Ep. 20 | I CHEATED ON HER BECAUSE SHE SAID NO TO SEX, Marriage, Cheating, Love, Kids, Divorce. 

Thank you for your support lovers of the channel. Please support us by sharing, like and subscribe. Please also support by giving thanks to the channel, any amount of money is accepted 😊💖 If feeels unsafe for the online giving, please send us any amount as a support of the show so we may continues giving you good content BANK DETAILS Capitec Bank: 1531542628 Linked No. 0788417844 Reference: Ur No

There are many red flags with this guy...but very few will see because he has a sweet tounge

This man never loved Ntando and, as a result, she was constantly frustrated.

Wona umshado between a Christian and a non-Christian uba nezinkinga eziningi kakhulu

Anyway after watching this episode, I conclude that there was really no need for all the so called evidence. This guy never treated himself like he is married. And nje he is a narcissist who have a soft voice. Mfundisi spoke so well

ST I followed indaba ka Ntanto kule Chanell from scratch. And the picture she created in me when you interviewed her is complete different from what I start to see now, I won't count anything but I will be specific kwi dating life yakhe, aibo I remember saying pastors where coming left and right trying to marry her and she was praying for the right man until inbox show up from her husband. I remember you asked her if were they kissing or doing the deeds with her husband before marriage when she snitch him in church place. She was so innocent like she was starting to do izinto, I was so shocked when I saw her in another Channel saying she got two kids that don't belong to this guy, I was so shocked izolo ukuva uba she even divorced before and that was never mentioned in her episode here. I am not judging or choosing any side, I am just commenting as your best fan ST, I love your show. Tone here, not background music or anything... Just proffesional

Sana, I wish we could invest more in ourselves than other people.

I hope one day this guy will be liberated ngoba from the episodes he is a bit truthful and nga uyza nalodade maybe singazi why eyala to be divorced if he is truely abused.

Ukungezi kuka Ntando kwi show says it all 😎😎😎

Powerful..mfundisi iinkolo ziyaqguzulana. Confusion nje eenganeni. Kuyathandazwa noba kuyiwa kwiinyanga. Bazalwane yekani ukushada nabantu abangakholwayo cz uThixo uyayiveza lonto ukuba akuyona eyakhe that is why kukho ama challenges amaningi.

Lol so Thando decided not to come Huh. I've been catching small snippets of this ongoing story but now im invested. I cant wait for conclusion and this will disappoint a lot of women who were cheering for Thando.

Red flag! There is no relationship that fails because of one person, the minute you can’t take responsibility of your own mistakes, awuthembakalanga

Hayi kodwa uNtando usikhohlisile naye wenza engathi iyngane zakhe uthole kulendoda kant umakade ebona abanye abantu bacasha ngenkolo

if you ever loved her of if you have self respect, divorce her and leave with what you come with qha ngaloko uzihlisa isidima uchaza into engekho

Ladies if sizoba supportive into engekho kaNtando then kwathina we are sick. UNtando is one dillusional fake mzalwane. You will say niyabasaba abobhuti abathulayo what about ivoice kaNtando faking innocence. Some men will die innocently from their abusive female partners.

This man has a smooth tongue.

TATA if kuyabanda, go away, most of man killed themselves because of abusive women, I have a son he is in a abusive marriage, as a mother it's so painful

Why sisi Ntando doesnt mention the criminal matter yasemsebenzini which sent her to the sangoma

Uma ekhuluma ngokuthi Ntando unenkinga yokushawa. Ungikhimbuza ubhuti engake ngazwana naye, ethi ungihlukumeza ngoba vele into engikhule ngaphansi kwayo. So I shouldn't blame him, I feel sorry for sis Ntando. This guy is a narssist nje. 😢😢

She did well by not coming abusers always defend themselves

Ntando she's so toxic and une problem zokukhula esemncane.

Don't come to umshado if you are not ready, ngena emshadweni when ni ready, and we need to pray for our kids, singo mama

they both hv their mistakes but Ntando is spreading lies bcz she doesnt wnn appear as a bad person in the church!!

I love this Pastor, he wise and Matured.

I listened to this couple and my conclusion is that, the wife needs help or otherwise she is still going to destroy innocent souls. She has serious anger issues and a void to be loved and accepted. I have dated someone like Ntando and I had to end the relationship because she was a born again christian BUT a very toxic person at the same time. An advise to Ntando, never use what you have to control a person. In a love relationship, that is very dangerous let love flows. As for you husband, I think you were still immature because you seem to have danced to her tune and enjoying her money.

The fact that Thando decided not to come she knows what she is running from . I’m not saying this guy is right but Thando is also a liar and she is scared the guy will disclose a lot about her and her lies .

When a man is fed up there's nothing you can do, you can tell ukuthi the guy is tired,he is fed up. Unfortunately now is too late for ntando to fix things

It's to take accountability on your own part,to both parties

In law we have something called “Audi alteram Patem” that means hear the other side.

Thes 3 side of the story come please mam and join the party we don't mind our data come and clear your name

uWoaw uNtando waze wadlala nge emotions zethu

UNtando appears not comfortable now about the comments and uphendula u 90 percent wazo and ubuye angaphenduli njengekholwa,sikzwile konke okshilo njengomuntu wesfazane ngyazwelana nawe and kubhlungu uku contribute kumuntu ongakthandi ube umthanda but le yokuphendula no ikbeka njengomuntu ongakholwa nhlobo

Personally I see i pride as a main factor that destroyed this marriage. I am saying both parties bashawa i pride. They didn't have umoya wokwakha

Already, there are two kings in this home, so they can not be peace lapha ekhaya

No man of God or a Pastor comes before your Husband. The order of God is God first, then family ( our Spouses and family then the church. No man can come in my house without the presence of my husband no matter how stranded they are. There are guest house to sleep bagithi. Ntando must revisit her Christian journey and read her Bible she is not as perfect as she portrait to be.

True Mfundisi cheating is not a mistake

Kuningi okungahlangani lapha Ntando kukhona ongazange ukusho washo into ezo favour uhlangothi lwakho.. Thnx ST ngokubiza ubhuti azochaza uhlangothi lwakhe.

UNtando unamanga ukhohlakele ufuna ukuzwelae ngamanga evika ngoNkulunkulu udlala ngomtanabantu ukhohlakele losisi uo

“Okanye sihambe ngoheartbreak”

Vele abusers look innocent in such a way that no one will believe the victims when they cry for help… once I hear abuse I loose trust

Marriage counsel , family members meeting,,,, I believe both of them they have to sit down and balungise umshado wabo

This is really boring. I thought Thabani wanted both parties to share their stories and leave everything to them and the law. Hay lo back and forth.. iyadika

You are making sense my brother even though no one is perfect

If you dont know the couples the pride it is very difficult to solve them

Well spoken uBabu Mfundisi. Oodadwethu bayayithanda lento yoshada nomuntu ongakholwayo. God doesn't approve that. Light and darkness doesn't goes together

I think Sis Ntando she has never healed from the rape and trauma that she experienced when she was growing up. So now that she has money, she thinks she has power over other people. She wanted a man that she can control and walk over because it was obvious that this guy never loved her. She was also desperate for love since she didn't get enough love from her parents.I think she thought marrying a vownarable man would be a successful marriage.

That's true Mfundisi wam umyeni wam ungumfundisi apha kwakhe nam ndingumfundisi akho ngabafundisi abatheni aba bangayi kwamanye amadoda uNtando unengxaki

Ngisabela usis wami mhla eshanda jeso coz backgrounds can destroy the future if you are not carefully

Yhooo hai ungayibhali ncwadi ngalo umtshato, kanti ayingomtshato wokuqala lo yhoo hai ndincamile.

I think ntando Ungene kulomshato enengxaki zokukhula kunye nomtshato or relationship Asuka kuzo

Engingakusho ku sisi kuyi ngozi ukucabanga ukuthi imali iyona ezokwakhela uthando ngoba engcineni kuyavela ukuthi akakaze akuthande nangolulodwa usuku fanele understand lokhu sisi imali ayiluthengi uthando Love is a gift of God ❤you

Thando nje ngambona ukuth something is fishy here when she said akazwani nabo bhudi bakhe bonke bowu 2

I smell adhd on Ntando and narcist on guy both of them need help . Ntando is worse she likes too much drama.

So true mfundisi let her come

I am sorry to say he is not that handsome the way Tando was portraying. To me he is just a man

Ukhohlakele uNtando sbozi losisi unepride engekho udlala ngomtanabamti ,u

I believe the guy with all the proofs n worse the lady DDNT come n say her side together

Bulela umdali uphume usaphila kula mama.

This is a proof that we women we can be cruel and heartless or let me put it this way a human being is a very dangerous animal that god created because he was given power and authority more than any other animals And human beings are miss using that. But God is still able bhuti

Uphi u cc Ntando.Hpmope uyamuzwa ubhuti uphendula uthini ngawe

Wonder bapi abantwan kuyo yonke le ngqushu😢mental state yabo😢ithini?yhuu it's 2much maan😢

I trust him I know such people

Umntu oneeda uncedo nguwe lo bhuti wam. Yhuuuuuu zange ndambona umntu olimenemene kanje.

He must go to a FEMALE PODCASTER i want to see something. She may hsve not been dn angel but this comes across as men understand each other. Im annoyed by this..can't even watch too long of it.

I didn't know that she was married before

No this guy never loved his wife, thina syaxabana but ndimkhumbula ngk siqumbelene but ndimkhumbule esemsebenzini and even wish angathetha xaebuyile then sibe right. Wena ubuphola ungahlali naye?

Kanti kwamxaka kanje ukuthi uNtando akananto khange asho ukuthi urich tyoo nangu umuntu bo tsek amadoda afuna ukudla amandla wabafazi

They were supposed to be here both of them, unfortunately the one whom we believed first has not come

Cheating, cheating in marriage is not good, man or woman, it's bad

i Yhooooo until sizwe inyani emsulwa xa sebebobabini hayi futhi kabi kodwa ngisoloko ngisitsho ngisithi abantu abazibiza ngegama loku-SINDISWA ngiyabesaba mina haaaaaa😮😢

Hayi ngempela Mfundisi! Ngifundile ukumamela 2 sides of the story. I repent my God

😢😢😢mhhh childhood trauma 😢

This man won't account for anything, he's acting like victim in all of this. Pointing fingers is his thing, nothing could ever be fixed with this kind of character. He's a liar, Ntando made some mistakes too. This man needs to work on himself he's a total redflag from head to toe. Get help my brother before you go break another women's heart.

Ntando une serious problem she need counseling

“Nakumtshato asuka kuwo bebemnkula” this guy hates Ntando

where did he get the money to buy the car?

One thing women must note about this guy being calm, etc, is that that's just how most men are in "high-pressure" situations. Let that not be a 🚩. It's so easy to believe women because we're not as strong as men are in nature. We're very compassionate and too understanding in most instances. And we are very good at portraying ourselves in a manner that will gain us sympathy from the masses. That's why everybody ends up " believing all women" even when we shouldn't. Let's all learn discernment bazalwane. A lot happened in this relationship, and naye untando is definitely NOT innocent. She painted a different picture of who she is, etc, and also tarnished this guys name. Also, Ntando, when you lay your dirty laundry online, be ready for some criticism, stop being rude and bullying people on the comments, we are entitled to have our own opinions. Not everybody is gonna fully support one side (yours). Im not condoning any physical abuse that ntando received from this guy, BUT what i liked about him is that akazenzi ncono and portraying a different life than the one he's living. Ntando should've come if she's really desperate to finally end this marriage/ move on from this matter. I wish peace and healing for both of them cause you can tell that they didn’t have things easy.

Ngaze ngasithanda isiyalo sikamfundisi i cheating iyingozi kakhulu ngoba uthi usemshadweni kodwa khona ongekho ukuhlukumezeka emshadweni 💔

Kwazophezulu thina besingekho

This is tough aaaay

Angiwa understand lama proof mina. Except only for the first one

Heee lantando ingathi akayazi enyindoda like akayibali noyibala eyomtshato wokuqala no babe daddy oko kuvela lobhuti hai limenemenw la cc shame mayivalwe bhuti phuma awunatyala

Uyishayile mfundisi cheating, cheating, is dangerous, ukwabelana kwezingubo, isono

But abafundisi babengalala endlini lapho okulalakhona ingani hayi kwelenu inkamelo.

Ningaboshelwa ejokweni linye nabangakholwayo

Beside ukungezi kwakhe bekuvele kucaca loyasisi uwunontanda kubukwa if you don't believe look at my comments in her previous episodes 🤞🤞

Why nilwa Tata, man must love the wife, wife must humble themselves

Ntando akaze asindiswe tu,ufun udumo qho

Izinkinga emshadweni zidla lubi.

UNtando why waya kwinyanga for icase kanti usasindisiwe..i think wawa yena kwa that time ejola nale ndoda ..i hope she repented

Uphi Sis Thando

Wadlala ngathi uNtando. Hayi ndincamile..

Yhooo ukuhlolwa!!!!

This guy akanakho yena abona ukuthi he also contributed ekufeni komshado uthi it's the fake life ayiphilayo usisi, Hhayibo!

Imoto niyikhethe nonke but akayazi nokba uyithenge phi? How?

Ngiyawabona lama paper awaphethe thina sfuna ubfakazi Bama voice notes

Iyoooo iyoooo😮

So he used her car b4 he owned " a car" ? Wooow Thnx nibhadle ninuka isirhogo

Ladies it is very important the man you choose to be your husband

So pastors were supposed to sleep on your sheets, ay man there’s something wrong with this guy