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Ep 031: How to Learn to Trust Yourself When You Have a Mother Wound 

Jennifer Arnise
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@Jenniferarnise
@Jenniferarnise 2 месяца назад
Visit www.JenniferArnise.com Join my Mother Wound Group Course Starting August 13th
@samanthalogan7390
@samanthalogan7390 2 месяца назад
Same here 🙏🏾❤️
@NaturallyNadine
@NaturallyNadine 2 месяца назад
Let me tell you something.. I met your son while running errands in Sprouts. I was talking to the cashier about different podcasts and the way your son interjected and put me and sis on to you. I could tell that he was so proud! Job well done momma! So happy I have you to listen to now! Thank you 🙏🏾
@tonii2874
@tonii2874 2 месяца назад
OMG I thought I had adult ADHD I was so indecisive and insecure and thought I couldn’t trust my own decisions. That was the insecurity instilled in me by my mother. I am relearning to trust myself and my own decisions again. Thank you 😊
@uniquelyher25
@uniquelyher25 2 месяца назад
Me too sis, me too!!!
@Jenniferarnise
@Jenniferarnise 2 месяца назад
Yassss! You taught this behavior so you can relearn to trust yourself!
@777.jocelyn
@777.jocelyn 2 месяца назад
As a recently diagnosed ADHD woman I had this same conversation with my counselor today (our first meeting) because she asked me “it seems you operate in extremes have you always been this way?” In my 34 years have I NEVER thought about this?!
@albertinamack8177
@albertinamack8177 2 месяца назад
Me too sis
@emzaltoju
@emzaltoju 2 месяца назад
Me too ❤
@theevolvingmindset333
@theevolvingmindset333 2 месяца назад
23:22 - YES!!! I struggled financially for so long. Currently, my finances are better than ever. I have an excellent credit score for the first time in my adult life and I'm 53 y/o. It took for me to move over 800 miles away to really start trusting myself and I'm so grateful I did because I'm a different person than I was when I left 5 years ago. The PEACE that I have is indescribable. It has taken a lot of work AND it has been worth it.
@AdinasAdvice
@AdinasAdvice 2 месяца назад
Coming from a therapist, THIS IS SO ACCURATE!!!!!! Whether it’s being indecisive because it’s a learned behavior, or the mother not allowing autonomy when it comes to decision-making. Also, making certain choices based off of the mother’s approval, and sometimes the mother doesn’t even make the best choices. it is definitely a cycle that has to be broken by creating trust within yourself. This was a great episode!
@Jenniferarnise
@Jenniferarnise 2 месяца назад
Thank you so much! That means so much coming from a therapist.
@TessaLarsen1
@TessaLarsen1 2 месяца назад
I’m a 32 white women with a mother that comes from an Irish background but your messages resonate with me and my mother-wound so much! always find myself listening to these and feelings so heard and understand! I hope it’s okay I’m here!
@alomaalber6514
@alomaalber6514 2 месяца назад
There is a book Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers. It is complex. My mother was a great beauty but she wanted to control her world and everyone in it. Yes this site is great.
@5thHouseProductions
@5thHouseProductions Месяц назад
💜
@kristen1324
@kristen1324 16 дней назад
I'm a 37 year old white woman. I know I can not understand the black woman's perspective, and I respect that. I have to say this podcast is still really helping me with my mother issues.
@ItsWhittlove
@ItsWhittlove 2 месяца назад
I feel like every episode speaks to me and my healing process. I did not realize how deep my mother wound was.
@MashiekaLee-ov7gk
@MashiekaLee-ov7gk 2 месяца назад
I feel the same way
@jolenachaudry8621
@jolenachaudry8621 2 месяца назад
I totally understand this. This is exactly how I felt
@JW-sz5yx
@JW-sz5yx 2 месяца назад
Out here doing God's work. 💗🥂
@kameshiam1674
@kameshiam1674 2 месяца назад
Ain't she??!!!😃
@Jenniferarnise
@Jenniferarnise 2 месяца назад
Thanks Boo!💌
@soniehoff9644
@soniehoff9644 2 месяца назад
From birth, I was rejected by my mother and throughout out growing up, some how rejected and abuse sexually and physically, I will say it is by God’s grace I’m standing and going through life thinking all is well when it is not! Those mom wounds are being manifested and greatly affecting my relationships with my girls! My husband and I are 2 broken children in our adulthood sadly.
@theevolvingmindset333
@theevolvingmindset333 2 месяца назад
1:30 Oh my! That is exactly how I felt before I started on my healing journey. As a matter of fact, my mother and former bff told me and my new husband (48 y/o me and my 54 y/o husband) at the time that they didn't think it was a good idea for us to move to FL from the DMV, without knowing any details. 🤦🏽‍♀ They had all kinds of negative sh*t to say. That was when I committed to doing what my heart was leading me to do instead of listening to them. We packed up and moved without telling them when, because they would've tried to stop me. Mannnnn, it was the BEST DECISION I EVER MADE! That's when I learned to trust myself and God. Ok, let me finish listening....
@jlj9158
@jlj9158 2 месяца назад
I just ran across this podcast yesterday!!! To be honest, I think it was the Lords doing!!! The information is so insightful!!!! Thank you for being so transparent!!!
@Jenniferarnise
@Jenniferarnise 2 месяца назад
youre so welcome and I'm glad you're here!
@tishasuite4676
@tishasuite4676 19 дней назад
Thank you for another great video Jennifer❤.
@JudithMicheal-yd9oy
@JudithMicheal-yd9oy 2 месяца назад
I'm glad you made this video, it reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, $89k biweekly and a good daughter full of love
@ИринаПашкова-х7б
@ИринаПашкова-х7б 2 месяца назад
Please how ?
@ИринаПашкова-х7б
@ИринаПашкова-х7б 2 месяца назад
Am a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 😭 of myself because of low finance but I still believe God😞
@JudithMicheal-yd9oy
@JudithMicheal-yd9oy 2 месяца назад
It's Maria Angelina Alexander doing she's changed my life. A BROKER- like her is what you need.
@JudithMicheal-yd9oy
@JudithMicheal-yd9oy 2 месяца назад
$356K monthly is something you should feel differently about....
@МаринаЛеоненко-б3е
@МаринаЛеоненко-б3е 2 месяца назад
Lovely! I enjoyed it like I enjoy a $100k monthly around the turn!!!
@namastebutterfly7820
@namastebutterfly7820 2 месяца назад
Thank you so much for your videos!
@DebbieMwema
@DebbieMwema 2 месяца назад
Omg. You are truly amazing. Self love has taught me this. It took sooo long to understand what it meant to reparent myself because i knew how to look functional, but i didn't trust myself.. pheww the shame I'd feel if i didn't even do a small thing right... Thank you for voicing this side of our struggle....one step at a time. I trust myself and trust the time given to me, coz my procrastination was also a result of me not trusting myself....🙏🏾
@Jenniferarnise
@Jenniferarnise 2 месяца назад
thank you for this beautiful message
@VashtiPerry
@VashtiPerry 2 месяца назад
21:54 this. 35 years old and only last week I fully acknowledged my perspective of people is so low that everyone needs saving because I felt like I needed saving no matter how well I was doing
@valiizajames925
@valiizajames925 2 месяца назад
Thank You 💐
@morgenniet
@morgenniet 2 месяца назад
I've been binge watching/listening your channel from the moment I came across one of your video's by accident... When I listen to you I feel heard, not alone anymore and you hit the nail on the head every time! You say what I have been feeling but not been able to voice out loud myself
@Jenniferarnise
@Jenniferarnise 2 месяца назад
Im so glad you found me here! When we finally feel heard and seen, the healing can really kick in!
@SimplyHealthyWomb
@SimplyHealthyWomb 2 месяца назад
1.5 yrs ago I just told myself I keep my word to myself and started to do things cause I said I would it. It has been a game changer. This is a great podcast. I was thinking about my frustration of being highly parentified as a child and now being infantilized as an adult. I am glad we are talking about it
@alomaalber6514
@alomaalber6514 2 месяца назад
I hear ya!
@desievans6498
@desievans6498 2 месяца назад
Wow! I loving talking about this and hearing this💙
@JW-sz5yx
@JW-sz5yx 2 месяца назад
I thank you for showing up for yourself. You are giving voice to feelings I've had and am having now and didn't know how to process. You're showing me how to truly care for myself from the inside out. I Thank you from the deepest recess of my heart. My inner child is crying with relief is the only way I can think to explain how I feel. When the student is ready the teacher will appear. Thank you thank you thank you. May you be blessed many times over.🙏🕉️🙌💞🖖
@Jenniferarnise
@Jenniferarnise 2 месяца назад
awwwe! we are in this together!!!!
@Metro331
@Metro331 2 месяца назад
I love your style like please keep it real with us and I hope this channel blows up because the content is top tier and very much needed !
@yamilee1354
@yamilee1354 2 месяца назад
Timely!!! Key: 🔑 Do what you say you are going to do!
@albertinamack8177
@albertinamack8177 2 месяца назад
It’s like you have lived my entire life. When you spoke about making mistakes my whole body fired up. I haven’t done anything for fear of mistakes and i want to do so much
@StaceyQ22
@StaceyQ22 Месяц назад
It’s not just black mothers, it is actually also very prevalent in Asian mothers as well, mainly the immigrants. This is bc they were all in survival mode trying to adjust in America and forcing their kids to be achievement based bc good grades meant a good job which meant survival. So if some of the kids were not able to excel in school they were pretty much considered a useless failure. The daughters were forced to look very conservative and not allowed to freely express themselves. I can relate to all these mother wounds you talk about as an East Asian woman. I love your content I know your channel will grow immensely!
@akaijah4472
@akaijah4472 2 месяца назад
Jennifer this podcast is absolutely wonderful, I am so grateful I found your videos! You are really opening the door for so many of us to heal and give ourselves the life we deserve❤️Keep sharing your knowledge and perspective!
@theevolvingmindset333
@theevolvingmindset333 2 месяца назад
21:46 👏🏽👏🏽 YES. When I moved away and started doing the work, I definitely started looking at folks differently. As time went on, they really started showing their true colors. That's when I went even deeper in my healing journey.
@magdalaone
@magdalaone 2 месяца назад
The way I hopped off the couch & ran to the yoga class I was planning on skipping when you talked about integrity. I’ve sent this to several of my female cousins because we constantly struggle with these things. The shame around making a mistake!!! This is an amazing podcast
@meilei8716
@meilei8716 2 месяца назад
Leaving to get my own home for the first time in a few months. My mother talked me out of a lot of things when I was ready to leave at 18. Said it would be too hard and walked away or shut down the conversation when I would present something exciting I could do for myself. I see it and accept it after many years of shadow work. But I feel the wavering still, especially as I’m preparing to take it all into my hands. This mother wound stuff is the sustainable armor I’ve been needing. Thank you for enlightening us out here who can use the strength and wisdom.
@Jenniferarnise
@Jenniferarnise 2 месяца назад
You're welcom doll. It's ok to be scared when doing something new. And its ok to make mistakes and even fail. It doesnt mean youre not prepared. It's just a part of life. Find support in your goals. Do your research...and then JUMP!! You're gonna be just fine. xoxo
@WestchesterLatina
@WestchesterLatina 2 месяца назад
Girl I was screaming at my TV screen. I felt so seen while watching this. Thank you. The part about watching your mother make horrible decisions about her own life yet not being snow to say anything! Girl!!
@Bodyworkbystar
@Bodyworkbystar 2 месяца назад
This podcast changed my life. So grateful to have found you.
@myieshastyles
@myieshastyles 2 месяца назад
Whheeewww…. I just wanted to share my experience I’ve recently had. While I have been listening to your podcast you have helped me sooooooo much. I reached out to my mom and told her I forgive her. She went left with it I responded, (because she runs from real conversations so she won’t pick up the phone. 😂 Anyway her response was “you’re not going to ruin my day” I’m like you know what, “ breath” I went ahead and said, how I felt and what she’s done etc. I told her I did that for myself not you. I told her everything I’ve wanted and I did that and I’m moving forward. This was absolutely for me. Thank you thank you thank you. Jenn 🙏🏾💜 I really found my space and people. I’m not alone.
@ikelzi9596
@ikelzi9596 2 месяца назад
Ooh Ms Jennifer. This is the one I’m going to need. I am struggling, and i mean struggling with taking my 1st solo trip. My mother made it a point to let me know i would never have been able to handle 2 children, let alone the one i had. That one stuck, and stung deep.
@lb1798
@lb1798 2 месяца назад
19:40. #WHENyouStartToTakeCareOfYourself #YourselfWillStartToTakeCareOfYOU❤❤❤❤❤
@LifewithJZF
@LifewithJZF Месяц назад
Really needed this ❤ fighting internalized battles are the worst. Especially now that i have a 2 year old daughter. Here i am at 30 years old next year, and i am just now hearing the truth. Thank you. Its a bitter sweet moment 😢❤
@saranbaker
@saranbaker 2 месяца назад
Its strange bcs in the past I was a decision making queen. It wasn’t until more recent years I had felt stuck in my decision making abilities. But this makes so much sense to me and I am taking quick action to get back to my strong feeling of a sense of self as I continue my healing process and growth. 🎉🎉🎉
@delanishiawoods6641
@delanishiawoods6641 2 месяца назад
You just spoke to me like the Aunt I have always desired. Thank you for trusting yourself which in turn has allowed you to share this space with us. Thank you.
@Leesadri
@Leesadri Месяц назад
Awww Thank you Jennifer, you really speak to me and I'm so glad I've found this podcast! I love you too
@oohlalascateringservice7679
@oohlalascateringservice7679 2 месяца назад
I just got over imposter's syndrome and I know my mindset must change. This came up as suggested and I'm SO GLAD I tuned in. A woman is speaking the things about my life I couldn't put into words. My mom did a number on me... but at some point I have to put the adult in me in charge and mother the child instead of functioning from the child's place. New Sub.
@BeatbyMe114
@BeatbyMe114 2 месяца назад
Omg I been listening. I’m doing it. I forgive myself when I slip up and get right back to it. Congratulate myself for keeping my word. I’ve just been able to see how beautiful I am each day through routine. Small, simple and life changing.
@sunshinesunflowerz1647
@sunshinesunflowerz1647 2 месяца назад
My mother always wants to know what I'm doing but nothing ever goes right for me, when I do tell her. She gives me no privacy! I've actually heard my mother call me: weak. I can't rely on my extended family because theyre in her clutch. I have no support in no capacity.
@JW-sz5yx
@JW-sz5yx 2 месяца назад
@sunshinesunflowerz1647 me too... I support you. May you have great success in all your endeavors.
@sunshinesunflowerz1647
@sunshinesunflowerz1647 2 месяца назад
Good Morning / Afternoon or Evening wherever you are. THANK YOU! You also have my support also in your endeavors. ​@@JW-sz5yx
@Jenniferarnise
@Jenniferarnise 2 месяца назад
You have to rely on yourself and be your own backbone. Once you start you will meet others...outside of your family to be there for you
@yamilee1354
@yamilee1354 2 месяца назад
@@JenniferarniseWheww 😢 needed that
@sparklesp9304
@sparklesp9304 2 месяца назад
That sounds very evil eyeish.
@soniehoff9644
@soniehoff9644 2 месяца назад
I want to thank you truly!! I’ve always told my younger sister and even my mom that she experienced trauma as a little girl, until she faces her truth and be forthtelling how can she be healed? She’s not at all willing to tell nor say a word about her traumas. She’s a little girl stuck in an adult body. It is deep, deep, deep!
@itsrsayma
@itsrsayma Месяц назад
My goodness!!! You're telling me I am not alone in this 7:35 ??? I deeply appreciate you for this episode
@kimberlyjones436
@kimberlyjones436 2 месяца назад
@jenniferarnise, I already felt super seen in some of your podcast but hearing your background!! I grew up Pentecostal holiness and now i understand another level of why i am drawn to your podcast!! Thank you so much for sharing that!! 🫂💚
@ONishaBrown
@ONishaBrown 2 месяца назад
Hey Jennifer, first thank you for having a relatable and honest topic "mother wounds." I just randomly find your videos two weeks ago and honestly I'm glad I find your RU-vid channel. I have mother wounds that didn't hit me til I enter in my 30's in my healing journey 💕 and your subjects & trues are very much helpful for me.
@lindajoseph9844
@lindajoseph9844 2 месяца назад
Oh my God! Where have you been?! I'm so grateful to have stumbled on this channel! It feels like you're speaking directly to my situation. I can't wait to watch/listen to the other episodes! You're doing amazing work with this! Thank you! 🩷
@minyellemoses5229
@minyellemoses5229 2 месяца назад
This is so true I feel like before I do anything I always find myself running by others first to seek their yes. My mom is deceased so asking her is not happening. But this is so true making decisions is hard for me
@tramichalle
@tramichalle 2 месяца назад
Wow I always struggle with making decisions and I always say I’m not smart enough and then I put it on my husband or close friends like please make the decision for me! God tell me what to do bc I don’t make good choices! You’re such a blessing
@thegoldenseatlife
@thegoldenseatlife 2 месяца назад
Wow. This was meant for me to see. It just popped up on my feed and spoke to my soul. Thank you for this. I'm overwhelmed with emotions but got a lot of clarity. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you ❤
@Londiebeantown
@Londiebeantown 2 месяца назад
I just found you last week, maybe two weeks ago. I feel so seen! Thank you 😢😢😢😢
@Jenniferarnise
@Jenniferarnise 2 месяца назад
You deserve to feel seen. Welcome to the community
@soniehoff9644
@soniehoff9644 2 месяца назад
This stuff is so real! I am negatively affecting my girls! I so need a change!
@lb1798
@lb1798 2 месяца назад
19:00 #YES‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
@omejiam.2301
@omejiam.2301 2 месяца назад
😮 Are You Me!?! We lived the same life! The same script of mistrust and the denomination?! My mother literally told me over and over and over again, "Do it right the first time!" 🤯 like how ma'am, I'm new to all of what you're teaching me! 😒 this and a few other statements have caused me to avoid and freeze a whole lot in life 😢 I appreciate you posting this video and sharing how to process this reality and to release it!
@FeliciaStands
@FeliciaStands 2 месяца назад
You get a lot of info and lessons in your readings and they aren’t drawn out even tho I would watch however long 😊thanks for helping to usher me into this healing ❤
@natashawilson5833
@natashawilson5833 2 месяца назад
Absolutely Amazing content! This information is invaluable and accurate.
@Jenniferarnise
@Jenniferarnise 2 месяца назад
Thank you so much!
@true4585
@true4585 2 месяца назад
I don’t know if this was the video I originally saw, but this topic is something that I didn’t know I needed healing on. Thank you so much.
@candycane3546
@candycane3546 2 месяца назад
I love your podcast ❤. You have been a blessing in my life. Thank you ❤
@723BossLady
@723BossLady 2 месяца назад
You’re doing GODs work. ❤
@TheFairyBabe
@TheFairyBabe 2 месяца назад
Your videos have really helped me. More than any of the talk therapists I’ve seen. Thank you🙏🏾
@tamikabrown8539
@tamikabrown8539 2 месяца назад
This was so relatable. I remember when I finally started trusting myself. It was like a new beginning for me. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@theevolvingmindset333
@theevolvingmindset333 2 месяца назад
I'm so grateful for you, Jennifer! 💞💞 You are living in purpose with this podcast, Sis! Thank you, Thank you, Thank you! You're helping MANY of us, I promise you.
@moody2415
@moody2415 2 месяца назад
thank you for this. my mother is notorious for not doing what she says she’s going to and i feel like i have to relearn how to keep my word to myself. it my parents have always told me they would do something and never did it.
@autumnlashea270
@autumnlashea270 2 месяца назад
I just fount your page like a month ago and i absolutely love everything you’ve said has resonated so much ! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us !!
@kirstenwongie
@kirstenwongie 2 месяца назад
Yes yes yessssss. Every minute of this is clearing the self abandonment. I'm def gonna be rewatching
@MissWendyA
@MissWendyA 2 месяца назад
Thank you for vocalising and speaking about this, this was so insightful
@34missgreen
@34missgreen 2 месяца назад
I found this channel and content at the perfect time in my life 💛🦋
@sharonbenjamin9310
@sharonbenjamin9310 2 месяца назад
Thank you God for using Jennifer to deliver this self-loving message to me❣
@shesofuzzy345
@shesofuzzy345 2 месяца назад
I don't know you or never met you, but I thank God for you. Thank you so much for helping me understand my own feelings and thoughts. I have a ways to go but I believe I've finally started to take care of ME. Again, thank you and stay blessed.
@kristen1324
@kristen1324 16 дней назад
I swear my mother has to be black on the inside because the things you are saying resonate so deeply with me. I am still a child to my mother. She knows best and others are wrong. If I would just listen to her, my life would go well. I'm so sick of it. She and my father watch my children when I work or have an appointment. They help pay for my child's preschool and it's held over my head. My kids have grown attached to them. It feels difficult to navigate.
@tanitarideout16
@tanitarideout16 2 месяца назад
Woo I can’t breathe listening to this had to pause it halfway keep up the good work ❤
@evaboutiqueemporium120
@evaboutiqueemporium120 2 месяца назад
Thank you for this message. I will rewatch and take notes
@beba891
@beba891 2 месяца назад
LOVE
@melrussarrangements
@melrussarrangements 2 месяца назад
I'm so happy I found your channel. Thank you for expounding on this topic.
@Jenniferarnise
@Jenniferarnise 2 месяца назад
Im so glad you're here!
@2shaelisa
@2shaelisa 2 месяца назад
This was sooooo good! Every word spoke directly to me!!! Thank you ❤
@brinksstudios
@brinksstudios 2 месяца назад
Girl your my therapist 😂😂😂😂 thank you ❤
@k.hudson4610
@k.hudson4610 2 месяца назад
Thank you 🙏🏽 💗
@Coco-lz4gg
@Coco-lz4gg 2 месяца назад
Thank you for starting your podcast. Every word coming from your mouth is how I think and feel. My mom just died. Now I have to learn how to trust myself because I allowed her to do all the thinking for me to avoid conflict.
@alomaalber6514
@alomaalber6514 2 месяца назад
sending sincere sympathy. I did my mother's care, I understand.
@ilovebeingme9573
@ilovebeingme9573 2 месяца назад
Such an amazing episode! THANK you!
@TazhalivinLIFE
@TazhalivinLIFE 2 месяца назад
Thank you for this and all you do.
@kellirossnicole
@kellirossnicole 2 месяца назад
So good Jennifer, I love you too!!!... ❤😊
@morganlloyd2874
@morganlloyd2874 2 месяца назад
I like listening to you talk
@demmywatson8515
@demmywatson8515 2 месяца назад
amazing podcast and very useful message for me. do what you say you gonna do (golden nugget) thank you
@kimbellas6874
@kimbellas6874 2 месяца назад
This is sooo deeeeeeeppppp
@PhinaLuv
@PhinaLuv 2 месяца назад
Girllllllllllll Jennifer Arnise! The way you sat here on my row in this here session I just about threw this here phone!
@laurajones1211
@laurajones1211 2 месяца назад
You did it again!!! Thanks so much ❤❤❤
@h.baby17
@h.baby17 2 месяца назад
SO GOOD! 🙌🏾
@chipashamoyo6435
@chipashamoyo6435 2 месяца назад
Again, this is me to the T
@Bushbratz
@Bushbratz 2 месяца назад
Thank you❣️✨
@mynameisnotgirl8184
@mynameisnotgirl8184 2 месяца назад
What does it mean when you grew up having your mother tell you that she never wants you to ever have to depend on her? I’ve been told this since I was in my single digits as a child.
@victoriaallen3753
@victoriaallen3753 2 месяца назад
Phenomenal message! Thanks so much sister.
@tramichalle
@tramichalle 2 месяца назад
I literally would call and ask my mom what should I make for my family for dinner bc I never felt I made good choices
@chakralove4300
@chakralove4300 2 месяца назад
How do we join your patreon? Ladies let’s like, share and subscribe. Jennifer deserves a million subscribers in my humble opinion! ❤️
@Jenniferarnise
@Jenniferarnise 2 месяца назад
The patreon's not active right now and I dont know how to take down the link LOL. Thanks Boo! scream it from the roof top!
@chakralove4300
@chakralove4300 2 месяца назад
@@Jenniferarnise Do you have an email address? How do I coordinate an interview with you?
@DreyaDee-qo9zw
@DreyaDee-qo9zw 2 месяца назад
Hi @jenniferarnise I’d love to take your course but can’t afford until the course begins. When is your next class im totally ready in this transition. I have two daughters and I don’t want to inadvertently continue this generational struggle. Because I know for a fact it started well before I was born as my eldest grandmother I had met (3gen) living simultaneously) had given up custody of my great grandmother her first born . Unknown why and no blame for she had to make decisions that were best for her in her time. With my maternal grandmother(1st born daughter eldest)and my mother (1st born daughter) and myself (1st born & eldest of my siblings)But this set a cycle of unhealed energy and emotions . Unknowing the true definition of how to love a little girl and possibly over glorifying the men in our family. Well understanding that you are a busy woman I pray u can respond !! Thanks in advance!!
@sarahconnor3208
@sarahconnor3208 2 месяца назад
“I thought I just didn’t make good decisions”
@NattyByNature-
@NattyByNature- 2 месяца назад
Nah, I think I can only can trust myself because of examples of ppl taking advantage of me and betraying me. All my siblings spoke shit about me to each other and I found out. My brother outted me as gay, my sisters tell ppl my business, my mother talks about all her children behind our backs to each other, my granny runs her mouth. Friends wasn’t there for me when things got bad but I am everyone’s Go to person ( I am not exaggerating, anytime I get a call I know it’s help they need). So with all this who can I trust but myself? Dang! I grew up in a toxic family cycle that made me toxic and I attracted toxic ppl. That’s why I’ve been single for 5 years. I wanna heal but my damaged brain and heart wants to stay the same because it’s use to the chemicals that’s familiar. I never had a fighting chance.
@TheresaAdobea-n8h
@TheresaAdobea-n8h 2 месяца назад
Wow
@paulaajlove2985
@paulaajlove2985 2 месяца назад
Always living in fear! Imagine that, as a whole Christian just Walking in fear daily. Make it make sense?
@bechill3499
@bechill3499 16 дней назад
When you say young girl, how young we talking???🤨
@okera424
@okera424 2 месяца назад
Unfortunately, we don't really understand how many " selves " we have...
@shaylacassey4057
@shaylacassey4057 2 месяца назад
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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