Nna kere the prosecutor and officer should be reported to the relevant parties Is it possible for her to escalate the case to NPA? Justice must be served, this perpetrator should be jailed 😢
I am so sorry wishing you healing and more strength to keep on keeping on. Families fails us, like why even continue nurturing relationship with people that abuse your child. Shame on all these women.
That's why i don't allow my kids to visit relatives without my supervision because i don't trust anyone with my kids, please let's protect our kids because families are sick and broken.
I went mute, and my subconscious locked away everything for years 😢even today, i can't remember how old i was when i was violated , but i only know that i was in primary school ,below 8years old. Strength to you, my dear ❤️. The trauma stays, and it affects how we conduct our lives forever.but God grants means to navigate through life🙏 every day.
Ditshego you are such a blessing to a lot of young people out there, people are going to fight because of you and after this your cousins will join you and put that monster in jail
Eish Madam, this brings me back to my trauma, I was also s***abuse by my step brother, it started when I was fourteen years, he will do that to me before I go sto school,couldn't concentrate in class 💔, I have not said a word to anyone, as you know how families are, I feel this lady's pain, I hope she will get justice 💔 🎉
I shed a tear when she said he had turned her into a wife, this is heart breaking. Wishing you healing my sister and peace, I truly believe Modimo will give you peace in time...
U've done a good thing by opening up u didn't do any thing wrong trust me ur helping a lot of people by telling ur story n don't listen to negative or people trying to shut u up... Lot's of love n hugs for you ❤❤❤❤
I follow Kayla on FB and she's a good person- very jolly at that and she seems kind! With relation to this issue at hand, she has shared this part of this traumatic experience on FB, some of the comments there were demeaning but that did not stop her, may she continue doing so and also raise awareness. Rape is wrong and cannot be discussed within families....Love and light to you sis ❤🕯️🕯️❤️
This episode is breaking me, we have soo many people who are entitled to course harm and expect to be forgiven. This reminds me of two beautiful ladies i grew up with, one was molested by a biological father and one by step father (ages were 12-13). it happened multiple times to both of them , mostly when their mothers visited families members and they were left with their fathers they would need to sexuality fill the role of the wife . When family meeting were held , their mothers were the first to say they forgiven their husbands. Every time i see these ladies now that we are older, i still see the pain in the eyes, one resorted to prostitution and one post about her incident every now and again but deletes 5 min later every time. Yhooo i must say Kayla Thank you for sharing your story, i know it's hard because my girls still struggle to talk.
I know a teenage girl who committed suicide a few years ago because the father had turned her into a “wife”. The community knows about it, the family knew about it and the police also pulled “talk about it as a family” Unfortunately the girl was also molested when she was still a pre schooler and the family swept it under the carpet and the cousin who was the perpetrator was most from the village It’s so sad, when I see these stories I think about her all the time. I pray Disego gets the healing she needs and justice get served in the end 🙏🏾
You are brave,powerful i hope and pray that this case goes further n this guy rot in jail and you one day write a book.I got cold in my stomach when he said my kid are too young in that recording😢
Shame on the perpetrators mother! Shame on her! She knew her son was capable of atrocities and she turned a blind eye. She let him continue to hunt little girls like they were prey. She hides behind Christianity when she is just as bad as her monster of a son. May the universe punish them both. May they never know a day of peace for as long as they live. She had the opportunity to protect a child and to stop her son from becoming an even bigger monster but she opted to enable him. Shame on you mama! It happened under your watch. Shame on you!
That recording is an admission of guilt. I hope he is in jail as we are watching and listening to this. There's no way the authorities can let this slide. I wish you healing and peace my sister❤
Both the son and mother should go to prison,I can’t believe her own mother chose to forgive her daughter’s abuser and his mother💔he has a nerve to say that his kids will be left without a father but he abused her when she was a child herself.
😢eish judging by what she said I think her mother didn't really forgive her sister it was due to poverty, and she felt indebted to her forgetting that her daughter's safety and overall health should be a priority. It is sad how mother can fail their girl child. As daughters, we believe mothers should be our number 1 protectors.
Ditshego you went through hell dear😢😢and as your mom still playing sister's and family, it was not fair on your side. She was supposed to stand on ground and fight for you until Justice was served. Your brother belong to go face the law. 😢
Kayla I am so sorry for what you went through, you have turned out to be a wonderful person with a beautiful soul. So disappointed with the justice system, every day this man walks the streets it’s putting children at risk, the female cops might be the mothers to those kids, let’s hope they can also accept the apology when the perpetrator says sorry
I never been so angry,I remember my mum would always my sister if my younger brother did ever touch her private part and I didn't understand why because I was still young but now I understand that she was trying to protect her sister's child and luckily my brother didn't touch her and he is a good person shame I know he wouldn't do that,but my mum passed on and she went back to the village only to be raped when she was 10 years,and I was so angry but at least the guy got arrested and he later died in jail
My sister the guy is wasting his time by studying teaching before you get hired the DOE requires a vetting letter to confirm that you don't appear in the register for sex offenders.
This is heartbreaking. Families don't understand the trauma the victims go through either. Some are being told they lie how can they remember things of when they were 9years old. Moms are evil too. The very same child you didn't protect is opening up and you still do nothing and carry on as normal having solid relationships with your child's abuser but none with your own child and it doesn't bother you. The mother, her aunt and that guy should all be arrested. That guy should not be allowed near any child. Who knows if him going for teaching could be his plan to continue feeding his filthy sickness.
I remember when there was a trend on Facebook. Women exposing people that raped them when they were just girls. It’s sad shame yhoo. I go with my kid everywhere. I struggle at work and I’m overwhelmed but shame I can’t take my kids to my mom in the village. I’d rather strungle
Same here play dates am there. I had a parent at my child school offer to pick my child for play date, was like l will have to bring him. I explained to my child that if am not there l cannot control who else will show up. Fast forward l brought my child to the playdate and the other parent had an extra person with them. I later told my child this is what am talking about.
I'm actually mad that it's the women in the family that enabled this perp. His mother, Kayla's mother, the grandmother and now the wife. Basadi, a young girl was violated, not just her but others too. Already the system failed her, but you are failing her too. We are quick to disown family members who are homosexual, who choose a different religion, who marry someone you disapprove of but you let s*xual perps to roam free. I fear for his daughter, I fear for the school children he will be teaching at whichever school. So infuriating!!!
Which children is he going to teach. I hope your story reaches the highest power and stop him on his tracks. He can’t be a teacher with that inhumane, saddistic attitude.
❤❤❤❤being out spoken u wl heal bbes atlst aftr along tym he cme en apologize bt dat is nt enough he mke ur chldhood crz dat bustrd he mst go to jail😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
My story is very similar to her's and it got to a point that when I have gotten old, my aunt (my father's older sister) told me that I am old and I have feelings (like se*ual feelings) probably I am sleeping with her son (my cousin).
