgd my ISFJ ass watched this video 3 times to numb the pain of the accuracy There were a lot more things that made it for me, but the line "So... you're saying we shouldn't help people?" is really special. You can pinpoint when exactly the Ti began to be confused and reconstruct itself lmao, also pretty sure the ISFJ knew to himself that he was personally attacked by the ENTP but let out a conclusion that was tamer to try and brush it off or gauge the next response To all ENTPs, you guys make sense. You do you too. :) Amazing content as always!! Every combination has been consistently given justice. Thank you for always serving. -ISFJ
As an INTP I perfectly resemble that ENTP around friends & family im comfortable with( *_only the ones im comfortable with_* ),but not a stranger in an elevator.😃
I'd imagine the INTP being exhausted and then sleeps for 7 hours, because of how chaotic everyone inside the elevator, actually wouldn't that be disgusting, since some of them could fart any time...
No one wants to read a comment that can be expressed by simply liking the video, nor do they care what type you are or whether you’re first. Sincerely, an ENTP
ENTP: My dad except he doesn’t admit to just liking to argue and pretends like there was a disagreement even though there wasn’t. But we love him for it.
I love that you love him for it. I also love that you’re saying POSITIVE things about him and his personality type, rather than negative. Sometimes my kiddos get frustrated with their ENTP father but I teach my children how to extract what’s good about a person and let go of the negative parts. I teach them to examine their own “negative” parts so they may either choose to strengthen that part to be used for future possible defence (in a healthy and controlled way). Or they may incorporate it in a positive way and make it useful so the negative parts don’t become stagnant, vile and rancid as they do in so many poor, sad souls.
@Jane So true. That’s awesome! Yea even if it’s frustrating some times, my dad has taught me so much through both his strengths and faults, and I am who I am because of him.
I assume my family knows im playing devils advocate but forget to tell them and the sound so convincimg they think I believe somthing i dont, rather than trying to understand the motivstion behind the reasoning or root cause for the opposing partys view and beliefs
Ok but seriously Bogdan is such a great actor! Sometimes watching these elevetor videos I totally forget it’s the same person. And the way he understands every time. It’s truly amazing work and talent
Ill tell you how the entj and intj conversation goes. Entj says the same point 5 different ways while intj is thinking "i got it the first time. Why is he speaking like hes commanding me? Is he ever going to stop talking? Oh stuff this. You are wasting my time." Intj exits taking mental note to never ask entj ever again unless absolutely desperate.
Bonnie Smith OH MY GOD, SPOT ON. My father is an ENTJ, I’m an INTJ, and cannot stress enough how much I HATE him repeating the same thing over and over.. and yes, over again, and demanding attention each time. In casual conversation ENTJs and INTJs might get along for a while, but living together is a hell of a task. INTJs fierce independence doesn’t mix well with ENTJs demands for attention and followers. Intellectual discussions are a safe space, though.
HAHAHAHAHA My father likes to debate, and is really charismatic. He's the reason why I like to debate as well. He's really good with people but it's like I consider him to be an extraverted introvert since he doesn't mind being alone. He also questions everything, which is a good thing. He's a good father and has taught me and my older INTP brother to be practical and think rationally. As always, wonderful job on the videos, keep it going! 😂 -INFJ
LMAO, that ISFJ though. I honestly felt like I was just watching my uncle on screen. And that ENTP was way accurate as well... xD Great video as always.
As an ENTP i never felt so atacked T-T that one moment when you realize how INSANE your sounding and you tell a lie so they dont think that youre completely crazy 💀💀
😄I am an ISFJ and once i had a similiar convo with an extrovert not sure which specific type...about people with a cardboard sign saying they are hungry. When i get grocercies i usually buy some kind bars&bottled water to hand out to anyone that i will see that is hungry or thirsty. I want to be prepared.Sometimes i purchase gift cards at food places so they can enjoy a warm meal when it is a good time for them or i will go pick it up myself&hand deliver it to them. Good job!!!I love these videos!!😁
ENTP "giving his point" ISFJ "so do you think I have to do it?" ENTP "that's not what I mean, I mean you are great, don't worry about it" ENTP, going back home and asking "is that person going to be oke ? I feel guilty now, I should have just be silent" Then making arguments in their own head hours by hours.
"Yeah, but I mean..." Aaaa this was tough to watch 😂 I too apparently make people awkward around me with the constant "Yeah, I know, but in theory...". I can't help but feel this is how it looks from the outside.
I'm an INFP that had an ESTP and an ENTP for younger siblings. How they knew some of the things that they knew without me ever saying a word still haunts me to this day. I know most INFPs would love to have someone that can read and understand them so well, but when said people are using this knowledge for their own amusement, I'll take being an unreadable mystery any day.
Not around people they dont know they wouldn't be. Friends, sure, they would be bouncing off walls, but with strangers this slightly stilted thing like uh oh I wanna argue my point but idk this person is exactly how I react. With friends shit would just be a tirade with zero breathing in between and switching topics every 2 seconds. But then I guess everyone's different so the energetic thing might be more valid for others idk
Na4 O2 I actually like the portrayal here. ENTPs can come off as shy in comparison to other extrovert types. This completely reminds me how the interactions went between me (ENTP) and my female ISFJ co-worker. In a way we looked like two introverts talking to each other.
Lol yeah, I mean, I’m not exactly the ENTP since I got anxiety and depression, so I couldn’t talk like y’all. But from my POV, I’m still vete energetic, at least with facial expressions
YEEEEEEEE FINally also that shit was spot on because like yeah small talk is a nope and arguing stuff is a yep in my books and also you could feel the awkwardness I like
FINALLYYYYYYYYY, AN ENTP VIDEOOOOOOO!!!! All you are missing is the high energy of an ENTP, like my writing above. And this videos is too damn accurate
Butterlord of Swadia something interesting, entp’s are the most introverted extroverts, meaning many are ambiverts, while intp’s are the most introverted introvert after infp’s. It’s why most intp’s are so incredibly sure of their type versus entp’s, who tend to wonder whether they may be intp’s much more often
[feels increasingly Oppressed as I am forced to doubt the true impact/validity/effectiveness of my helpful deeds in the moment] “oh dw I was just kidding I like to argue *smiles*” [iMMEDIATE UNRAVELLING OF NERVES + RELIEF plus an inner ‘oh thank God’] - an ISFJ
I have an ISFJ friend who I had the same type of conversations with. She'd be left speechless and looking sad all over and I'd have to do the same damage control. Cute people. (I'm an INTJ)
There, that "I'm just messing with you, man", I'm stealing that for every time I accidentally got kicked out of class for arguing with the teacher on a philosophical question in math class..
I’m an ENTP and my arguments usually start with “I read an article where (followed by some passive aggressive argument against what the other person is saying)
'PPpppprrrffft' Here we have the bored ENTP in his natural habitat, giving the signal indicating the start of a debate that will surely induce existential dread in his unsuspecting prey.
It's so me at the beginning of the video though, I will almost always be the first one to greet (if I'm not trying to be invisible) and I'll think hard to find something to say even when I really don't have anything to say just so that there is conversation
I know this is just a random skit between types but my God was that ENTP awkward AF. ENFP here and I completely admit to messing with people on occasion (as Ne doms often do), all just in good harmless fun to see what I can arise out of people, but ahhh I hate social awkwardness so badly. I might be just as awkward myself but I like to think I’m smoother than that ENTP 😅 Haha anyways great vid, bro!
