Ep. 23: How to Deal with Grabbing, Pushing, Yelling, and More | Teacher Kaye Talks

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Hey hey, it's Teacher Kaye!
Do you believe that children are innately good? Well, they are; and when we see them do things that can be hurtful, it's only because they haven't learned what to do and how to control their impulses yet.
Here are a few ways to help your child develop healthy impulse control, with techniques from research AND my own best practices as a clinician. I hope that one, OR ALL, of these help you.
Happy talking! 🗣
#selfregulation #impulsecontrol #behavior
Concerned about your child? Consider these next steps:
- consult your pedia if a referral to a Developmental Pedia is necessary,
- get in touch with me for an informal clinical impression.
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I'm a certified Speech-Language Pathologist based in Metro Manila, Philippines.

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14 июл 2024

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@conjustafamilyvlog1810 2 года назад

hi teacher kaye andami ko po natutunan sa mga video mo i have 4 years old dati di tlga xa nag sasalita ung mga gusto mya sinasabi nya lang by color pero ngaun nasasabi na nya gusto nya nakkapag antay nadin xa pero di ko pa xa na papa therapy . . pero plano ko this week kasi ung pagging hyper nya un ung gusto kong mwala tsaka misan pag kinakausap ko xa minsa di pa rin nya ko naiintindiha …

@VerzosaTV 3 года назад

Catching up with your informative videos and thank God I found your channel. I have a son with Autism and never naka-enrolled sa speech therapy. But we are thankful kc he was able to learn how to speak thru our constant communication with him. But of course, he could be better if ma-assist sya ng speech therapist mismo. God bless and stay safe...

@TeacherKayeTalks 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing your experience! You're right, with the support of a therapy team, better ang chances na bibilis pa ang progress niya, but I'm sure you're doing your best 🥰 Thankful din ako na napadaan ka dito, and allowing me to be an instrument of His grace. I hope marami po akong maitulong pa sa anak niyo and your whole family.

@VerzosaTV 3 года назад

@@TeacherKayeTalks thank you po sa pag noticed ng comment ko. hoping po na ma-meet mo po un son ko Ms. Kaye so we are able to know how far na po un development nya. God bless and stay safe..

@user-xw4xb5vk3p 5 месяцев назад

Thank you teacher kaye!. you’re a blessing to us so we can help,teach our kids. GOD bless

@joeleahvillanueva8615 3 месяца назад

Thank you teacher kaye, dahil sa mga videos mo nagkaron ako ng hope sa anak ko sana mag improved na yung behavior and speech nya diagnosed sya ng ASD level 1-2 last december and my son is turning 4 this May, sobrang stress ako pero buti nalang may mga upload videos ka na makakatulong samin para maiapply namin sa kanya yung mga tips na ibinigay mo. I am hoping na malampasan yung challenge na to ❤

@TeacherKayeTalks 3 месяца назад

Hello, Joe & Leah! Masaya akong makatulong sa inyo. Salamat sa tiwala, and the best is yet to come ✨️

@wenceslindaluche5597 2 месяца назад

very helpful! talaga Teacher Kaye❤

@TeacherKayeTalks Месяц назад

Sooo happy to help you! ✨

@sophiadevera6826 Год назад

Interesting topic…love it

@irenegaralza9416 10 месяцев назад

Hi Ma'am! Ang galing naman mag explain ni Ma'am ❤️

@aizavillegas293 Год назад

Thank you, teacher Kaye..So blessed that I found your videos here...So informative and I love the way you talk.

@JoelBalbin-zb8ju 11 месяцев назад

Very big help teacher kaye..thank you so much❤️❤️❤️

@anabelleza9936 5 месяцев назад

Thank you Teacher Kaye! I learned a lot from this video and honestly, it made me feel like I'm not alone in raising my little boy. You mentioned towards the end that if we ever need to get in touch with an Occupational Therapist that we can message you. Do you have OT friends po within or near Angono, Rizal? Thank you.

@angelafernandez8850 Год назад

Hello po teacher kaye. It adds me a motivation and helpful watching your videos. Hoping to apply this on my kinder pupils with that same situation you've tackled and having a positive outcome after this.Its been week 6 that Ive been thinking of ways on how can I handle with it.Very optimistic to conquer all of this.Thank you so much po.

@zenithabbandoles646 3 года назад

thank you teacher kaye... .....

@TeacherKayeTalks 3 года назад

You're welcome, I hope it worked for you! ✨

@connieocampo1860 3 года назад

Thank you Teacher Kaye! I learned from this episode. God Bless you

@TeacherKayeTalks 3 года назад

You're welcome! Hope you'll find the other videos useful as well, God speed ✨

@enerijacinto2130 9 месяцев назад

Because of this vlog im your new subscriber. I have daughter turning 8 this year . lahat ng sinabi mo dito swak talaga s akin i need to improve and change myself before i implement this to my kid , thank you so much for this❤,pa advice nman po about echolalia and pashout out na din po .thqnks and god bless

@connienicavera9220 Год назад

Thank you teacher kaye love your topic today

@TeacherKayeTalks Год назад

So glad it's helpful, Connie! Browse through 80+ more episodes here for more tips! ✨️

@user-iq3rz9jq7m 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing t.kaye

@TeacherKayeTalks 8 месяцев назад

You are so welcome, hope it helps your family! ✨️

@jessicacornejo1031 9 месяцев назад

Isa kang anghel mula sa langit Ma'am. 😘

@TeacherKayeTalks 9 месяцев назад

Masaya akong makatulong sa inyo, Jessica ✨

@nicetasbagsic5289 Год назад

Thanks a lot po.

@JoelBalbin-zb8ju 11 месяцев назад

Hello teacher kaye

@noemi7704 3 года назад

Omg Thank you so much teacher Kaye sa mga tips.. my 2 year old baby kasi may times na kapag may kinuhang gamit yung ate nya (12year old) gusto nya din kunin.. so ako sinasabi ko na lng sa daughter ko na ibigay na lang para walang gulo.. and minsan bigla nya paluin ate nya 😔

@TeacherKayeTalks 3 года назад

Awww sorry to hear this! Sana may nakita na ho kayong progress. (Your name sounds familiar na po, baka nag-usap na tayo sa Facebook? Nahahalatang naghahabol ako sa inbox ko wehehe ✌🏽 habang may time)

@jenalynignacio5954 2 года назад

true po yan ganun din ung therapist ng anak 1 task then break then go on ulit..kz ayaw n nyang ulitin ng tuloy tuloy..

@clarissadelapaz8140 3 года назад

This is very helpful because Basti still grabs from Alessi. At what age should kids develop self-regulation. He's 4 in 3 months.

@TeacherKayeTalks 3 года назад

We start developing different levels of self-regulation from birth! Learning not to suck our thumbs when the adult repeatedly removes our fingers from our mouths, tolerating another person taking a turn during a game or with a toy, eventually not saying or doing things we know might hurt other people, etc. Make sure you're consistent with your response when Basti grabs. If you sometimes correct it, and other times let it slide, this may cause him to be confused if it's okay or not. Hope this helps!

@rubyabrenica19 Год назад

Teacher kaye thankful for your advices.. my son is 3 yrs old ,i teached him some words and from your tips help me alot but how to deal po sa attitude nya nag pagbato sakin even i told him to stop.n ppinch ko n ears nya but it ddnt help continue p din kahit alam ko masakit na. Nwawala po patiece ko teach.i found my self yelling huhuhu .im guilty afterwards 🙏

@samiranaga321 Год назад

Nakikita ko sau C Jema Galanza ..❤❤ thanks for the infos

@alexdumitrache2683 2 года назад

Hindi ko namamalayan sa kapabayaan ko ,mag 5years na Ang anak ko .just few talk lang cya .hope makaka enrolled cya sa speech theraphy.

@maeannfelix9986 2 года назад

This video helps me a lot to understand the situation of my 5 years old son ..teacher kaye thank you much i will ask po kng kylangn ko po b tlga dlhn s dev pedia anak k my mga symptoms po ko nkkta ng ADHD s knya.?

@TeacherKayeTalks 2 года назад

You're welcome, Mae Ann! Glad this was helpful. Have you seen my other ADHD videos? Those may help you get a better idea kung ADHD talaga yung napapansin sa inyong anak: ADHD Definition ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-bKa82560v6g.html ADHD Adult ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-RP8Dx5uO52Y.html ADHD Tips ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-NI057u21f5o.html Sa aking Instagram account, makakahanap ka ng 3 Dev Ped na tumatanggap ng online consult. Sana makatulong ito ✨

@annmargarettenalla7004 3 года назад

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@TeacherKayeTalks 3 года назад

Pop Pop Pop the ballooons! Hehehe Hope you can subscribe!

@lianantolin1600 3 года назад

Thanks teacher kaye! But what if we are trying to teach him with an object/picture we are holding but wants it (tries to get it with all his might!)and does tantrums kpag hindi napagbigyan? And he also throws things? Dunno what intervention should we use😭 he is 2 and 4 months now..

@TeacherKayeTalks 3 года назад

Hello! 1st I wanna assure you that this is quite a common reaction from kids, especially kapag nasanay na talaga sila na lahat ng gusto nilang makuha ay ibibigay. What has worked with my the most in therapy are the following: 1. I will keep trying to elicit the target response you want from the teaching activity (example: did you want him to say a word to get the object?) I will give him ALL THE CUES para lang magawa niya, or at last see if he is attempting to do it, then ibibigay ko na. Then the next time you try it, decrease the cues every time, or increase the time before he is given the object. Then he is already practicing delayed gratification. 2. If he throws objects, remove the object completely from sight after and highlight "tinapon mo, so itatago ko na. WE don't throw things here" or something similar. 3. Remove desired objects from his sight talaga, para naiintindihan nyang he won't get things by throwing tantrums. Let me know if you wanna discuss more, you may contact me on Facebook facebook.com/teacherkayetalks/

@joansegubience7350 Год назад

My son is 2 yrs 2 mos and when he is angry he throw things, banging his head to me or anyone that carries him. Is that normal? And when we try to discipline him by hitting his palm he will just copy us.

@alexdumitrache2683 2 года назад

Gani to Po Ang anak ko.pero nakatulog Po video nyo

@rowenahabagat9428 5 месяцев назад

Hello po Teacher Kaye👋 I'm your new subscriber po. My problem is my 4-old son keeps hitting out of nowhere. He knows it's bad but he keeps doing it again. Sometimes he smiles while he do it like he's teasing us. Can you give me some tips on how to address this po? Thanks po..

@catherinemacalalad1675 2 года назад

Hi Teacher Kaye! 😊 Paano po kapag may hawak na toy yung baby ko, tapos nakita niya yung kalaro niya na may hawak din na toy, tapos bigla niyang kinuha, applicable din po ba yung TIP NO. 1 niyo dito sa video? Thank you po.

@marinethroe 9 месяцев назад

Naturuan namn po teacher na mag say ng borrow/pahiram. Nagsasabi nmn sya kaso kahit hindi naman pumayag classmate nya kinukuha nya parin kahit laruan ASD p ung bata . Pano po kaya 😭

@miranarylairtababa8593 Год назад

hello teacher un anak ko po 4 yrsold npo..sigaw xa nang sigaw pag my ayaw xa..

@arthurroxas167 Год назад

Hi teacher kaye. Whats the diferrence po ba ng aba vs ot in terms 9f paghandle ng behavior?

@TeacherKayeTalks Год назад

Hi Arthur, I don't know enough about ABA to comment, but while ABA only focuses on altering behaviors, OTs manage behaviors to learn other skills and complete tasks. Hope this helps, but I may not be the best person to ask, hindi ko po ito specialty. ✨

@katyaissa1061 Год назад

Teacher kaye, is it fine na paluin ang bata as part of discipline?

@jennelynmamaril633 3 года назад

Thank you teacher! Anong pwd gawin sa anak ko boy na 1yr. n 10months na laging nagtatapon ng lahat ng bagay na makita nya sa sahig at laging ngsasabunot or nanapak ng mukha ng kalaro nya kaya ayaw na siyang kalaro? Pero kung nasa mood sya nakikilaro sya sa mga mas nakakatandang bata sa kanya, mas gusto nyang kalaro mga adult kaysa sa kanya. Tas superactive nya na lakad ng lakad kapag nasa labas , gusto nya explore lahat kung may tubig sa planggana gusto magswim at kung ano anong gusto nya pakialaman. Pero nakikining naman sya kung kakausapan ko at ngrerespond at may eye contact. Tanong kulang anong magandang gawin sa bata kung superactive at gusto lahat experiment lahat ng bagay? Sana matopic nyo po sana about ADHD v/s normal hyperactive baby at kung may cause ba ng speech delay or not? Thank you so much sana mapansin ang aking concerns. Godbless!

@TeacherKayeTalks 3 года назад

Very good idea, I have an ADHD video in the works, kaso collaboration po siya and I'm at the mercy of the contributor hehe Advice ko po, usually yung mga hyper means may hinahanap silang stimulation (they are hypostimulated). Pwede pong mag-start kayo ng routine every day na pagka-gising nya meron kayong physical activity, like jogging or jumping jacks. Experiment po tayo kung mas makaka-focus siya after. Kung makakakita po kayo ng improvement, tignan niyo po kung gaano kadalas niya kailangan maulit yung physical activity para umayos ang function nya sa buong araw. Also try to incorporate yung curiosity niya with your activities, so set your house up na parang obstacle course, like going under chairs and over boxes, etc. while stimulating language. As for the nagtatapon ng gamit: nasubukan na ho ba yung tips sa video na ito? Kasi one of these usually works with my clients.

@jennelynmamaril633 3 года назад

@@TeacherKayeTalks thank you teacher sa advices! May routine kami na biking every morning at walking outside kaya gusto nya nasa labas. Kung minsan umuulan at hnd makalabas at gusto nyang lumabas sabay kuha at sabi pa niya ng tsinelas nya. Sinasabihan ko lang na hindi pwd hnd nman ngpipilit lumabas, kaya sa huli sa loob kami nglalaro at nood tv nlng.

@christinejosephinerazol8743 3 года назад

My 13th month old baby keeps on biting me and my mother (her lola) in different parts of our body since she's 7 months old po.

@TeacherKayeTalks 3 года назад

Hello, pwede mo bang ikwento kung anong klaseng mga sitwasyon ito nangyayari? At kapag kinagat na kayo, ano po ang reaction niyo sa kanya? Pwede rin po tayo magusap sa Facebook facebook.com/teacherkayetalks/

@auroracariaga3855 2 года назад

Hello teacher kaye how can we reach you so we can ask some queston

@danaalcantara8627 3 года назад

Hi teacher. Ask ko lng kc ang baby ko po pag stress sya at nagagalit lagi nya lng sinasabi ang words na "bye, bye, see you next time and watch more". Siguro yan po kc ang lagi nyang napapakinggan s screen time nya 😢 yan po ang alam nyang sbihin everytime n. Galit sya.

@TeacherKayeTalks 3 года назад

Hello, You are right, it is what we call TV talk or delayed echolalia, from the things na napapanood niya. Usually, when children say lines from shows, they either really like how it sounds, or they can relate to the feeling of when this is said. In this case, it sounds like the end of a video/program, and it could mean: 1. alam niyang wala nang kasunod, and this makes her sad or angry, 2. so this is what she will say when she is sad or angry, and wants whatever is happening to stop. This means may gusto siyang i-communicate, but wala pa siyang other vocabulary to express it, so "hihiramin" niya yung words na na-memorize nya. See more about Echolalia here, and how we can teach her more meaningful words. ALSO, this is an indication of overexposure to screen time. If nanonood ang bata ng videos, kahit po "educational," itigil po muna, mas lalo kung nakakapansin tayo ng kakaibang behavior. Gusto natin masigurado na hindi ito factor sa kanyang developmental delay. Subukan niyo po muna ng 1 to 2 weeks, at tignan po natin if may mapansin kayong improvement sa behavior and overall attention. See my post on screen addiction: instagram.com/p/CRJYfz7j_wq/ Andito ang paliwanag kung anong nangyayari sa brains ng baby kapag nanonood ng videos: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-OmZvmt-6Zug.html Let's also work on her receptive and expressive vocabulary, para malaman niya how to express herself better. Here are some videos with techniques and activities you can practice para matulungan siya to learn more words that are meaningful sa kanya. - episode 41 on Following commands ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-nv1TQJv7xRs.html - episode 12 on Action Songs ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Yfn3iFiTklI.html - episode 44 on pointing ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-IeLrLfWirVQ.html - episode 17 on object identification ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-A2Y1GG2WJ7Q.html - episode 13 on Yes/No ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-64SsrKgamhQ.html episode 5 on sounds to words ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-mT3iKlDXxsc.html This is your homework, let me know how it goes in about 1 month! ✨

@danaalcantara8627 3 года назад

@@TeacherKayeTalks thank you thank you so much teacher kaye. 🙏🙏🙏