Ep. 18 | DIVORCE HER BECAUSE OF PENSION? Polygamy, Physical Abuse, Cheating, Social Media 

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Im standing with Ntando i know scammers like him

This guy is Offish i swear . Ikhona into eOFF OFF mani Lobola story ia not adding up which parent doesn't want lobola Reverse psychology This guy came prepared for uzoxoka

Ntando never said she paid lobola for this guy. She gave the guy money to lobola her. Menemene lobhuti uyambona. Abusers will always accuse you of cheating just to justify their actions.

Udina ngisho umbuka, he is a narcissist his calmness says a lot about him

Thanks Ntando for the voice notes evidence iyonke pha n ufanele um recorder umbonile ba ngutsosi

The interviewer clearly didn't listen to Nando's story properly, he's asking questions differently to how Ntando told her story

I wish successful women could stop dating down, and a man that you need to provide for is just not worth it man..

Toxic people are always calm in most cases and they look so believable......

This guy is a liar.. He said he saw the cheating in mpumalanga and beat her there but they woke up to work. But sisi was staying in north west, him in vaal.. So they woke up from mpumalanga and ran to work after those bruses we saw from ntandos face? Wow

Perfect that he has now stated that😅 he doesn't want anything, this is a biiiiigggg help for ntando. Akahambe with no money.

There's divorce, there's settlement agreement. If he says he does not want the pension fund, that's a settlement agreement, the pension fund won't be touched. Nowhere it says it's a must that he gets PF.

Yabo manje we are confused really who is talking the truth Thabani the best way is to bring them together to the show for a good clarity because everyone now is justifying him or her self atleast the guy agrees that they can came together siyacela Thabani ubalethele bobabili

Utitshala makatshate utitshala Umfundisi makatshate omnye Lawyer nelawyer Warden mayitshate enye Housekeeper itshate utata wegadi.....soze uve lenyufunyufu struuuu soze uxoxe futhi coz understanding ikwilevel eyi1

All along he was planning lies lendonda 😮😮😮

It's men like this,that will make you hate anything to do with mjolo 🤞🤮

I feel sorry for this woman,I was also a victim of gender based violent,n saying kubantu ngiya cheater but I wasn't,bacele bathi siya cheater If sebephethwe ubulwane babo.n he married her for her pension of coz.I will never get married coz of these monsters who pretend to be calm infont of people,then a monster uma senifika endlini.oh n he divorced her uma imali isiphelile esazi dt usenazinyang ebuyiselwe emsebenzini.my fiance also became violent with me as soon as I got medically boarded off at work,because he knew I wasn't getting my full salary.i know all these tactics,I feel sorry for the wife.

Good afternoon is it possible to marry while you are still in process of divorce please answer 🙏🙏

If kukhuluma umuntu wentu wesfazane nithemba yonkinto ninaMsunu wezinja enlokhu nithi animthembi ubhuti, naye ukhuluma his side of the story don't take sides

I believe Ntando you gonna be strong love God love's you you are a strong women

I honestly don’t think they had a good relationship and it is better for them to be apart than together!

This whole thing was a disaster before it began. The spiritual differences was the biggest red flag. she was never in it to build with him. Its hard to digest but she never loved him and sounds like he was some rebound.

They definitely can't be in one space because they protection orders against each other mos.

Hands off women wena Sibulele.

I love this comment section... We see right through him...

He won't agree the nkabi issue kaloku anyway.

This guy is a man of God, ppl must stop bad mouthing good ppl.

Weeee isgebengu loh ngyabazi abafana abanje 🙄

For me they are both calm and don't want to take accountability...they need to leave each other alone and move on

Whatever Ntando said perfectly suits this guy.

Narcissist, he is lying.

Uthi he didn't have isethumbu but he posted Ntando n gal friend esithi abantu bam endibathandayo ,this guy is dangerous on top of that uNtando efouna ekhala ehleli ne gal friend wabuza ukhalela ntoni yathi igal akazomva 😢

Yabona nje bhuti indoda efana nawe ngyayazi Kahle ngathi nine degree yamanga shame🤔🤔

So yena ifouna kaNtando ebihlala kuye.

Ntando never said she paid lobola for him but gave him money for lobola

Yaxoka ectopic pregnancy ayifiki ku 5 months bhuti

I know this kind of woman like Ntando,they have same characteristics, they are always the victims and very good story tellers,my brother I was once in your shoes and I believe everything ur are saying, is just that we as man no one will ever believe our stories, just leave and never look back.

Ohhh i loved these ppl they were so perfect together in our eyes shame maan mabohlukane if that is what they want

Ay bo lobhuti 😮 no ubungamuthandi losisi us woman's we love ukuncengwa to be shown ukuthi uyathandwa we love to seeks attention and wena u never fight for this woman hle you make her feels insecure from the first place you cheated and expects ukuthi adlule may this lady heal 💔 phum phuma kuye you don't deserve her

Guys mna ndingumtu ongu cc kodwa lobuti uthetha okusentlizizweni yakhe .Guys ukufaka umtu wesithathu empilweni yenu masiyibuke ngoko moya

I used to believe lo Ntando not anymore makavume ukuza bazothetha be together

Siyabonga ST mfanawami hayi we are wrong nathi to judge you before your side of the wrong yeka izinyembezi zami😢

Nando was abused finish and it's very painful

Thabani must be confused by this😅😅

Ubuneskhwele noba u just used that as an escape? Zange wamthanda wena uNtando

"Ndabuza ukuthu why ukhala?" This guy is crazy, how can you even ask your wife why she is crying after she hears from the streets that you have a child.

You are lying bhuti why are you delayed to come 😩 Ntando we believe you my love n i miss you mna 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

Yhebethunana deep menemene lo bhuti. He is too calm, he speaks slowly because he has to think about every single word he is going to say. It’s like he is on script

Uma umjolo uhlulwa abakholwayo, thina siyini. I wish all those involved the best going forward.

Ei unebhadi mjita Ladies house is against you no matter what you say your story will remain lie. Unfortunately men don't listen to podcasts but for me I learnt something here. It seems like ex wife is so obsessed with the guy and my guy is a muthi person. Would have asked has he ever used love portion on this lady😂. Wish you all the best bhuti if wamtyisa likhuphe and you will live freely 🫶

Une pride wena, andikuva usithi waxolisa.

I’ve dated a guy who was this calm and humble infront of people… and a monster behind curtains.. yey becareful

Hands off ezimalini Zika ntando hambo funa umsebenzi njengamanye amadoda wondle izingane zakho

NTANDO WE BELIEVE YOU SIS💯💯💯💯💯❤

He's lying with confidence and he's so calm . at first he spoke as if he was driving his own car for hacking but now the car is Ntandos. Ladies becareful this lying men are out to milk us

This guy is manipulating the facts and he knows it. He is lying 1. He didn't lobola he doesnt consider her his wife, but her money served him as a wife. 2. The answer to what led to the divorce is I hit her because she was cheating. They met in 2011, and he says she have cheated in 2011 how could that would have led to him wanting her pension in 2023. 3. He doesn't work, he doesnt look after her in any way except that she must do things for him with her money. She was taking care of all of them with her money. 4.Suddenly, there is a 2 year old that wasn't made in the marriage, just born in the marriage, but Ntando is the crazy person. He left a pregnant woman to get married for Ntandos money that he doesn't think she is his wife. He is a toxic person. 5. He went back to his baby mama because she said something when she was angry. He hadn't divorced his wife, but somehow, in his mind, he was ok to go back to baby mama He was only in it for money, I'm sure there are many things Ntando said that are exaggerated, but this guy unamanga. Even the nyanga situation he says it was her going to nyanga and he didn't always go but he know for sure that she wasnt cut by his nyanga that he called to discussed his wifes genitals with😅 angazi guys.

Awa bhuti we are not kids lhe, yes if you're married in community of property you are entitled to her pension fund HOWEVER, if you don't want it the court will never force you!

he came prepared in this podcast to spit lies yhoo😮 i dont believe him ngisho angaba calm😢

Why would Ntando cheat on this mab when she could have just divorced him? Cos hes a loser vele. Mxim. He just wants to defend his abusiveness

Once a man lifts his hand on a woman all respect goes out the window, he's as good as an animal.

This guy by reading his body language his a psychopath period,the justifying part annoys me

Siyayazi lenhlobo yalobhuti,asikhohliseki....well-done Ntando ngokuphuma escefeni

But she used to post the photos of her and the many children. No guy, this guy is a liar and a very evil person

Ikhona marn into eoff ngalobhuti, ayikho into enje😩 Akaziphenduli ezinye iquestions. Well done for choosing your self Ntando.❤️ Ungabadibanisi marn bhuti you’ll be wasting your time and hurting Ntando more. Mayivalwe kanje.

It's the fact that he justifies domestic violence by "she pushed me to" . Uyaxoka lobhuti you did not beat her once nxaa 😤

Lendoda ilixoki what about the messages in Facebook and Ntando have the proof. Sudlala ngathi wena dyakalashe onkone

A cheating man always accuses his woman of cheating 🤣🤣🤣🤣 eyi lobhuti

He is lying about the pension part. No one forces you to claim for pension. She must contest it. That voicenote ye baby mama saying he married Ntando for money is clear ukuthi it's true. He must go work nawe just like Ntando and stop hustling women for money

Kodwa ke uNtando akekho msulwa kuyo yonke lento, She acted as if she never cheated and uMdu was his first kodwa wamthola anabantwana, ngapha ngathi bekasindisiwe over kodwa uphuzana namaSavannah Ai boy2 bayabheda nje uNtando wazinikela kakhulu endodeni. They must Divorce!

I don’t know what to believe but the joint meeting can give us more gist

Ntando said she paid lobola for herself. She did not say he paid lobola for the man.

This Man is so humble but behind that humbleness kuno buqoki

First lie, lobola. He is lying. I don’t think Ntando’s father would say that. Also, this man is a narcissist. This “calm” behaviour is an act. There is a voice not of him where he is so rude. I’m shocked that he is humble now. Thabani, you must write down questions and ask, my brother. You can’t always be saying, “Hmm!” Also, you don’t keep quiet when someone is talking about violence be it it’s a woman or a man. Show them that you don’t condone the behaviour.

Eyi ayikho indoda enamanga njengendoda engenamali 😂😂😂😂 Ntando resign from your job and he won’t get anything. Resign before the divorce is finalised guidelines wedwa iprovident fund. You will get another job sana elsewhere. Lendoda you met him ehlala kumjondolo engena bed or even sheets and now he’s acting like an animal 😂😂😂

Ndisamamele,this is very interesting .from the first 10 minutes I did not believe ubhuti lona. Kodwa noko noba umntu ulixoki kangakanani akungekhe kubelula to create such deep stories .ndisazomamela. Enkosi ST Media to bring another side of the story

This guy is crazy ayikho into ayivumayo and the is proof aibo akayofuna umsebenzi ayeke imali zantando azisebenzele

Xoki le sweet talker, uyakude nalento yakhe

Mnxm uthi klo Ntando akho family for ukwamkela ilobola. Aphinde athi yathi ifamily ka Ntando ayiyi funi ilobola. Haysuka limene mene le abuser eli

Lendoda ayinanyani. If he was really interested in his child's death, he should have asked more from the doctors and nurses that were attending to his wife as he has every right to know as a father. According to him, the wife alleged that umntwana ukhula "in the wrong tube". If he was interested to know what that means, he would have come across the term "ectopic pregnancy". Again he alleges that he has never had of a miscarriage when the pregnancy is already 5 months old. If he had bothered to ask, he would have come across "missed abortion" or "preterm delivery", whichever the case was in his wife's condition. Lastly, if he cared enough, he could have taken it upon himself to ask from the doctors and nurses what was to happen to their baby, considering that it was a stillborn, as every family deserves the right to bury their own, regardless of age. Remember, at such a time, definitely the mother was on her lowest, both physically and emotionally and he needed his support more than anything. In this particular instance he dismally failed his wife, however, if he really wants to know the truth, he can still go back to the hospital and ask all the questions he has as everything is kept on record (even though I personally don't believe him)

He's making sense shem.... it looks like the lady is bitter that now she's separating they need to share and if the guy was the one monied she was going to want that money

Uvakala uthetha Sibulele ukuba uyaxoka maaarn

Remembering Ntando's voice umyeni wami all most asho from iqala isho until ize iyophela " Umyeni wami" eeeei Ntando nkosi yami lapho umfana uyasho ukuthi akazi noma umshado leyanto noma cha but ke yena wibiza ngomshado okuchaza ukuthi akaze kahle kahle yonke lento ayibize ngomshado but wena you busy calling it umshado Ministries akobe niyafunda isifundo kulemishado yenu

Ntando mntanam ungabi sabuyela kulomntu,ingcuka eyambethe ufele lwegusha pls sana lwam.

Most of the time, both parties contribute to a Marriage that didn't work. Bad as we believe he is...he atleast admit to some of the mistakes whereas she gave us a clean version of herself. She agreed to be married to him knowing he is broke so why is it a shock when he continued to seek financial expectation during marriage?

Bhuti I really judged you but now I understand yr side

Narcissists, they are very humble phambi kwabantu ungaze umkholwe

Waze wawazi ama calculations e pension ubhuti Lapho akanayo eyakhe ethi yena.

If she was cheating she was because he was also cheating, I don’t understand why she would be beaten for doing what he’s been doing

This just confirms why the Apostle Paul warns us not to be yoked with unbelievers. I pray they both find grace and healing through Jesus Christ of Nazareth

This guy is a joke she😅 whoever is dating him feel sorry for them ingcondo ayikho la

To me this guy's story is believable. There are asoects where you see that he is just defeding himself but his story is more credible. A real born again person would never agree to be forced into those rituals. It is the wife who has series of VNs of private converstins, who does that? It is her who was begging the other woman for her husband not the other way round. In one VN she even says she accepts the other woman but not that they love each other so much. Who would broadcast such a VN?

Ikhona intwe off maan ngawe Sibulele

Akwaba waye qhubeke nala lawyer u Ntando... yhini ukuzi visa kabuhlungu nge ndoda enxiba oo phaqa🤮... Uxokelani akho court inyanzelisa nge pension apha

gents underestimate the importance of establishing oneself before taking on the responsivity of leading a household, compound that with unemployment and it will turn you into a monster. you will not recognize the man you become. phuma from any situation that disempowers you...beating a woman can never be excused. leave and go build yourself. impilo iyaqhubeka!

How can parents banxibise uMakoti kodwa khange ayolotyolwa🤔🤔🙄🙄. Ntando wathi wazilobola not lobola umyeni🙄🙄hay inyani incinci ngakubhuti🤞.

Ntando must take this episode to court, he said he wants nothing.

Hayi am starting to question myself ngalo Ntando

We need a mutual person to come and tell us the truth.....both of them are toxic..

Thabani awumbuzanga follow up questions lo mntu, interview is all over. Uyamyeka lo mntu, awumbuzi

Ntando I'm right behind you my Queen,I don't believe this man's story💯